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I jut got my period today but it's my first tIme and I'm going to California this summer and I'm gonna be in the water a lot and i dont know what to if I get my period there and I'm scared to use tampons so I don't know what to do other than tell my friend about it or wear black bathing suit bottoms.
Please give me some advice I need some soon cuz I'm leaving soon!!! (link)
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def wear tampons or your in for unwelcome suprise when it starts runing dmx leg yes ive been there embarassing thou i on ly caught it when i went in changing room take a deep breath and use an aplicator tampon its easier and it hurts alittle but once its in youl forget about it and that its there and enjoy yourself.change twice a day
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I am seventeen and a girl. I live with my mom, stepdad, and brother and sister. I have a boyfriend of ten months who is absolutely perfect. We decided last night to make a very big decision to have protected sex. Little did I know my stepdad installed cameras into the entire house. He did not tell my mom he found out but he has labeled me as a slut and that it's his decision to decide if I am ready to have sex or not. I am upset that all of this happened but I honestly don't care. Even if I did want to tell them, I wouldn't. My parents never praise me for being honest and I am too scared to talk to them about anything anyway. I'm thinking my stepdad used the camera tactic to scare me into telling him but the same time he said I should be honest because he has the tapes to back it up. I am going about my day very calmly because I know I was ready and responsible. I am not a slut or a hoe or anything because I was responsible and I will make my own decisions. I just find it so stupid how they disown me and ignore me. I bust my ass for them honestly. I watch my baby brother everyday on top of schoolwork and chores. I make good grades. I'm not a bad kid and I am entitled to my own decisions. If I screw up, it's my fault...but I was so responsible and careful... So what does it matter? What do you think about all this? (link)
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your stepdad an ahole if your going to do it wait til your out of there or stay outof his way can you talk to your mum?what dose she think of cameras?
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I'm 17 and female.
So I'm hooked on coffee! Like I'll have a minimum of 5 a day.
However I am trying not to take coffee anymore as the caffeine in it stunts growth (and I wanna grow more!) and can give you cancer and bad teath etc.
What would anyone recoomend for stopping-because I just can't help it! (link)
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cut down slowly put less coffee in your cups then cut down cups have tea instead ul feel better for it get a squishy ball to squeeze too.
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hi i had an affair 8 years ago and back in november i told my husband about the affair the tricky part to my affair is that from that affair i had a child my son who is now 8 . for 8 years i let my husband raise my son as his own i also told him that our son was not his we are handling things the best that we can and my son's bio father has been seeing my son a little here and there and he calls from time to time my husband is aware of this but i still feel like i have to choose between my husband or letting my son get to know his bio father . like i said we are handling things but there still are thoes uncomfortable moments between us and im not sure what to do my husband wants this other man to just drop off the face of the earth as i can understand that but my son likes talking and seeing his bio dad and as painful as all this is i think it's important for my son to know his real dad even if it's only once every few months he sees him he at least sees him . or should i just let my husband raise him and let my son pursue his father when he is older . (link)
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give your hubby sme time and space the visits with the bio dad and the boy at time that suits him and let him in on things cause hes the real (first daddy)
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Okay so I've seen the answers to a previous question that I asked. in my eyes I think that I am very mature for my age. It's really not a good thing of why, but I've been through more than an average 20 year old has went through. I've been abused and misused over and over agian. When I lost my stepdad it's ike everything got worst. I started having sex with any and every man that wanted to. I let them take advantage of me and kept letting it happen. I met a guy my age and we stayed together for like four months until he thought that i was pregnant then he left me without any last words or anything. I stopped looking for love and stayed to myself. Then in July of 2010 I met my current love. We didnt start dating right away. We just talked all the time and hung out alot. He was and still is my best friend, then we started dating as of November 17, 2010. I fell hard for him and he showed me how much he loved me and wanted to be with me every day from that day. Here's the catch though: He's 25 (as I stated earlier) and i'm 17 (18 in july)People call him a pedophile but I don't see how (well i know how) but he's not off or anything. PLEASE HELP! (link)
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if he treats u right why not?be mindful of your choices of men if youve been abused in past..sometimes we put the victim air out and it on a guys radar..if ur hapy gret its not a pedo where im from legal is 16 justkeep urself safe
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A lot of the time when socialising with people I don't know i can't make eye contact, i start shaking and i stutter when i speak. I'm really scared of what people will be thinking, and what they will think if they notice i'm nervous, i'm fine around family members i live with and the ones I know, but everybody else i'm really nervous around, it's not a phobia of going outside, it's just socialising.. I have family members that I'm not that close to that think I don't like them or I'm weird or something cause I dont say Hi to them. I have an uncle that asks my dad why I don't say Hi to him. I always get nervous cause I really don't know him and I am weird around people that aren't close to me. I want to have a normal conversation with my uncle but I always get nervous. A while ago I couldn't say Hi even though I wanted to. My uncle is always asking people why can't I speak to him. I'm not trying to be rude when I don't speak to people I just get nervous about what they are thinking about me. do you think i have Social anxiety disorder? what should i do? if i don't have Social anxiety disorder.. what do i have? (link)
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yes i think you do its the easiest mental ilness u can recover from,go to your doc and tel him and ask about CBT hel knowabout it. and look online for social anxiety forums and chat groups youl see alot of people like you
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I am 12 and female, and I feel like my hole life is all about pain, rejection, and trying to get through it. But I cant get through, I keep wanting to kill myself to let myself out of misery. I have tried to do it before by suffacattion and I couldn't it was to much, this is only at my moms house, but when Im at my dads house its so much easier to live, I just cant think of any thing to do but kill myself, and i just cant....Please help me. :<
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tel dad how sad you are ask to live with him.
