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I am a 19 year old female who has dated a lot of immature 18-21 year olds. I joined an online dating site recently, just because I thought it would be fun. Well, now I seem to be drawing myself towards older men, such as 30 year olds. I suppose it's because of their maturity level, financial stability, and experience.
Would this be socially acceptable for me to have a relationship with a 30 year old, or a bit taboo? How would others perceive us? What should I consider before dating an older man? What sort of problems may we encounter in our relationship? Any thoughts would be appreciated. (link)
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no i dont think that dating a man would be socially acceptable. but i do think that its your dicision who you date so basically screw all the people who got something to say.but you have to understand their will be alot of people hating on you.but forget about them and do yo thang
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how do you know that your in love?
i rate all 5's. (link)
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when im in love then the only person i can think about is my love.you cry when he's away to long or when he comes back.the thought of him just makes you smile.when somebod say's thier name you jump and turn around looking for them.its really hard to explain.but you will feel so so so so so good when your there.trust me.its the best feeling in the world
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When you are makeing out with a guy or kissing him where should you out your hands. Or guys where do you prefer for girls to put there hands?
(I'm a girl) (link)
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well if your standing up i would say put your hans around his waist or his neck.if you sitting down then you can put your hands anywhere,but usually your hands will just stay down on the chair or whatever
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
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you know him better then i do.so that means either he wants you back but is a little embarresed about the whole car sex situation or he just was horny.i think he wants you back because he seemed patient with you in the car.wait it out a little while and then call him.or better yet you should wait to see him.that way he cant get away.but if you know your not going to see him in a while call him in like two days.just give him some time.hope i helped a little
follow your heart
Delilah
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*this may be kinda long sorry! but thanks for taking the time to read this*
*well me and my ex boyfriend "mike" have been broken up for 9 months now! we talk about once a day or sometimes every other day! we have hung out quite a few times..and this is where the problem starts
*last night he came over and picked me up at my house around 10! he lives like 30 mins away from me so the whole time we were driving he was just kinda flirting with me..like making fun of me and stuff! well we were going to his friends house to get him and then gonna go bowling but his best friend was there and he doesnt like me so we didnt go there..instead we just went to mcdonalds! he kept asking me if i wanted something but i said no! well he got something and while he ate we sat in his truck and just talked..he kept staring at me and i was like what and hes like can i not look at you! and he kept calling me turtle lip which is what he called me when we went out! well then we left and went to his house and i started playing with my hair and
he was like whats wrong? i was like nothing and hes like what are you thinking about and i was like nothing and he was like dont lie to me i know better..well i didnt wanna talk about it! so we get to his house and he undoes his seatbelt..he looks at me and goes do you think it would really work out? i was like i really dunno and he was like honestly and i was like i dunno maybe! well i told him i was cold so he moved the thingy in the middle up and came and cuddled with me! well he was rubbing my feet for a while and he knows i love that! then he layed his head on my chest and was listening to my heart beat! well then he looked at me and was like can i bite your lip and i was like why and he was like i want to so i was like sure..so he did..then he layed his head on my chest again and just stared at me and was like can i kiss you so i was like i guess so we kissed! and that happened quite a few times! he kept trying to hold my hands and hold me in his arms! well i got up for a sec so he laid in my spot! well i was like fine ill go in the back and he was like no lay on me so i did! the seat belt thing was in my way so i went to the back..so he came back there with me and of course we cuddled and ended up messing around! weve hung out several times before this and weve never touched eachother like that or cuddled/kissed or anything! well then it was 1:30 and his dad was like you need to take her home! ya it seems awesome i know..but heres where it doesnt make sense! today he was on AIM and imed him (he was away though) and i was like you know things are gonna be hard now cause i cant get over him at all..and he signed off so i was like what the heck! so i got on myspace and he was on so i was like whatever cause sometimes it just leaves it on! then again later i got on it and he was on it again but he wasnt on AIM so i felt like he was avoiding me! so i called him and was like why are you ignoring me and he was like im not im watching a movie ill ttyl so i was like whatever! and he hasnt been on AIM all day..sometimes hes not but its kinda weird! i dunno if its just me or if hes ignoring me! i guess my question is what should i do? let go or keep trying? keep in mind he is my 1st love but i have been trying for 9 months.. how do you think he feels? do you think he really likes me and is scared to tell me or fall me or what? ughhh someone please help me! thanks so much (link)
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you know him better then i do.so that means either he wants you back but is a little embarresed about the whole car sex situation or he just was horny.i think he wants you back because he seemed patient with you in the car.wait it out a little while and then call him.or better yet you should wait to see him.that way he cant get away.but if you know your not going to see him in a while call him in like two days.just give him some time.hope i helped a little
follow your heart
Delilah
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I've been with this guy for about 9 monthes now. we are not officially together because that is the way i want it. BUT we are exclusive and aren't supposed to be with other people.
