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hey yall! whats up! well my name is haley, i am 13, i go to ctms, which is a pretty awesome school bc i have really awesome friends to help me through everything! my best friend moved tho, waAaAaAaAa, and i miss her like no other, but we still hang out all the time and are still like sisters! i am pretty tall, '5''6, brunnett hair, dark brown eyes, and i'm pretty much everyones friend, at least thats what i think, but you know i could be wrong! i have a boyfriend that i love more than anything in the world! and well yah, i hope that you'll let me help you with your problems bc thats why i'm here!
love yall bunches!
xoxoxoxoxo
Haley
p.s.- please please PLEASE rate me, whether its good or bad, i would love to know if i helped or not! thanks if ya do! if you dont, well ok i guess thats fine too, lol! thanks yall!

advice

I wear tinted moisturizer on my skin and nothing else.. except blush. But my question is, since I don't use any powder, would it be bad to use a powder blush? Or should I use a liquid blush.. (or w/e its called.) And does anyone have any reccomendations for fair skin? Like brands that I can buy at Target. Thanks!!

try nyc or nuetragena or something like that. both work great and have a pretty big varity or colors to pick from!
happy holidays!
~Haley~

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Okay my friend and i (he's a guy) are not really talking! Because I have been ignoring him, and supposedly he isn't mad at me! I found out he is sick today and lives right up the street from me! I was wondering should i go up the street to give him some chickensoup or pasta? Or should I even go up there to see him?! Would it be too random?!

that would be really sweet to go take him soup or pasta or something, plus its kinda a silent way of saying sorry, and i think that it would make him feel better!
good luck and happy holidays!
~Haley~

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ok im 13/f and my bf always asks me do u wanna make out and hell yea i do but i dont know how how? i mean idk.i really like my bf but i am kinda prude and i wanna atleast make out so this is kinda a stupid question but how do u make out with sum1?
ok i need advice asap bc my bf is starting to get annoyed bc i keep saying not right now not right now...any1 have any ideas? im afraid he may break up with me?

come on! if you cant make out with your bf then thats kinda sad, just playing! ok but yah, it happens to alot of ppl so dont stress! it just comes natural, i promise! and dont worry about him breaking up with you, just make out with him and he'll (hopefully lol) be satisfied. guys only think about 2 things at this age, video games and gettin some, lol, so you just gotta work with them! lol! so hope i helped!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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Hi all well im babysitting 3 girls after xmas can anyone give me some ideas on how to keep them busy so its a bit easyer for me
roxie
ps ill rate any good ideas
have a great xmas everyone

well, colorings fun lol, and like bring a few movies, popcorn, and some candy! and maybe, depending on age, you could give them a makeover! lil kida love stuff like that! lol! well hope i helped!
merry christmas!
~Haley~

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My sister was raped and killed about a year ago ( we havent found out who it is yet but they're still looking)and I lately I have been see her well her ghost and she always says some thing but I cant hear her like she just moves her lips and I want to tell my mom but I'm afriad she will put me in some kind a hospital or something but about a week ago my sister came back and she made me fallow her some how I mean she walked through the wall and I just had to fallow her and when I did it I found an old beat down house and I really really wont to show it to some one because I think it might be the guy that killed her

wow, i'm really really sorry to hear about your sister. but no, i'd take it as a sign. if she's trying to tell you something, then it must be important. i mean i myself dont believe in ghosts, but if you think that this is the real deal then you cant ignore it. wow that is really freaky! sorry but it is! but like i said, dont ignore it!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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I'm wearing a sweater and wasn't sure how to do my hair. It's a big, off the shoulder sweater from American Eagle. I'm just wearing it with jeans. I've have pretty long hair, down to the middle of my back. What can I do?

if i were you then i would either crunch it or do big hot rollars to not make it liek actully curly, but give it really pretty big waves! with long hair it'll look awesome!
~Haley~

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what are some really fun sports that get you into shape but arnt that demanding?
thanks

well, a few of my friends are on basketball and they say its really really fun, and even tho it has alot of running, that its not that bad bc your having fun while you do it! also i've heard that tennis is fun! ummm, sorry thats all i got!

