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theres this girl i like in my art class. shes really nice and i think she likes me, but im not sure. she says that im a really good friend to her but i want to be more than just that. im going to the movies with her 2morrow night and i dono if i should make a move on her or not. what should i do? (link)
i think you shoudl do what makes you feel comfortable and what the signs are showing you. If you feel like it wold be a good time, then go for it and make a move. If you're getting a vibe that she isn't ready..then don't. Don't make things go to fast though, do it at your own pace


Am I justified in being angry when my mom calls me an ignorant slut because she wasn't understanding something I was trying to explain to her? I don't mean to sound whiney, but I'm really sick of these degrading comments she directs at me when she messes something up, makes a mistake, or doesn't understand something. I don't know what to do about this. Any advice?
Thanks (link)
omg of course! no adult or..anyone for that matter should be calling you such degradings..thats just plain main. you need to confront her and exaplin that wat she says hurts you and there is no need for it. If she simply doesnt understand something you say..tell her to just ask you to rexplain it in a different way.


how do you apply eyeliner (black) on the lower eyelid. like not overdoing it, but you know sexy enough. haha jk. but you know what i mean -- also what kind of eyeliner is best? thanks in advance (link)
well i love Maybelline Expert Eyes...to apply it..pull your eye down very slighly and go around the rim inside your eye, that like goes around it..not inside your eye..you'll see it..its like a little ledge..just put it around there..if ou wanna make your eyes seem wider...put more eyeliner on the outer edges of your eye near your eye lash line.


i really wanna please my girl, whats the best way to make a girl cum? (link)
mmmh..i guess every girl is different..and certain things really turn them on so maybe ask her..it'll really turn her on acutally..but basically..touch all the right places if you kno wat i mean ;)


My bf came over to my place one day while I went to check my mail. I came back with all my mail, a couple of bills, and one letter that had no return address on it. My bf got very suspicous and asked me who could of wrote it. I said I didnt know, and that it was none of him business. He accused me of cheating on him. I got really mad and told him to leave. He said he wouldnt leave until I opened the letter. I told him no, so he grabbed the letter and opened it. It turned out to be my cousin. I told him we were through.
Is what he did illegal? I heard someone say once that it's illegal to open someone elses mail. Does anyone here know? (link)
eww thats definately a violation of privcay, but idk if its so much to say illegal..i guess since you were standing right there its not..and i kno going through a mailbox is illeagal..but wat he did was definately out of line ..completley!


15/f
I've been going out with this guy for about a month and a half, and everytime he's at my house he's messing with my younger sister. He's almsot a year oldger than me and she's over a year younger than me. She likes to aggrivate people espicially when I have someone over. And lately he's been acting the same towards her. He'll get up and chase her around the house until she runs outside then he'll sit back down until she comes in the room again and then he'll get a pillow and smack her with it. It's really starting to get on my nerves, what should I do to make this stop? (link)
simply tell him stop or try and seperate the two wen you are at your house..oor suggest going to his house for a change..

he shouldmt be actin that way 24/7 wit ur sis tho..


Can anybody tell me the words to the kid story book chica chica boom boom? (link)
Google.com
type in "chica chica boom boom" summary or "direct text" maybe..


Okay theres this boy that i like and he likes me too.But he hasent asked me out at all? He sends mix signals and i never know if he truley does like me. I mean i understand if he dosent like me and dosent ask me out. But why would he say he did like me and than not ask me out? Its not like im going to say no, if i said i liked him. Does anyone have the slitest clue on what is going on? Im seriously confused.

Thankss a bunch. (link)
he is either nervous and doesnt kno what to do..isnt sure if he wants to make the commitmetnt..is shy and isn't sure what he's doing..He's probably tryin to figure out the answers to all these questions in his minds. guys can be very indesicive and constantly changing..so who knows wat weill happen..if you'e brave enough maybe you can ask him!


ok so i (16/f) really like this guy that i work with and we get along soo well!! we spent all day together at work after school and every second we spent talking and laughing about random stuff!! anyways he's kinda shy and i dont really know how he feels about me so should i make the first move? im kinda shy when it comes to guys so if anyone gives me some good flirting tips or ways to let him know that i like him i'll give 5s! (link)
aw ya i think that definatley making the first mov would be a great idea! Guys love it when girls take initiative. Some good tips to doing this would be..continuting to be flirty..touch him a lot while talking to him..use exuse to get to get closer with him..(ya its cliche but...) tell him ur cold and then he'l probably give you a hug..tell him you love his hair and touch it..you get hte idea lol..Anyway..when you feel close enough to him which it seems you are..you should ask him to hang out and get to kno him even more and them maybe it will turn into something!


i sweat like all the time! it's really emabarresing to have these huge sweat stains in school. i don't know what to do, i mean deoderant and antiperspirant just don't work. i went to the doctor and there's nothing wrong with me, i just need good deoderant and/or antiperspirant. does anyone know the name of a REALLY good one? thanks! (link)
certain dri!


