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Hey!...My names Amy and i am 12 i live in West Virginia and im in the 7th grade ummm..and i'm a cheerleader for my school and I love giving people advice and helping people hope you have some good questions for me so go on ask...
E-mail: amy_beth914@yahoo.com
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Location: West Virginia
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Well you see i really really like this one guy. But this guy is both of my best friends x b/f. and i've liked this guy for like hmmmmm... since like 5th and i'm already in in 7th grde. and i hated it when they both went out with him.and both times they knew i liked him. Well now Janine (second girlfriend/bestfriend) broke up with him and now my other friend eva is probaly gonna date him and i swear i will commit suicide if this happens!!! i cant stand it. well lets put it this way i dont have the biggest boobs and well yea that doesn't exactly help. sooooooo please help me or tell me what to do!! (link)
same here...
ummm well just flirt with him a lot and ask him out or sumtin and tell ur friend how much u like him and like how bad it would hurt your feelings if shes really your best friend she'll listen
and um for the boobs part buy a padded bra


It is possible to be in love at the age of 13???
Rainbowcherrie (link)
Yeah u can love at any age =]


when should it be okay to have sex? (link)
DUH!! Definately after you're married.
Please not before if you are a christian dont have sex before marriage.


here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
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You should get a French Manicure.
and some diamond jewelry. that would be pretty


Theres this girl. We were dating for a year( i know thats preety sad) Now i want to break up with her. How do i brake up with someone without hurting their feelings? (link)
Well...really thats kinda sad and its really hard to do sometimes but well anyways u just gotta tell her how u feel and like say that u just want to b friends and stuff well it would b better if ya have one of your friends tell her because its really kinda sad for the girl...believe me i know.
wel i hope i could help ya!.. =]


can someone tell me a sight to get surveys to fill in about my self besides hellzangels.com? or w/e plz help! i rate good! (link)
www.blunttruthgame.com


My nana gave me a real gold and pearl necklace for my 17th birthday. I was wondering is it safe to wear it in the shower or will ir ruin the pearls?? (link)
No hun it won't ruin!..... =]


how long does it take to get your braces off? thanx (link)
well really it just takes a few minutes (bout 10-15) sometimes more than that. =]


ok well one of my best freinds was going out with my cousin for about 6months! the whole time i knew she was, but she didnt know that i knew. i knew because my cousin told me, and so did my other best freind. She told other people just not me, why? Does she not trust me? Is it because hes my cousin, cuz i really wouldnt have cared? Now my cousin is going out with my other really good friend, and i know that my best friend and him broke up like 2weeeks ago, and shes so sad , because she still loves hiM! she is also so jelous and is trying to break them up! -- or at least that is what ive heard. i know that i could help her threw this time in her life, but i dont know if i should tell her that i knew that that they were going out because then she mgiht get mad at me n the other ppl that told me. BUT i know for sure i could help her out! what should i do should i tell her i knew all along, or should i just let her be sad and not help her out? im sorry its so long! i rate really good tho! (link)
if you know you can help you should she shouldnt get mad because she shouldve told you in the first place but you should help her
=] hope i helped!


this boy and i meet 1 year and 2 months ago at a cabin and i live in minnesota and he lives in a driffrent state and we talk all of the time on the phone and internet.he asked me out and i said yes and i dont know if its the right thing because we havent seen each other for awhile what do u think is it the right thing to do since i like him and he obviously likes me??? (link)
I personally wouldnt have unless i knew him really good and we saw each other all the time.
I really dont know what to tell you i am sorry
=]


There's this guy in my last period class of the day tha i use to like. He's very good looking but i don't like him like him because i dont wanna lyk sum1 for there looks cuz thats wrong. I wanna start to get to him but im to afraid to talk to him. I had an incounter with him but nothing speical he juss let me go first while walking down a asile and i was very cool about it which suprised me. Im a very shy person when it comes to good looking guys cuz im afraid i'll come off as ugly or annoying so i usually feel lyk im being annoying. I dont think i can approach him but there's prolly no other way to get to know him...If you have an idea of how i should then what should i do? (link)
really you should just be yourself around him and try to talk to him. i hope i could help! =]


can a 18 year old get in trouble for dating a 13 year old? (link)
I dont know but that is really wrong unless they both love each other and their parents allow it


