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Q: what is an orgasm? ive heard people talk about them at school, but i dont know what they are. how can i get an orgasm?
-sam 13/f
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an orgasm is like the height of sexual pleasure. its when , during sex, or other activities, you climax...or reach a peak.
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Q: My boyfriend and I are thinking about having sex. But before I act on this thought, I want to hear some personal experiences. Have you ever had sex? if the answer is no, then why haven't you? Is it because of religion, personal beliefs, morals, etc? But if you have, then What happened? Why did you decide to participate in sex? Do you regret it? I'm asking these questions because I want to know what everyday people think about this, because once its gone i can never get it back.
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for along time i decided that i wanted to wait until marraige. it really bothered and confused me that so many of my friends and people i knew were having sex so young, with people they werent really in love with. also, the whole pregnancy thing freaked me out. i was with my current boyfriend for almost a year before we started talking about it. when he first mentioned it i told him i definitely wasnt ready.. and he waited. about two months later, he asked again. he said he didnt want to pressure me because he loved me. he just wanted to know ehy i didnt want to. i explained that i didnt feel old enough, and i didnt think that it was necessary at the time. i waited until about a month later. i told him i was completely ready.
i was really nervous, but i never thought i was making the wrong decision. i think that because i waited until i was completely ready, i didnt regret it. i was completely in love, and still am when it happened. its all about feeling comfortable, and wanting to be closer to the person you are with. whether you believe it or not, sex definitely brings people alot closer together. afterwards, it was like i loved him so much more than i had before. you just need to be sure that you are sticking to your own beliefs and personal values before you decide to take the step. it really is a big step, and you can never go back.
i hope this helped :)
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Q: Okay I move way too fast with guys. I don't think I'm a slut because I don't go out with that many guys I'm kind of picky. I'm in this relationship with this really great guy and we have been together for 9 now and on the 7th month we had sex on the 8th month we did four play (hand jobs,fingering etc)and oral. he doesn't have a problem but i do is that bad?????
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honestly, it depends on yourself, and what you are comfortable with. just be careful to protect yourself when you are sexually active. you arent a slut in my opinion if you are doing things with your boyfriend.
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Q: i was considering going on birth control, and i was woundering what the side affects are, and what the pros and cons are of being on it...
thanks in advance
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i recently decided to go on birth control.
to get on birthcontrol, you need to see a gynocologyst, and get a pap smear. depending on if you've had sex before or anything like that, this may or may not hurt you. birth control is a really good idea. it WILL NOT protect you from HIV , STDS, or any other sexually transmitted conditions. i do feel that it is a good idea to be used in combination with condoms. teenage pregnancy is becoming more and more common. side effects are different with each pill. your doctor can tell you specifics. the general side effects are very rare. some include blood clotting and liver disease. remember that these are extremely rare. however, if a history of liver or heart problems run in your family, the pill may not be right for you. the only cons of the pill are that you need to take it everyday. if you are forgetful this might be a problem. it should be taken everyday regularly to get the most protection. the other obvious downside to the pill are the side effects i have already mentiond, which are again very rare. i feel that there are many good reasons to get on the pill. it is a personal decision , and if you are sexually active it is a good idea. having a child way before you are ready, can mess things up for your future; or your reputation.
i hope this was helpful, sorry it was a long read.
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Q: i hear constantly about 14 year olds having sex... this is scary. what has the world come to? one day people will be having sex at 8 and then people will finally realise there is a problem. i dont see why 14 year olds have sex when they are so young... at 14 i was like, gross, why have sex? i'm 17 now and i am a virgin... i am proud of that and i like it coz guys respect me and i know a guy isn't going out with me for sex. what i want to know is why do girls lose that respect at such a young age? and how young were people when they lost their virginity???
- confused
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obviously there isnt a problem because 8 year olds do have sex...not as often as someone older...but nevertheless they do .... and maybe you should mind youre own buissiness...if people wanna have sex let them....dont post gay questions like this because they dont loose respect....think about it im not gonna walk up to someone whose lost their viginity and say''i dont respect you you fucked you boyfriend...god! get a life and become part of the real world...to everyone else...use a condom :) or get on the pill if youre ready for sex
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Q: okay, my friend is asking this question not me, she wants to know if the gyno can tell if you masturbate. She is going today and she masturbates but doesnt want her mom to know.