I have really bad acne and I have tried everything I can imagine...does anyone have any natural remedie that they find work cause I need some help, and the prom is this year so I dont want everyone knowing me as zit face... want to look like all the popular girls! (link)
Stridex face pads, clearn and clear acne spot treatment..as for natural remidies..try toothpate i heard..and uhm..im sure ucud find some home made mud masks on line that cud help dry out ur face and zits..just be sure to moistureize after


what do you wear to go ice skating at like a ice rink? (link)
something comfortale that you can move around it..jeans are good, sweatpants, lots of layers so if you can hot you can still be warm with what you have on..sweatshirts..gloves/hat/scarf if you get really cold easily. usually ice rinks aren't that cold though.


i wear alot of deorderant, but i always seem to have smelly wet spots in my underarm area, do you know what to do about it??? (link)
well if you are sweating a lot..i suggest certain dri..if you smell bad i suggest a deaoderant liek secret or dove with a strong sent to use over it..hope this helps


I am 17 years old and have never had a bf. People in my senior class make fun of me behind my back because of this. I even heard one rumour that I was a lesbian. I'm not a lesbian, I do like guys but I'm really shy and most of the guys in my class are really immature and just want sex, not a meaningful relationship. I've also made the decision not to have sex, or make love until I get married. Some of the girls in my class have slept with over 14 guys, and act like it's no big deal. Sometimes I get so depressed I feel like crying. The fact that tomorrows Valentines day is just going to make me feel worse. Do things ever get any easier for girls like me? Or does it just get worse when I go to college and into the work force? I'm beginning to feel like I'm the only person left with values. (link)
aw man..people can be such assholes! Listen, i know this is tough..but try and not to pay attention to them..you are right in how you think..having values is completley right! you are very mature for your age.a.the girls who are having sex with like 23423 guys are..uhm..for a lack of a better word..sluts? and you will find that guy that completes you and makes you happy..in the meanwhile..since tomrrow is vday..go out with some of ur girls and just ddont think aout guys, keep yourself occupied and have a good time! Meeting a guy can happen when you least expect it soo just remember..stay true to your values and that special someone will come!


Everytime I makeout with my boyfriend I try to go further, so I start with kissing his neck. Everytime I do this he is like "Wow you really like my neck" and then just starts making out with me. Why doesn't he get what I'm tryint to do? What does he mean when hes is like "Wow you really like my neck?" (link)
aww maybe he is just nervous and doesn't kno what to do..maybe try a different aprroach if he reacts in a similiar way..then he probabl isnt ready to go further yet..if you guys are comfortable with talking about it, you can be like are you comfortable with going farther with me? its ok if ur not..and see how he feels


Ok, today I got my ears pierced and the woman the did it apparently wasn't trained well. She told me that I need to take them out every night and clean them. So I took them out and she hadn't evened the hole where you put the earring in. So I can't get either of my earrings in and my mom is now mad at me. I have worked with it for about 20 minutes and still can't get it in. Any Ideas? (link)
go and get your money back and get them repierceed so that that your earring will go in again..ya that lady is stupid..u never supposta take them out for i think its..6 weeks?


So A fiew days ago I was really stupid and I gave my virginity to this guy. I really liked him and now I like him even more. He told me he was falling inlove with me and everything!

The problem is I dont think he really likes me I think he is just using me.. Even though he holds my hand in public and kisses me in public I really think he is doing stuff with other girls to. Actualy im almost POSSITIVE. I have heard things about him showing up with hickys and I have heard things about him being with other girls.

The thing Is I lost my virginity to him and Im stuck to him really hard...

WHAT DO I DO! (link)
well..you can'tknow for sure if your guy is cheatin on ya..you can only trust him and hope that he isnt..unless you have absolute proof that he is, you can't really say much about it..cuz its very unlikely that he wodl admit that he was cheating..if he was. but for right now you can ionly hope for the best.he seems pretty attatched to you though and that he likes you alot..it doest like seem like he's using you either because he wants to spend time with you and shows his love for you publicly.


ok theres this song that i love, its called supadupafly. the artist has a myspace but it doesnt have the link to add to profile. is there a site that i can host the song on and copy and paste it into my profile on myspace? (link)
well, its not the song..but its the video..i kno they have a lot of songs there..
www.videocodezone.com
or this might work
www.cdzinc.com

you can try downloading it from purevolume too but i'm not sure..hope this helps


okay to start off, my boyfriend is my younger brothers best friend
and he's a grade younger then me
but hes still quite 'mature' and expects a lot out of the relationship
anyway, we got to second base, aka, he felt me up
and I asked him not to tell anyone, ecspecially my brother
that was a week ago, and i found out that he told everyone about it today
im quite bothered by that, obviously
i dont want to dump him though...im gonna have to have a chat with him, but i dont know what to say...any suggestions that will get the point across without making it sound like I want to end the relationship? (link)
hmm, just basically tell him how you feel. Tell him that you're upset that he told eveyone and to next time please resepct what you say and not go telling everyone if you don't want him to. if he is mature like you say he is, then he should understand and nto do it again. If he asks if you're breakig up with him, say no but that yo're upset with wat he did and to not do it again...hope this helps


ok so right now im 17 i use to like this kid alot when i was 15 nd he was older by about 4 years and i thought he was really hot and one day i got a lil too drunk and being an older kidd knowing i liked him i guess he took advantage of me and i ending up having sex with him .. and i lost my virginity to him .. after that i was like in love with him for the longest time but of course i was nothing to him nd now im afrraid to have sex with my boyfriend who i have been on and off with for awhile and now going out straight for about 11 months becase i don't want people to think im a slut because of the other kid (( which everyone found out about )) and i also dont want the other boy to find out because i don't want him to think less of me i know this sounds bad but this two both know eachother and i still occasionally talk to the boy i lost my virginity too .. my boyfriend i have now is totally in love with me i know he would never do anythink scumbag to me liek the other kid but i just dont know what to do ?? and i kno this sounds bad but i just dont know anymore (link)
hmmm...what i think you shoudl do is what makes you feel comfortable. if ou feel like you can trust your boyfriend and its something you want to do, then have sex with him..if you're having doubts which it seems you are you probably shouldn't. doni't have have sex with him just becuse you think its the right thing to do or, to meet other people's approval. I hope this helped, if it didnt..ask me again in a diff way and i'll try and give ya a better answer




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