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I really want to kill myself. I'm always depressed because I get picked on at school & my family members treat me like I'm a piece of crap. they think I'm a weirdo because I'm quiet & they tell me I don't have any friends, but if I told them I was getting picked on in school they probally wouldn't care or believe me. My family always fusses at me & talks about me like I'm worthless, they don't understand me & I don't want to talk to them because they never will understand.They say a lot of things to hurt my feelings & then I go to school & get picked on by kids because of the way I look. I have been being picked on since the 6th grade. If they found out that I cry in my room they probally wouldn't care or think I'm serious. I'probablyslapped before by a kid just because they didn't like me. I'm tired of being picked on at school & my family always putting me down. I'm not a ad kid. I make good grades, but I hate my life...When I get depressed I just go in my room and cry because if I talk to family about it they probally won't care. I even told my mom abot how I felt and she fusses about how I shouldnt take everything serious and theres something wrong with me. I don't even want to talk to anyone I just want to kill myself. I don't have a gun so I think the best way is to just use a knife. (link)
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ur ok.nothing wrong with you.leave this out for your mum to read only her, if she dosent catch the drift can u talk to anyone you trust? ring a helpline in your area?dnt wory about your family they being dicks if theyre not acknowledging you .your family dont always know.talk to somone .
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So I want to hang out with my best friend this weekend (a guy) and I want to make it really fun, but i'm limited on money, and the only thing we really have to do in my town is go to the movies, and go bowling which either would be alright i suppose, but not A LOT of fun, and that may seem more of like a date type of thing, when i don't want it to seem like that, because he knows that i like him, but he likes someone else so im forced to respect that ;P So yeah, Any ideas of what we could/should do?
It would be very much appreciated!
I'm 17, he's 18. (link)
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.go for a bike ride make a picnic...bring ur togs if you live near water.play playstation or watch a dvd and order in takeaways ,play cards.take dogs for walk with a frisbie.kick a football round or shoot hoops go for a walk try skateboarding or rollerblading at skate park if you have one.order fish and chips eat at park..
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I know many people think this is a stupid question, but how can I kill myself with no pain at all? I've been through so much from abuse, rape and so on..I just feel like its time leave this world. (link)
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idont know but theres no such thing cause somones going to hurt when you die.if youve been through it are you a survivor?going thru that amount it cant get worse can it ?only bette.or you learn to manage.and savour the gd times cause there will be some and youl be a strong person.things arent what they seem hold on read some books take care of yourself and breath take itslowly it gets better.
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hi im 23 years old and i been thinking about killing myself.I been in alot of pain i just want it to end and i think that death is the only way out.Sumtimes i try to talk to my friends but they just tell me im dumb.wtf do they care or what i just dnt knw what to do life is so fucked up.i go in and out of jail and prison all the time.if you was me what will you do plz help me out (link)
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your friends probably dont get how hurt you are can you call someone like a helpline or gd friend...?breaking the law isnt going to help stop breaking the law.are you an addict?isthat why you get in trouble if your addicted look up an aa or na meeting near you.listen for the similarites and hear people like you .talk to somone get it off your chest
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For a few years now I've been really interested in landscape photography, cityscape, photos of the sky, stuff like that. I'm constantly taking pictures with the camera options I have (Phone camera and Nikon Coolpix L18) but I'd like to take the next step and get a good professional-like camera and lenses to make the pictures I take look even better.
I'm aiming for being able to take pictures that look like this: http://faded-dawn.tumblr.com/
Can anybody give me some personal opinions on cameras and lenses they suggest? I've done a little Google research myself and never realized how many cameras out there that are made specifically for what I want. So I got a little overwhelmed. (link)
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SLR cameras work really wel i think thats what u need...one with manual settings . google to find out how to use them.i did and my picturescome out really well thou if ur doing landscape you might need more powerful lenses than whati used (and old minolta X300
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People At My School Keep Calling Me Anorexic. Here Is Why I Think:
-I Have A Fear Of Gaining Weight
-I Count My Calories
-I Do Think I'm Fat
-I Starve Myself
-Food Kinda Grosses Me Out
If I'm Not Anorexic, What Do I Have? (link)
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stop buying celebrity magazines any magazine that bs (vogue.. )stop watching tv programes with al the skinny people thats junk if you feed your head with that thats how ul feel.yes u areits something in your head and you need help.the movie/doc 'the secret helps too'
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Im only 16 and ever since i went from a c cup to a d my breast have sagged a lot more then i would have liked. Is there anyway for me to get them to be perkier again or just less saggy? (link)
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go to clothes shop and get propely fitted for a support bra make sure straps and that are fitting propely.hold your shoulders back do arm stretches and straighten your back.
