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hey everyone, i'm kaleigh.i've been through alot, so feel free to ask me
anything, i'll probably be able to relate.
im not a shit talker and ill tell you straight out what i think, im no afraid of what people think of me, i'd acctually like to know, so inbox me and let me know.
feel free to inbox me or ask me a question.
ill try my best to help yah out.
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so this kid at my school recently died =[ i wasnt close to him, but of course its so sad. anyways, he hated this one kid, "joe" and they were major enemies and always beat eachother up. i didnt talk to "joe" either barely. recently, whenever i see "joe" at school, i recognize him so much, kind of like i dreamed of him the past few nights or something. idk if it makes sense, but it just feels like i was just with him, or just saw him recently. could this possibly be that i keep dreaming of him and just cant remember? and also in my dream, i was dating someone and we were having kids, and i kinda think that someone was maybe "joe"? but im not sure. haha any advice is appreciated thanks. 16/f
uhm, maybe from all the people saying how they were enimies or something, that has acctually happend to me before too. but, i think its ordinary.
okay so me and this guy cj well we have been getting to know each other...like friends. But a while back i thought that he liked me because well we never talked and he would just like look at me a lot and he started a paper wad fight with me. But then this past thursday, we was doing this project and he said he had a girlfriend. and there was like 4 people in the group including him, and they all raised their hands but me. and when he raised his hand he kinda looked at me. I cant explain it, it was just like he was trying to tell me something. I didnt know what it was but when he looked at me it was eye contact and i just got this feeling. But anyways, ever since then we have been getting to know each other, like i always talk to him when we are in that class. And like last night i went to an away game with a friend, a basketball game. And he is on the team. and i sat like right behind him, my knee was touching his chair. And he would look at me and smile, and i would smile back (we was like saying hi.) But i didnt talk to him cause i didnt want to take his mind off of the game. and he didnt talk to me. And after we won, me and my friend was standing in the corner trying to get service on our phones. and the team left, but as they were leaving he kinda looked at me then looked down like he was disappointed or something. But we are still like friends. People say that i wouldnt have a chance because he is a senior and im just a freshman, and my friend says that he is ugly and he dont like his personality but everytime i say something about him she says well he told me that he dont like that class....so my question is what do you think about this?? what does everything mean..?
and when he smiled he half smiled, and he says he dont even remember of know the girl so what do you think about all of this. He is a great NICE guy and i dont think she was tryign to warn me...
alright well, i think ure right. i think he is trying to tell you something. he seems like a sweet guy to get to know, when you guys were at the game and he looked over and then looked down i think he was disappointed that you wernt there to talk or congratulate him on his game. Which, wouldnt have been a bad idea. I think you should talk to him, like it would have been a good time to talk to him at the game, but not while he was playing. but, maybe he smiles at you and doesnt talk to you or say anything because he doesnt think you like him. which, i dont remember if you said you did or not but if you do i think you should try to hangout with him and maybe flirt with him so he knows you like him too, because if theres a guy out there the smiles at you everytime he sees you without coming over and trying to get something out of you seems great, usually if they do come over and try to "get some" their just in the relationship or wanting a relationship to "get some" so, i thinky uo should tell him how you feel. maybe ask him how he feels about you.
i really hope i helped, if theres anything else just inbox me. :]
I am in 8th grade, girl. I had a boyfriend last year, in 7th grade, but only for two months. It was my first and only boyfriend. We never hooked up. Only kissed. I want a boyfriend now, but all the guys only like experienced girls. And everyone knows i only had one bf, and they dont want me. What should i do? Any flirting tips to make someone, ANYONE, like me?
[I know i seem desperate, but i am. I know i dont need a guy, but they make me really happy, when i have a bf]
Sorry its long...Thank!
well, first off. im going to tell you that a guy that doesnt want an experienced girl is only looking to "get some" you will find a guy that likes you for you, go at ure own pace and respects you. but, i looked up some sites anyways.
http://www.romanceclass.com/miscr/LoveSCat/192
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/flirting.htm
i've been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. we're really in love but ever month almost he does something so selfish and stupid i don't know what to do!!! I'm tired of getting mad at him, because he doesn't mean to do stupid stuff and it just tears us apart when we fight, so i started to let alot of stuff go. but now he's blowing me off all the time and lying. when i do get mad at him he acts so cocky he doesnt even try to apologize he just says alright fine and avoids me the whole day - doesnt call or anything. then he'll text me saying "hey whats up lets hang out" im like no!!! his mom always used to tell him to ignore a girl and she'll forget she's mad because she'll be to busy trying to win his attention - but i've told him more than once games don't work with me.
