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E-mail: Zero22@37.com
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Member Since: June 21, 2004
Answers: 40
Last Update: May 28, 2005
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Hey guys =) I was just wondering if any of you know any sites I can put pictures on, that's free.. anything besides, picturetrail and photobucket. Thanks so much! (link)
ummm www.piczo.com or hmm www.zoomshare.com


15 femaile....i've been a week and 1/2 late on my periode and i'm scared as crap that i might be...i went and talked to one of my teachers today and she told me the over counter isn't going to help n then i had to go to my guidce n i was talking to him and he said he gives me till thursday and if i haven't started by then, then i have to tell my mom...well i'm scared as crap...cuz if i am i lose my recent boyfriend that i care for more then anything...n also they "father" well lets jst say i have no way to get intouch w/ him...cuz i only now lil things bout him! but other then that i'm jst scared bout my mom and telling her...n also losing the best guy ever!!??i'm so cofused n i'm so scared!!! (link)
If you are pregnant then you gotta put your relationship with the guy your in with now on hold and not worry about him b/c you have bigger issues. It's good that your talking to people...just keep waiting and praying for the best!


Well im 16 and i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years. We are both gonna be senior's this year. I know its weird cause im only 16 but i skipped a grade. We are both very popular. He is the best football play and im the captain of the cheerleading squad and the whole nine yards. Well we had sex for the second time a week or two ago. I was suppose to start my period two days ago and I took a test and im pregnant. I am so scared. I dont know how to tell him or my parents and i dont know if i want to keep it. Someon please help (link)
I know someone who went the that planned pregnancy group thing, and she took these pills and got rid of it. Everyone says abortion is a bad thing...but in the case of a teenager fucking up...its a good thing. Everyone makes mistakes, but some are more than others. Just stay strong and if you do tell your parents warn them saying its really important. Don't look for sympathy b/c thats the last thing you'll get at that point in time. My aunt had a kid when she was 15, and she moved out...maybe your parents will want you to do that? And think of the highlights...at least you love this guy (i think) and it wasn't just a one night stand. I'm sure since you've been together for 4 years he'll be there for you through thick and thin....have you told him yet? Maybe you should...and maybe you should go to your doctor before talking to your rents...But stay strong, and I'm here for ya if you need anything just leave a message~

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I'm dating this guy, and he's had a past with dating..i guess whores. He's a great guy, and I've known him for a long time, but we've been talking about us doing things (not sex of course) but I've never done playful things like that before besides making out.what are things I can do/recieve that I can do even without the "experience", or what was the first thing yall did?
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Hmm you just go with the flow on things. I'm not going to go into detail about what to do exactly b/c I don't think people would really want to hear that! But you can leave me a message and I'll get back to you about it all~

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how do u deal with your parents judge your friends but they go to far with it.like i have a friend who has gone thru some problems but they are gone now but yet they dont let me even see her or talk to her or nething i dont understand n they are like ruining my life cuz she is the only one i have EVER been able to talk to u or hang wit what do i do they judge my friends n go way to far with it (link)
My mother is the worst at judging my friends! I know exactly what your going through. If you feel really strong about it then talk to your mom...sit her down. But sadly enough I've tried that and found I was screwed and had to find new friends which is rediculous....but maybe your mom is right yano? Sorry I didn't help much...


Hey i was wondering what is high school like is it hard fun what?im a little scared and nervous about starting high school will i make alot of new friends do people pick on u.i rate:-] (link)
I'll be a sophmore...and for my freshman year it was just the same as jr high just a little bit more freedom. You will meet new people and its funner to see new faces everyday instead of the same old people! Just be yourself and you'll have fun!!!

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where could i put my hands when im makeingout?
i really want 2 know please help? (link)
You could rub his back, arms, etc. Or you could put your hands on his cheeks...or you could put them through his hair...or yano down there~ haha hope I helped

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*15, Female*
my parents want let me ride around w/ my friends that are like 16 17 18...and it makes me mad...i mean when i go to my friends house i ride around w/ them...and my mom doesn't know...and then i feel like a dork when my friends call and ask if i can go and i have to be like *my mom want let me ride w/ ppl* and it jst pisses me off! ahh!

idk...wat can i do to get my mom to let me ride w/ my friends?? (link)
Have your mom meet the people before you go out with them. Im 15, and before I ride in a car with someone my mom has to meet them, and as long as they seem like a nice kid she lets me...g/l!

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it's the summer holidays and i haven't seen my bf since the start of them (nearly 2 weeks ago) He's been away every time i try to get together with him and our holidays are at different times so we wont see each other that much at all. I tried calling him and he said he'd call back but he didn't. I've hardly spoken to him at all. He isn't making any effort to see or talk to me. do you think he's gone off me? he said he'd never dump me and that he loves me but i'm not too sure. what should i do? (link)
Someway or another you going to have to get a hold of him and see whats up. Straight up ask him if he still wants to be with you, and have him be honest. Tell him that you'v been trying to get a hold of him all throughout holidays and see what happens. You just gotta be straight up! G/l!!!