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i know for a fact that they can tell if you masturbate. however, they dont know if you did it or your boyfriend or whoever was getting ''intamate'' with you. they cannot tell your mother, or anyone for that matter, itsillegal . tell her not to worry.
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Q: well im 16 and started my periods when i was 13 and i havent told my mom yet!! (ive been gettin away with it through usin loadsa toilet paper n stealin pads off her n buyin them at school, if your wonderin). the thing is i cant tell her because shes really mean and honestly does hate me and wants to put me in care - she has told me herself that she only lets me stay here still cause she gets paid in child benefits. she would laugh at me if i told her...how do i tell her that i have started without her laughing?
please dont tell me she wont or shes been through it too or whatever because i know this woman and you dont. i know she will laugh its what she does.
besides shouldnt a good mom have asked her 16 yr old daughter if shes started her periods yet anyway??
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if your mom isnt going to understand and you dont want to tell her, maybe stock up on ones from school for awhile and maybe get a job and buy your own. when you do buy your own, i suggest tampons. and you can go on tampax.com or any other website for feminine products and get free samples.
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Q: hiya.
My mom is being really awkward. We have this guinea pig, and it's hers, but she refuses to look after him!! I have to feed him and groom him (he's a long hair) and cover him up at night and handle him and clean him out and everything. I don't mind doing this but I think she should take some responsibility for him!! If I try and speak to her about it she just shouts at me and says 'he's not your pet, why should you care?' and then moans at me if I leave any of it for her to do!! She is a stay-at-home mom and I'm 11 and the youngest child, we have a cleaner and a gardner and my big sis Allie cooks so it's not like she doesn't have time!! What do I do?
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i would just completely stop taking care of it...your mother even said its not your pet so why should you care. do exactly that, act like you dont care, and when she complains about it, remind her politely that she told you its not your pet so it isnt your responsibility or problem
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Q: i'm in a band, and i'm not bragging or anything but we are quite good. we've been together for like 2 years and have played loadsa gigs (and won a battle of the bands competition recently :p) we've got a demo cd and evrything so how the hell do we go about "getting signed" because i'm hearing of other local bands that get signed ie to sony for £400,000 to go record an album. so does anybody know how we'd go about doing this? i will rate high if your helpful :p PLEASE help me.
alex x
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You should look online for adresses os different record companies and send them your demo and a picture along with your address and other contact information included. after you send it to alot of record companies...wait 2 months, if no reply, send more.
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Q: I was at my friend's house the other day and we decided to make him pass out. Then i wanted to try it just to see how it felt. So i hyper-venalated myself, held my breath, and let him pick me up with my arms crossed at my chest. Before i knew it i woke up and was on the floor. Everyone was staring at me and i didn't remember anything but it was really cool. I did it about 12 more times. Is there a health risk when you do this? Can it cause serious damage to your brain or anything??
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There is a health risk. In some cases you might not wake up very quicly and it kills brain cells.
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Q: Every time i chew something like gum or a meal..my jaw pops/clicks. Anybody know why..or how to stop this? thanks a bunch!
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The muscles that control your jaws usually work in harmony, allowing you to open and close your mouth smoothly—and silently.But if the muscles are tired or overworked, or if you're chewing on a tough steak, they won't pull together evenly. If any pain starts because of this, you should see a docter. Also, the reason you can hear it so loudly and annoying is because the jaw muscles are right next to your ear.
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Q: I'm 22/m and my sister just turned 16. We're very close with one another and usually can share anything. Recently, however, she has become more sexually explorative, which is fine, but now seems to be obsessed by it. She told me yesterday that she wants to hook up with this 19 year old freshman in college that I know. They're not dating, but are considering getting to know each other. My sister used to be so righteous and moral and I feel that she's going to just end up hurt with this new sexual discovery. She's thinking about getting ahotel room with this guy this weekend. What should I do? I don't want her to get hurt and frankly, I don't want her to turn into a slut. Thanks =Concerned Brother=
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I think you should just tell her that it isnt the right thing. I mean, dont yell at her, bit ask her to really think about it and what choice shes making. Ask her about what would happen if she got pregnant.