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Last night my best friends parents got into a car accident. Her dad had to spend the night in the hospital because he broke his ribs and lost a lot of blood. Her mom is doin ok, she has internal bruises but is taking everything well. The doctors thought that her dad was going to die, but he made it through the night. Ive never been in this sort of situation before. I dont know what to say or what to do. Please help, i really need to be there for my friend!!!!!!!

just be there for her. take her to a movie or invite her over and yall just ogout and do somethin that will get her mind off everything, thats the best thing to do. dont try to pull the sympathy card on her, bc it wont make her feel better, probly just worse to tell the truth. but yah i hope that her parents get better!
lots of love
~Haley~

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 days now, and before that we were really close. Well, he's living with me now, and he's taking up the majority of my time. My parents are not okay with him staying here, and I'm grounded for them catching my boyfriend here a few times. So, I don't have much time for my friends, the only time I really have, is with my boyfriend, but that's only because he lives with me. I've tried talking to my friends, but it doesn't get anywhere. What should I do? Please help, I'll rate.

just tell you bf that you need a girls night out, he'll understand! and if for some reason he doesnt, then he's not worth your time!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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Well hi um im like a really paranoid person i guess or something.. and this is going to be kinda long so please help me on what to think.. well my boyfriend hasnt called me and i havent seen him in two days.. well its driving me crazy not knowing whats going on cause i dont know if he is breakin up wit me or what, or even if he left somewhere for the holidays but i would think he would tell me.. but then i think one his friends that like me told him something because ever since i got wit my boyfriend his friend has tried what ever he could to break us up.. so im also wonderin maybe he told my boyfriend something.. i jus dont know and i keep crying.. but ive tried callin his house and ask for him an they jus say he not there real fast and hang up.. so i dont know if he has got em to lie or if he is really not there.. so please help me on what you think id understand if it was hard to help... thanks LADESSA!

dont worry, i think it happens to all of us a time or two. he's probly just really not there, but next time you call say somethin like 'do you know when he's gunna be back?', or 'do you know where he is', and if they hang up to fast then just call back, yah it will probly annoy them a lil but who cares! i'm sure that they're annoying you! right?! but ya, dont just aatomaticly assume that he's gunna break up with you or that somethins wrong, bc i've done that before and it doesnt help and then you feel like a dumb ass for thinkin it! so yah, just chill out a lil bit and it will all be fine!
good luck!
~Haley~

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There's this guy at my school that I really like, and think I am in love with (I have thought this for YEARS). But I'm afraid to start anything with him because he has kind of been the center of many jokes between me and my friends, and he's not exactly the hottest guy on earth lol. He is kind of short, in fact, I think I'm taller than him. But he's kind of cute in a way and I really like his personality. I know I could probably get a hotter guy, but for some reason I feel like he is the only one I could be happy with. But I am afraid of what my friends will think if I tell them I like him. So what should I do?

if he's good enough for you than thats all that really matters isnt it? i mean if your friends are really your friends than they should support you no matter what! find out if he likes you and if he does then go for it!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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there are these girls at my school and they are real rude. Like if the queen bee is mad then all of them are mad at the same person b/c they really want to become the queen bee. one day they became mad at one of my best friends and she wanted me to kinda be mad at them with her but i didnt feel that it was a good thing to do because thats what they were doing to her and i didnt want to act like them. now i am mad at them too b/c one of them was being a big jerk to my other friends b/f and it made me really mad. now they just think that im mad at them bc the first friend was mad at them. what should i do to be friends with both sides. help im stuck in the middle of this bf (bitch fit) lol white chicks

help me

wow, this is a bitch fit! ok well what i would do is just try and stay out of it as much as possible. if your friends get mad at you because they dont thing that your on their side, then tell them that thats not how it is you just dont want any enemies. then that way your friends will understand (hopefully!) and the little bitches wont be mad at you! if that doesnt work then ask me again later, but i hope that this works for you!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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ok well this all stared when someone close to me passed away and i still haven't really gotten over it he pased away in october so you can imagine how much i loved him and now it seems like everyone is dealing with the same thing like have you ever had something happen to your family like a death or someone gets cancer and then it seems like more people are going through the same thing and u didn't even know it before well thats how it is and it is kinda stressful for me does ne one have ne ideas on how i can kinda get it off my mind thanks

thats nothing thats strange, believe me i know. all you can do is think of all of the good times you had with the person and think to yourself, would they want you to just mope around all the time! you have to stay postitive no matter what! *good and bad happens but you just keep living and believing*~annomynous
feel better sweetie!
~Haley~

