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i have like really bad love handles and ugh they look so discusting. how can i get rid of them? (link)
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AB LOUNGE IT!!!!!!!!
hahaha
It works.
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What are some cute clothing stores that sell clothes kinda like Forever 21 and Wetseal? Anything you say will help. Thanks a bunch! =) (link)
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Urbanoutfitters is my favorite
theres also delias.
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I have this ugly mole under my right armpit. It's so embarrassing! I've grown up with it and learned to pretty much ignore it. But it's making me self concience! My mom said i can get it removed, but where its located im afraid of irritation. You swear a lot on your underarms, and like my shirts would rub it. I'm afraid it would never heal.
Does anyone have any suggestions on what i can do about it?
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I have one too and the thing I hate about it is that it sticks out and the thing that happened to me is I grew two more.
the only thing I can tell you to do about it is either
get it removed
or just don't even care what other people think about it
We all have flaws and your perfect the way you are.
and i'm serious
haha
when I used to care I just wore t shirts or long sleeves shirts and thats it but now i don't even care
You can still get it removed cause thats the only way to get rid of it.
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myspace needs to die. it randomly deleted me and 9 other kids!! i dont get it, we didnt violate the rules or anything.
it has happened before and then a day later it let me sign back on. but its been a day and i still cant get on it. i checked my link and it says "this user has either deleted their account or it has been deleted" yeah well im really pissed i dont feel like making a new one.
did this happen to anyone else and what can i do about it? (link)
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This happens to so many people everyday.
What I did is have your account
and then make a backup account and add all your friends on your normal account so that you still have another one and you don't have to start all over from what you had.
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I like a guy and we're really good friends. Sounds okay right? Well the kink to that is that he's gay...what do I do? And I will NOT talk to him about my feelings (link)
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You should find someone else honey i'm sorry.
He's gay and really you can't change anything about that,
Especially if he is real about it.
which he probably is.
So you have to just remain friend with him, I don't know what else to tell you.
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Hi all. I'm soon to be interviewed regarding the link between drinking a lot, and taking sexual risks. This might mean going further than you wanted/planned, not using protection, etc - but only while you've been drinking.
My interview is going to be specifically about teenagers, so I thought I would ask the younger people on here for their input. Do you think there is a link? How strong do you think it is?
Thanks for any help you can give. (link)
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Well I know that alcohol doesn't make you just have sex or cheat
You can control if you have sex or not.
Its just like drunken words are sober thoughts.
so its pretty much like they really want the person in their mind but they don't want to feel that way for some certain reasons but really you can control it 100% completely.
I'm not exactly sure if this is the anwser you wanted but if it is I hope it was all good for you :]
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whenever i change my pad or tampon at school it takes a long time and makes a lot of noise ( the crinkling paper and taking pads off)
so what are some tips on how to do this faster and quieter?
i'll take anything i can get!
HAPPY 2007. (link)
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this shouldn't be embarrasing
We are all girls and we all understand.
Really there should be no problem.
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Does anyone know any vegetarian recipes? My New Years Resolution is to lose 30-50 pounds this year and I decided to ear healthier. And to eat healthier, I decided to do some information on vegetarianism. But I couldn't really find any real good recipes. So if anyone could find a link to it, please, copy and paste it. Please don't tell me to google it.
Thank you. (link)
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Being a vegetarian is not just a choice you make when you wake up in the morning.
its a lifestyle.
don't call yourself vegetarian just because you want to lose weight.
sorry if I sound mean but I hate when people are like this and really once your done with all that weight then you might start eating meat again.
So really you have to live by it your whole life.
Since you have eaten meat for your whole life
you won't be able to be vegetarian anyways.
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This is really really iffy. My family obviously thinks that: homosexuals are a disgrace and they're ruining the world and that they should die before they spread their "diseas" to other people and I know that's complete bs. I'm in 9th grade and my friends who I'm going to talk about are in 9th and 10th grade. I'm bi and I have about 10 bi friends and 3 gay friends. I can't tell my family the truth about all my friends because they'll say "You are not to associate with them in any way shape or form..stay away from them" etc and I won't be able to hang out with them anymore. My best friend who is gay and I are really close along with my other gay friend. I can't go over to their houses at all alon ebecause my mom thinks they'll stone me and rape me. And I can't say that they're gay and so either way I can't hang out with my gay guy friends. I like this girl at school and I want to ask her out but that's complicated because I have some friends at school that know and will tell my sister if they found out about my orientation. So I really don't know what to do. I can't talk about it with my family because they'll just get mad at me and yell at me for being a heretic from the family...and I'm just frustrated with this situation because I'm so tied down...what do I do?!?! (link)
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if you want to stay the night at that guys house just say you're going to stay the night at your friend who is a girl's house.
like " I'm going to stay the night at stacy's"
but really you'll be at his house!!! hahaha.
