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Q: Okay so theres this new guy to our school and hes a Junior and Im a sophmore and hes the classic bad boy he's been in trouble with the law, hes not a virgin (i am)he parties ALL the time. But hes really sweet and i truly try and stop myself from getting wrapped up in him bc to him im probably just another "girl" well whenever i get online hes the first screen name i look for and in the hallways i always look for him. But hes a major flirt and i know you guys are gonna tell me to just forget about him and i know IM TRYING. =/ basically, what im trying to say is should i even give him a chance to see me for who i really am or just give up while my hearts all mine? Like and sometimes i think hes too bad for me. He asked me this weekend to go with him to street racing with him and he doesnt have his license or permit it got taken away and i made up an excuse. Should i hang out with him?

omg im just like you i always fall for the bad guys .... just be your self around him and give him a chance

Q: Hey!!! I need SOOO much help!! Ok, well im gonna have my sweet 16 soon, and its gonna be HUGE! Well my question is, does anyone know a website to hire a celebrity to preform at a party???? PLEASE i need HELP FAST!!! Thanks soo much!! 5's if you at least tried!! :) ♥

heyy i sugest to call a party planner.. my cousin did that for her sweet 16 and she had a few bands play the party was crazyy

Q: look there this boy we liked each other and i thought that we were dateing so i told my friends that and my friends asked him if we were and we were not and now they hate me because they thought i lied to them what she i do
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sorry

hey ummmmmm i dont realy no what to say but all i can think of is tell them that you misunderstood and then tell them your sorry

Q: hey boys this is ilovepink101..well im in the 8th grade and i need advice from the boys..
ok theres this guy i like his name is garrette..and i told him i liked him a couple of weeks ago..and he just totally started acting alot nicer and flirting..ALOT!!and i always wanted to ask him if he like me..but you know im kinda shy..but im the kinda gurl that i dont care what people think about me and my realationships..but garrett is a whole diffrent story..he cant go outr with girl like me because im not a jock or a prep..and he carse what his friends say about me..and i dont know what to do..so a coulple of days agao i told him ilkied him..and he said i know!i wasnt suprised..but im like do you like me..and hes said no..so heres my question..!!
he always touches me and puts his hands down my shirt and he gave me a kiss on the cheek and he just always FLIRTS WITH ME ALWAYS!!and i want to know if this sounds like he liks me..but he said that were just friends with benefits!!but i think he likes me!!and do you think i shouild sit around waiting for him evn though he dont supooslvley"dont like me"????i rate 5's on anyone..i just need help..helllllllllllllllllllllllllpppppppppppp!!
love always,
*ilovepink101*>Bridgette

im not a guy but i just had the same thing happen to me but me and the guy made out a couple of times and we werent even going out and he was rubbing me down there and then he told me he hated me like a couple weeks ago so this guy your talking about might break your heart sorry to say

Q: i missed laguna beach on tuesday can anyone tell me what happened?

laguna is on monday nights .. well it maybe differnt where u live but ummm i missed it to but the previous episode is always on before the new one hope i helped

Q: ok i have this dress and it fits like perfection but u can see my underwear though it..and if i wear like a g-string u can still see the lines..not really by my but but on the sides..does anyone no like anyway to fix this? thanks!! xoxo

did u try a thong..... or you can just not wear panties..... its not like anyone will notice right?

Q: do revlon or maybelline eyeliner work better... i need a eyeliner that will stay on throughout the day and wont wear off.. thanks

i love maybelline but i hate there eyeliner the only eye liner that i would ever buy would be revlon i love it

Q: How much do tanning salons cost to go?? Thanks!!

it depends what tanning salon you go to ... for me it is 6$ for one tan for 10 or 15 mins but if you buy a package like i do it comes out to like 75$ for a month of unlimited tanning
hope i helped

Q: Does anyone know where to get those demin minis that have those stingy things at the end that looks like it had been cut off? Also, if you could give me the websites and the prices I would really appreciate it. Thanks!

i get mine at abercrombie kids and abercrombie and fitch
www.abercrombiekids.com
www.abercrombie.com

Q: i really want a makeover.. my style has basically been the same since like 6th or 7th grade. (im a freshman right now) i have dark brown hair thats shoulder length, i basically wear coverup, eyeshadow, and mascara (sumtimes eyeliner) for my makeup, and usually i just wear jeans and a fitted shirt or comfy clothes like on the weekends. i don't want to dye my hair because i like my color and so does everyone else. and i usually straighten it if i wear it down otherwise i just leave it in a ponytail. what are some different things i could do with my hair and makeup and what can i do to like change my clothing style?? (nothing dressy though.) sorry this was so long!

