i'm fun,outgoing,hyper, and i love giving advice,i love reading,computers,and hanging with pals!!! i love animals!! i love getting e-mail and instant messanges!!i love hangin out with my friends...they alwayz come to me for advice.i'm a libra...which means i'm a charmer.and i usually weasal my way out of trouble!!!yay!!! well feel free to e-mail me. my fave t.v.shows are degrassi,real world,room raiders,spongebob,and i love wild & out!!!!! it totally rocks!!! i love spongebob!!! he is such a cutie!!! i have a lot of spongebob stuff!!! i watch spongebob everyday!!! but whateva.i'm single and ready to mingle!!! :D lol!!my fave music is rap,hip hop,r&b,and pop. i love dogs!!! i have a brother and a sister who are older then me.so if you have a prob with older or younger siblings come to me and i will help u the best i can.i don't answer may questions,b/c i feel its better to answer questions u know something about.i love to talk!!!!!!! but it gets me in trouble at school sometimes.my grades are pretty much good.my fave subjects are music,social studies,and english!! i hate math!!!!i wish it would die!!lol.my friends say i' evil,but i think i'm a angel.i love arguing and yelling!! so i think a lawyer would be my perfect job!!i love shopping!! mainly for new clothes!! my fave color is blue,but i also like black and pink!! i love the andy milonakis show,b/c its sooo dumb but funny!! i have a lot of best friends,and i'm always up for meeting new people!! well holla at ya gurl!! peace out!!! i
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hey! well me and my ex boyfriend mike went out for 3 months..i know its not a long time but we talked and dated for like 4 months before that! well anyways we have been broken up for almost 6 months now and we both have went out with other people!i have always asked him if he liked me and if wed ever get back together..well he never would answer the whole like you question but he would always say i dunno if we will ever go back out cause i dont normally go out with ex gfs so i thought ok fine whatever! well i tried moving on ya know and i finally got to the point i thought i was over him! i even had him over like 4 weeks ago..i could kinda tell he had feelings for me cause he would keep asking me for a hug and hed like put his arm around me and he gave me a hickey and we had a total blast together..but it kinda felt like we were just friends so i thought well maybe i am over him but yet i still missed him! so i went on vacation and didnt really talk to him for 2 weeks..the day i get back he ims me and was talking to me and said he liked me so that kinda made me feel good but then i also realied that maybe i wasnt quite over him and he had also asked if he could come over next week so i thought sure! well so the next night we stayed up til 3:15 in the morning talking and he had said he still loved me and always had, he missed me, and itd be great if we eventually got back together but he didnt want that right now and he wanted to keep things slow for right now! then the next night it was a repeat we stayed up til 3:30 and he said he missed me and my picture was his background on his computer and what not! well then things just kinda seemed weird! i just had this feeling it wasnt gonna be a good day but i kinda tried letting it go past me and i wrote his xanga past memories and i told him i still loved him..so i guess that was a bad idea cause he totally flipped and was like omg i cant believe u did that , you know i dont like my friends knowing everything, blah blah blah! so i was like ok im sorry and i showed him how to get rid of it! so then he wouldnt say i love you but he said i miss ya and your pic is still on my background so i was like okay maybe things arent that bad! but he also told me he didnt know if he was going to come over next week now because i made him upset and he couldnt believe i would do that which seemed kinda weird to me! but the thing is i want him to come over cause i wanna see him and talk all of this out in person and i even made a scrap book of us cause i want him to realize how much i really do care! well then theres this girl melissa that has liked him for about a year now! well hes always told me they were just friends and things like that! and the other day i said something how hes always with girls and calls them hun and stuff and hes like i hate when your like this cause you always think i like these girls when really we are just close friends! and i want to trust him but its so hard! and then like today i read his xanga and melissa signed it saying i cant wait to watch fire works with you tomarrow and then it had this quote that was like seduce my body blah blah blah seduce my soul and ill always be yours! and im so clueless on what to think about that! i know they both use to like eachother and they went to a dance together after we broke up and all he ever tells me is they are just close friends but he is with her all the time! and i dont know what to think of it! i just dont know why he would sit there and say all of a sudden out of no where that he loved me and missed me when for 6 months he wouldnt say a word to me! PLEASE HELP ME! (link)