My family is the same way and some of my friends are gay but they don't care if I hang out with them just as long as I don't bring them around my house but i don't know how bad your family is so if you think they will say that then I guess they are just going to have to deal with it.
its really hard to come out of the closet to your parents but you'll find a way when your ready because you have to be ready for something like that you can't just force it onto yourself.
and if they love you then i'm sure they might be mad about it for a couple of days soon enough they will get over it and accept the fact you are like that.
they might be uncomfortable for awhile though but it will all come together
hope i helped :]
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basically my sister who is 19 tells on EVERYTHING that i do. if she doesnt like it, she'll find a flaw in it, tell my mom and i'll be banned from something i love...like mcr -- my life depends on them and their music is so moving. i just love them. but my sister said that they were morbid and all the bs and now i can't listen to them. which led to a much bigger mess. but she listens to evanescence with me who talks about bleeding, being raped, dying etc. yet since SHE likes evanescence, she won't say anything about it. so it's pretty much my sitster ALWAYS telling on everything i do if she doesn't like it. i wish that she would just get out fo my business and stop telling on me. i'm 14 by the way. well theres this kid named John who is pretty good friends with my sister and let me tell you,,,he is one of a kind of bitchy people and tells everything i do to my sister..he blackmails me saying that he';ll tell my sister if i do this or that. well last year was okay because he was in high school and i was in middle school. now that we're both in high school its a little...effing messed up. i can't do anything or say anything or wear or do anything without him finding a flaw, reporting it to my sister and my sister telling on me to my mom...so at school i have to just be a perfect little girl that my family wants just so he can't find something bad and tell my sister. it's pretty annoying and i don't know how to stop him from telling my sister. and i can't tell him to not tell my sister stuff because he'll tell my sister i said that and my sister will be like "omg what bad thing are you gonna do?" *tell tell* and i hate talking because my sister won't listen to me and tell my mom what i said to her and then my mom will go "omg what have you done that you don't want me to know?" so heh. it's kinda iffy...what should i do. i'm just rawr. (link)
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Uhm
I'm 14 and I can support myself.
When i got kicked out I pretty much lived on my own with my friend who is 16.
that was just from the other guys anwser which was dumb advice.
I don't want to put some influence as a bad kid.
But this really is some stupid stuff.
Like do you realize fights with your parents lead absolutely no where I mean you might get grounded
oh then what
uh you cant go watch tv
well thats stupid.
I just leave haha
because it means absolutely nothing.
So really if they don't want you to listen to a certain music well then listen to it.
Usually kids who get raised like that soon enough rebel.
If you listen to me then I'm just giving you an early start hahah.
I stopped doing those things when I was 12
and yeah I'm kicked out right now but really I'm fine.
or you can just explain to them and talk to your whole family about it and how much it annoys you and whatevers on your mind about it.
and then maybe you should have your mom listen to that music and maybe she won't think its so bad.
Because mcr they don't even sing about morbid stuff at all I mean they might dress all emo but they don't go out telling the world to go kill themselves.
its really all fine.
and if they dont let you
then I'd still listen to it no matter what
Or maybe try and scare that kid with something.
You'll figure it out honey don't worry.
Sorry if the whole rebeling thing was horrible advice because I don't like to be an bad influence on people even though I am. hahaha
you really don't have to listen to me its just an opinion of mine and what I have done.
Listening to music they won't let you won't get you kicked out.
The only reason I got kicked out was for ditching, doing drugs and dropping out of school.
but really don't make judgements because my life is completely perfect right now.
and those people that call me a awful person are really the horrible people.
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Hey Y'all!! :]]
I'm a girl and sometimes I get turned on by other girls. Does this make me a lesbian?? I dont want to have a relationship with them though. And I get crushes on guys, not girls. What do ya think? (link)
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I was exactly that way and I guess I was kinda confused because i didnt have a boyfriend for like 5 years and i was always turned on by girls but i got those crushes on guys but then i got a boyfriend and i realized I'm straight haha.
Hope it helped :]
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i think i have OCD.
like i always have to touch a doorknob 5 times to make sure the door is completely shut. and i have like to sort everything i eat.
one time when i was in disney world i stepped on a tile with my right foot but i couldnt with my left cuz it was a long line and i cried myself to sleep every night for 3 days. whenever i tell my mom she says: Oh you'll grow out of it but im 13 and this has been going on for a while. what can i do??? (link)
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You have it.
I do the exact same thing honey.
I don't really know what to tell you if you're asking to get rid of it because its really something that you can't get rid of all by yourself.
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ok,so im cutting my hair about 2 1/2 inchs cause it is COMPLEATLY dead,but im wondering,i might get a little bit of layers, what do i tell the person if i only want a little bit of layers? i know i cant just say that,they'll get confused,i want some just for movement in my hair maybe a little more for style. also, once i get my hair cut, i want to get a new straightener,which ones dont burn your hair as much? (i heard there are some that hydrate your hair with steam- any brands that you know of?) alsooo,if there is no straightener like that what are some really good brands of heat protectant spray? thanks! (link)
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show her the layers you want like the length or where you want them in your hair you know stuff like that.
