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my names jenn, and im here to help
i luv giving advice and helping out anyone
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and ive been thru alot
so feel free to ask anything
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I think my best friend *and only friend* doesnt like me anymore..She posted an away message while I was talking to her that said "Fuck you I dont need anymore friends" and then she called my cellphone while her friends were over and they were laughing and saying really bad things to me like pussy in the background. Im so upset, Im shaking. This has never happened between me and her and weve been best friends for 6 years. I wanna die..please help (link)
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ok first of all
this girl is not your friend
anyone who would do that is just terrible
never use death as the answer
im sure that you can get other friends
and maybe you show her that you dont care abouit her
if she dont care bout you
i think that you will be ok
but suicide is nvr the way to go
i rele hope that this helps
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ohkay well im horrible at starting conversations and so is my boyfriend. and i feel like and idiot when were sitting around not talking about nothing. hellpPP? (link)
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well maybe you could ask him about his day
or about new things that may have happened recently
you could also say something that you have probably asked him like a billion times
"whats your favorite color?"
it might bring back memories , and then get you started on the topic of when you were little
or things like when you first got together
hope this helps
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ok so i was supposed to start my period like 5 days ago and i just started today..i feel like i would normally feel whenever im on my period but im not bleeding like i would...im usually heavier than this..i mean right now im barely bleeding at all. what does this mean? (link)
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ok well i dont think that this is anything to worry bout
it could be from stress or a change in diet
im sure that this is perfectly normal
but if this continues
and when your period comes again next month and so on
and this happens, or you dont get your period at all
then you should visit the doctor
but i dont think anythings wrong
hope this helped
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Alright this is the very first time i even discussed the this anywhere either in person or online. so here goes. Im a 38 year old truck driver. I live in Maine. I have trouble speaking to strangers. I drive all week alone by myself and usually spend the weekend home alone. I dont like being alone. but I cant seem to talk myself into going out. I dont believe im looking for sympathy. Im looking for motivation. I dont do well around large crouds of people and starting up conversations is Very uncomfortable for me. Im unmotivated unless it comes to my job. i hardly ever finish anything i start unless it comes to my job. I am a very disorganized person. Personally I think my self esteme is quite low. I know i have problems and issues but it all seems so overwelming that i dont know what to do so I dont do anything and thats not getting me anywhere. Making decisions is very difficult for me. However I feel i am very intelligent. I have tried without success to help myself and am getting nowhere quite rapidly. I have medical insurance but dont know where to go or who to see. Or if thats even covered. Please just help me get going in the right direction.
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Ok, well i dont have any recources for finding a doctor
but i can say this
you seemed like you are way to involed with your job
i mena, maybe you just need some you time
time to just figure things out
maybe you could take a break or go on vacation
i do think that you should get a doctor
but i think alot of this you will have to figure out on your own
maybe you should practice being around people
i think that you should come out of the shadows and open u[ to the world
i kno that you are alot older than me
but that doesnt mean that i dont get life
ive been stressed and confused about things before
and i seriously think that you shohuld get away
and practice meeting people
and getting to know people
you will be alot happier
and alot less alone
good luck
i rele hope that this helps
dont be nervous to talk to people
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13/F. There is this boy that is in 2 of my classes. I bearlly noticed him like 2 weeks ago, and he is really cute. I know or I think I know that he likes me, but he hangs out with this girl all the time and I know she likes him, in my opinion shes isn't really all that cute. I want to tell him I like him, cause I if I did then he might ask me out. But before I do are these kinda signs that he like me?: he always comes and tells me i smell good, he always wants me to sit on his lap, he passes me notes during class, and always hugs me and holds hands with me in the hallway. Another thing is that the girl he hangs out with is kind of my friend but lately has been calling me and boyfriend stealer, when they aren't even together. So what do you think? Should I tell him or not? (link)
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ok well heres what i think
you cant help who you like and niether can your friend
if you truly like him, then yes i think that you should tell him that you like him
i think that those are signs that he likes you
if she likes him to, then talk to her
ask her if she truly likes him as much as you think
and if they areent together, than she shouldnt say bf stealer
just talk to both of them
one at a time
i sure do hope this helps
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Heres the problem...
I have;
-Buck teeth
-A gap between my front [buck] teeth.
I've had a pallet expander whcih I believe is the reason for the gap.
