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Do you guys believe that high school sweethearts can last throughout adulthood? I've heard from many people that if they end up getting married they'll just end up miserable. Or that most end after senior year.

deffenately could happen = )
my best friends parents were highschool sweethearts and still in love
i dont think theyre miserable hah
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well im kind of a shy person..but like sometimes i wanna drink..ive never gotten drunk before..but kinda close.. i mean i havent drank since this last summer..but i kinda wanna sometime soon..just a little bit! its just fun for me..it makes me all crazy..i mean i know i shouldnt be doing it..but i dont know :( most of it is nasty! but some of it is good..

what do you think i should do?
i feel guilty drinking..but its not like
i do it every day or weekend

i dont know..

well your not doing anything super bad because you dont do it every weekend & you prolly feel guilty because its something you know that is agaisnt the rules.. you should hang out witha buncha friends who would do it and then see how you like it. dont do it too much though because if you get too trashed you will go crazy hahh not really but you could do things you would regret. well have fun ♥

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ok when i have my period i wear pads..its just my preference..ive tried tampons..but mine are really heavy and yeah! i know you really like tampons ..because ive read previous advice but im not gonna start wearing them again! well guess what?! i have my period for break..fun fun hah not ..

but like im going to be seeing a lot of people and i wanna wear my new clothes i got for x-mas and they are all shorteR like t-shirts..or shorter long-sleeved..sweatshirts..and like when i wear them my underwear lines kinda show thru my jeans...its kind embarassing..makes me wanna stay in the whole break..but i dont wanna make it ruin my whole break :( is there anything to reduce the pantyline?! i usually wear thongs..i just wear regular ones when i have my period..

maybe tomorrow i MIGHT try to to the tampon again..the problem is i had trouble the first time ..i couldnt get it iN! and that made me really scared..and i couldnt find the hole to put it in..my mom even tried..yeah i know weird..but i had to i was on vacation! but i still couldnt get it in. and if i do end up gettin it in for some reason..my periods are REALLY heavy and im scared it will leak..so any suggestions if i cant get the tampon in??

well thanks..

and hope you had a good christmas

ehh period = yuck
well you said you didnt like tampons, that would be my first choice but my friend has these pads that are for thongs.. theyre not heavy theyre really light ones but you could try those
also going in water stops your period for a little bit i hear but not for long so yeah
:-\
sorry!
and good luck!

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have you ever heard of the perfume from victoria secrets called "very sexy" for her? because i just got it and i was wondering what you thought of it :) i want the boys to think i smell good..haha i want them to be attracted to me! and how many sprays do you think i should put on? thanks

by the way your gorgeous ♥

well yeah i have smelled it before and i thought it smelled really good! and i do think guys would like it no doubt and sprays hmm i usualy put on 3, one on my neck one on my wrist then one just like on my body haha so depending how long it lasts im not sure but good taste! ♥

aww thank you!

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16/f

well my best friend is my cOusin. we have fun together! but then my brother who is 18 is like OH MY GOSH your so stupid! your best friend is your cousin? haha thats pathetic. i mean sometimes i think it is because i spend all my time over there! i pratically live over there on the weekends. buttttt i wanna start hanging out with other people too i wanna GO OUT and do stuff meet new people :) my brother pratically knows everyone im not even kidding! and im here..sittin at my cousins house and we are on the computeR..i wanna like still hang out with my cousin but i kinda wanna get away from being over there like every weekend and go out and do other stuff you know..but i dont have my license..and my parents never wanna drive me anywhere..my brother is NEVER home..and i dont know anyone that knows how to drive..and rarely my other friends parents dont like giving rides either..what can i do? i wanna become more outgoing! and then what do i do if i meet someone..and we talk on the computer..and she comes over to my house for the first time. what do you think we should do. i dont want her to be bored! i want her to have fun you know..but then we cant go anywhere since we dont have any rides..

anything will help hun!
thanks ♥

hey
well i think it would be a good idea to take some of your friends and bring your cousin too! can your cousin drive? if she cant then arrange for some time to get a ride somewhere like all of you to the movies and include your cousin! have her bring her friends and you guys will meet a ton of new people no doubt.. and if you have people over you could have 2 people so then you all wil have a good time no mater what your doing
hope i helped if you need anything else just ask
erica

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hey well ive just been sick of one of my friends..i mean she likes me one day hates me that next..and she gets he stupiddest things! and like all of her friends are in 6th grade (we're in 7th) because she cant get her own in our grade..and im sick of her treating me liek shit n makin me feel stupid...what should i do?? i need help