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hey,i see what you mean.u should really talk to mike in person.its great that you care about this guy. but you should really find out if he cares about you. find out if he really likes this girl melissa. and invite him over so you guys can talk. if he misses you he will be glad to see you.but talk this over and work it out. like i said find out if he really likes this girl.b/c if he does its very unfair to leave you hanging.hope this helps.good luck. bratzgyrl
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help my boyfriend is cheating on me!!!!!!! iwant to kill him!! i need to think of ideas.help me please.any ideas? (link)
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don't kill him b/c he is cheating on u!! dump him and move on!!!hope i helped. bratzgyrl
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hey this is rkgurl13 u answerd my question on wedsday and im the 1 with the crush prob an wut if he is in like say 9th grade an im in say 8th grade and wut if ur homeschooled and he is public schooled and school is out an i am like so so so so shy and i would probly not go nere him and say i did not like pink that much i know i am so so so weird but i don't i saw him yesterday and he looked better than ever an i have liked him ever scince i was in like 6th grade wich is the longest time i have ever liked some one sry bout it bein so long! (link)
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well maybe not all of my advice was good.but wheneva you see him you can smile at him.well you need to get over being shy..even though it is hard!!i'm sorry if some of my advice didn't help you.:D bratzgyrl
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Okay, I'm 14 years old, a male, and I am a homosexual FYI. I lived with my mom until her drug problems escaladed and I had to move with my grandparents. During that time, I became friends with this guy who I am friends with but am totally not attracted to whatsoever. I stayed there for a few months and we signed up for summer P.E. together and everything was going good. Then, I moved with my mom again and I became friends with this other guy who I am totally attracted to and I guess that kinda boosts his personality. I ended up blowing my other friend off and dropped out of summer P.E. to be with the guy I like/love or whatever. Is it bad I kinda ditched my best friend even though its my life and I should be able to do what I want and if this other guy makes me happy that should be the only thing that matters right? Anyways, my summer P.E. friend calls and says I blew him off to be with Ronnie and smoke drugs which isn't entirely false and he hangs up on me. Is it bad that I did this and what should I do now. Also, remember its too late to sign back up for summer P.E. and its also nice to know my summer P.E. friend is a republican and doesn't know I'm gay or anything like that. Please help me out of this bind. (link)
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yes its very RUDE of you to ditch your friend.just b/c you like this other guy doesn't mean you ditch your friend.you should apologize to your friend like you mean it!!!!!!!!!!!! :(
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f/13. i really like this guy his name is zack but he does not know i like him at all cause im really shy an i do not flirt that much hardly. so how can i give him some hints that i like him? (link)
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here's what you can do if you're shy.you can smile at him..guys love to see a gorgeous smile!!,ask you crush if he wants to study with you...if you shine in that subject you guy will see how smart you are!!,wear pink..guys notice girls in pink b/c its a very feminine color!!!,be sweet and compliment him on one thing!!,get his help with somethin.,and last just be you!!!hope this helps!!! :D bratzgyrl
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i am in love with my best friend. all my friends tell me that they think he likes me. one of my friends asked him if he liked me and he said "no, not in that way" but when my friend told him that he should just ask me out he said that he didn't want to. i am kinda confused because i love this kid and i don't think he knows if he likes me or not, although he did say he didn't want a girlfriend right now. i think that maybe he is afraid that sumthing will happen and we will break up and then never be friends again. i dont know what to do because my feelings for him are so strong. i just dont know what to do.please help me.i am sooo desperate for advice and anyone who responds to this i will be so grateful and i will try to keep in touch if you want me to.