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Hey I'm 19 and a single parent I have no friends at all I spend my days with just my child parks play centres etc..I don't really know how to make friends jus needing advice of just some kind words would be nice :) I am a brilliant mum my child comes first before everything but once my childs asleep I'm alone noone to text ring or talk to hope sum1cud help :) (link)
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how about parent groups in your area?or you could meet ppl in chat in your area on the internet and get to know them and take it from there..single mum support groups.?maybe be comfortabler meeting on net first.
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for someone my age i can definately say i have witnessed a lot of violence in my family. it started when i was 2. i still have flashbacks of how my dad beat my mom. and raped her. they divoreced and of course my mom won the court battle of full custody and i would only get get go with my dad Wednesday and every other weekend. a few years past and my mom got a new husband and they now have two kids (half broher and sister)i love them! then my stepdad got deported back to Mexico. He had no choice. And my mom was left with the kids and I. She struggled but i helped her around the house, clean, take care of the kids while she worked hard paying for our lttle apartment.
But i still had the Wednsday with my dad and every other weekend. So, my dad picked me up from my mom's aprtment and my dad and i left to go to his rented room. Night came and it was about 1:30 and i felt a hand on my vagina, it was my dad's(he was sleeping). . . . . i freakeD out and took his hand out and grabbed my phone and ran to the bathroom. i called my mom crying and she picked me up. and i as around 11-12. She called the cops but my dad HAS SOO MUCH FREAKING LUCK he conviced the police it was one of my hallicinations!or "wetdreams"?! and im like WHAT THE FUCKK?!!! I KNOW WHAT HAPPENED AND I DIDNT LIE The cops didnt beilive me (except for my mom) so CASE DISSMISSED.my momm couldnt take it anymore and she left with my permission back too Mexico. accrodding to law my mom has to leave me with my dad. and grandma. so he left she's now happy and im stuck here with my awesome grandma but with my stupid dad. i love/hate him. :/
and after all that shit^ im now 12-13 i started cutting myself and my guyfriend found out and he's telling me too stop (i cutt myself kinda deep)and he confiscaed all of my sharp objects. it's none of his business and it's not hurting anyone. it relaxes me. and idc what anyone says i'll still do it. i sometimes want to die and just have the world leave me alone. . .i've been acting strange with my dad and he wants me too see a physcoilogist because he thinks im "mentally unstable". . .Am i?? :( (link)
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aww :(dont worry.go back with mum and live in mexico with your family.you know whats true what happend ,dont need stupid cops to believe you.dads unsafe and you live with grandma and him?dose nanna know doseshe support youor is she his mum and stick up for her boy? dont worry about if he did it, get to your family.xxx
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Okay...so I know this is like a REALLY weird question...BUT! I want to start like wearing thongs...and I'm 13(yes I'm young I know) but I have no idea what to tell my mom I can't just say "Hey mom I wanna start wearing thongs let's go buy some!" not happening! I need some advice on how to ask/tell my mom what I want to do..help? Thank youu( : (link)
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.tel her you need them because then you can see pantyline and gives bum better shape.go for the cotton ones in the young ladies department.they're really reasonable
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My brother passed away and left me some money. My sister inlaw says I should share it since her husband helped pay for funeral expenses as did I. The estate will still pay us for those expenses- is she right or wrong? (link)
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no thats your money your both helping for funeral and wil be reinbursed.why should you share it?only if you want to.
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i have been with the same girl for 8 yrs..and she wants to leave me.i realy love her she wants me to move out.i dont no what to do .i am so sad and lonly my life is nothing without her.i just want to kill myself. (link)
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ever heard the saying"if you love something set it free if it comes back its yours"?get the book out"codependant no more"by melody beattie itsawinner.
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Im an 18 year old female and a nympho. The other day I was really horny and my boyfriend was at work so I decided for some reason to look up lesbian porn and old men and young women porn to masturbate to. I'm not attracted to either,girls or older men. Later that night he asked to use my phone and let him,which was probably a mistake. He went to google and it showed the list of things I looked up such as lesbian porn and old men porn. I knew he saw it because it wasnt the last thing i looked up and when he saw it in the google window he clicked on it and left it on that site.The rest of the night it was awkward and then he started talking to me like nothing happened but I knew he saw it so I couldn't help but be quiet. Lastnight he texted me and asked why I was so quiet and I said because of what you saw..obviously. I don't know what to say or why I did it. I feel fucked up in the head for doing it and more the old men porn. Now he wants a few days for space to think. I'm fine with that but I feel like he just found out the biggest secret about me and I don't want him weirded out. Idk what to do or what to think. I love my boyfriend 100% and I don't want this ruin anything. I'm not a lesbian,never will be,I'm not attracted to older men..I just don't know why I looked up what I did..? Answers on all of this please (link)
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lol .dont worry about it hes probably more turned on than anything.its not abigy.
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