I cheated on him friday night. This isn't the first time i did it, but i told him about the other times. After the last one, he told me if i cheated again then we'd be done.
Do you think i should tell him what i did? I really do like him a lot. I'm seeing him today and need advice asap.
thanks (link)
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if you want to continue to be with him then you shouldnt tell him.but form all this cheating your donig it doesnt seem like you want to be with him.he's giving you all these chances and you taking them.if you really want to be with him then dont tell him, but stop cheating.if you know your going to cheat then you have t oset him free.
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Well my friend has started to talk to this senior (chris) i was friends with chris last year but we havent talked for a while. so ive started talkin to him a couple of weeks ago because of my friend jen who hes with. so chris picked me and jen up and we were supposed to be hangin out with this kid steve i liked but steve called later on. so we picked up chris`s friend brian. i knew brian last year too but we havent talked. so we all went back to chris`s and chris and jen kept on leaving the room and trying to like get us to hookup, i think brian wanted to but i dont know i felt weird so i was like "lets go find them" so then after me and megan went to the bathroom she told me brian said i was pretty and hada cute body and stuff. so chris and jen went on the bed in back of the futon/couch me and brian were on and we sat close and he held my hand then he did in the car. but i havent talked to him, i have his screenname and everything but he rarely even talks to anyone online, hes always away. what should i do? is he interested? he goes to a diff school too
thanksss (link)
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i think he likes you.i say you go for it.he said your cute and he was holding your hand and stuff. do yo thang girl
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okay so i just started proactive for my face, and does anyone know if it acutally works and how long (link)
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i use proactiv.and it does work.but you cant expect it to work in like three days.give it time and it will work.my advice is to use eveytime you get in the shower.and you dont have to use it everyday.if you happy to forget that doesnt mean it will never work. dont go crazy if you forget a day or two. my skin is coming out real good.
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well..this is how it goes:(sorry if longg)
i am (15/f) and i am possibly in love with 1 of my good friends (18/m). one day, we were in his basement and we started to dance together..(nothing unusual) but this time he put on a slow song..CRAZY by KC & J0J0..he asked me to dance with him to that song..and of course..i said yes..so we started dancing together..and in the middle of the song,i looked into his eyes..and he looked into mine..and yes..we kissed..we stopped dancing..and i turned off his stereo..and was about to walk up the stairs to leave..I WAS IN TOTAL SHOCK..and he grabbed my hand..then picked me up and he kissed me..we were making out for about another 2 hours..and then he drove me home..the next day at skool..((me--sophmore..him--senior)) we were on the back stairs of the skool and he asked me if i wanted to skip with him and i said okay..we skipped skool and went to his house...we went into his bedroom and we were kissing..then thingsz started gettin hot and he reached under my shirt and started unclipping my bra. I let him do that..then he started rubbin my boobs..i let him do that too..i started unzipping his pantsz and yeh..it happend..we had sex..now we go out and we have been for 6 months..the thing is now..his ex-gf keeps calling him and he talks to her..
my question is:
am i losing my man as well as my bestfriend?
sincerely,
confusedddddd (link)
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no i dont think so. after people break up they still try ro keep things cool, you no like the gwen stefani song. i just got off the phone with my ex boyfriend and everything is cool.dont worry there probalby just reminicing on the past.
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I'm 27 yrs, newly married. my problem is I'dont wan to get pregnant now. I'm totally not ready to be mother now coz i'm still pursuing my studies. I'm very scad to inform this to my husband coz i scad he will upset about that coz he loves children and he is a very loving person. I alrdy tempted to sex once but i'm scad i'm pregnant now, eventhough i take early precautions. please let me know how to avoid this pregnancy? and any symtoms?
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dont have sex when you no your period is coming
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Now I'm a columnist and I would usually look down on a question like this but I really need help!