he used to be the sweetest boyfriend ever, he was always there for me and always honest. he would call me just because he said he wanted to hear my voice. but now he's acting like he owns me. i know he loves me, he doesn't wantto break up and when i mention it he goes crazy. I don't want to break up but he never really listens, what should i do? how can i convince my boyfriend to stop acting like this! i love him i just want to work it out
well, first off im going to say. no relationship is perfect everyone comes into trouble once in awhile. But, he seems like hes taking advantage of you. like, hes doing the stuff hes doing because he knows he can do it without you doing anything about it. kinda like hes walking all over you. and i may be wrong, but talk to him because you both have to put in effort towards therelationship it can't just be effort from obe side. you can't have a one sided relationship, if you dont talk to him he's just going to keep doing whatever hes doing, but then again maybe somethings going on that he doesnt want to talk about right now but he will come around.
i hope i helped.
i'm a teen writer (female) and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas for my book that i'm writing.
I'm completely stumped. if anyone had anything that they would want to see happen in a book or any ideas for me, they will be greatly appreciated!
Thanks!
like, a girl in real life. something that could really happen and things that she does. idk, hope i helped.
my sister is 10/f and she has pretty good abs but it just kinda looks weird cause its not complete it just looks un even so what can she do besides eat helthy to get complete abs thanks to anyone who answers this PPPEEEAAACCCCEEE OOOOUUUUTTTTTTT
well, most likely their un even because she doesnt run or bike, if you just do crunches alot of them then you'll get muscle under a layer of fat. and the only way to burn that fat off is to run bike or swim, not like swim for fun like doing laps or whatever they call it. :p
hope i helped.
I have a fever of 101 and I wanna get rid of it.. it's been close to three days with it...
Ive been taking ibuprofin but i've like stopped now since my fever keeps coming back. :(
well, it could be something more serious than just a cold or something. so, i suggest you go to the doctors.
my boyfriend has recently been avoiding me, he walks away when he sees me, and when i walk by him or he walks by me he never smiles anymore, it seems like hes almost glaring at me...what could this mean? is he nervous?does he hate me?
thanks:)
uhm, talk to him. relationships are about communication. so, if you talk to him then your going to answer your own questions.
hope i helped.
Hey everyone...one of my closest friends has been missing school lately and i asked him about it. He told me he was having panic attacks, etc. and he had to see a shrink. He also told me that his mom thinks he is going to kill himself because his brother caught him trying to do it, he said he went on a balcony at his house and was going to jump but his bro saw him and said whats going on. He told me the suicide thing happened a couple monts ago and I am just reallly worried. I am becoming depressed thinking about what would happen if he did kill himself. he is such a nice guy and is happy all the time- i just dont get it. Why do you think he told me he tryed to kill himself? What should I do? Im really upset-please any advice would help!
people that tell their close friends or family are trying to seek help without coming out and saying it, i suggest you tell an adult. at least because if he does acctually do it and no one is there to stop him ure going to feel horrible and like you could of did something but you didnt.
hope i helped. :]
Hi there. So, I'm in a bit of a dilemma these days. I'm at a fork in the road where I have to make a decision that might change the rest of my life. Let me just get to it.
A few months ago I got to hang out with a friend of mine... we begun to really hang out a lot, go on trips together, and just have a great time in each other's company. I began to realize that she is an incredible person who I could actually see myself possibly settling with. Nothing physical happened, though, b/c she is getting out of a long-term relationship and wasn't ready emotionally to move on yet. We just enjoyed hanging out with each other (practically everyday for 2 months) but, didn't talk about moving forward b/c of reason mentioned above. She's not from the U.S. and has recently traveled back to her home country to take care of a few things but, plans on being back here in a few months...
On the job front, I've just been potentially been offered a position that would start in a few weeks. The thing is, the job goes until October and, once I'm there, there's no leaving, visitors, packages sent, or any other contact other than e-mail and an occasional phone call. Except for the 40 or so other folks I'd be working with, it's total isolation. This is what I believe to be a once in a lifetime opportunity and, I could use the money. Like I said, I'd have to stay there until October at the minimum.
So, do I forget about the job, go after this incredible woman and hope something comes of it or do I take the once in a lifetime job and hope that she's still available/interested when I get back?
