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sorry this is long but i really need advice right now..
Wow I can't believe that I'm going to spill my heart out to a girl that I don't even know but I was reading your column and I saw that you gave very good advice..so here I go...
About 5 months ago, my best friend liked this guy. He had a girlfriend at the time and wasn't interested in my friend. About a week after him and his girlfriend broke up, I found out that he had a crush on me. Weeks before that I had a minor crush on him but I thought that it meant nothing because of my friend liking him. Well later that night my feelings got stronger for him and when he had asked me out I wanted to talk to my friend about it. She got really mad at me and didn't even talk to me for 3 months! When I was going to tell Nick* that I would go out with him, he had already started liking another girl. Jennie* was a year older then him and wasn't interested him the type of guy he was..He had forgotten all about me and I had spent the 4 months after it knowing that he liked me but wouldn't go out with me because 'we would never see each other.'He said he was goign to wait until school started again. By that time, Nick* was in love with Jennie* as I was to him. Then one day, out of the blue, he has in his profile 'can this be love?' with my initials next to it..Then later that evening, he asked me out! It was a dream come true! We were going out for like two days and all of a sudden he tells me that he is thinking about his cousin dating a girl that he used to like, not Jennie* but Samantha*. Then, the first day of school was the next day. He passed me in the hallway about five times and wouldn't say a word to me. At lunch he wouldn't sit with me or even say hi. And when school ended all he did was give me a hug, then said 'I have to go, bye' No I love you's or no talk to you later's. Just I have to go bye. It crushed my heart. Then later that night, when I got home from practice. He IMed me on the computer and said that we needed to talk. He then broke up with me because 'we never talked' and 'it wouldn't work between us'. I know I shouldn't still like him but I just love him so much I don't want to let go. He made me feel so special. All of my friends keep telling me to forget about him and find someone better, but I still love him =/ I just don't know what to do..
* indicates that names were changed, just incase you didn't know =p
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well it sounds like this guy isnt reallyt sure who he likes .. if he cant stop thinking about other girls he shouldnt be getting u into this mess .. and its hard to get over guys i know because theres a guy i like that i know i really shouldnt becuz hes a jerk sometimes but i still like him
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