Hello every one my name is Alyssa. I can help with basically any question. But I really like it when people give feedback. I am really into horses and I do barrel racing, wetern pleasure, showmanship, polebending, and more. I also do gymanstics and soccer. I have also tryed about every sport out their too. I have 5 people in my family my mom my dad my sister and my brother. I have 3 dogs 1 cat 2 rabbits i have 3 horses that are my show horses then the whole family we have a total of 11. You can always ask me any question. Even if I don't know what to say I will try to help. Or I will dig up some info on it to answer your question. So feel free to drop one in the inbox or email or what ever any time. Good luck in the future to every body.
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Hey, may 29, this kid Mark asked me out. I love him so much, and a week later he dumped me. I loved this kid alot.
July 15, this kid Felix asked me out. I said yes, he was cute. I forgot all about Mark. I seemed to love him. I just spoke to Mark, and he seemed to like me again. Gosh, now i like BOTH of them.
The problem is, Felix really likes me, and i feel so bad if i would dump him for Mark. Mark on the other hand dumps every girl after a week or two.
Felix said, he would commit succide if i broke up with him. I know he ment it. Last night he said he had a pocket knife to his throat, because he had no one to live for. But then he relized he loved me. So, he put it down.
HELP! I HAVE NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I CRY ALL THE TIME (link)
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Honey, you need to go with what your heart says. in my opinion the kid Felix I don't know about you being with him. I don't like the sound of suiside. I had a friend that commited and now that she is gone I want her here more than anything. But what I wished I would have done was to tell some one like a person in the offive at school a parent or somthing like that. Trust me if he is telling the truth I would get him help then brake up with him and then go and get hooked up with the kid mark but still be friends with felix. I would say it is not a good reson to stay with a guy just because you don't want them to commit succide. Then you could get into a life long thing always wondering is he gonna kill himself because I did somthing wrong? OR yeah somthing along that line but I would go with your heart and get him HELP. you need to do it befor e you loose someone you really cared about! Hope this helps. Good lUck in the future.
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I have a really bad sunburn...what should I do?
I'm very fair complected. Alot of it is on my arms and face. I've tried the mustard, vinager, and other crap that people say will bring the heat out of it but it has done nothing but irritate it, and make it look even redder. Help!
~Sunburnt in Ohio~ (link)
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Hey, yeah sunburn kills but it is a bad thing too! Especially when there are blisters on it or smal bumps thats sun poising. Remember to wear sun screen and not just tanning oil or nothing at all. SO go to a stor and you can get like jell stuff there are several kinds of it. I like the kind that is the brand hawiian Topic/ Cucumber Melon soothing aloe vera it has vitamins A,Band E and it soothes, cools, and moisturises thats what the front of it says. It also is in a clear bottle and the gel itself it a green type of color. Hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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recently i have found myself connected to someone. she and i share very unusual things with one another. we can feel when the other is distressed in anyway or in pain. i can feel her heart beat over my own. it does not matter how far or near we are to each other. i feel as if i have known her always. we are close friends and i don't want to lose that, but these feelings are really hurting on the inside. is there a way to stop them with out me seperating from her? is there something i can do? also, i'm 14 years old, she's 13. any information would be greatly appreciated, thank you. (link)
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You are more than close friends with this girl. It is more like you are having deep love feeling for the girl. If you are to shy to go up to her and tell her the feelings you having wright her a note or somthing along that line. There are several ways to express your feelings you just have to come up with the way to do it. If you cant think of the right one just ask me. I can give you some idaes. Like the person below me if you are having this strong of feelings then she is probally having the same and also like the person below do not tell her about the heart thing it most likely will scare them away. LOL hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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First off im 15 and my boyfriend is 16.I havnt had my period since end of April. I took a pregnancy test early this morning. It showed up positive. I asked my father to make me a doctor apt. and i have one tomarrow morning. (he knows it was positive) My boyfriend and i no the kind of responsibility it is going to take. We also know we are going to have to work hard for money. My family and his family both knows. Im looking for more advice. Please Help and Thank You (link)
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Well if you have a good supported family about the issue, then hopefully they can help you with some of the doctor appoitments and things like that. But you do also need to bring in some of the money. If you are set on keeping the baby then you need to get a job. I learned a long time ago the price of things for a baby in the first year adds up to the price of a average priced new car. So yes it does take alot of money. My fiend was 15 when she got pregnant and she was big into horses and showing and things like that she gave it up and sold everything she had so she could keep the baby. She got no money from her parent except they did help out a little with doctor bills. But if you are into a hobby ar have stuff you can sell, sell it that can bring in more money than you can expect. And with a new baby you are going to have to make some tuff desisions on some of your hobby's and things like that. Go to your local librarry and check out some books or movies on becomming a parent and also here are some websites that might help. Or may be just some fun for you LOL.
http://www.reachout.com.au/default.asp?ti=287
http://www.sxetc.org/index.php?topic=FAQ&sub_topic=Teen+Parenting
http://www.ivillage.com/
I hope this helps. Good Luck in the Future.