Ii just read that I should include my age, as it might make a difference... I'm in my early 30's.
okay, well. i'm not going to tell you what to do because this is up to you. i'm just going to point out a few things that you should think about.
first, the girl.
you said she just came out of a long term relationship and wasnt stable, and you also said youve hungout alot. Not to burst your bubble or anything but she might just be using you as a rebound, but like i said im just pointing things out. Also, she might just be looking for a good friend she can talk to and spend time with because she needs to keep her mind off things. and out of it you may or may not get a relationship out of it. so i suggest you talk to her.
second, the job.
you said it was total isolation until october, at least. e-mail and once in awhile a phone call. Thats almost 10 months of not talking to your family, not seeing them. or your friends. like, if i were you. i don't think i would be able to handle that. if it pays good, then maybe you could save up and then go to wherever this girl lives and make a surprise visit or something.
k, well i hope i hleped a little at least. but, i'm only 13 and i don't know much about big decisions like this yet. but, i tried.
me and my long term boyfriend just broke up. and i'm taking it really hard. even to the point where i take it out on my mom. i really want to move on but i don't know how to. can some one please give me some help?! cause if i don't move on, i know i'll end up self-destructing myself.
go out with your friends and have fun. do what you like to do. if you play a sport play it, if you draw then draw. whatever you like to do as a hobbie then i'm sure that will take ure mind off it. and for awhile it's gonna hurt, which is perfectly norm, if it didnt people would think you didnt care about what happened. but, being with ure friends, should be able to take your mind off it. and try to JUST have fun, dont waste the night talking about the guy.
hope i helped. :]
I have been looking forward to superlatives in our yearbook this year, but also dreading it. I am very smart, pretty and some other stuff, but there is always someone who is going to be picked for being smarter and prettier. It really burns me up, because no matter how much I study and work on my make-up and hair, there is always someone better. I just want to be the best, in one thing at least. I am reasonably popular, so that is not the problem. How can I just be the best in something?
be yourself, you don't need a yearbook to tell you who you are.
but, find out from other people what ure competitors are doing and do bigger&better things than them. thats all i can think of. then, the rests up to ure class.
Where do they sell those fcuk shirts? I know they have ones that say hot as fcuk i saw one that i really liked that said fcuk in jersey and i really want it. By the way, I live in jersey if that matters but i can order online too, though stores would be easier. Thanks
did you try searching on google? ebay?
gender: F
age: 13
So i really like this guy.
lets call him C
But we are best friends
I want to show him how fun i really am
i want to become more than jsut friends
everyone thinks that we make such a cute couple
why wont he just try going out with me
it seems like he really likes me
but he says he doesn't
anyway here is the story
♥ Last friday my school had a dance. So I didn't hang out with C, but my other friends. So M, one of C's friends randomly comes up to me and asks me what i think of C. I told him that i use to like C but i didn't anymore because this was to
awkward. then M walked away and told C. What do i do... why did M ask me that?
so i asked C and he said that he didn't feel the same way,
SOS HELP ME
i'm also 13 and goign through a smiliar problem, but i suggest just talk to him. thats what i did and well at first it's a little akward but it gets easier after you start talking about it. and if he says he likes you back beause right now hes probably denying it. oh, and dont forget to tell him you like him.
hope i helped.
so when i first got my go phone, i got 140 minutes on it, and then i talked for 17 minutes on it with my sister. and then i spent about 10 minutes on my phone buying ringtones from the little shop, and i was just wondering, does it cost me to be on the shop? and im not going to get anymore minutes until christmas probobly, or the next time my mom gets paid. and since i dont know how much money it cost to be on the web, i cant figure out how many minutes i have. does anyone know that too? thanks alot!!
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uhm i do know that it costs to be at the store, but i'mnot sure how to check you're minutes.
alright...im 17 and my boyfreind is 20 and is like 2 hours away at college. I really have been thinking hard of what to get him for chirstmas and i really have no idea. he doesnt wear cologne, we dont have many pictures of both of us together, so i cant make a scrap book and he already has tons of picture frames of the pictures we do have. We've been dating since about may. I've made him cd's pretty much everytime he comes home from college. I realyl dont like buying guys clothes...so im kinda stuck. i dont have a huge budget, but im not gonna be cheap...any ideas?
if you guys are really serious aboyt the relationship get promise rings
what I'd poping cherry
popping a cherry is when someone gets fingered or fucked for the first time they usually bleed.
