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what to do about guys who mess with your head
im a 15 yr old chick and i absolutely love this guy (whos 18)with all my heart, and he likes me too we hook up all the time and its like were in a full on relationship except for he wont 'go out' wit me, he says he doesnt want to make it official because he doesnt want a hardout relationship. we recently had a fight and he said he didnt want to see me anymore, a day later hes saying im sorry im sorry i made a mistake will u forgive me!? but the thing is i have got really sick and i wont b able to 'do' anything for a couple of weeks, so then he says well.. were just friends then hey? im all better now and i still love him he came over last night coz were 'friends' now and before he left i told him how i felt about him and he said he still liked me too. i dont know if it should b like it was because every now and then he treated me badly, he stuffed me round all the time and i never knew where i stood with him, he wont commit but im not allowed to see other people so long as were seeing each other. im not happy with those conditions but i cant live without him, i wish he would change but he never will what should i do?
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major head games..plus he is 18...
To me..he sound like a bigtime loser who is just funning around wiht you..cause he can.
Tell him to shape up or get the heck out. To me..being alone iw way better than wiht someone who treats me poorly.
No dude is worth that..ok...self respect come first.
DUMP him...find a worthy guy.
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Well if he doesn't want to go out he is obviously in it for the sex. Sad but true. He is eighteen, come on. If you really think that hooking up is the apex of your relationship, and thats all you want out of it go for it! If not, dont. Do what you think is best, but thats a red flag when he doesnt want it to be "official"
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you should just wait and see wat happens at first, and if nothing changes you should really tell him how you feel, and that you want a real relationship & you really want him to be committed & treat you right.. if hes not willing to change you can get better.
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just stick with him and wait it out.. older guys that give you at least that much are hard to find. but he better be hot to make up for his being a slight jerk.
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You deserve much better than this guy is willing to give you. You've said it yourself - he treated you badly, and he won't give you the commitment you want.<p>
I know its hard to make a break from somebody you are involved with and have a history with, but it will be better for you in the long run if you leave this bad relationship before you get hurt. The sooner you get out of this bad cycle with this guy, the sooner you can find somebody who loves you in return and treats you as you deserve to be treated. Good luck.
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I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. Teel him that you want a committed relationship with him. Just talk to him. Thats all I can say. Hope I have been of some help. ~Candy the Wiccan
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