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how do you move on?
me and my long term boyfriend just broke up. and i'm taking it really hard. even to the point where i take it out on my mom. i really want to move on but i don't know how to. can some one please give me some help?! cause if i don't move on, i know i'll end up self-destructing myself.
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You have to keep yourself busy. Just find something to do, take life an hour at a time. It's as simple as, "Ok, what am I going to do in the next hour?" Then once you've done that, move on to the next hour. It's hard going through a breakup, but you'll get through it. Just keep yourself busy, and try to take your mind off of him for a while. Try to do something nice for three other people. The more you help others, the less it's about you and the more it's about them. Do something nice for 3 people for nothing in return. What's the worst that could happen? Good luck hun. Take care of yourself. I'm here if you need anyone to talk to. ~Love Angel
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I can completely relate to this, but hunny there is only one way to look at it really.
Just remember the good times i know its hard to even remember that. Also remember and think that you have friends + family that really love you and want you to be happy. There's going to be another guy in your life that will treat you like his angel. The experience isn't always fun but once you really fall in love and when you find a guy that loves you so much, you'll be extatic.
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go out with your friends and have fun. do what you like to do. if you play a sport play it, if you draw then draw. whatever you like to do as a hobbie then i'm sure that will take ure mind off it. and for awhile it's gonna hurt, which is perfectly norm, if it didnt people would think you didnt care about what happened. but, being with ure friends, should be able to take your mind off it. and try to JUST have fun, dont waste the night talking about the guy.
hope i helped. :]
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sorry there's no easy way to do it , the best you can do , is to get distracted in anyway you can, focus on something else, maybe practicing sports or something, start hanging out more with friends , cause by staying at home you'll only be thinking about that, trust me, start meeting new guys and when this happen your gonna start enjoying meeting new guys and accepting that this is better that being attached to someone, or try to think about the things that made you guys broke up , so you'll have in mind all the time that braking up was for the best...at least that's what I do and it works. although it is really difficult and it takes some time, but the sure thing is that when you start being interested in someone else..you'll start moving on, saddly that's the true , but try to distract in any other way so you can stop thinking about this stuff,,and if you do think in them,..think about how it was a very good desicion to brake up for both of you =) good luck!
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