I have bought a new coat, i dont no wether to wear it to school or not on monday or wait until after xmas because my friends will go out and get it one very simalar which is very annoying as its really nice and different! I shouldnt have to not wear it on monday just because my friends will copy it as they usually do but I dont know what other way there is? Sounds very lame but its also exstremly annoying when your friends copy you, also when people compliment them on how lovely they look when you got if first grr?
i think you should say something to her about not doing it, or just don't tell her where you got it. and if she keeps copying you then just try shopping at a diffrent store, but first thing you should do is tell her to stop copying you and that its annoying.
I'm very depressed and don't know what to do about it. I don't want my depression to go to far and me do something I shouldn't do. I know I'm depressed because I should be happy. I have a boyfriend, friends, even best friends, a decent family, and no money problems or anything. I mean nothing is really wrong with my life. The thing is my boyfriend cheated on me after four month of being together and I don't think I've gotten over it. We've been together for a year and something now. He's done little things like text messaging girls that he's had dreams about having sex with them, and stuff like that... The thing is I love him. I want get over this already, but I don't think I can. He's what makes me happiest, and I think the problem is that I need to learn how to be how happy I am now with him without him. I'm guess I'm scared that that isn't possible. My best friend Kristina isn't there for me anymore as far as my boyfriend. I can't talk to her about it and I can't talk to my boyfriend about how I feel. I would just make him sad or frusturate him and I definatly don't want to do that. I kind of tried talking to my family and what they said is that I shouldn't have to deal with that. I don't want to break up with him, but I think I need some time off. I don't want to tell him that. Whenever I do something without my boyfriend he ends up having more fun than me and it makes me feel like I should've gone with him, and I start to feel bad. My family isn't all that great my dad's always angry and my little brother is weird... My big brother isn't always here because he goes to college in chicago and my mom is probably just as hurt as I am. I used to have two dogs, but they ran away. My best friends don't go to my high school and I don't see them much. I need some help on how to be happy again. I have a lot, but at the same time what I have is giving me something to be sad about I guess. Any ideas on how I can be happy again?
well, the first step of success is admitting you have a problem, which you already did.
but thats besides teh point, i think you should talk to ure boyfriend, you said you loved him am i right? so, if the feelings mutual he wouldnt be doing what he does. if you guys are in love then he would listen to you and stop what hes doing. tell him how all of this is affecting you and that you want him to stop. think about it, is he really worth all of what ure going through? i was in a relationship not too long ago like ures, but it was only going on until i talked to him about it. i though i loved him. i really thought i did, but then other things happened and i relized i was too young to be in love.
hope i helped, and g'luck
how come during the day like when im at home doing homework its so easy for me to procastinate and do other things but late at night is when i can easily concentrate even when i work on the computer without my mind wandering? i know it sounds crazy.. but its true. my mom hates it cause then i get less sleep.. so then for a couple weeks i tried to sleep early and get up early to see if it would help but i cant work in the morning either. weird huh? how can i fix this problem? procastination seems to be ruining my grades.. cause im a good student but then i end up handing things late.. this has been happening since 6th grade and im in 8th right now. im in need of HELP because i know this is the year i cant screw up sinc next year is high school and i need to be in all APs next year and have good reps from my teachers. cause then when i also did my work in the mornings that would set me off and then i would be late and miss the buss a lot.. my mom eventually got fed up with it and on 2 days within those 3 years she made me stay at home cause she didnt wanna drive me to school. that happened yesterday. im so retarded. i mean i had the whole weekend but im always like "i'll just do it later" and i always say it wont happen again but i keep falling into the same traps. like today i could have spent it like catching up with my homework and stuff.. but i ended up talking to my friends, listening to music, and writing a list of songs i'll put on my ipod when i get one this xmas (if i get straight A's!) if i even get one! and its easier to say my problems here than in real life cause i guess im kinda stubborn then to ask people i can see personally for help cause i dont wanna seem like.. i dont know.. well.. i think all you advicenators know what i mean. why its so easier to ask for advice to an unknown person. thanks if you can help me. it seriously means a lot. :)
i get what ure saying about when you can and cant concentrate cause thats how i was but it was just a quick phase i quickly got over.
it seems like ure just putting this off, if you want to be in AP classes, get straight A's and everything else you want it wont happen unless you buckle down and study or do you're homework or whatever ure teacher assigns, i knwo this sounds harsh but thats what you have to do, write down and plan out when you can do you're homework and leave some time to talk to ure friends, listen to music etc. and if you dont do ure hw or study ure not going to get straight a's which means you wont get ure ipod, you need to figure out ure priorties and get the straight.
i hope i helped, and i hope it wasnt too harsh.
g'luck.