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A strong bond?
recently i have found myself connected to someone. she and i share very unusual things with one another. we can feel when the other is distressed in anyway or in pain. i can feel her heart beat over my own. it does not matter how far or near we are to each other. i feel as if i have known her always. we are close friends and i don't want to lose that, but these feelings are really hurting on the inside. is there a way to stop them with out me seperating from her? is there something i can do? also, i'm 14 years old, she's 13. any information would be greatly appreciated, thank you.
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Well with age and maturity comes the answer to this, when you grow you learn to be able to be clsoe to people but not too close, so that you can protect your feelings. I'm not really sure how to make those feelings stop, maybe you should confront her about it, there has to be a reason you feel so strongly for her, talk to her.
Communication is key.
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You are more than close friends with this girl. It is more like you are having deep love feeling for the girl. If you are to shy to go up to her and tell her the feelings you having wright her a note or somthing along that line. There are several ways to express your feelings you just have to come up with the way to do it. If you cant think of the right one just ask me. I can give you some idaes. Like the person below me if you are having this strong of feelings then she is probally having the same and also like the person below do not tell her about the heart thing it most likely will scare them away. LOL hope this helps. Good luck in the future.
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Hun, i think that those feelings aren't "close friends" feeling
i think that you are in love with this girl
if you are as close as you say you are
she probally feels the same way
just tell her in a cute-but-you way that you like her
i wouldnt go into the "i feel your heart beat..." too quick
might scare her off, you know?
well, good luck :)
ask back if you need
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