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-- Hey yall I'm jess, Livin in the Nati, Ohio. ny rep though ! I love to help people and i`ve experienced a lot.. abuse/depression*suicidal/deaths/ sex-life/ love life/ parent trouble/ lies/ family/ feels like nobody's there.. ETC. too Many to name!
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hiya im kim 14 f uk. have you got msn? if so plz add me mrs_mcmahon_27@hotmail.com thanx kim (link)
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yepp i got it ill add ya first thing. thankS =]
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hey i went out wit this kid tom and we went out for almost 2 months and i really liked him but i broke up wit him twice and we havent gne out since n now wen i think about it i didnt realy like him like that i didnt even make out wit him it felt wrong because i saw him making out wit my friends for no reason before at parties bu that was before we went out and anyways i went out wit this kid matt after him for 3 weeks and i really eally like him like i think it might even be love i cant stop thinking about him i broke up wit him though because i had no time to see him and he understands and we still hang out and he messages me on his phone calls me flirts wit me in school anything u kno i never seen him wit a girl an maybe thats why i htink mor of him i dunno i need ur help i didnt make out wit him yet either well our tongues touched but it was for a sec he was wasted so i didnt want to do anything so help me if u can thanks i rate really good but i wanna know do i feel this way about him cause i didnt se him wit a girl b4 or becuase i really like him and should i make a move on him and if yes then wat???
thanks for reading i rate good xoxo toodles (link)
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i think ya really do like him.. definetly sounds like it, and if he's willing to not go around with other girls to show ya he really does like ya, yall would probably work out!! N since you do like him you should try n make a move n see wat happens, n ya might wana start not too fast, jus like making out, then see wat goes down after that! Good luck, let me kno what happens! x0x-muah-jess
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My daugthers room is very very small is has hardwood floors and walls so its not very attractive for her 15th birthday we're redoing it we ordered her a loft bed but we'd like some ideas on how to redecorate and we'd like to know if its okay to paint on the wood walls. We want a color that will open it up thanks for your help! (link)
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I think it's fine as long as the wood doesn't show through.. you should try her favorite colors and some things she interests for like comforters and pillows and stuff =]
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hey im asking this question for my friend val
my friend n her bf have been together for a year and 4 months and she lost her virginity to him wen they were together for 8 months and he lost his to her and they just broke up a month ago and he makes out wit other girls in front of her and makes her feel stupid he tells everyone hes a pimp and that he can play anyone so he went out wit like 4 girls aleady my friend still isnt over him because she loves him and loved him or atleast she thoguht she did shes a junior and hes a sophomore shes going out wit this other kid for 2 weeks already but i think shes wit him to make her ex jealous im not sure because she said hes just ok looking and he has an ok personality so i dont think she really likes him i dont feel sorry for her ex tho but people say she used her ex wen they werre goin out beause hes rich but i think it was love well anyways i dont have anything else to tel her and ifeel bad for her that she has to face him everyday if u have any advice please write back i rate good thanx toodles (link)
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hey.. i think you should talk to your friend and if she says she was really in love with him for him not money or anything then you should talk to her ab telling him how she really feels.. but it seems like in a way he *thinks* he's too good for her, and she should move on and get better than him, sound's like a good girl and he's jus like the rest of the guys out there.. a lil playa not grown up yet! and it seems like he wants to go explore a little bit more since theyve been together for awhile.. or maybe you could talk to them both & tell em to go jus see wat else is out there .. like takin a break mess with some other people thn see wat happens from there
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Hey, I'm sorry if this grosses you out but it's just something that happens and I'm wondering if there is a reason why. Well I usually don't go #2 a lot, like people tell me you're supposed to go everyday but I only go like once a week sometimes longer, and it's not like I don't eat because I eat a lot and I don't gain any weight either, I'm 14 and weigh 100 pounds. So I'm wondering if that's normal or what I should do or any advice about that.
Thank you, I rate well. (link)
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that's totally normal.. lol, when i was 13-14 that's how i used to be.. I'm fine today. nothings wrong with it unless you begin to eat toO much sugar n then get one of those diseases. Jus eat some healthy food sometime,n when you get a bit older eat a little bit more healthy then ya do.. But yes its normal at 14, 100 pOunds, n eatin junk food! thats how ya dooo ! x0 MUah- jess
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ok here it goes..
