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im jus a girl tryin to live life, id love to help, and give advice about any subject, ummm and i think thats about it, if ya wanna know more about me ask me!!

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my friends always ask me personal questions like "who do you like" .. but i dont know if i should tell them bcuz they might tell other people ... how do you know when you can trust your friends?

if their your true friends, they wont tell anyone, but make sure you imply it, because sometimes it some seem to come out that , "oh i didnt know i wasnt sapsto tell" so tell them, but tell them to keep their trap shut

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I am a christian and i am having trouble with my youth group my parents wont change churxhes and i dont drive wat should i do

id ask around and talk to some of your friends, and just because ur parents dont want to change churches, you can go to 2, and make them happy and u happy, like attend one church on sunday w/ ur parents and another church on wednesday nights w/ ur friends, or somin like that ... you know?

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hie um..yea i lyke muh bf alot but i lyke muh ex-bf ALOT more...i guess yoo can say i still...love him.. ne-ways...muh bf is so sweet...and he calls me and talks to me more then muh old bf...and he says and shoes he reallie lyked me...then muh old bf said it butwas a lil to quiet to shoe it or to call me...in over 2 months he never once called...but we talked quite a bit... whut should i do? break up wif muh bf? even thoe im not going to get another chance wif muh old bf?please help meh out... thanx fer ne-one who helps and/or attempts helping me..

its not lYke.....its like...so you know and id love to anwser....but i have no clue as to what youreven saying.....whats muh....lyke....wif....meh....ne-one....lyked.....butwas...."to shoe it".....and who is shoes.....or wat does it mean....please....speak in english next time

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I really need some advice :(.... I'm trying so hard to get over my X boyfriend that i had for 9 months, and he was my first love but every1 says i need to move on. So i have a new boyfriend but i don't know if i can give my heart to my new boyfriend because im still stuck on my X... but it doesnt work out with him so its so hard!! ... please help :`(

timing is everything hun! you gotta realize that guys arnt always worth it. some are yes, and ur first love is definitly hard. but realize that there are other guys out there, and opening your heart to a new guy may take some time, but your heart will heal, it always does, but realize that there will always be a specail place in ur heart for this guy, but this new guy coming into your heart, can also have a little tiny piece of it.

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What do i do if im on a perscription for acne but my bff dosent want to be around me because i have zits?

ur bestfriend dosnt want to be around you cuz u have zits....is she really ur friend....?!?!?! i think u can anwser that one, a true friend accepts you for who you are

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Hey. Okay, to make a long story short. In grade 9, I had this best friend, who was also my boyfriend. Well, this girl (new to the area then) turned on her charm and there you go. He followed her around like a little puppy. Now, I'm in grade 11, engaged to a wonderful man, and we love each other very much. I trust him, which is a first for me, because i don't really trust guys. But this girl who stole my last boyfriend away, is in all my boyfriends classes except one. And he sits beside her in one of them, and they've been partnered up ... I get so jealous. Everytime i hear her name I get scared she'll take him away from me all over again. I get really sad, and defensive. I love him a lot. He is my angel, my love, and if I lose him, I would be lost. I don't know how to handle my jealousy. PLease help

well , your engaged, so that has to mean that he loves you just as much...cuz when you get married, its dedicating ur life to that person, and getting engaged in 11th grade is a huge step, specially for ur age, so he has gotta love you. and i guess you gotta trust him, cuz if he loves you he wont hurt you. and as far as the jelousey factor goes, try focusing ur energy on something else, dont think about it, dont give it the time of day, i know its hard, but if you dont worry about it, then jelousey wont be there.

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How do u get rid of stage fright? please help! I rate high! I have a play comming up soon and Im fine doing it with my class but im scared to do the play in front of the whole school and then in front of ever1's parents! PLEASE HELP

when you act, your not yourself, you enter a whole different realm...if you know what i mean, and when your on stage, you know your not allowed to break the 4th wall, that seperates you from the audiance, so when your on stage, act as if you were that character, your in that world, because if your living in an actual world there arnt people there watching your every move, so put your self in character, put the 4th wall up, and forget the audiance is there

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Well, I like this kid named Eric, hes so sweet nice n incredible and EVERYTHING, but my friend erika always seems to get jealous when me n him talk and stuff if its like not about her.. erika asked me to ask him today who he liked. and he said me and it was like the best thing ever and hes like do you wanna date me? and i said yeah but i dont wanna hurt erika, because i know if i date eric erika will like be mad at me or treat me differently.. but i really really really like eric!! what should i do?? would u date eric and try n find erika a boyfriend? or would u jus stay friends with eric? i rate 5z!

well if i were u , id talk to erika first, tell her how you feel, and if she dosnt agree stay friends w/ him, but if she is like yea totally, than go for it girl!!!!

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This may be so, but im not listening to someone who doesn't take the time to type "you're" and so uses "ur" instead. It's retarded.

that sounds like a personal problem, as long as other people can understand what im saying , it dosznt matter, so screw you daivd...not really...but w/e lol, i have a really bad head ache

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what i mean is why is anyone taking advice from someone who cant spell. sorry.

