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i wanna kno if he likes me
hi, jus wonderin how do i kno if this guy likes me. i dont kno him very well and i only see him occasionally cos he works at the video store, but everytime i go in there when hes workin he always say hi n asks how im goin even if im not near him and smiles at me heaps . and when he serves me he asks how ive been n wat ive been up to etc, n when hes talkin to me he looks directly at me. i jus wanna kno if u think he mite like me or if hes jus being nice. also can u pls give me some tips on how to maybe get to kno him better eg get his number without seeming like a dickhead.
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Hi, he deffinately does like you, and most likely thinks your a wonderful person who is just so nice, especially if you say "please" and "thank-you". He could then, just be doing his job. As you know dealing with costumers you have to be polite, friendly and always smiling. I think he likes you. But he might not love you. The guy I think could be a gentleman and is polite and curtious. Theres only one way to know if you stand a chance, and that's ask him out. For example when he talks to you then you respond perfectly, something like this:
Him: Hi
You: Hi how's your day
Him: He responds
You: It's a nice night/day is'nt it
Him: Respond's
You: So what have you been up to lately
Him: Will...
You: Oh cool, will Im thinking of doing something this Friday. (plan something) Hey why don't you come along, your more than welcome, then that way we can have a good time and we could catch up some more.
Him: Yes or no
You: (if no) Oh OK, maybe we could do it another time
You: (if yes) Cool, meet you at...
You: Ok see you, have a nice night/day
Do you see what I just did. I asked alot of open questions and also commented on some things such as the night/day. If he is interested then he will go to where ever your going providing that
you have planned something, and then you could take it from there. Heres 3 tips when talking to the opposite sex:
1. Compliments (Your looking great today)
2. Open questions (So how's your day been?)
3. Small talk (Heared that it's going to be sunny/chilli tommorrow)
Remember: open questions require a more open communicative answer, close questions only require a yes or no answer. Open questions are better because you can ask a question then build a conversation from it, and should get more confidence as you talk more and more. Remember to smile and make eye contact use your hand perhaps to express what your saying. If does'nt want to go out or just seems to not want to get close with you, then hes probaly not that interested and is only doing his job. Try out what Ive just told you and if it works out then get back to me on my column. I could tell you more and would deffinately try and help you. If thing's don't work out, I would be happy to here your side of the story and what strategies we could use to sort this out. Good luck with that first tip and remember: "Smile, eye contact and enjoy!) Daniel.
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