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There is this guy I like and he likes me too. The problem: My parents are very strict and dont want me to see him (im 16 and he is 21). Do I continue with the relationship or back away? (link)
I was in this position for 9 months. I was bieng the "rebel" and stayed with him. It's like while I was with him all I knew was that I couldn't see him and eventually it would end. So I just stayed with him until the end...which I shouldn't have b/c I got hurt. If your parents don't like him then your screwed...but I don't know your exact position though. Good luck!


thanks to the ppl who helped me earlier but could u give me more symtoms of being preg...like earlier preg only a couple weeks i would say whhat would happen if u were a couple weeks preg..what would ur body go through? (link)
I read a thing online about your boobs gettin bigger...having stretch marks...different bladder changes...wanting to eat all the time...and so on....just go to a search engine and type in "symptons of pregnancy"

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i really want to look different than i did last year. like totally different. so people will notice. does anyone have any tips??? i'm talkin anything- hair styles, clothes, make-up, the works! plz help! (link)
hmm thats hard to do. Well get your hair cut really short and like curl out the ends...that changes ppl's look alot. Or if you NEVER wear skirts...start to wear them. The guys will notice.


another 1-

The day will come when you must choose, will you gain or will you lose.

Tell them now, choose with care, the one you love might not always be there.

So tell them now, dont leave it to fate, tell them now before its too late.........

Like it? (link)
Wow,I really liked it..keep up the work :)


If you really like a person who is a different age than you are and you are older, what would be considered a "BIG" age difference? Is two to four years a big age difference? (link)
It all depends on your maturity (sp?) level.


The guy I REALLY like, loves to drink :-/ He gets drunk all the time except NOT when I'm around because I hate it! Should I still like this guy or move on? It's really hard to move on though... =( (link)
I had the same problem babe...if you don't like it say something, but thats all you can do. You can't expect him to change b/c no one changes for anyone unless they really want too...and if he likes you he'll change if not then go find yourself a new guy. I'm sure theres a guy JUST like him out there for you...but he doesn't drink

g/l hunni!

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i'm always bored. there are no youth groups or anything in my area and most of my mates live on the other side of town. any ideas for things to do? i'm a girl and i live in the UK. (link)
When I'm bored I eat

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okay, I just wanna know for all you people who are in gymnastics or dance...can you give me tips on how to do a better switch leap? i've can almost do both of my splits and i dont know if you can help me but i just need to know how to do a better switch leap. thanks. (link)
I'm not in gymnastics anymore but I was for nine years. I couldn't do a switch leap either but I remember my coach helping people and she would like pick them up by their hips when they do it and then theyd do the leap and stuff....or you could do it on a trampoline...hope i helped

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evr since i was born my grandmother has always been with me. even more than my own mother........not lyk she a bad mom or nethin but......lemme explain.....wen i was born my mom was have some economic problems so she told my grandmother to take me to the Dominican Republic (country where all my relatives were born cept me)neways i came bak 2 us wen i was 4 n my grandmother has lived with us ever since......well until a few weeks ago when she passed away..........ne advice on how to deal wit it? (link)
Pray for them...I had 2 friends die in a car accident and I was totally lost in what to do but just pray and be happy that their in a better plac now. Don't dwell over it b/c I'm sure thats not what your grandmother would want you to do...just give it time...time heals everything...g/l in everything and you'll get through it!


ok hey im 14 n im very confused!!!! u c i really like this guy, hes ur typical bad-ass smokes,drinks, fights, gets arrested n all that crap... well i relly though he liked me bcuz he told me he LOVED me and he was very sweet to me n everything... im very stupid as i know now bcuz i lost my virginity to him!!!!!! that was in february!! i felt like it was right at that moment but now i regret it all!EVERYTHING I TOLD HIM N DID WITH HIM most of all cuz he told his friends i was "easy" n now i have a rep! i am always saying that all that is b/s that i never did ne thing with him but still not all of the ppl beleive me! but after all the shit he put me thru is like my heart doesnt want to forget him!!! i still really like him i dunno if its bcuz hes always with his cuzin n his cuzin n me r best friends so i gota c him all the time n then hes till calls n asks me stuff like "so u still fucking guys?" or "i heard so n so wanna fuck u, should i kick their asses?" hes STUPID N I WANNA HATE HIM SO BAD 4 ALL THE SHIT HE DID TO ME WAY TOO MUCH TO MENTION BUT Y DO I FEEL LIKE I STILL LIKE HIM????(by the way i was pregnant but had a miscarrige n he was the dad) ineve told him though. n last time we were talking he was telling me he never knew how pretty my eyes were!! wut kind of b/s is that? IM CONFUSED WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
Alright babe, I'm kinda in your position now...my stories on here somewhere. I was with a hardass guy too...I lost my virginity and I regret it now too. I want to hate him for hurting me too but you just can't. It's just something about your "first" that you'll never forget. Something...I don't know what but a few ppl I've talked to say they still have feelings for their first even though it was 2-3 years ago.....what I can tell you is keep your mind clear of him. And if ppl are bothering you and saying your not a virgin...someone told me to just pretend I was and tell everyone else you were...it makes you feel better...I know i didn't help though...just thought I'de tell ya that your not alone...you can talk to me anytime~


i just got a pet..its a goldfish..what should i name him? (link)
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