Ok, for English class we have to write a 5 paragraph essay on a famous quote. My quote is "Insist on yourself never imitate.. Every great man is unique"
I'm having a very hard time thinking of 3 reasons why I would support this quote. Like I have ideas it's just that they are hard to explain.
So if possible can a few people please leave there interpretation of this quote. Or at least give me some sense of direction on how to have a strong argument about this essay topic. (link)
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im going to write this in a paragragh as if this were my essay..but just one paragraph.fill free to use it in any way you want...
I agree with the quote, "Insist on yourself never imitate.. Every great man is unique" for many reasons. I think its very true that we all should be our own person. This is the simple reason that God made us different so we would do our own thing.People should realize that we all are unique and we should embrace that. We dont want a million of the same person walking around. So i would encourage people to embrace their talents and let them be known. Theres enough space in this world for all of us to be different.
hope this is some sort of help
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i need help. okay, i've been with my boyfriend for a while now, but there's a small little problem that i'm having in our relationship. i love him to death and i know that he feels the same way, but when he talks to other girls.. i often get jealous and feel as if he's going to leave me for this girl even though i know they are just friends, i feel like maybe he sees something more in the girls he talks too. i feel this way because in the past, every guy i was with.. left me for another girl or was seeing another girl behind my back. i just got used to it & so now everytime i get into a new realtionship, i feel as if the same thing is going to happen even though i know all guys aren't the same, it's just something that sort of stuck in my mind. i expect guys to leave me.. i guess it's so i won't get hurt like i did in the past. i've talked with my boyfriend about this and he understands why i feel like this because of past experiences but he always reassures me that there is nothing going on because he doesn't want any other girl in this world besides me & that he loves me more than i could imagine. i mean, we've even talked about spending the rest of our lives together. i don't always have this problem when i'm with him.. but then there are times when i do. i hate it a lot because i really don't wanna feel this way, i TRY to tell myself "hes not gonna leave you" and it works half the time but then other time it doesnt and i get really upset. just so you know, i do BELIVE that he loves me, i don't doubt that.. it's just i really don't know how to explain it. maybe someone knows where i'm coming from. the point is, is there anyway i can convince myself that he's not going to leave me? is there anything at all i can do? or am i gonna be stuck feeling like this for the rest of my life because of what has happened to me in the past? (link)
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girl you cant have this low self-esteem. you got to believe in your self.this is what you should say through your head: "i got this boy.obviously he wanted me.im the shit"..you got to boost up you self-esteem.i understand why it's low and mines would be to if i were you.but remember its all in the past.and you've been with him long enough.if he was going to cheat,he would of done it already.
trust him and love yourself
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ok so me and my bf have been going out for 2 weeks. i really want to kiss him, but im not really sure how to. ive never kissed anyone before and im afraid that im gonna be bad. are there any tips or anything i can do. i dont want to make a fool out of myself!! (link)
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you can never be bad at kissing when it comes to regular kissing.but if you want to tongue kiss then dont use alot of tongue.just tease him.roll you tongue around his.or just barely put yours in his mouth.
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theres this extreme hottie in the 8th grade. im in 7th grade. he flirted with me like a lot one day. hes friends with some of my friends who r in my grade, but i really dont know him wutsoever. one of my friends whos friends with him said hes gonna hook us up cause we seem like a good match. im like uhh ok? but if he asks me out, idk wut to say because hes so hott nd it wut put me WAY UP there on the social stadus but wut if hes like those weirdo older guys that like mulest u nd are sexually weird (yur my sex buddy baby-like WOW an 8th grader said that to a girl in my grade today).
anyway, yes or no? find out more about the hottie with a boddie? ;) wut?? hes so hott and popular i want to say yes. ill find out more but ne advice?? thanks mwa bye (link)
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hes only older then you by one year.thats not a differnce at all. seventh and eighth graders are basically the same.so dont expect him to be any more mature then you are.if you feel that you cant go with him wihout getting to know him, then get to know him first.but if your ready then go for it.do yo thang
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So I'm a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is a wee bit older. He's 25.
We've been going out for about a month and he's a great guy to me - he buys everything (not just dinner, like he asks if there's anything I want in stores etc.), he opens doors, he always says the kindest things to me, and yes he's great in the bedroom.
But I've just been wondering lately if this is the best time for me to date someone his age. He's so perfect but it's kind of difficult when I get the weird looks from friends and classmates about dating an older guy. He hasn't met my friends yet and I don't even know if his friends know about me. The whole age thing is just kind of throwing me for a loop.
