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Ok over the summer i met a boy at the mall.. we got eachothers numbers and stuff like that! we started talkin then we started goin out.. One day we met up to chill.. my friends came with me n his friend came with him.. we chilled that like whole day.. omg i felt like i was in heaven and it ended with a kiss.. but the prob was we lived in 2 diff plaves i lived 45 minutes away.. but i was near his house cuz i spent the summer in my old neighborhood.. we talked bout every night foh like 3 hours.. ABout a month later i was being stupid n saying stupid stuff n he dumped me.. i didnt realize hoe much i misssed up untill a couple nights later.. its been about 4 months since we've been goin out and i like i love him but he dont love me.. Theres not a moment i dont think bout him and want to cry.. Help me? (link)
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u need to explain what u told me to him .. apologize and explain that u still have deep feelings for him
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ok.. well umm .. Me n my BESTEST FRIEND i've known her since diapers are in the hugest fight foh such a stupid reason.. i mean i love her n everything but she gets mad over the stupidest things.. i tried to be friends with her but it didnt work.. what should i do please help i dont wanna loose her.! (link)
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well sometimes u just need a break from some of ur friends .. me and a friend just recently got in a fight because we had been so close together and stuff but now since we've cleared things up .. seperated for a while and thought stuff through everythings going alright .. u just need to talk to her and tell her ur sry or whatever needs to be done and then talk about stuff from ur younger years ..
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Ok hey..im sarah ....this year i wasn't in any of my friends classes but i mean like i am gettin so friendly with my new friends in my class..and i am havin like a blast..but anyways today we were waitin to go to an assembly and like all my fruiends were ignorin meh so i just started talkin to my otherr friends and then were like sarah sarah so i ignored them then today on the comp the were all like omg whats rong are you mad at meh????? nd ahhhhhhhh i hate that so much but i wa like to my one friend i just dont feel good and shes like well you need ti change fast cause we have been actin different for the past 2 days and uhh i dunon what to say to her but i wanna say somthin so she needs to stop bugin meh!!! ahh im gunna go crazy ..i need suttin to say to her got any advice??
xO Sarah (link)
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alright well first of all .. settle down! lol it sounds like u need a break from ur friends .. or mabye u need to spend more time with them .. like hang out with them .. go see a movie or something!
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I really like this guy...but he likes one of my best friends! And she happends to be a total flirt..he knows how I feel and so does she so should I be upset that she flirts with him? Or Should I just try to flirt too..?
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well guys love flirting and theres nothing u can do to stop that but i mean if she knows then all u can do is wait for her to ease up and let him go so u can get to him
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hey, i was wondering if you could help me. well , theres this guy that i went out with in the middle of 7th grade and i really really really liked him. me and him lasted until about mid summer, because we never saw each other. and i was so upset. and its about 5 months later and i still have major feelings for him and he has a girlfriend and sometimes i feel like he still has feelings for me but hes just hiding them, and i dont know what to do. i've had a recent boyfriend before him and i just cant seem to like anyone how i like him. he doesnt know how i feel about him, and im afraid to tell him in fear of getting rejected. what should i do? thanks a whollee bunch (link)
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well the only thing u can really do is try telling him ur real feelings because he'll never know until u tell him
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well first of all, i dont know if this would fall under 'love life', but it was the only thing that i thought it really went along with. at my school, there are a lot of people who smoke and do drugs, and i dont really think anything of it, even though i would never do it and i think smoking and drugs are a terrible thing. well, anyway, a couple days ago someone told me that my boyfriend had been buying marijuana from someone and i really dont know what to think. i mean i dont think this person would lie to me, especially about something serious, but i just dont know if they knew it was true for sure. but, it makes me think that my boyfriend wouldnt do something like that, because hes always telling me how much he seriously hates drugs and how he wouldnt ever do them, so personally i dont think he would ever do anything like that, and i trust him. i havent talked to him about it yet. i dont want him to be like 'omg i cant believe you would think i would do that' and get really mad, but im concerned and i dont want him to get mad at me and then just say 'so what, its not doing anything to me, why do you care so much?;...what would you do? thanks. (link)
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well if i were u i would try and talk to him about it just be like " hey i heard some rumor that ur doing drugs .. " " and i most certaintly dont believe it but if u are would u tell me" and see what happens ..
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Hey ..this is sarah ..and i have a big problem..ok well i used to like this kid mike and i told him that and he liked meh well ..then i started to like this other kid chris and i dont really like mike anymor so i told him and hes like oo0 okay yup..so i was like yeah..and now since i dont like him anymor he is calling meh a whore and he has no right to ..and one of my best friends is in his class her name is kelsey so at the end of the day he went uhp to my best fiend regina nad wasl ike yur friends wit a whore and shes like excuse meh and my friend kelsey whos in his class was standin next to him and was laff rly hard ..but anyways i need help what should i say to him..and should istill b friends wit kelsey?