-juls

i think you should tell your friend how you feel
just be like, hey whats your deal with me lately youve been treating me like shit and making me feel stupid did i do something to you or what because i really dont understand why and if shes just a bitch back screw her and find some new friends because no one needs friends who treat them liike shit :)

♥ erica

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Does anyone know any websites that you can go to give you healthy diets, weight loss suggestions, and other things along those lines?

automatic 5's to ANYTHING that helps!

well it might not be a website but maybe this could help for you, if you get the magazine seventeen every month they have a new work out and diet and i love them! theyre so helpfull for me, so you might wanna check that out!
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SO..
im 15/f

me and my cousin always hang out together! she's awesome lOl. but anyways she used to like this one guy and i thought he was cute. well she didnt exactly like him anymore she moved on..but she still thought the kid was hott! and my littler cousin (her brother) is like 13? and he talks to this kid. the kid is in 9th grade and my cuzin is also but im in 10th grade. well i was like OH MY GOSH that kid is really hott! i said that to my cousins. and then my 13 yr old cousin was talking to him on the computer and was like yeah my cousin likes you. and i was like NOO how can i like him? i dont even know him! and then he is like just kidding she just thinks your hott. and he is like who is she? and my cousin told him..but of course he doesnt know me since we go to different schools.. and the kid is like dont know her..never seen her..never heard of her. well this made me feel GREAT. even tho i knew he didnt know who i was. but then anyways this kid is like well next time that she sees me tell her to come up to me and tell her who she is. SO next time i see him what am i suppose to say? hi im the girl that thinks your hott. it will be soo embarassing! and im pretty shy.so that doesnt help. and then later that night my 13 year old cousin was still talking to him and was like yeah my sister (his sister my cousin)thinks your really hott and he is like man whats up with your family..first your cousin and now your sister? whats next your grandpa??! so then i felT SOOOO unblievebly stupid!! now i for sure dont wanna go up to him next time i see him..i will feel so stupid! but then again maybe he will think im cute or something? I DONT KNOW!! i mean i wanna hang out with him or something..or at least try and talk to him..let him know i exist!! but then i only see him at their schools hockey games..and there isnt any going on over break! and my cousin that goes to school with him is really shy too and wont ask to hang out with him..because she doesnt really talk to him either..and i dont wanna talk to him on AIM because im not good with talking on the computer..so please dont suggest that..but yeah so i cant throw a party or anything! ugh this is soo horrible and confusing :( you dont even know..this kid is the funniest..the cutest! and he doesnt even know i exist..all the girls are over him and i guess he is goin to this party that a girl is throwin from his schoool. what do you think i should do!?

SORRY SO LONG!! i really am!
but thanks for answering sweetie
i really appreciate it!

aww its all right dont worry if he doesnt know who you are... YET! i think your cousin and this guy go to the same school right? im not sure but if this girl is having a party and if your cousins invited i think you should go too! you dont have to go right up to him and meet him you could have your cousin introduce you and then just casually talk from there and be like "your screen name is ___ right? ahha i was at my cousins house when her lil bro was talking to you" or something along those lines..but dont act shy! just act like your having a really good time and smile and dont be a wallflower
i hope this allworks out for you, if you need anything else drop some in my inbox
♥ =) erica

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im 15..going on 16 and i havent had a boyfriend yet. everytime someone brings up the subject about having a boyfriend i get so like nervous and self-conscious because im afraid they'll ask like oh who was your last boyfriend? how many boyfriends have you had before? and my old friend was talkin bout boys and my other friend goes yahhh but she hasnt had a boyfriend yet. and the girls like OMG WHAT? you havent had one yet? seriously?! like she was shocked. because apparently alotta people think im prettY? i dont see it but whatever. im not that good with guys i mean yah i talk to them and all ..but as friends. im way too shy to like hang out with them or something. maybe they just dont see me as girlfriend material? my best friend says maybe i may look like a bitch or something..or guys are just afraid to come out and tell me because they are scared of rejection. but actually im not kinda scared to get my first boyfriend (if that ever comes :( because i really wont know how to act since ive never had one before. ahhh please give me suggestions anything will help..seriously!

SORRY i havent answered this in sucha long time ive been busy and what not
its not a big deal that you havent had a boyfriend at all! just simply say your waiting for the right guy or all the guys are assholes
if you like a guy flirt with him and make nice comments and let guys get to know you that will do the trick =)

sorry if my advice wasnt exactly what you wanted but if you need anything else feel free to ask
happy hollidays!

xxoxo

♥ erica

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who sings Ooh La La its on making the band 3 and i cant find who sings it anywere 5 more answers that help

i was looking for it too, but i just typed ohh la la and then a bunch of songs came up that it was by making the band 3 soo yeah

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Brown Gauchos & Brown cowboy boots.

