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friends ditch you on purpose
Well i ask my friend to hang out everyweekend but everytime i ask her she says soething like "i have to babysit or i have to clean?" and like i really think she doesnt wanna hang out with me but the next day she can hang out with anyone and i dont get it?
(female, 14)
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im sorry to say this, im really sorry, cuz it really hurts when something like this happens to somebody with a heart, and it surely seems like you do or else you wouldnt have posted this question. so, ill get to the point: i dont think this friend really likes you anymore and she really doesnt want to hang out with you. but she didnt tell you because she doesnt want to hurt your feelings. this isnt a true friend and you might as well just tell her that you will stop callin her a friend if she doesnt stop giving you lies and ditching you. im so sorry i had to say this but im being honest.
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Hey, this happenes to everyone at some point. I was like that with one friend, I always made up excuses cause either my parents wouldn't let me or i didn't want to. It ended up killing our friendship. So next time she says no then ask her what day will work for her. If she won't go for that then maybey confront her about it. Ask her whats up with her latley. Trust me it's better then wrecking a friendship!
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I say screw them. I had this problem one time when i was your age, actually i was 13, but the girl just wouldnt do anything with me, so i just stopped asking and left her alone, and then a week later she asked me to do something and i told her to kiss it, and she got mad..this is a reason why i dont like girls, they are mean..but whatever just let her go, she aint a real friend
-hayley
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well sometimes i do this to my friend melissa. its because i see her everyday at school and shes very annoying. i feel bad making up excuses but its better then telling her shes annoying.
im not saying maybe your annoying ...im saying maybe she is just making lame excuses. stop asking her for awhile and ask her again in a few months...if its the same answer then just leave it alone and find someone who would be more willing to hang with you
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I'm basically going through the same thing, and I think she is doing it on purpose. If you think she's avoiding you for some reason, don't be afraid to confront her about it. And if she keeps on doing this, then just drop her like I did to my friend. If she's going to act like this then maybe she shouldn't be friends with you at all.
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