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well ur right he doesnt have any right to call u that but u cant change anything now .. i mean u did what was best and if he cant live with that then he'll just have to get over it
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hey.. i IMed you about helping me with a screen name but u didnt answer.. i really need some ideasz and no1 will help me.. i saw the other onesz you suggested to that grl and they were SOOO cute!! pleeez IM me at broken xl3 hazeL whenever ya have the time...i'd reeeally appreciate it.. i'm soOo desperate!! thanx a bunch !! lyl x3 hannah (link)
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ya i couldnt answer cuz i was gone but im back now and if u have some ideas then IM me .. i got ur IM .. and if u want some help i need like some words to start with and stuff ..
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You see, my friend Kiana and I both like this guy Shane. Shane has told me that he likes me and hes told Kiana that he doesnt like her. Kiana doesnt know that Shane and I like eachother, and Im afraid if he asks me out, she will be mad at me. What should i do?
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well if yall like each other then yall should try a relationship and just tell her that he asked you and u said yes because u like him and he likes you
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this guy asked me out when we were in the 5th grade. i was so happy because i really liked him too. we went out for about a year but then he dumped me for a girl he barely even knew ! she dumped him about a month after. i guess i was sorta happy because i still had major feelings for him. we`re in the 7th grade now, and he still flirts with me. i don`t know whether he still likes me like a gf and i`m afraid that if i tell him i still like him he`ll turn me down. what should i do ? thanks hun *
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well mabye u should just sit done and talk about both of yalls feelings for each other and see whether or not he says he loves u still .. i mean i cant really help ya on this one but if u want more help IM me somtime!
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Hey, i really like this guy and i date him but i really don't know what he wants from me. he is so perfect and he talks about me alot and i talk about him and he says he loves me and i say the same thing but he just can't seem to believe me when i say it. i tell him i dont' wanna lose him and he says he doesn't wanna lose me but we just got in a huge fight and it is makin me cry i am so upset. he says i dont' see what is exspected from me. i try to be be his perfect girl but according to him, i can't. (link)
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well hun you cant be the perfect person .. nobodys perfect .. because if everyone was perfect we couldnt make mistakes and we need to make mistakes every once in a while
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Ok i dont want to make this an essay but i have a tendancy to do that so, it started over spring break i really liked this kid and it was kinda i guess not love at first sight? but like at first sight? and he told me that he didnt have a gf, and he called me and begged me to believe him, cus i was hearing diff. well a few daysz later i had his gf and a few of her frends IMing me tellin me to stay away from him.. well that lasted a lil and then at a party we talked and then slept at his friends house and hooked up, and it went from there on and off hooking up and talkin non stop on the fone.. and i guess we were "talking" or together and i really liked him and i feel weird saying i "love" him because i dont but i like him more then anything and i fought with him because of his ex gf.. and he told me he hated me and that i was a "slob" and that "i was lucky i got to taste this" and there is like no one else i tried liking other boiiz but its like that one quote "i see a cute guy but then i think of how cute u are and i dont think the same anymore" well i cant get over him, im 15 years old i shudnt be worried about boiiz but i am cus i cant think straight and i dont even have an appetite sometimes when i think about him and its soo hard and theres really no advice u can give to someone like me, and ive realized that now that i am writing this.. but i wanna still say to every other girl out there that has a problem with a boii, dont hold back, please i did and look at what it got me, LIke they say hearts are usually broken from words left unspoken.. go for it whats the worst that cud happen him turn you down.. well thats what u thought was goin to happen anyways so u got what u thought but maybe he feels the same and maybe u can get through to him.. its not worrth the pain.. im not the same i dont even want to go out anymore unless i think i have a chance of seeing him and its sad we are humans too, boiiz just dont realize what they do to us.. so if your asking this girl advice on what u shud do about a boy.. just go for it who cares! (link)
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alright well it sounds like this boy really just lied to you because he thought he liked u but really had a gf and thats the kinda guy u just need to get rid of ..
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i went out with this guy for 5th and 6th grade. he dumped me for another girl that he barely knew. i was so hurt cuz i still really liked him.and he dumped me on aim which wasn`t sincere or classy. ally (the girl he dumped me for) dumped him about a month after. i felt sorry for him, but i guess i was kinda happy. we became like best friends afterwards. i still have feelings for him. he just feels like "the one." but i don`t know if he feels the same way. we still flirt n` stuff ... so i don`t know. i`m afraid that when i tell him my true feelings, he`ll say something like, "i like you but not like as a gf.: or somethin like that. what should i do ? thanks for listening to my emothins n feelings* (link)
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well i think that u should wait until he comes around and decides if hes ready for a relationship again .. i would feel bad too because im one of those people who always feels bad for people with those kinda problems ..