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Q: i have a fever and my throat feels like its bleeding and when i swallow it hurts really badly, my mouth also produces thick spit which is kinda nasty... if any of you have any advice as to how i can get rid of this please help. thanks
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You could try brushing your teeth more often then usual and gargling with mouth wash. You should brush your tongue too. If it doesnt go away, the only other option is to visit a doctor. He or she can give you some medication to heal what may be strep throat. Dont share drinks with anyone for awhile.
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Q: I'm in a relationship at the moment, and im really happy. Yet at the same time i kinda wish i wasnt. It's not like i dont like him or anything it's just I'm only 14 and i dont really feel like i need a bf. I was just wondering what do YOU think is the rite time to start dateing, and why. ane Please help me decided what to do. Thanks.
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I think you just kind of know when you are ready to date. If you ave any odubts about it, you probably arent. You probably feel this way because you maybe feel attached. This isnt a bad thing. Maybe you just need space.
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Q: I have a new boyfriend and things are going great, but I can't help but shy away. I really want to get close to him, but I have been hurt before and I don't want to get hurt again. Does anyone know how to break down the walls that I have built up to protect myself? I would really appreciate it. Thanks...
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This has happened to me before. You just have to know that you trust him. Its all about taking risks...you never know whats gonna happen and that s the beauty of it. If you dont, you'll spend forever...and i mean forever asking yourself ''whatif?'' and i know you dont want to do that.
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Q: A dark bruise has appeared on my left breast. i didnt hit it or anything, it just appeared. it started off bluish and now the background is yellowish.Im extremely worried and dont know what to do.what could it be?
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You should definitly tell your mom about this one. It will be embarrasing at first but that kind of thing needs to be checked out. It probably wont be anyhting. Im not sure what it could be. Dont worry though its more scary not knowing, believe me, i was tested for breast cancer a little while ago and it was one of the scariest moments of my young life. But dont worry once you get to the docter you will feel so much better when you know what it is and how to fix it. Hope i helped.
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Q: okay for you older high school students...i`m a freshman in H.S. and i was wondering do you think when you do your eyeshadow you should just find one really good color like a certain shade of bronze that looks really good, or should you wear eyeshadow that matches your clothes?
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I dont personally like eyshadow that matches your clothing, but thats just me. Light and dark browns are really good because they sort of blend with your eyes but give them more definition. Light pinks are also good.
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Q: okay i've always wanted to become a cheerleader, and i think i will be next year but my question is could i possibly be a flyer when i weight 80-85 lbs and are about 4 9 1/2? cuz i have flyed alerady i've been put up in double base for the first time and i loved every minuete of it i mean i was a bit wobbly at first but i got the hang of it. so plz help thanks i rate high
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dnot listen to that girl...you arent fat...you could be a flyer you have to have great balance and flexibility...just work on that...anymore cheerleading questions just ask
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Q: See i vacumming the carpet down stairs and all of a sudden the vacum got all smelly and gross. whats wrong with it?
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there might me something in the belt(the rubber part that spins at the bottom) this would cause it to over heat and smell awful. when this happens you must turn off the vacuum, lay it on its side, look at the bottom, and take out whatever is caught.
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Q: man wat if she likes it? i guess i like it...i was just...surprised. no, im not young HAHA im really laughing. i bet more ppl have it than u think...and if its "pubic" than it would grow back fast and i dont want a high-maintenance barbie...thoughts?
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man wat if she likes it? i guess i like it...i was just...surprised. no, im not young HAHA im really laughing. i bet more ppl have it than u think...and if its "pubic" than it would grow back fast and i dont want a high-maintenance barbie...thoughts?
sorrry im not following what you said. um what are we talking about? sorry im stupid. answer back.
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Hey. Come to me with all your problems i have great answers.ummm i guess thats it....o yeah...heres some advice...dont run on a sprained ankle!!! baddd experience!:):):):)
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Gender: Female Age: 15 Member Since: November 24, 2004 Answers: 65 Last Update: June 22, 2008 Visitors: 6172
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