..umm...maby cuz i give good advice david.....hmm..wow u catch on quick

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for some reason i have sex like burning and now ive started to itch so bad ive stopped having sex all together. am i just not buying the right whores?

well, if ur buyin the preps at our school, then yes ur buyin the wrong whores, because that have so many STDS that not even a donkey would want to touch them...but you could always go to the state border of california and mexico....

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is anyone taking advice from someone who does'nt take the time to actually spell words?

well ... thats what it seems like huh!?!

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I cut myself. I've been cutting for about half a year. I've never had a problem hiding it or anything. Just recently I've been trying to stop. I know its bad. My problem is that I have P.E. starting 2nd semester (in January) and I don't know how to hide the scars (I'm going to have it 2nd period if it helps). My parents don't know, and I don't want them to know either. We have to wear uniforms so I don't know how I'm gonna pull this off. Also, bracelets and jewelry aren't allowed. Any ideas? Thank you.

wel a couple things...first off the best way to quit something is to tell on your self, i know it sounds stupid, but go talk to a school counsler, you can tell them you dont want ur parents to know, you have a right to keep that confidential..i actually think there is a state law that says it, but anyway, and 2nd off, if you dont want ppl to see ur old scars, try make up, i know it sounds weird, but go by a lighter color base, or powder,....it might work.... or you could even try the liquid band aids but you NEED TO TELL SOMEONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you cant do this alone!

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my boy friend is always calling my bf a bitch..shes like awsome though and i tell him not to call her that infront of me..but he still does..what do i do?

he dosnt get along w/ ur girls he aint worth your time!!!!!

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ok i just got in 7th grade and everything seemed to change between me and my best friend we are gettin in all these fights and she is ALWAYS choosing her boyfriend over me and i tend to get mad at that cause she seems to choose me over me EVERYDAY like one day she spent the night with me and she goes ill be right back and she went upstairs and snuck on the computer to talk to him!! i know in jr. high things change!! how could i keep things from changing as much between me and my best friend!!

ok...this is wat you need to tell her, guys will come and go in and out of your life, and trust me there will be more than enough of them, but friends...true best friends will be there for you forever, through thick and thin, and no matter what you will always be there for her, but she needs to know that no guy what so ever should ever come in between friends!

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what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering

doing anything..but hugging and flirting...with someone other than ur boyfriend/girlfriend...or going out with more than 1 person at a time

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ok..there is this guy at my school and ive liked him a pretty good while..everytime i see him i my heart starts beating fast and i like melt..well there was this church thing that i went with,with my friend and he was there!! we went to an arcade and we was flirting with me and after that we went to arbys and he was flirting some more..is that a sign he is starting to like me..and if he is i dont know what to do cause he just broke up with one of my good friends and i feel bad if he asks me out and she still likes him..should i like him or should i just say no if he asks me out?

well first off make sure ur friend is ok with it, but dont just dive in because it can be a big pain in the butt and a real heart breaker if a guy acts like he likes you but dosnt....*a guy will say and do anything to get anything*, so be careful!

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13/f

I haven't had my period for about two months or so..and I've been showing all the signs for having my period ( cramps, pmsing, extra discharge..the usual ) so I started wearing my pads..but it hasn't come for a while..like the signs have stopped for a week? Is this normal?

yes its normal, sometimes this can happen because of a change in your body (obvisly), but sometimesz if you start takin a new medicine or eating differently. but it is normal, if this persists though for a long time then i think you should talk to your mom or dad, which ever you feel most comfertable, but it is normal.

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Ok, i like this guy, he's not in any of my classes but i see him in the halls all the time. I really want to get to know him but i am VERY shy, what should i do to???

accidentaly bump into him, and make his stuff and ur stuff go everywhere in the hall, and make it love at first site lol...like in the old romance movies lol

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ok so here it is ....i have had a really big crush on a friend of mine for a month now and everyone is telling me that he likes me too. the problem is that he is mormon. and i am not. i really want to be with him but it is against his parents rules to date a non mormon, so i was wondering what yall think i should do? i was also wondering if anyone knew anything about mormonism that they could give me? i wanted to know if i should convert and become mormon so we could date and it be ok, or if i should date him and keep it from everyone, or just forget about it all together? but i dont know what to do and i really like him.PLEASE HELP ME FIGURE OUT WHAT TO DO!

DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT BECOME MORMON!! there is a lot hidden in the religion that people dont find out untill way way to deep and far into it, like things such as they believe that you will get your own planet become ruler of it and get 70 virgins, its somin weird like that....umm....ok jus a lil weirdand then, they also believe jesus was just another prophet and they say they believe in the bible with another book added on, if they believed in the bible they would believe that jesus is the son of god, not just nother prophet, its really weird and complicated, and then on top of that, you should never i repeat NEVER EVER EVER EVER change your self for a guy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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