my best guy friend and i went out for roughly a month, then he broke up with me. Well he's gotten over me and gone out with all these other girls, but i still have feelings for him and he has no idea whatsoever. i want to tell him, but then again i don't because i'm afraid that it might mess things up. and just a couple minutes ago, he read my profile and it has a quote in it that says "if two past lovers can remain friends then they were never in love or they still are" and when he read, that he imed me and goes "thats not true, i loved you until i saw you as a friend" i dont know, something about him saying that made me feel weird. i really really like him, but i feel like i can't do anything about it. This might be a confusing question, and it might be hard to understand what im asking, but if you do please help me.. (link)
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i understand where youre coming from, that's happened to me before just a diff. quote in my profile. Well, now, me and the boy don't really talk as much. but in your case i think you definetly should tell him how you feel.. The reason, in my situation we don't talk as much now, but we're friends.. is cause i NEVER came around to telling him how i felt when i had those feelings, and i regret it when i talk to him. You should definetly tell him how you feel.. and if he doesn't feel the same then maybe try out some different types of guys and its most likely somebodys going to make you feel so great. =] I hope I helped.. let me know what happens! -x0x muah - Jess
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OKay i no this guy who really likes my friend and my friend was leading him on saying she loves him. My friend doesnt actually like this guy at all she thinks hes weird but she made up this whole story and pretended to break up with her boyfriend. Her boyfriend meanwhile is really sad and i'm trying to comfort him. Then my friend finnally tells the guy she doesnt like him. Then the guy is like saying he is going to kill himself. He slit his wrist and swallowed 13 extra strength aspirin. Thats were I am now and I don't know what to do because the guy doesnt go to my school and i dont kno him that well and I'm not going to see him tommoro. I am talking to my friend and she is saying its not her fault. Im not sure what to do. Plz help me (link)
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okay when people are suicidal if you go and get an adult or something usually it makes it worse and theyre like f*** that and get real pissed & it gives them more motivation to kill themselves.. and it pisses them off more, But.. he needs emotional support. He needs somebody there for him, & He needs a new reason to live. He needs to meet somebody that makes him feel really good about himself, and youre a great person for coming to get help & try and let him know youre there for him! If it comes worse to worse, adult is the answer though. you should find out if he's def. gona kill himself & if theres nothing anyone can do then get an adult. x0x muah-jess
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i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much? (link)
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no that isnt too much your tall, and its definetly not fat, just perfecT! *mUAH- jess
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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!
xoxo (link)
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Ive been in a situation like this before.. yeah it def. sounds like he likes you, n he wants to hook up. since he's your best friends ex, doesnt sound like they were in love, so she shouldn't really care , or if it was really recent maybe wait a little bit then start chillin w/ him wen you can and see wat happens from there, I see it that if yall lived closer you & him would def. be hookin up
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i recently dumped my boyf amd still had feeling 4 him yestaday uptown he was flirting with me and we ended up going out again but he got this otha girl pregnant and now he ses he has a daughter but they've split and we luv eachother but sumtimes I don't believe what he ses about having a daughter and he seems pretty desperate if he has a daughter cause uptown we were cuddling on the grass and he kept getting erections and trying to show me luv but wen i tryed 2 kiss him he turned his face away and sed i dont know if I'm ready yet what does this mean? (link)
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Yea, he probably has a little somethin on the side with another lady, but confused cause he loves you too.. you should ask him to be straight up with you and let you know how he`s feelin cause you don`t wana play no games.. him sayin he`s not ready yet could mean that he`s not ready to move on stop with the girl he got pregnant..
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im a 15 yr old chick and i absolutely love this guy (whos 18)with all my heart, and he likes me too we hook up all the time and its like were in a full on relationship except for he wont 'go out' wit me, he says he doesnt want to make it official because he doesnt want a hardout relationship. we recently had a fight and he said he didnt want to see me anymore, a day later hes saying im sorry im sorry i made a mistake will u forgive me!? but the thing is i have got really sick and i wont b able to 'do' anything for a couple of weeks, so then he says well.. were just friends then hey? im all better now and i still love him he came over last night coz were 'friends' now and before he left i told him how i felt about him and he said he still liked me too. i dont know if it should b like it was because every now and then he treated me badly, he stuffed me round all the time and i never knew where i stood with him, he wont commit but im not allowed to see other people so long as were seeing each other. im not happy with those conditions but i cant live without him, i wish he would change but he never will what should i do? (link)
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you should just wait and see wat happens at first, and if nothing changes you should really tell him how you feel, and that you want a real relationship & you really want him to be committed & treat you right.. if hes not willing to change you can get better.
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okay ive been on vaca. for a few days, and last night i was on the phone w/ the boy i like and im pretty sure he likes me..and i was feelin so horny and i seriously wanted him so bad..(weve made alot before) and i keep fingering my self..
and i want to do stuff with him right when i get home which is in 2 days..but how do i tell him i wanna..? (link)
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when you get home, do somethin with him. invite him over to your place or go to the movies.. well depends on how much you wana do with where the place is.. n make sure you hug him wen u see him rub a lil.. then well if he made you that horny then he prob really does like you so he's gona make the first move but if he doesnt.. make eye contact kinda a lot, n act like you want him. you could alawys make the first move nothing wrong with that if he doesnt..
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when im making out with a boy..i wanna just do more then kissing..like i wanna make him want me..cause once a boy knows he has advantage of you and he wants you..your gunna go pretty far..but like what should i do to make him wanna? like where should i touch him? (link)
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once a boy knows he has advantage of you he's gona try to get you to do a lot with him and if youre willing then to please him.. since you guys have only kissed s0 far then jus rub his dick a little bit at first to make him want more, & carress a liL bit let him kno wat u want.. an that youre feelin him n want moRe*
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how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?] (link)
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Fallin out could mean your shirts a bit lOw.. or yeah you need a new bra size up.. Go sHOppin with ya friends n' see what works for you
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