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my best friend!
ok well one of my best freinds was going out with my cousin for about 6months! the whole time i knew she was, but she didnt know that i knew. i knew because my cousin told me, and so did my other best freind. She told other people just not me, why? Does she not trust me? Is it because hes my cousin, cuz i really wouldnt have cared? Now my cousin is going out with my other really good friend, and i know that my best friend and him broke up like 2weeeks ago, and shes so sad , because she still loves hiM! she is also so jelous and is trying to break them up! -- or at least that is what ive heard. i know that i could help her threw this time in her life, but i dont know if i should tell her that i knew that that they were going out because then she mgiht get mad at me n the other ppl that told me. BUT i know for sure i could help her out! what should i do should i tell her i knew all along, or should i just let her be sad and not help her out? im sorry its so long! i rate really good tho!
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You should absolutley help her out and tell her that you knew. If you're concerned for the other people who let you in on the dirt about your best friend and cuz dont tell her who told you. I'm sure it'd be helpful to her also because she wouldnt have to worry about this anymore and she could talk to her best friend about her life again. Hope this helped!
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well i think that you should go to her and confort her and tell her that you knew that they were dating from some ppl and ask her why she didnt tell you? and tell just be there for her as much as you can bc im sure she really needs an awesome friend like yourself to be with her right now and to talk to. i hope i helped! -kayla
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if you know you can help you should she shouldnt get mad because she shouldve told you in the first place but you should help her
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Like you said, she probably didn't want to tell you because it was your cousin. Now, you say you wouldn't have cared, but she didn't know that, right? Some people do get angry over those kind of things.
And if it would make her feel better, i think you should tell her you knew. Just talk it over with her if she gets angry at you for just telling her now.. ask her all the questions you asked us. [why she didn't tell you, doesnt she trust you..etc] Once she knows that you knew about their relationship, you can help her get through the break up.
Good luck, sweetie! :) .xo.
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