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last night i hung out with this guy who i used to date before he got locked up. i havnt seen him for a year but when i saw him again it was amazing. well, we ended up doing it but he didnt have a condom. and before you say it, i know! stupid move!! what was i thinking!? yeah, i know, me and him were talking about that all night. so we know we did wrong. no need to tell us we did. now im worried that im pregnant, he didnt cum in me, i know FOR SURE because i cleaned it up. and he cant talk to his parents because hes still on house arrest and if he has any contact with ME he will go back into juvie. so hes 16 and im still 15 but ill be 16 on december 8th. i dont know what to do. i want to get a test so hes going to get a friend of his to buy it. but could i buy a test? i know i cant buy the morning after pill because you have to be 18. he called me this morning to see if i felt sick, i did, but i felt like that last night, like a hungry sick. i didnt throw up or anything. i havnt eaten very much food latley.
im freaking out. i live im michigan if that helps, and if you cant tell in the story im 15/f.
im totally scared, i could never tell my mom about this, im not on birth control - i want to be but my mom dosent want me to be. i would like advice on what to do, and anything, incase i am pregnant. anything please!
yes stupid move but if you Could find someone to buy you the morning after pill you'd be alot safer. If your just not willing to do that then you have to wait and just find out. You will not have signs of being pregnant already you have to give it so many days after your "missed" period. Taking a pregnancy test right now will do no good cause its going to be negative. Considering he didnt cum inside of you, your chances of being pregnant will go down but you can still get pregnant from pre-cum. If i were you i would deff. try to see if you can find someone to buy you the morning after pill. If not then just wait to see if you miss your period next month, if you do then you need to take a test. If it happens to be positive you need to tell you mom without a doubt. Because, you will need to see a doctor.
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-kim
16/F
I'm due to get my period at the worst possible time! I'll be on a two-day class trip and we'll be going to a theme park. How can I prevent my period from coming? =/
There is no way to prevent your period from coming or almost every female wouldn't have a period. Just bring tampons/pads alot of extra too.
My bgf just asked me to the to attend the Military Ball with him, but I don't know what to wear. I know it's very early considering it's not until April and he said he would have more details later, but i wanted to know what a girl could wear. I have my homecoming dress which is brown with little gold detail and the bottom and a little at the top and it's about to the knees. He said that should be fine, but I still wanted to know. Thanks so much! And if you have attended one or knew anything about it I would love to learn more! ;)
In highschool i was in ROTC and we had military balls. Its probably somewhat the same idea. I wore a prom dress and it was long.
one of my best friends is turning 15 tomorrow, and i already got her a gift. she invited me to her party as well (sunday). when should I give her the gift? on her birthday or her party? :)
I would just ask her when she would like to open it. That way she can choose if she wants to open it with everyone elses gifts.
...i love how the person below me can read your question.
is this real?
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i dont think so.
Okay, this is not one of those questions in which you need to know me to answer or that I have not previously resaerched.
What I need to figure out is how I can apply to stores which are currently being built in my residential area (Whytby/Oshawa, Ontario).
Any help is appreciated =]
When they are ready for people to start applying for jobs there they will more then likely post a sign outside on the store. The sign will have either a number or a website.
what are those giftcards or visa things that u can get someone and u can spend them anywhere? or at least annywhere that takes visa? or something like that. i was thinking of getting my boyfriend one for christmas because i dont know what to get him. what are they called and how do i get one? also what do you think is a good amount?
you can buy them basically anywhere that sales giftcard. They are American Express giftcards. They are sold by $25, $50 and $100
my boyfriend and i were dry humping and he precummed.
i was wearing underwear and sweat pants and he was wearing jeans and underwear. there was a wet spot on his pants, and i was wondering if i could at all get pregnant from it?
so we were each wearing two layers of clothing.
help?!
please, answer as quickly as possible. i'm freaked out.
yea your deff. not pregnant dont worry about it.
I have a stye (tiny reddish bump) on my lower lashline- it's a little painful and irritating. What are some remedies for styes? And around how long does it take to heal?
yea those damn things hurt like hell. If you can get to a store like a drug store they sell this item called "Stye" it helps alot. And they take about 3-4 with that creme
i dont "finger" myself. i just rub myself down there until i start to "throb" with plessure. How can i loosen myself up down there without hurting myself? i dont want a guy to finger me and find out im super tight.. please help
To loosen yourself up you will have to Use sex toys. Theres no way to loosen yourself up without it hurting. If your old enough buy yourself a vibrator or dildo if you not use your hand or round the house items but make sure they are clean. You'd be amazed how many guys like when a girl is tight. Being tight is not a bad thing.
this isnt really advice im just curious. one day this question popped into my head and ive been thinking about and asking other people as well. i already have an opinion of it but id like other perspectives. the question is, do you think one can be deep IN LOVE with another person, if the feeling isnt mutual? not just love them but be truly IN love. also could you please explain why or why not for your answer =] thanks.
