Hey people sorry if i havent answered anyones question for a lil while. I have just been busy with other things. Sorry
*Zoe*
Gender: Female
Location: Somewhere in the USA (not telling exactly where)
Age: 14
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Member Since: June 29, 2004
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I HAVE A REALLY BAD HABIT ;; I SUCK MY THUMB I HAVE ALL MY LIFE AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO TO HELP ME STOP IVE TRIED EVERYTHING NUTHYN SEEMS TO WORK ;; MUCH LOVE KATIE (link)
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Well there are many ways to get you to stop you from sucking on your thumb. You can put hot sauce on it, or you can put a mitten or a sock on your hand. Or you put something you really dislike on it. My cousin had this problem and it worked for him.
*Zoe*
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umm im a lil scared becuz wen i jerk off i think of guys does that mean im gay (link)
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Well you might be or you could be just going through a homosexual faze. But some people just have different ways to get turned on. But this may only last for a short period of time or it might last longer. You never know. But as I said you might be going through some kind of typical faze.
*Zoe*
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i like cocaine i even went as far as 2 sniff sum powdered sugar does ne 1 else do this (link)
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No I havent done that before and I dont plan to. But I think you shouldnt use cocaine because it causes serious problems. There was once a person who did cocaine for the first time and during his basketball practice it took affect and he died that day after used it. I think you should not use cocaine and stop your addiction. Get some help.
*Zoe*
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Me and my ex were together for 10 months and we loved eachother alot! Everything was great and we hung out everyday..recently he started to work alot and we drifted apart a litle bit. We'd only see eachother a few days a week. Well then it started to be like a week 1/2 without hearing from him so naturally I would track him down and ask what was up! He told me nothing and its just he's been "really busy" but hes going to find more time for me, blah blah blah blah. Next thing you know he shows up MY BIRTHDAY NIGHT at 2 a.m and of course stupid me drops my friends and goes with him!! Ugh Im so stupid. So we went to HIS buddies house,ended up having sex and he took me home the next afternoon. He kissed me told me he loved me and I never heard from him ever again! Its like he disappeared?! A couple weeks later he has another girlfriend!! And everytime I see him out on the town he acts as if NOTHING ever happened between us! Even if hes alone without his girl, he acts this way! Whats goin on? Im still deeply in love with him and I need some VERY GOOD advice. Please HELP
*Kris* (link)
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Obviously he just used you for sex. I think you should get over him and find someone else that you can trust and wont go for another girl after he says he loves you and stuff. I think he was just probably using you until felt comfortable to have sex with him and then after you did he left you to find another girl to go for. So I think you should go for a better guy that wont do that to you.
*Zoe*
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My best friend does REALLY bad stuff. she has sex with guys that she barely knows, gets drunk all the time, sneaks out, and even got her innocent friends started in all this gay drama. im not like that tho and i dont want her to be. what do i say to her to let her know shes doing bad things because she wont listen to me. (link)
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Sit you friend down and talk to her about what she is doing. Tell her how it is and will affect her. This will help her understand that what she is doing is wrong, and it will also show her that you care. She could get seriously ill by having sex with alot of guys, especially ones she barely knows. She could get STD's. And with her getting drunk all the time, if she cant stop drinking on her own I think she could go to A.A. I hope this advice works and helps.
*Zoe*
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my dog has started rolling around the floor growling and makeing strange noises. Is this normal? (link)
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Yes it normal. The dog is just scratching and rubbing its backside. My dog does this all the time. So there is no need to worry. Its normal.
*Zoe*
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ive got 3 yrs left @ school nd i wna make it go as quick as possible, how can i deal w/ name calling? (link)
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Just ignore the people who call you names and tease. If you tell them off they will keep on bothering you because they know you hate it. So just ignore. And the people who tease you are probably jealous over something you have or something you do. So I think you will be able to deal with the name calling.
*Zoe*
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I am 17 years old and I feel that it is time for me to tell my friends and parents about me being gay. I have managed to tell a few friends already, and they took it easy. I don't want my other friends (guys in particular and girls that hate gays) to turn around and say that I am gross and never talk to me again. How do I tell them and my parents without it sounding so harsh? I am still the same person as before..
17/m (link)
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Well I think you should sit your parents down and tell them. Your parent shouldnt care about your sexuality because they love you. And I think they will understand. And your friends that you havent told shouldnt do stuff like that when you tell them. If they do then they are not your real friends. Because friends should like you for who you are not what you are.
*Zoe*
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i think i am fat.. (i weigh 130 and i'm 5'6"). i have tried to diet by eating healty and i still do but it isn't working. also, i excercise all the time by playing baseball, running, working out, and playing with my neighbors. i keep trying but i just can't lose weight! does anyone have any suggestions? (link)
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You are definantly not fat. The normal weight for a person who is 5'6" is 130lbs. So you don't need to lose weight because you're at the perfect weight for your height.
*Zoe*
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confused gurl,
next year me and my bestest friend are splitin up i am so scared that we will forget about each other i dont want that 2 happen.
HELP- =( (link)
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I doubt if you will forget about each other. If you are both each others best friend then you will definantly not forget about each other.
*Zoe*
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ok, i've been gettin vaginal discharge, and i haven't started my period, is this normal to get it before u start your period, does this mean that i'll soon be gettin my period, and if so are there any other ways to kno that your period mite be startin??
please help
if it makes a difference im 13/f/nc and ill be 14 in the 1st wk of Nov.
thx a bunch!!