Any *CHEAP* solutions besides braces?
thx. (link)
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the only one that i can think of is invisaline
its no where neer as much as braces
its more comfortable
and its removable
hope this helps
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Hey everyone!!! I am 15 years old and I have never had a bf. I dont think that I am ugly, nor i am not antisocial. Is something wrong with me? After all, i am already a sophmore.... (link)
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dont wory bout it
everyone meets that special someone at different times
(and when i say special, i mean 1st boyfriend)
ive nvr really had a bf either
just keep doing wat your doing
and maybe insdead of getting asked out
you sould ask someone out
you nvr kno
its all your decision
so do w e you feel
hope this helps
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13/f. I'm not really scared of the dark or anything, but here latley i've been getting really scared. see, since it's been christmas break i've been staying up until around 3:00a.m. because i don't have school the next day (yeah, you all probably new that, but oh well, hehe! jk). so, when i'm about to go to bed, i put my dog up, and turn off all of the lights. but i practacly (sp?) run to my bed because i'm really scared. and before i go to bed and i'm on the computer and stuff, every little sound i hear i get soooo scared. for example, i was in the tonight brushing my teeth and i swear i heard loud foot steps going by the door. i don't think it was my parents because they never get up in the middle of the night, but it could have been one of them. but when i heard "footsteps" i got sooooooooooooo freaking scared. should i like stop watching scary movies? or go to bed eariler when my parents do so i don't have to stay up by myself? i don't know what to do, but i'm getting really tired of getting scared all of the time. i really need some help! thanks ppl! (link)
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ok well maybe you should lay off the scary movies
but hey dont sweat it
this could be a sign of stress or a reaction to staying up late
also hearing things, and freaking out is totally normal
i do it all of the time
maybe you could try going to bed early
and watch some kind of comedy b4 bed
i hope that this helps you out
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When I shave my armpits, it usually gets red and irritated and theres sometimes a couple of hard bunps. I use the same shaving cream and razor that I use on my legs, and my legs come out fine. Why is this happening? What should I do different when I shave my armpits? Thanks 13/f (link)
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if its an irritation make sure to put baby powder on it when you are finnished shaving
also, if it gets worse, notify a parent or doctor because you might have an elergic reaction
but i wouldnt worry bout it too much
i hope that this helps
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ok, i like this boy who is one year younger than me (13). we know each other because we go to the same church and we're pretty good friends. we always text each other and stuff like that. but i dont know if he likes me. the stuff he says in his text messages kinda makes me think that he does, but then im not totally sure. i like him, but im not sure if he likes me...any ideas? (link)
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well i think that he might
but you can never be too sure
maybe you should give him litttle hints or something like that
or you could just ask him if he does
but if it were me, i would become really good friends wit him first
i hope that this helps
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13/f
my little brother is serously adroable
hes 5 and hes into football and stuff
but he dosent like me. he loves my brother tho!! wat can i do to make him not hate me? like little stuff like playing with him. and what sgouldent i do?? (link)
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im sure he doesnt hate you
trust me, i have a little sis, and i thought that she hated me
but then about a week ago, she told me other wise
also, since hes your brother, maybe hes looking, for a male rolemodel right now
you said that you have another brother, so maybe he just wants to hang wit him
hes growing up, but im sure that this is just a stage
maybe if you ask him what he likes to do and do it wit him, then that will help
well you shouldnt force him to do anything, or act like you think that he hates you
dont worry about it, i am sure that it will all work out '
well i hope that this helped alittle
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okay i'll tell you this from the beginning I AM NOT EMO! i just have a question about them
how do they style their room? it's just a question that's haunting me (link)
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WEll, i guess that they just go with how they feel
its pretty much how everyone styles thier room
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im 13 and i havnt gotten my period yet is that bad? (link)
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No its not bad at all
Girls get thier periods at all different times
it can be anywhere from the age of 11 to like 17
dont be worried, cuz its al natural
my mom didnt get hers till 16
its just gunna be a bit annoying having to wait, but im sure that you'll get through it
hope this helps
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hi, i was wondering if anybody knew how i could lose some flab on my thighs (inner thigh) and how quickly could i lose it? thanks (link)
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ok well, i may not be an expert, but i think that i can help
try doing some leg aerobics
or even leg lifts
trust me, cuz i am right there with you
leg lifts work.... ive tried
just stick to an everyday thing, and BAM
hopefully you'll have good results
just dont do any crash dieting or over excersizing
good luck
keep me posted with your results
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