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ok, i've been realli sick this past week. i havent gone to school at all and my mom said i cant go tomorrow either. but whatever.. the thing is, i love to drink water and its mainly the only thing i drink. i really havent had water forever cause its making me feel worse. what other drinks might be good for a really upset stomache?

try gatorade or something like that, a sports drink thats hydrating but not carbonated, since you mostly drink water then something carbonated might not be the best thing! also try like juices and stuff like that! oh and smoothies are really good lol!
feel better!
~Haley~

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Hey! Ok: so I have hundreds of pictures in my a box in my room. I take a roll at every other week. My question is: How can I display them in my room (without frames) I have some along my mirror. But what is a cool way of hahging them up? Thanks so much!

i love pictures and drawing that my little cousins and neices and other ppl have drawn for me and i love putting them out where people can see them! i have a whole wall in my room full of stuff like that and i add to it all the time. some people think it looks messy but i think it adds a unique touch to your room!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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I can never have a good day at school. I have alot of frieds but being that i have to get up in the morning i get cranky and when i get cranky i am just really quiet.. i know you'll tell me more sleep.. besides that what else could i do? because i sleep from 10:30-7:15

idk if you like coffee or not but coffee helps me wake up sometimes! also for some reason if i run for only like 10 min. or so in the morning it helps me wake up, that or a shower or blasting music as loud as you can!
lots of love!
~Haley~

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What are good kinds of sraightners? Preferably under $50.00. Thanx in advance!!

revlon ceramic straightners are pretty good i'v heard, i have aceramic chi one myslef but you could always ask for one for christmas from someone if it was for you, if it was for a gift and you dont want to get a revlon one or cant find one then get the person a gift certificate to ulta or somewhere that way they can pick one out that they relaly like!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost a year now and I love his family to death. Since he's away at college they invite me to visit them alot and I stop to see his mom at work whenever I go to the mall. I have a problem, though- I got his Christmas gift and everything, but should I get something for his family? His mom seems like the kind of person that would get something for me, but I would feel really bad if she did and I didn't get them anything, and I bet she would vice versa. He has an older brother, a younger brother, a sister, dog, and mom and dad. They're really nice to me, but I'm lost on the dating/present etiquette here. Should I get them something, and if so, what?

this might sound kinda corny, and idk if you like to cook, but if you do and you would be ok with it then invite them over for a christmas dinner. dinner is always a really nice gesture. if not, or as an addition to dinner if you wanted, then get them a gift certificate to like sears or foleys or some major store like that and put on the card that its to the whole family, that way you can save money, time, and alot of looking around for something, and no feeling will get hurt!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much?

heck no that is like still not even a lil over what your supposed to weigh! your a tall girl and if your to skinny then your not going to look right! i mean i'm 5'6 and weigh 111 and also about to become a model. so no your perfectly fine! dont worry about it! i bet your a beautiful person, i just think that YOU need to realize it!
hope i helped!
~Haley~

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hey well start it off im 13-m. ok well about how hard would it be to find a girl that is like only interested in sex after marriage for dating material? because seems like everywhere i look on here, theirs a pregnant girl or one worried about it. i'm just talking about like later in my life, in my twenties right out of college. just to be prepared. also, i was reading a book, and a guy asked the girl if she was a virgin, and she said that she wasnt even embarrased. so are you like supposed to be embarrassed if your a virgin?


(deeply confused in matters i shouldn't have my paws in)

wow! omg ok guys reading this going 'omg this guy doesnt know what he's talkin about' are totally clueless! they're should be way more guys like you in the world! you totally shouldnt be embarresed at all! any girl who doesnt want you is totally crazy
lots of love!
`~-_::Haley::_-~`

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