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im 15 and my bf's 18 n my parents are cool with it...Well weve had sex alot and i actually live with him because of certain issues that happened while living with my dad...Well i know that he loves me and weve been together for almost 2 years. But we had this one conversation not too long ago about a friend whos bf wont dump her cus they have sex all the time..Well thats sort of my issue..I have sex like everyday and he told me he would dump me if we stopped having sex (over a long period of time)the thing is is that i want to have sex and that isnt a problem but its like at first when we went out it was like all about love and building our relationship now that thats established its about our love and then sex then building a life together..Im confused because i live with him and depend on him so its not like im gonna leave him but im worried that If i stop having sex he wont be with me ne more-so far after a year and a half of having sex (he devirginized me) Im still into it totally But sometimes i feel like im on his schedule like its all about when hes horny and then sometimes when i actually am hes asleep or something...But anyways he is the only person who has ever loved me for me..and he treats me like a queen but sometimes i just get confused..if anyone could give me advice it would be great..also if anyone has ne sex tips for me it would b gr8tly appreciated( i rate ) thanks alot!!
If your boyfriend is all about sex it is probaly a shallow worthless relationship. I'd stay away from that and find a guy who is with you because he loves you, not because the sex is good.
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it seems like no guy ever likes me. its annoying because i feel like im such a decent and a good girl. i mean i play the piano, i do ballet, i work , i get good grades, im respectful, and alright looking..ive had one bf in my whole life, and that was a 1 yr relationship and we broke up 8 months ago, and since then i havent had like any other guyz or even small flings...it just seems like ill never have a decent guy that wants me..
Make yourself stand out. Show that you have those features. Maybe it is an issue about how you dress? See how your more popular classmates dress, act, etc. to get guys and do the same, but with your own unique style
ok. i dont smoke. But alot of people in my grade do. im only going into 8th grade and i turn 14 in january! alot of people that i know have at least tried smoking. recently i have been having these dreams that i smoked and i liked it..then i'd wake up. is this bad? should i have already tried it. i think want to. thx for any advice!
Underage smoking is a bad idea. It is bad for your health and you'll notice problems in school and at home.
My mom and her boy friend Daniel really have a connection between them. Do you think they might want to get married someday?
It is very possible. That is something you need to ask them.
well sum of u know im 13 n he's 14.So yesterday after i wrote this i went outside 2 get the mail n then i was gunna wait for mah bf cuz he sed he was gunna come to mah house.So when i was waiting anthony came n sat down next to me.(anthony-guy on mah str33t).And i didnt say ne thing to him but then i looked at him nreally quick he kissed me(me not knowing mah bf was across the str33t, so he just walked home)n then i smacked anthony n ran inside.n then mah cell rang, i picked it up n it was mah bf n he sed "i guess i wasnt the only one" n he hung up! Ok NOW WHAT SHOULD I DO!! anthony STILL doesnt get the point!And wut should i do anout mah bf?? plz help!!
XOXOalexiaXOXO
First of all call your boyfriend and say you are not involved with your neighbor (anthony) and he is wierd. Than find anthony and tell him that you do not like him and it is distrubing and annoying when he romantically pursues you.
umm this is kinda embarrassing. so im just gonna let it out...i always get a boner for like no reason..(im a guy)...ill just be sittin there and all of a sudden..ITS THERE! i dont like it. sometimes it can show. is this a problem? is it normal? im cinfused! >>ILL RATE
Yes it is perfectly normally. It happens to all guys. Most likely you are thinking of something sexual (subconciously) and your brain reacts.
I recently lost my virginity, the girl was my age, 15, but she's already had 6 guys before me, which at least to me sounds like a huge amount. I know she's a really wonderful person, and ever since it happened I've been even more attracted to her, not just wanting to have sex again, but actually wanting to get to know her better and hang out more. I just want to know if its possible that she gets the same feeling about me or does sex become less special the more a persons done it.
That is a lot of guys for her age, lol. Ask her how she feels about you. If she feels the same way go for it. Sex is the most intense form of intimacy and it really releases a lot of hormones, espically in a male.
What is Birth control and what are the side affects?
Main Entry: birth control
Function: noun
: control of the number of children born especially by preventing or lessening the frequency of conception : CONTRACEPTION
Bascially it seriously decreases the risks of getting pregrant when you have sex without a condom. However it is still possible, but very unlikely. Side effects are typically mild.
He's 20. I'm 16.
My current boyfriend started as a crush. We didn't rush into things we started out as just friends. Now that we are together he has changed. I think he tries too hard to please me and becomes irritated very easily. He seems so insecure and ...well ... just different from the person I knew when we were just friends. Our phone conversations have become a so unbearable I hardly return his calls. HE senses that there is some tension but I don't think I can explain to him exactly what's wrong. How can I get him to be himself around me again?
I wouldn't date someone 4 years older than you at your current age. Remember the Age/2+7 rule.
so then whats a metrosexual?
metrosexual (met.roh.SEK.shoo.ul) n. An urban male with a strong aesthetic sense who spends a great deal of time and money on his appearance and lifestyle.
—metrosexuality n.