I was very much in love with this guy that had no interest in being with me or even being my friend at that. I know people say theres no such thing as love at first sight, but i fell hard for this guy. BUt yes i believe one can be deeply in love with someone and the feeling not be mutual.
I got my cartiledge pierced in the beginning of august of this year and the other day i noticed a small bump under it and it started pussing and bleeding. I took out the piercing and cleaned the area with alcohol swabs. I just tried to put in the piercing a little while ago and it won' go in, i looked in the back of my ear where the piercing should go through and it seems to have closed up alrady, is this possible or is it just scarred skin. Im not sure what to do i don't wnat this hole to close up because I want to put my piercing back in.
when i got my nose pierced a bump started to form right next to the piercing. The girl i work with told me it was a cyst. You should have kept the piercing in but since you didn't i would recommend waiting about a month or two and go get it repierced. Its going to hurt more the second time because you are going thru more soft tissue and plus your getting it pierced in the same spot. The bump would have gone away ( mine did )
14/f so ive had my period for about a year. and this month i am more than a week late.... i havent had sex or anything. what could cause this? it isnt possible that i still have a tampon in from last month is it?
You probly just have an irregular period. its normal and just to let you know if you have a tampon in you from last month you probably should just go straight to the hospital.
15/f.
this kid, told my friend, that he wants to kill all the people that are mean to him in school. and he tried to buy a gun, but he like couldn't. or something. but he wants to kill all the mean people there. he said, "all the people that just even look at me wrong, i want to kill them." and now im scared. i mean i'm not sure how serious he was. because he is veryyy emotional. like he has major mood swings. but i just don't wanna walk into school one day, and hes having an off day, and die for it. you know? and hes like, well it doesnt matter. because the most that will happen to me is ill get 25 years in jail. and thats not a big deal.
so i dont know. what should i do!? :/ should i tell someone? or just let it go.. and risk it?
Hun, you need to tell someone asap. No joke this is very serious. Tell your mom, call the school, call a teacher, call the cops just call someone and tell them what you heard and the name of the boy that told your friend that. This is very serious.
PLease tell someone as soon as you get done reading this. EVen if you just tell your mom she will need to contact the school or the police asap.
this guy has a gf but he likes me 2. I lke him back and he wants to hookup and stuff and cheat on her with me. yah i no its wrong but i really lke him and were gonna go out anyway after they break up . BUt they might not breakup for a while. shes also a "friend of mine" but i dont rlly like her. idk what to do bc i like him alot and dont want to wait but if anyne finds out my life is ruined.thanks!
clearly you don't think him cheating on his girlfriend with you is wrong because you said that she a friend of your but you don't like her and you don't know if they will break up soon enough. You should nevere hook up with someone that has a boyfriend or girlfriend. its wrong in so many ways. If he will no tbreak up with his girlfriend for you then he doesn't really want you, face that. You should find someone else. go for the single guys..
how much effective is morning after pill? is it 99% effective? i heard that the first time, you never get pregnant. is that true?
Im not sure how effective the morning after ppill is but it is not truee at all the you can't get pregnant the first time. that is the stupidiest myth ever. you can get pregnant the first time and ever time after that. Use protection
Whenever i close my mouth completely i always bite the sides of my cheeks. Its starting to really hurt. Is there something wrong or is my mouth just screwed up?
thanks
Or even if im just talking ill bite the sides of my cheeks. It hurts like hell
I am 13 years old, am 126 pounds, and am 5 feet and 4 and a half inches. Is that healthy?
Yes thats healthy
I know I sound like I'm lazy and won't look it up myself, BUT I've spent hours looking for a tattoo of a sword going through a heart. (Not a real heart, just the heart shape.) I absolutely cannot find one and I'm getting really frustrated. If you could look for me or at least give me a website of a tattoo gallery that you don't have to pay for, that'd be great.
i only found one ptuebu i have a website
http://www.tattoosymbol.com/articles/heart-with-dagger.jpg
www.rankmytattoo.com
If you plan on getting that kind of tattoo they probly have picture on the wall or in books at your tattoo place. If they don't just tell them what you want and they can freehand it and make it look awesome and its cheaper.
mk so i have a verizon razr or something and i remember there being a way to block numbers from calling/txting you. but i don't remember how..does anyone know?
My friend works fro verizon and i have asked himthisquestion many times before and he says there is no way to block one number you have to change your phone number. There is the option on the phone i believe but it doesnt work. i may be wrong but i pretty sure im not.