With straighteners you can get some revlon heat protecting stuff it works really good with me just use 2 squirts cause more than that will make your hair very oily. :]
Hope i helped
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So, I like this guy, okay? He's really sweet and cute and so nice and everything... but there's a problem... I already have a boyfriend. Don't start calling me a slut and everything but my boyfriend is starting to be really... boring. I knew him only for two days when he asked me out. Should I dump him or not?? If I shouldn't, tell me why I have to go pretend to like a guy I don't! It's torture......... =(
What should I do?? (link)
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The same exact thing happened to me a few months ago.
Honey the longer you wait to dump this guy the harder it will get to do so I think you should break up with him and start to get with the boy you really do like.
hope it helped sweetie :]
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I love the clothing style as Delias but I live in B.C., Canada. I don't mind going down to Washington because my family goes there sometimes.
What are some stores {In the US or Canada} that have similar clothing to Delias? (link)
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Charlotte russe
Forever 21.
Or urban outfitters has even better stuff then them. :D
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i straighten and blowdry my hair everyday and it gets kinda poofy and has split ends.. so what can i do to get healthy hair again? (link)
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I use revlon heat protection stuff and it protects your hair when you straighten it or blowdry its like oil stuff but it doesn't make your hair oily unless you put in a lot.
Like blow dry your hair til its just damp and put some in they blow dry it until its dry then put in 2 squirts and rub your hands together and put it in then straighten it and also it helps make hair straighter.
They probably have other stuff similar to that at sallys or go to a salon and ask them and im sure they will have stuff.
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I try to be myself in school.. but after getting advice and stuff, i still cant. if im not comfortable, then i kinda freeze or beocome kind of like.. twitchy a little. then like little things happen like me getting up to get a paper, and i dont want to do it, cause im feeling uncomfortable, then i end up embarassing myself.. well in my opinion. i mean, i believe that i like myself.. but i dunno what else i could do to get more comfortable. picture everyone in underwear? not so funny. uh.. treat the people as family? i guess so.. i've tried it but it kinda doesnt work. im more outgoing and stuff when im at home or not working.. sometimes i appear to be serious and really shy when i know im not like that. i've had this problem for like a couple years now.. i'm 13 in middle school. ehh.. any advice if there is any to solve this problem? thanks if you do :)
Also, when im outgoing like in school or something, then sometimes i get a little too carried away, cause maybe im trying too hard when i am, or something. how can i learn to control it without being too out of line or too.. in the line? like, with still having my dignity and stuff. :/ HEEELP! (link)
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I was like this 12-13 and right now im 14 and my first impressions are very quiet and shy.
I would hardly say a word in school but around family i was so much different.
I realized not to care what people think.
Maybe you're like that because you are more mature than them and you see them acting immature and feel like oh you have to say stupid things so thats why you feel like you're trying to hard.
If you get anxiety and twitch up like that.
It's just your nervous system because you get all uncomfortable and nervous and makes you get sweaty hands sometimes or twitchy.
You will open up as you get older and especially when you go to highschool because you meet older mature people
Just don't care what people think be yourself no matter what.
You only live once so live it while you're young
If you die tomorrow.
At least you would have lived my life.
Hope it helped sweetie :D
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iam kinda short about 5''6 do girls liek taller guys.. im kinda skinny to .. but i dno i have a fast metabilism and i need to eat more cause im all about fitness and working out but .. im geting results but not bulky ones i want to be the one thos girls stare at for once
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Well I'm a short girl I'm 5 feet and I've gone out with guys who were only like 5'3 at the shortest and were really thin so really 5'6 isn't bad.
Some girls are different though.
It sometimes can matter their height or if they like short guys or tall guys.
Most girls like guys taller than them.
you don't have to be tall just if you're taller than most girls it's really not a problem.
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I'm not into drugs at all, but it's my friend who is freaking out. I don't want a lecture, I would just appreciate a simple answer. How long does it take marijuana to "dissolve" or "exit" from the body? My friend has a drug test soon and smoked weed a few weeks ago. Is there also any ways to speed up this process? (link)
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No it does not matter how much you smoke.
No matter how much you smoke it still takes 30 days to get out of your body.
But there are drinks that get rid of it in a few days.
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Okay so what are some things that girls can call guys. Like guys can call us sweetie and babe and stuff but im not sure what were suppose to call them. (please dont say honey i hate that) ohh and is it okay for a girl to call a guy babe? (link)
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I always call them
baby.
i think its cute haha idk
dont do it in public though you dont want him to be embarassed.
With the boyfriend i has last year he used to call me lil mama and i called him big papa as an inside joke kinda of thing.
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