~*~in need of help!!!!!!!!~*~ (link)
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well i totally understand.i went through the same thing.i had a crush on my best friend,but he didn't like me that way.he moved to georgia and i really miss him!!here's what you can do.talk to your friend!!go on a ACTUAL date or double date.then tell him that even if you become his gf and you guys break up...you will still be friends.tell him you like him.hope this helps.e-mail me or i'm me if you want.:D bratzgyrl
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How can i become more outgoing? (link)
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well you can alwayz join a club at school,you can participate in after-school activities.you can start talkin more.talk to your friends.maybe they can introduce you to some people.you can join conversations...ask your friends if they want to hang.and if its okay with your mom or your dad or someone have a party.then talk to all of you guests and act friendly.hope this helps!!!! :D bratzgyrl
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Ok,i have this "friend"...Sarah. I dont like Sarah...and i dont want her to be friends with my friends...cause if she is i know she is going to soak up all the attension,they'll like her,she'll turn them against me, and leave me out of everything. I hate her..shes so mean to me. How can i stop thinking about her,not care about her,and just make it so im not her friend..but not her enemy? Please dont be mean in you answers...i want to let go of her..but not be an enemy. Please help i'll rate high. (link)
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if you don't want to be friends with this girl..ignore her!! then maybe talk to her. but don't be rude.b/c you'll be sinking to her level.if this girl is rude to you,then she's not a very good friend. talk to your REAL friends about it.maybe they can help you with her.i really hope this helps.:D bratzgyrl
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f/13. school's pretty much over but i have a one hour day on friday june 24. i like this guy but i'm not sure if i should continue liking him over the summer. but i highly doubt that he would ever like me. last year whne i liked him i got over him during the summer, but then when school started i liked him again. do you think i should continue liking him this summer?
signed, summer lovin' doesn't happen so fast (link)
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well i don't think that you should tell this guy you like him just yet.i think you should casually strike up a conversation then ask for his # so u can keep in touch.and if he has instant messenger then ask for his s/n or e-mail.if you get his # can call him just to talk and get to know him.become his friend and invite him to hang.then after you guys have been hangin for a while or just talkin,casually tell him you like hangin out with him and ask him out.get to know him well first,that way if he says no...you can still be friends.b/c having him as a friend,is better than not havin him at all.i hope this helps. bratzgyrl
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i told a guy that i liked him and he told me he doesn't feel the same way. i feel awful and i don't know what to, i'm trying to find ways to get him off my mind. i'm depressed and i don't know what to with myself today. What should I do? (link)
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i'm so sorry to hear that.but don't let a guy get you down.hang out with friends,go to the beach,go shopping,have a sleepover with your buds.i know what its like when you like a guy and you tell him,but he doesn't feel the same way.its sucks!!! but you have to move on.think about some of my ideas.don't get down in the dumps cause of this guy.he's the one missing out on a great girl!!! hope this helps.:D bratzgyrl
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Well my friend invited me to her party shes having, and I told her I could go but now I really don't want too. There like renting the Excercist and I REALLY REALLY do not wanna watch that. I told my parents and they said just tell her you don't want to watch it...well my friend Carina would make me watch it and everyone else wants to and her dad would make me watch it too. And I like hate the one girl she invited and the other one is okay and the girl who I'm actually friends with can't go. And if I tell her honestly why I don't want to go she'll get mad at me(yes stupid i know). I don't know what I should tell her sooo could someone please tell me what to say? (link)
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well thats a tough one.well maybe you could at least go to the party.just tell your friend you still want to go to the party,but you don't want to watch that movie.ask her if you can watch a different movie.if she's a real friend she won't get mad and she probably won't mind!!! all you have to do is ask.because you may hurt your friend's feeling if you don't go to her party and you said you would.hope this helps. :D bratzgyrl
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ive been talking with a guy for a little over 5 months. im definilty ready to date him but he says he won't date me becuase a few of his friends would diaprove because of the 2 years age difference. i think if he really likes me then hell date me anyway. i know i should probably give up on him but i like him a lot and we've gotten really close overtime. it would be hard to get over him because some of his friends are mine also. what should i do? (link)
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hi,its good that u want to date this guy.but listen...he shouldn't not date you b/c his friends disaprove!! if his friends are real they will be happy for him.and if this guy really likes you he will date you no matter how big the age difference!!!b/c age is just a number.let this introduce to his friends.maybe if they get to know you a little better they will approve.but talk to this guy.hope this helps!!!!!!!!!! :D bratzgyrl
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ok this may sound really stupid but whenever it's that time of the month i get SOO depressed .. i have no clue why either. and sometimes it just gets to the point to where i feel like just comitting suicide. i stay up night after night thinking of a lot of things and i barely get any sleep. i just really need some help on what to do because i don't want to go through with this the rest of my life and being really depressed every month. pllz if you have any advice HELP ME! (link)
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hey,thats a very common problem.here's what you cando.you can hang out with your friends...they can cheer you up!! or go shopping and buy clothes or somethin.watch your fave movie.throw a sleepover..but whateva you do DON'T COMMIT SUICIDE!!!take a day off and just enjoy yourself...hey take a few friends too.hope this helps you!!!! :D =D!!!!!!!!!