^yes or no?

i agree that if you had a light brown and a dark brown itd be cute but dont match the colors because it would be too much

love love

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Is it a total turn off to guys if a gurl dosent walk the same (sright normal ,but still can walk and dance) way. But i mean she can still talk and is nice and stuff and has average body? Ill rate five for thought out anser.

im a girl but i dont think itd matter if the girl doesnt walk the same at all! i havent heard one thing about it from a guy unless your trying to walk weird or something
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Okay, my mom has a friend who has a son. They came over one night and this was the first time I have met him before, he kept on staring at me or just looking at me in the eyes a lot. That night he asked his mom for my e-mail adress and I got an e-mail from him saying " you looked amazing the other night and I think ur really cool, I want to get to know you better," or "do you have a boyfriend" or "what are you most like? Calm and collective, or wild and crazy?"
and stuff like that and I just dont know... is he interested in me?? He's a senior in High School and I am a freshman. What should I do?!?!

well hes defenately interested in you so i would defenately give him a chance but be careful since hes a senior you never really know what could happen and take it slow.. let him get to know you but play sorta hard to get hah some guys liek that

xooxo erica

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I want to start babysitting, but i don't know anyone who is willing enough to let me.

I need some money to save up for something.
My Cousin is due in 2 weeks!! When her baby is older, should i help her?

-needs some money

you can make signs or little buisness cards and post them around where you live at places that will let you. for example theres a grocery store by my house and inside theres a bunch of help wanted things on this wall
sorry that was kinda confusing hah
or make signs and put them around your neighbor hood in peoples mailboxes i did that one time and youd be suprised how many people would want help
♥ erica

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i have this amazing boyfriend who i love talking on the phone with for hours and i love him now i no this is going to sound shallow but whenever i see him i think ew how ugly cause he got pimples should i break up with him or what i need help cause i am seeing him in like 2 weeks 13/f >3

hey
i dont think you should break up with him because if you sreisouly love him and stuff looks shouldnt mean anything. what if a guy broke up with you because of how you looked.. i would be pretty sad if it were me haha but i say stay with him because not many guys are you going to find that are extremely hott and also a good guy underneath.. well all the guys ive met arent

good luck!

xoxo

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Erica//
:( F**K! i went tanning today and OH MY GOSH. i really burnt my face bad i mean like its SUPER bad. my face kinda swelled a bit but its suuuper red! it hurts really bad..my face is on fire! my mom and dad know about it and they put neosporen (spelling) on my face to help it. before i was putting an ice pack on my head cuz it hurt and a cold wash cloth on my face. is there anything else i could do that you know of rather than like going to the doctor? because its not that serious..ive had worse so dont worry. but i just want this to go away! or at least get better. i was spose to have plans tonight but i had to cancel because of this. what a great way to start off christmas break right? well yeah anyways to maybe make the swelling go down or the reddness? thanks ALOT

ahhh oh man thats gotta hurt im sorry! sorry i didnt get back to you sooner ive been super busy.. whenever im sunburnt i put aloe vera on it. when you put it in the fridge and then put it on itll cool off your face and i think it helps the redness

well sorry i gotta run but if you need anything else let me know

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how can i hide a hicky from my parents..i dont have really long hair so that wont work and i dont wear turtlenecks so yeah i need help

take a bottlecap from a water bottle or a pop, and rub the hickey with the top of the cap until it starts to fade.. trust me it works good haha

♥ erica

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HEY! whats goin on!? well i have this tanning lamp thing..and its kinda like going tanning except you have to like do each section of your body seperately. i mostly only do my face. but usually when i go tanning in a bed my face looks like a nice smooth tan. but when i use this tanning lamp (because im outta tans) my face looks really blotchy and kind of reddish. and it like dont go away..or fade into a tan. i even put bronzer like on to try and make it look smoother. but is there anyway i could make it look smooth and just like a nice tan without buying anything..since my mom wont let me?

well hmm i am not really sure but maybe you arent evenly tanning it on each side of your face? or just put a tinted moisturizer to make it look more even

haha im not realy sure sorry!! but if you can spare maybe 15-20 dollars no more than 20 there is this stuff called Salon Bronze at walgreens and its amazing! i use it and it doesnt make you look fake or too dark or anything it looks liek its in the shape of a gun and comes with 2 containers.. so i would try and get it if you can!

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hey when you said a URL number will show up where does it show up to you left click on the picture or right click?
Please answer ASAP!

hey.. i dont really know what your talking about im sorry i have a mac computer and the mouse doesnt have right or left click :-\

sorry
erica

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ok i know this isint a questoin.. well it is but anyway, does anyone wana go to the chatroom!?

sure it would be fun haha
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