put on the color eye shawdow of your color shirt thats what i do and i love the way it comes out

Q: whats a good kind of perfume that smells really good.. like a girly type of perfume that will last through the day.. i want a perfume that i can buy at the mall thats pretty cheap

here are some of my favorite purfums.......
curious by britney spears(30-40$ at the mall)
abercrombie(20$ at abercrombie kids)
paris hilton(50$ at the mall)
hope i helped

Q: Hey every time i straighten my hair it never stays straight for more then like an hour is there anything i can do to keep it straight
anything that i might have becasue i want to straighten it tomorrow for school
will mousse keep it straight?
thanx in advance
ill rate you 5 if you answer this
~~Sarah~~

straighten your hair in layers ... im guessing you have thick hair... well i have really thick hair and i straighten it in layers ...like put half up and half down and do the bottom and then the top it really does work for me and maybe sparying the littlest bit of hair spray might also help
hope i helped if u need anymore advice just feel free to ask

Q: okay this is for girls but hey if your a guy and you know what your talking about go ahead...so i put eyeliner on and like by the time im at school its wearing off and when i get home its gone and like under my eyes..ahh what can i do..

il rate HIGH

hey hun the same thing use to happen to me i use to use the mabaline eyeliner in the red stick and it didnt work good at all and now i use revlon i think its in a black and gold stick and it works great
hope i helped if u need more advice just ask

Q: Hi i just recently got my hair cut.
I got bangs and i got it layred and trimmed.
The look i was going for was Hilary Duff on a cinderella story
but my hair is like different at the tips..
her hair is really straight, and not wavy at the end.
how can i get my hair like that?
will rate.

umm i sugest to straighten your hair .... put half up and half down and then straighten the bottom and then the top thats what i do and it comes out good

Q: im getting my eyebrows done for the first time and im really scared that its going to hurt. what should i do to prevent pain.. beside putting milk on afterward?? please hurry

hey hun ive been getting my eye brows done since i was in 5th grade and it didnt really hurt it also depends on how thick your eye brows are but it goes to fast to really even feel anything just take a deep breath and what ever you do do not squint it messes up the wax which will mess up your eyebrows

Q: theres tis girl who is totally obbsessed with me, shes attractive looking but i dont really think that it would work, and besides i already have a girlfriend. i wanna tell her that i dont like her but she cried cuz i wouldnt tell her if i liked her so i dont want to totally crush her heart so is there a way that i can tell her i dont like her without her getting crushed into amillion tiny peices

hey ummmmmmmmm just tell the girl u dont have the same feelings and by the way whats your name?
and i was wondering what is the girls name that likes you?

Q: well my hair is about a little longer than my shoulders, and it is VERY thick and sorta wavy. now i have been wanting a perm for awhile now, but everyone says it will look bad b/c of my thick hair! but i really want to get it! what should i do!?????? pls help!

ok i got a perm and i have really really thick hair and i love it but i got loose curls so it will looked scrunced but i still have to put gell in it

Q: Alot things have happened to me lately..my parents split..my dad moved out..and my friendships are coming and going. I'm depressed. How do i get over this?

keep a diary and do stuff u like to do ....for examlpe i do cheerleading or dance when ever im depresssed

Q: Has anyone tried, I think Jergen's makes that lotion that gives you some color just by using their lotion? Its not really a self-tanner since its supposed to moisturize the skin but also give you a glow after a week of use.

I was just wondering if anyone has tried it & if they have, did it work for you? I have very fair skin & I try anything to get some color. Thanks!

umm yeah i have tried it n it does make a BIG differnce but dont miss any spots it will not look good...lol...but except for that i works really good (( try goin to the tanning salon ))

Q: Okay well, I'm going into 8th grade next year and I still haven't had a boyfriend! No guy even notices me! I'm not a dork, and people say it's just because I'm tall. Well, there are other girls in my grade that are tall and have boyfriends! I mean it's not just that though. I mean all of my friends have had their first kiss and everything but I haven't. So no one really understands what I'm talking about or how I feel. All my friends have had at least 3 boyfriends and have all been kissed. What could I do to get guys to notice me? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!