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can you help me get my friend to stop acting like shes all that around other people and she acts her self around me. im a girl and im 11 years old (link)
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well thats a hard one.you need to talk to your friend!!! tell her how you feel!!tell her u don't like it when she asks like she's all that around older people.if she's a true friend she'll listen and she will stop.i hope i helped you!!! :D good luck. bratzgyrl
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I am trying to plan a great slumber party for me and my friend but I need some help on finding some great slumber party activities like pillow fights,chick movies,and etc.
I will rate very high for great ideas!!! (link)
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i know some ideas!! you could have a pillow fight in the dark,you could play truth or dare!! oh and you could play embarassment!! its where you cut up paper and write something embarassing on it.then put it in a box or bucket.you close your eyes and pick.whateva it says you have to do it.thats a great game.and watch some scary movies.you could watch the grudge.its not scary though.... o well!!! you could also play fib finder.have a schedule so you have everything planned.have snacks too.hope this helps.e-mail me. bratzgyrl
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okay well... i really like this kid.. and he owns a campsite right next to me.. he sold it.. but i got down there right in time.. and wrote my number on a piece of paper and stuck it on the door... was that a good move? or is it kind of obsessing.. and i told him to call right away.. and i dont' know if he's gonna call or not.. he was supposed to call last saturday.. and he didin't.. and im really bummed...
so i guess my question is.. did i do the right thing.. by putting my number on his door.. and how do i try to get over him if he doesn't call.. because i really incredibly like him.. like i never liked someone like this in my whole life.. (link)
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i have had that same problem before.if you really like this boy you did not do the wrong thing. i think its totally brave you made the first move.i think that you should go up to him and strike up a conversation and casually ask for his #.then if he gives it to you promise to call him sometime.then call him and invite him over or just talk to him. if he likes you he will call you.if he does get to know him.then you guys can start talkin all the time.ask him out!! or if you're to shy just ask him to come over and watch or movie or just hang.hope this helps. bye
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Okay, I've almost always been like this, but now I want to know if its just me, or if its a common isue. I have a hard time with grammar. I don't know when to use correct words, tenses, etc. I used to be very smart as a child but ever since... 5th-6th grade maybe? I've had difficulties. Like, yesterday... I said "I got to drove them home" and it didn't sound right... but I was thinking to myself, I don't think thats right... if its not, how do you correctly say it (Then I realized it was "I got to drive them home"). But its little stuff like that. And I often mess up on sentences. If I'm talking about a girl and a guy, and I'm quoting the girl, I'll say "He was like..." and then I quickly say "She was like...". Its like my brain isn't messing up on little things. Is this a common problem? I'm 16/f. (link)
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yes this can be a very common problem.if you're having a problem with grammar then you should maybe take a extra class for it.i know you probably don't want to but its best.because if you are messing up little things now... you may mess up big things in the future.what if you messed up on your job when you're older? your boss would not be impressed!!! no offense. just get some help and take a class.it will help you. i hope i helped you out. bye
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I'm in Middle School and every1 is wearing makeup and long earrings! my mom won't let me but sometimes i sneak out of the house with some eyeshadow on. and i can't wear hoops ( even small 1's!) on any day except tuesday when we have chapel. what should i do?? (link)
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hi, i'm also 12 and i'm a female.i totally understand you problem.i'm in middle school too. my mom won't let my were long earrings either.but i talked to her and we compromised.then after we talked we went to the store and we looked at earrings.we picked some out that we both liked.i love them.tell your mom you are old enough.and about the makeup,you are your mom need to agree on that.i don't wear makeup because i don't want too.you should talk to your mom.then we you go to school,let her fix your makeup.i hate to say,but moms no best.she doesn't want you to look to old!!!! i hope my advice helps.bye.e-mail me if you have any probs.
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I have a thing with the dark. At night if i go downstairs while everyone is asleep or upstairs in the rooms, im always scared someone is watching me. I dont go downstairs that often but i need help. Is it because im weird or am i going crazy. Please help.. 14 female..
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hi, i don't think you are are weird or crazy.have you watched any scary movies lately? b/c that could be the reason you are worried.i have the same problem at night time.its totally normal with your problem.i feel like someone is watching me too.maybe at night when you go downstairs leave a light on.because that really helps me.hope i helped. bye
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