~*~*~*wondering*~*~*~ (link)
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Yes it is very normal for you to have vaginal discharge before you start your period. And other ways to know if your going to start your period are: cramps, triedness, and your breast might get sore. So i suggest you take some Midol during your monthy.
*Zoe*
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Anyone have any suggestions on playing wind instruments comfortably with braces? (link)
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I use to have the same problem. You just have to get use to playing with them. Don't worry soon you'll get use to it. I did.
*Zoe*
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ok.. my friend lets call her laura and laura's parents abuse her like hit her and leave marks and she hates her life and she chooses to cut herself and she cuts sorta deep and im afraid one of these days shes gonna cut to deep and kill herself.. and she doesnt want anyone to know cuz her parents wont do any good and my parents i dont rilly want them to know either cuz theyll get ideas about me cuz they dont trust me very well and i just rilly dont know wut to do anymore and ive tried to stop her but she wont and i dont wanna tell anyone either but i just dont want her to hurt herself anymore cuz im scared shes gonna cut to deep one of these times.. is there like anything that could like substitute cutting? cuz she would just keep cutting if she went to counseling or something like that so is there anything that could substitute cutting?? i rilly need advice FAST!! thanx s0o0o much! (link)
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Well instead of cutting she could put a rubberband around her wrist and whenever she feels like cutting she just snaps the rubberband on her wrist. But not snapping it too hard. But I would still get her help some how. Report her parents to an authority figure, because its a serious problem to abuse a child. You do need to tell someone even if she doesn't want you to, because if you really do care about your friend you will tell someone. Because this problem can't stay going on. It needs to be stopped. I hope this advice works and I hope your friend gets better.
*Zoe*
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god ok my mom is s0o0o overprotective and doesnt trust me worth crap cuz im 13 and we already start havin bfs and my mom just thinks were all out to have sex and were all sluts n stuff and she wont let me go to the mall w/out a parent and she wont let me up past a certain time ((its the fricken summer! hullo! lol)) and then she wont let me go tanning cuz she says its taking a risk of gettin skin cancer since my brother had cancer and now shes waaaaaay to overprotective cuz of that and im sick of it! and shes always finding notes.. and she goes thru my backpack all the time and so now all im doing is hiding stuff from her and seriously its like im in jail and she says the next time she finds a bad note or finds out im doing stuff w/ guyz n stuff shes gonna like be around me 24/7 and i have to have a room next to her and im rilly scared thats wuts gonna happen.. wut should i do? (link)
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I think you should have a talk with your mom. Ask her why she is like this. Try to gain her trust. Maybe find something you both have in common and do that together so you both can bond have a have more of a mother daughter relationship. Then she might be able to trust you more. Just remember she is just trying to protect you because she cares about you and she loves you.
*Zoe*
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My friend Marina cuts,smokes, and is threatning to kill herself. I've told her plaenty of times suicide is not the way, but she is not listening. Should I ignore her protests and contact someone? But who?
Please reply, thanks :) (link)
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Well I wouldnt ignore her because this is a serious problem. I think you should tell someone you can trust in also helping, or you should tell her parents, or tell your parents to call her parents so they can get her help. I hope my advice works.
*Zoe*
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13years old, female\. im a good student in school. but know, i feel like i have let down my parents when they saw my report card. my mom always is pushing me in all my ecademics and shes driving me carzy. should i tell her? (link)
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Well your mom is putting to much pressure on you. You should tell your mom that her pushing you in all your academics is not helping you and that you are trying your best. And that you are working your hardest to do well. And that she shouldnt put pressure on you for your school work because it is probably causing some stress.
*Zoe*
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I'm 15 and I'm 5 ft. How much is the average weight? (link)
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The average weight for you should probably be 110-118 pounds.
*Zoe*
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I am a fast runner you see and I got asked to run this thing called the turkeytrot, but Iave to run in front of the whole school. I am araid of getting lastplace should I still run? (link)
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Well you got asked to run because you're a good and fast runner. You shouldnt be afraid of getting last place. It doesnt matter what place you get as long as you have fun. All that matters is having fun and enjoying yourself. So I think you should still run. And just have fun. So go for it.
*Zoe*
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my best friend and i were spray painting our bikes. Her father comes out in a rage. He starts hitting her and she was screaming for him to stop. She used a bit of foul language towards him, but he was really hitting her. the mom had to try and calm him down.SHould I get help, tell someone or just leave it alone? I don't want it to seem like i'm in their family's business, then again that is my best friend she was crying histerically but i couldn't see her because he told me to leave. (link)
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This is something serious. You should infact tell someone soon. If you don't then this problem won't be stopped. This is a serious matter. If at anytime you believe someone is getting abuse you should tell an adult or and authority figure immediatly.
*Zoe*
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okay im 16/f n im a virigin
ive have known ma man for 3 1/2 years and he really wants to do it and so do i.but im so scared b/c its my 1st time and im so scared of gettin pregnant. he told me that we will use a condom and everything but still im not 100% sure.can anyone tell me how can i be 100% sure that i will not get pregnant. (link)
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Well be glad that he will use protection, but a condom only works 97% or the time. Just in case you might want to use birth control. And for your additional question, no the condom will not break if a man does it fast. But also since your only 16 if your guy really respects you he can wait and so can you because your only 16 and you have your whole life ahead of you to do stuff like that. So i actually think you should wait a while.
*Zoe*
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