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Well I'm going swimming tomorrow. Today I had my period for the first time and I tried a tampon. It was really hard to get out. I tried pulling it out in different directions and I tried like half a box of tampons and I'm pretty sure it's in correctly. The string almost broke when i tried to pull it out it hurts. My parents wont let me get in the water without a tampon and i cant sneak in without one because they check to make sure im not lying. Oh and ive tried the lowest absorbensy and lubricant stuff still doesnt help. Please help! (link)
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Well if you have never had sex, which i am assuming you havent then you are just tight down there. You are just gonna have to suffer threw the pain and make sure you are changing it about every 4-6 hours. Also try the kind that dosent expand when you put it in or try the teenage kind if you know what I am talking about. When you wear your bathing suit and are swimming if it is in front of alot of people you might want to make sure that the string dosent show. But once you get in the water yuou will be having fun and it will take your mind off of it. In a cuple of times of being on your period then you will loosen up if you use a tampon every time. Also you may already know this but, I am going to tell you science you have never had another period in your life they will be very ir regular for abput the firstyear or two so there is nothing wrong with that type of thing occuring. They may also not last very long either. So hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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i have only had sex once in my life and my bf came over yesterday and he fingered me and i woke up with this bump on my vagina what dose this mean. (link)
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If it dosent go away in a week. TELL an adult. And go to the doctor or a gyno maybe your best bet you probally havent been to one yet but it may be somthing good to get checked out if it isnnt gone in without a week.
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i recently learned that one of my very close friends is bisexual. She didnt tell me, i just kinda found out through the grapevine. Well, I'm fully supportive of her and everything, but I just dont know how to deal with it. How do i tell her I know? I dont want things to be different between us, because we're really good friends. Help please.
Sincerely,
Confused (link)
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Honestly you don't have to tell her. If she wants to tell you on her own time thats fine. Or if you think it is true and you want her to know than you can play it cool by saying.... Well i have been hearing rumors that you are bi? Is this true? If it is I fully support you. And I don't want things to change between us. So really it depends if you think she needs to know or not. Hope this helps. Good Luck In The Future.
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My hair is not easily curled. It takes me about 2 hours to actually get it curled with a curling iron and half the time it doesn't even look the way i want it to. I have tried curling gels and scrunching, but none of it has worked. I want my hair to stay curly for about a day or so...And quick to style. Does anyone know how? (link)
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They make warm hair culers like you warm them up in a micerwave and they are rubber type of material, they are similar to the old fashion type of curlers. I have the same problume, what I do is if it is for somthing important like a wedding that i am in or prom or somthing like that go get it permed. But for one day wear put it in curlers the night before. Pull them out right before you leave you rhouse and spray them RIGHT away after you take the curler out. Then if there are any weired spots take the iorn to them or puul it back in a half or somthing so no one can tell. Remember spray is one of the most important things and spray spray spray alot! Hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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I'm a 13/f. And I'm constantly masturbating. I'm getting to where I do it 3 times a day. That's not normal...and I've been doing this for 2 years. And it is messing me up in school, cause I'm always horny. What can I do to stop?
And please dont answer and say "just get a hobby, to take your mind off of it"...that doesnt work, i've already tryed it.
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I do have to agree with the person below me. Just go have safe sex. If you don't want to do that then masturbate before and after school and at night. Your hormones have alot to do with it too! This may sound wrong but I know one of my friends did this, Go to one of your bff's thats in about the same stage of developing and tell her your feelings and ask her if she (make sure its a she) is having the same things happen. If she is you 2 might wanna get to gether and express your feelings together if you know what I mean. I have never done it but my friend says it is also very relaxing and you kniow you can't get pregnant. Hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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does anyone know a really good workout that works your lower abs and targets the "pooch" area? (link)
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The old fashion crunches should do the trick. Do them on each side and in the middle and also do ones with your legs sticking up in the air.Do about 15 each and every week add about 5 more untill you get to about 50 each a day and you can do it at different times like morning and evening. Hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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what's a good acne product that you can get at department stores? i've tired proactiv and i'm allergic to benzoyl peroxide, so i can't use it. I have to use sylaic (spellling?) acid. I want something that would give me proactiv results though. I have mild acne and combination skin. i have a lot of blackheads around and on my nose, and I don't really get pimples except when i get my period sometimes. 13/f (link)
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What helps me is stridex alcohol free pads. But I don't know if you would be able to use it i don't know because of your spelling but if this is what you are talking about aorry Salicylic acid? Which I kinda think it is what you are talking about then I know you said department store but I would try Avons face cleaning stuff because I am pretty positive it dosent have any of the stuff you are allergic to in it or i would look at the kroger brand and see if it has nay in it. Thats what my brother uses.Hope this helps. Good Luck in the future.