So, do you think I should keep pursuing this relationship with the chance of getting hurt or just let it go for now with such big differences?
P.S. Remember that I'm only a senior in high school, still dealing with stuff like homecoming and prom. He's already out in the working world...it's a tough choice... (link)
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yea this is kindof a tough one.it is true that the age difference isa weird to your friends, but after a while you have to start thinking about your feelings and forget about them.im not saying to just blow them off but if you like someone, then you like them.nobody else can stop you from feeling them.so i say go for it at the end of the day age aint nothing but a number.so do your thang and follow your heart
Hope i helped
Delilah
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hey guys i was just wonderin...im going on this really hot date soon, he is taking me to the movies and i want to be the best girlfriend i can be so when he puts his arm around me, where do i put my hands???
im not prude or anything, so any suggestions helps!!!
and NO im not going to give him head in the middle of a movie, thats HOish
help! thanks!!! (link)
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you can keep your hands where they are when he does it. or you can like put you hand on his stomach or his leg
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Ok so let me explain the situation first: I went out with this guy, Payton, and everything was great, until I was told he made a bet about me and our relationship (not like a bet to ask me out he really did like me). Then we fought a lot and he ended it saying things just weren't working out and he liked someone else more.
After we broke up he continued to flirt with me and tell me we should make out and stuff even though we weren't together anymore and were just "friends". Now today when we went to the movies with a big group he commented to my good friend on how hot i looked today. I always see him staring at me in class and stuff too. I kinda still have feelings for him too..What should i do? Sould i try it with him again or let it go? I am scared that he wants me back just because he has no one right now and things didn't sork out with him for with the other girl. THANKS! (link)
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if your still feeling him then go for it. you cant just let it go cause you going to regret it.dont let love pass you by.
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i know this sounds stupid but what is a bonfire? my friend is having a bonfire at her party and i dont know what it is. plz help (link)
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a bonfire is like a a campfire. usually bonfires are like on the beach and everybody gathers around a hangs out.but they all arent.is you friends house by the beach?
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I bet yall are thinking "Oh great ? Another guy question" I`m sorry, lol but I had to ask. Me and Zack went out for 9 months. ( Lol, we were only in 6th grade, but we went out for a long time cus we had so much fun going to movies and stuff ) But then he broke up with me. I was heartbroken and cried for days. I got over it and we became best of friends and I`ve even had a few boyfriends since then. But all along I`ve still liked Zack. I`ve helped him hook up with some of my best friends and every time I do I can't take it. I`ve told him i liked him before but we usually go into the ackward state were we just sorta ignore each other till I tell him I like another guy. What should I do? Were finally BFFs again and I don't wanna ruin it again, but I still like him. Sorry for being so long, thnks again and I will definitly rate high. xox (link)
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whats up with people saying"i dont want to ruin the friendship" truth be told it wont ruin the friendship.trust me after i broke up with one of boyfriends we were still good friends.and a couple of years later we kissed a few times.it didnt ruin the frinedship.i think you need to follow you heart.life is too short to have something on your shoulders this big. i mean this is LOVE were talknig about.make your move.go get your man
Delilah
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im a 16/f and i went on a tubing trip with my team this past weekend and i hung out with this really nice guy. we were together the whole time. we were constantly all over eachother and he held my hand and talked with me the whole time. well people who saw this misinterperted the situation and now everyone thinks i like him. well no ones paying any attention to what he does cause he has a gf...which i didnt know when we were together. he is a really sweet guy and he was so easy to talk to. the thing is that im starting to like him. i see him everyday at practice and he always grabs my waist and gives me small hugs. my best friend keeps telling me that there is no way that he doesnt have feelings for me since he held my hand the whole time and he kept asking me to get on his tube with him. is there anything i can do in this situation to get people off my back and is there any way that he likes me? (even if he has a g/f) (link)
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sorry to tell you this but i dont think theres anyway of getting people off your back. people make their opinions about people and stick with it for the reast of thier lives.yes i no its very sad.first they jump all in your business,then they make opinions about you that arent even true.
but for the most part i think he really likes you.the whole girlfriend situation is very sticky but your basiclly going ta have to tell him to choose.if you want him that bad then he needs to choose.if its not that important then theres no need to ruin the girls life that he's going with.
follow your heart
Delilah
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