I watch alot of movies..well..alot of love movies. The movies where ppl fall in love. And the more i watch those movies the more i want that in reality. I want to be in love..does neone else feel that way?
Or am i just stupid for even thinking that :/
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your definately not stupid everyone feels like that at least once in life just keep on thinking w/e you want your not stupid


I always look too young. I'm a junior and everyone around me looks like they're a junior- but I could be confused with a freshman! I have brown never died hair thats like 6 inches longer than my shoulder with bangs that sweep to the side kinda across my eye. Any suggestions on hair? also, I have brown eyes so if u know ne ways to do my make up that'd be great too! I need to look older! Oh and- how can i dress to look older? Thanks so much! I RATE! (link)
well maybe get highlights in your hair and get it cut a few inches. I have brown eyes too. just put black eyeliner under your eyes (NOT under your botton lash)And maybe a little bit on the top.
and for your clothes ummm..wear tight clothes


Ok i wrote awhile ago about a guy you i lost my virginity to and he is starting to talk to me now, he even brought up what happened between us... it made me feel alot better when he brought it up does he mean that he is happy about it?? does he like me?? thanks.. i rate (link)
He is probably definately happy about it! if hes talkin to you about it.
I'm not sure if he likes you but if he's always smiling around you and trying to make you laugh he most likely likes you
=]


I've just started breeding my male and female zebra finches -she layed 4 eggs a few days ago, one hatched but it's now been 3 days why haven't the other 3 eggs hatched? are they okay? (link)
i'm really not sure because i've never had zebra finches but i am sure that the other eggs are fine and that the first one was just early =]


im getting my braces off in a few days and ive had them take 1 or 2 brackets off b4 and they like pulled them off but maybe thats bcuz it was just one. i saw on tv they whole thing off at once. if uve gotten ur braces off, how do they do it? thanx (link)
ok it dont hurt that much unless you have really really sensitive teeth but they just take a little tool and clip your bracket and it makes a loud sound and it comes right off! =]
your teeth will look sooooo pretty!
good luck! =]


hey well im kinda having a problem..well one of my BEST FRIENDS is having a huge problem..shes starting to take pills to make her depression go away and shes starting on mj, booze, etc..and she would NEVER do this stuff..she told me that her dad abuses her and her dad doesnt let her eat until she finishs cleaning the house..and she has 7 brothers and sisters in the house so ITS NEVER CLEAN!!! everyday she comes crying to me..and shes the strongest person i have ever met in my life becuz her past was really bad..she was raped and mollested by her own mother..and her mom is living in arizona and she lives with her dad and his gf here in california. and he says that hes gonna send her back to arizona with her mom..and she says that shes gonna commit suicide becuz she has no point in living..and it sucks. PLEASE..PLEASE help me i really dont kno whut to do and please do not say "talk to her about it" or "tell an adult" becuz it wont work!!!! (ive tried sooo many times..) ugghh if u have any ides plese help me and ill be sure to rate ya.

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OMG!...thats so awful =[ Talk to her dad about it or try to get her to talk to her dad try to convince her not to take drugs and stuff cuz that will ruin her life completely. but you should definately talk to your mom/dad about it and tell them that you need to get her help and stuff im sure they will get some great help if not try it for yourself just dont let her commit suicide
go to the police or anything just get help!
i hope that i could help! =]


i have WinMx and its not working! im soooo frustrated! it worked ever since i had it but then one day it suddenly stops working. like i'll be connected and everything but every time i search for a song/artist NOTHING COMES UP! even if its like the most popular song ever. like you know on the top where it counts the time you've been connected to winmx? well now it only says P=5 S=2 spm=7349. GOSH what is wrong? im definitly connected to it, and plus i have cable. someone please help, im so annoyed! i'll rate you 5 for anything! (link)
Well i have WinMX right now and it hasnt done anything like that but i used to have this other program and i just uninstalled i then later i reinstalled it and it worked fine.
I hope I helped! =]
x-*.:Butterfly:.*-x


What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..

how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby? (link)
well definately after you graduate from college and stuff and after you are married.
so prolly around 25 or 26. (thats just my opinion)
Thanks i hope that I helped! =]




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