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so this gorgeous guy i talk to on myspace all the time and we went to school together but never really saw eachother and he said i was pretty and blablabla
then he came over today because hes my brothers freinds freind and he sat really close to me
and folowed me and grabbed my hand and stuff lol awe
and he said i was really hot and im like your so cute you look like zac efron lol
then we went in my bed together and he kept touching me and stuff
but then i was like..
i dont want a whore i want a boyfreind.
and hes like come on im not a slut..
blablabla
then he had to leave and we locked my door
and i think he wanted me to kiss him.
but then i didnt..
i should have
then he left
he just left..
with well.
i got to go
cya
and walked out the door..
so...
my question is..
does he like me?
and how do i get him to be my boyfreind..
i really felt something
please help
thank you so much
i rate 5s for tryers..
thank you all (link)
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Well it may be hard to tell. He may be there to have what is in his eyes a "hott" girl. Or he may be serious. But just ask him... do ou think we could become more than friends or somthing along that track. But meet in public places first or you may end up in a position with him that you dont want to be in. Hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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Okay so I am really athletic and I play soccer on a higher type of team and I always have practice and we have to do things like run 5 laps, and sprints.. things like that. So anyways, my hips are so large! my hipbones like stick out so much. I would think that exercise like that would make them thinner but no they are just the same. Please help on how to make them smaller, I RATE 5'S TO ALL!! (link)
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My hips are the same way to. No matter how hard you work out and extersise your hip bones cant shrink. It is a genetic gene that you got that isnt to fantastic. If you look at some of your family members they will probally have the same problume. So you really cant make them smaller if it is all bone. Now if it was fat on your hips that would be a different story but scince it is bone it can't be shrunk. Sorry about your luck. Good luck in life.
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heya i got fingered a couple of weeks ago and he pused in really hard. it hurt odviosuly becase it was my first time i went b to my m8ts house and started bleeding and somerthin came out like skin *cringe* is it my hymen? have i lost my virginty? plzzz tell me
xoxoxoxo (link)
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Ok well most likely it was your hymen. And no your not a virgin anymore hate to breake it to you as soon as a penius goes up you you ar eno longer a vergin!
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Theres this guy i really like and i found out that he likes me too! but unfortunatly i am moving at the end of this month. he is on vacation for another week and then he's comming back. he told me he wants to hang out before i leave and i'm not sure what that's going to lead to..(nothing TOO serious, I'm sure!) if he asks though, should i go out with him? i've been in a long distance relationship before, it didnt work out only because i haven't seen that guy in 5 years. I know i would see this guy all the time though because all my family is here and we will vist A LOT. im soooo confused. Help!!!! (link)
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Well i have had one long term relationship and he ended up cheating on me! So if he is into you enough he wont if he is a nice guy he wont cheat. If you really really like each other than go out theres only one way to find out what would happen. Also some guys may like you and show it but in the long run not want to make a commitment and have a girl friend. So you might wanna make sure he does that stuff or you may already know! Well hope this helps.
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I want to join the flag twirlers team. Sorry, i cant remembe exactly what it is called, but i know that it starts with a "c."
I just wanted to know if they were considered like unpopular, or are they more like cheerleaders?
Also, is it hard to be a flag twirler?
Hev
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Yes it is called Color Gaurd as everyone else has called it. And no it does not take your popularity down. Anyways that shouldnt matter!!!!! Then it is'nt that hard for me it takes alot of hard work and practice though! So It would definently be somthing fun and cooll so I would recomend it! Hope this helps
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okay. i thought that this day, 6/6/06 was the day the anti-christ was supposed to be born. but everyone is saying we are all gonna die today, but the bible doesnt say anything about this. so what is actually happening today? (link)
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Well nothing really, It is all a bunch of myths and people mainly that are athisit (sorry if I spelled that wrong) But nothing is going to happen if you know the bible well then you will know that Crist said he would come un expectidly. So yeah and if you didnt know 6-6-6 is the devils "number" and I dont know who that was came to be. Hope this helps
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me and my boyfriend are expecting a baby in february. we are obviously not married- but im wondering if when it comes, will it obtain my last name or his?- i was thnking itd have to be mine- since hes not really my spouse- but is there any way can request that it has his last name if needed? (link)
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Well if you are really serious and not in high school then you could possibly do a last name combo in other words using your last name first then your bf's last name last of just your or just his most the people I know that are in high school use their last names andd those are girls Hope this helps!
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what is a good amount of money per hour
if i dont really know the kids except that that they are a sister of a family friend
and that the daughter is 2 and the son is 7
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When I babysit (im from the us) I charge about 4 dollars an hour for 3 kids and under then with the families that have more i do about 5-7 ( I babysit for a family of 9 kids thats when i do the 7 an hour) But I hope this helps
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ok so im a freshman in high school (15 yrs old) and like every weeekend someone in our grade has a party at their house.. and of course there's drinking. a lottt of people go.. and it's always the thing that everyone is talking about the week after that in school.. i havent gone to any yet.. but i really want to. what are some tips to like "fake drink" or only drink a little? (link)
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Hunny they may sound fun but in the long run you will most likely regrat doing it. If you don't feel comfertable drinking say its not you you dont have to drink to fit in or be "cool" Juz be youself and never forget that dont try to be someone your not! Hope this helps Good luck in the future!
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