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Hey! my name is Erin and im 15. I have this friend, and i guess you could say we arnt really friends anymore. well heres the story.. we both play softball, and we are very competitive. We travel to many tournaments together(well we used to). Anyways, here dad organized this travel team..i said i would play on it and everything, but the problem is, i wanted to be on a team with MORE competition. So i tryed out for another team without my friend and her dad knowing. After i made the team i tryed out for, my mom called her dad and explained to him the situation. That night he was fine with me playing for another team. But the next day rolls around and we get a call. I answer and he asks for my mom. So they are just talking normally like they usually do. Until i heard her raising her voice. She finally hung up and she said that he was being a major jerk about me not playing.. and im thinking.. shouldnt he be happy for me that i made this team? Anywho.. my friend and i havent talked for like a week and a half. And honestly i miss her tons! AND.. i am friends with her boyfriend, and he came up to me about 1 1/2 weeks ago, and said that she said we werent friends anymore.. soo..until then i thought we would still be cool. She i.m.ed me telling me how i wasnt a good friend anymore, and her life is so horrible. What should i do? Should i wait for her to come to me? Write her a note? What?
THANKS EVERYONE!! x3 Erin (link)
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well it sounds like you should wait for her because u really cant do anything yet and you really didnt do much so she just needs to decide when shes ready to come back and be ur friend
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Wow I can't believe that I'm going to spill my heart out to a girl that I don't even know but I was reading your column and I saw that you gave very good advice..so here I go...
About 5 months ago, my best friend liked this guy. He had a girlfriend at the time and wasn't interested in my friend. About a week after him and his girlfriend broke up, I found out that he had a crush on me. Weeks before that I had a minor crush on him but I thought that it meant nothing because of my friend liking him. Well later that night my feelings got stronger for him and when he had asked me out I wanted to talk to my friend about it. She got really mad at me and didn't even talk to me for 3 months! When I was going to tell Nick* that I would go out with him, he had already started liking another girl. Jennie* was a year older then him and wasn't interested him the type of guy he was..He had forgotten all about me and I had spent the 4 months after it knowing that he liked me but wouldn't go out with me because 'we would never see each other.'He said he was goign to wait until school started again. By that time, Nick* was in love with Jennie* as I was to him. Then one day, out of the blue, he has in his profile 'can this be love?' with my initials next to it..Then later that evening, he asked me out! It was a dream come true! We were going out for like two days and all of a sudden he tells me that he is thinking about his cousin dating a girl that he used to like, not Jennie* but Samantha*. Then, the first day of school was the next day. He passed me in the hallway about five times and wouldn't say a word to me. At lunch he wouldn't sit with me or even say hi. And when school ended all he did was give me a hug, then said 'I have to go, bye' No I love you's or no talk to you later's. Just I have to go bye. It crushed my heart. Then later that night, when I got home from practice. He IMed me on the computer and said that we needed to talk. He then broke up with me because 'we never talked' and 'it wouldn't work between us'. I know I shouldn't still like him but I just love him so much I don't want to let go. He made me feel so special. All of my friends keep telling me to forget about him and find someone better, but I still love him =/ I just don't know what to do..
* indicates that names were changed, just incase you didn't know =p
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well it sounds like this guy isnt reallyt sure who he likes .. if he cant stop thinking about other girls he shouldnt be getting u into this mess .. and its hard to get over guys i know because theres a guy i like that i know i really shouldnt becuz hes a jerk sometimes but i still like him
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Heyy Im 12 years old going onto 13 this December.. I've had this problem for 4 years that I think that I am fat.. So i starve myself and I throw up everytime mii parents MAKE ME eat.. I dont wanna tell mii parents cuz they'll SPAZZ!! Mii friends tell me iim not fat.. but I think they juss say that cuz their mii friends and they dont wanna b rude?!?!? Wat should I do ?!?!?
Thankx I rate 5! (link)
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well u should never think ur fat .. even if u are .. not saying that u are .. but even if u were u should never ever think that
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i'm not allowed to go out with guys
but i do anyways , but im afraid that
my parents are gonna find out . whatt
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well it isnt keeping something like that away from ur parents .. if u think its time u should tell them .. go ahead and tell them
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hey... my name is ashley and i've been going out somebody on and off for about 2 years.. and while we were broken up, we both started seeing new people.. well we are going out again and have been for about 1 week.. and he just recently asked me to the graduation dance at our school.. now im starting to have feelings for someone else and hes a year younger than me.. but he says he thinks he feels the same way.. HELPPP ..pleasee!! (link)
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well if u truly like this other guy more than ur on and off going boyfriend than i would dump him and tell him that u have feelings for someone else and try something new ..
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Hi again its meh sarah ..yu knoe the grl that likes chris ..well yur tottally right about him cheating on meh again ..but i think he rly likes meh this time ..i dunno what to say to him so i dont get hurt again..what should i say to him? or mayb this just wont work?
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idk but if u know that he cheats and u decide well i wanna try it yall go out again and he cheats on u again ur just going to be more upset .. so i would decide first
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hey well i am a girl and i rly like this kid named chris.he used to be my old boyfriend and after he cheated on meh i got rly mad but i stilled liked him them then i was like over him and then i started likin him again and now he likes meh and all ...and he asked meh if i would get wit him atthis dance on friday..i said yes but i might back down ..cause i might regret it i dunno i rl need help! ahh please help i dunno what do to?
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well if he cheated on u what makes u think he wont do it again .. ? u gotta be careful
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