Example:
At dinner the other night, my date listed the calorie count of the main entrees, raising an eyebrow at my chicken Alfredo selection after he had ordered a salad. I saw him check his reflection in the silver water pitcher three times. During dessert, he looked deeply into my eyes and told me he thought what we have together is very special. It was our third date.
(I didnt write the above)
Hope that helps.
ok i know this sounds stupid..but i don't know what a hetrosexual is! can some please tell me?
thx
A hetrosexual is someone who likes the oppisote sex. Example: man liking woman, woman liking man.
Also known as straight.
A homosexual is someone who likes the same sex. Example: man liking man, woman liking woman
Also known as gay.
My 14th birthday is comin up soon and i want to get my belly button pierced for my birthday because i have a nice body and with my belly button pierced, it would look really good. My parents said i couldn't get anymore piercings cuz i already have three piercings on my left and right ears and one more piercing on the top of my left ear. I really want my belly button pierced and i dont know how to convince both of my parents to let me get it done. Can someone please help me out lol? One more thing, if anyone would like to tell me how you get your belly button pierced like how they do it and etc, that would really help so i can show my parents and maybe they would let me get my belly button pierced.
Thanks
Look up some information on the internet regarding it. Show your parents and they'll make the decision. Just remember its not something you can undo once it is done.
Is it true that if you sweat a lot you will lose weight?
Yes if you sweat you will sweat off water which in turn causes you to loose weight.
hey yall! well i did a really stupid thing! i had sex with my bf without a condom. But he pulled out before he came. But when he pulled out he got cum like on the really high part of my leg and I thought i was pregnant...but now im like bleeding(its been like a week later)...does that mean im not? PLEASE PLEASE HELP MWA!
It is unlikey that you are pregant. If you are you'll find out, and honestly there isn't much you can do. Have him use a condom for now on unless you intend to get pregant
Ok, to start things off my name is Amber (I'm 16) and my boyfriend Jason and I have been together for 6 months now. His 17th birthday is coming up in a few of months *oct. 30* and i wanted to get him something really special. Like i wanted to make him something and then maybe buy him a little something else?? If that made any sense. Anywho, I'm just asking for people's advice on what i can make him that will be very special for him (and for all the long period of time makeing something ideas, i only have 3 months left.) Like if you had any good ideas or anything? I made my ex boyfriend *we lasted a year n 4 months* a scrapbook full of pictures of me an him, and i also made him a collage of pictures of me n him or just me, n put it in a frame and i made him a best boyfriend ever trophy. Those were really cute ideas and i'd like to do them again but that was used on my ex boyfriend n i wanted to do something special that was new. So if you have any ideas then please let me know asap! Thanx a bunch:-D
XoXo
**Amber**
The scrapbook one is a good idea. What interests him? Does he like cars? If he does maybe find a really good car-related photo album and put pictures of the two of you in there.
if a guys asks me out that i really dont like or even know i find it really hard to say no. if i just plainout say no i feel really realyl mean. but if u say yes, i know i will be miserable. if i say we can just be freinds the guy will just follow me around for a while even though i dont even want ot be freinds
This really depends on the person. You could say you already have a boyfriend, or just say you do not want to.
all my friends have a bf...when ever they talk about him i feel realyl lonely bcuz i dont have a bf...what can i do to feel not so left out?
Start looking for a guy! Another alterative is find a hobby or get a job, something that interests you and can help kill time.
can a certain type of condom make u lose your erection? me and my boyfriend were gonna do it and everytime he put on a condom, he lost his erection...do u think it may be this certain kind?
Yes it can. If the condom is too small it will stop blood flow.
My friend has a heart condition that she hides from just about every one of her friends except for me. The problem is that she is kind of a party girl. She smokes about a pack a day, gets high about twice a week during the summer and once a week during the school year and she drinks excessively on a very frequent basis. I've really really considered doing a few things but I have encountered so many problems. The first thing is that she absolutely doesn't want to quit even though it could kill her. Her mind set is that if she doesnt live til the age when fun switches from getting messed up, playing football in the rain and then having sex with your latest boy toy, to sipping tea and knocking a tennis ball back and forth, then she's not missing out on too much. Unfortunately for me, I kind of agree with her about that. Anyways, the last time one of her friends talked to her about it she quit talking to him and now will rarely even answer the phone when he calls. Another problem is that she lives 1600 miles from me and I only spend 3 weeks a year with her this year, though im currently saving up $1200 to go see her and my buds there this winter, so I cant really talk to her face to face. I would tell her best friend but she made me absolutely promise not to mention her heart condition to him, so I'm not sure what to do. The rate she's going a person without her condition would die around 40, and with her mind set, I could accept that, but if she doesnt quit soon she could die before I even get to see her again, and to be honest, that scares me so horribly that it was all I could do to write this. Thank you for any advice you might have.
Sit down with your friend (or call her) and let her know that her habits are a serious health risk and could very well cause her an early death. Suggest that she seeks profressional help as well.
I have this friend. We aren't going out but he still took my virginity and we are always making out. The last time we made out he asked me if I wanted to try again. But he wants me to be on top. I am scared to because I dont know how and wut if I do it wrong. We didnt do it because I had to leave but I want to have sex with him again but I am scared that he would want me to be on top like he asked me last time. What should I do and if he does ask me... how di I do it?
Tell your friend that you are not comfortable with that. If he really wants it, he will work with you.