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I use to be on this site all the time. Got sick of reading the same exact questions and basically copying and pasting my answers because no one cared to read questions asked before them. So I left and haven't really been on here.
Ps. I'm not perfect and my advice isn't always right. & sometimes I choose to make it sound like you will get hurt more than you actually will to prevent people from doing stupid things. Like if I get drunk what can happen? Well i might just say you can die.....stretching the truth but I think its better than having people go out and get drunk. Plus you can die but you would have to have alcohol poisoning.

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im sorry but this is really bugging me.

you know on your profile it has religon, height, body type and stuff. and one of them says smoke/drink? ok how do u get the smoke/drink thing off? i went to edit profile and i checked under basic info and background&lifestyle and the option for smoke/drink isnt there. where is it and how do i change the yes/no for them?

It is under background and lifestyle you just missed it. They are yes and no questions. Or you can hit the one that says no answer.

EDIT***************************

Thats weird. I just looked at mine and its there.
This is the order.
Marital Status
Sexual Orientation
Hometown
Religion
Smoker
Drinker
Children
Education
Income

Okayy...i have a psp...and i have a couple movie that are mp3 files...i cant put them into my psp becuase their mp3. I want to change to mp4's but i dunno how. I cant download them again...because limewire doesnt have them in mp4. And im all in for free downloads....my parents arnt gonna pay crap. Any ideas?

You just need to convert it to that format.

http://www.riverpast.com/en/support/tutorials/convert/mp3/m4a.php

That one might work if not just Google "converting a mp3 to an mp4"

in my school every student has to do swimming in gym class for 5 days. i'm really scared to do this because i'm a HORRIBLE swimmer. i can only tread water for like 1 minute, no lie. so what can i do in order to be able to tread water longer? because in gym class you have to tread for like 10 minutes straight! so its going to be really embarrassing if i can't tread for that long.

so basically i'm really stressing out about this. if anyone can help me at all i'd really appreciate it.

also i don't have a pool so how can i practice?
also how are some good ways to get out of swimming? i know that girls can only get out of swimming one day using the "i have my period" excuse, and if you really do have it for that week and can't use a tampon you have to go to the doctor with a written note.

thanks so much!

Get a doctors note saying you're allergic to chlorine, at least that’s what I always do =D

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzA0nG_PurQ

doesnt anyone else think that song is like addictive?
thankss =]
just wanted some thoughtsss.

I don't know about addictive, but I just listened to it and its a pretty good song.

is it true you can lose wieght from sweating?

Yes you can.

Are the to girls from T.A.T.U. really lesbians?

Yes they are.

TATU means "This one, That one." I also found somewhere just now that it stands for Teens Against Tobacco Use, however I don't know how true that is.

so speaking of extra curriculars, do colleges take working into account? because honestly who has time for school, a job, AND extra curriculars because i know i dont... is that going to affect me any ?

If you worked they look at it and the commitment you made to the place. ie. how long you have worked there and how people see you there. However if you didn't have a job but have good grades and do extra curricular activities it wont hurt you.

Does Anyone Know How To Make An Album On Facebook? Can You Walk Me Through The Steps? Thanks In Advance!

You log in

on your home page on the right hand side it says My photos-click it

Then on the right hand side it says add album

Then you list all the information

Good luck!

ok so there are these boots i want sooooooooo bad. and i searched for them everywhere they're suppose to be at burlington coat factory or nortdstrom and someone said i could get them at sears. but i checked all those stores and they're not there.

http://www.iamtonyang.com/0501/pink_fuzzy_boots.jpg
i want ones like those
in white or black or pink.
anyone know where i can get them?

Those are Uggs.

Here's a link

http://www.uggaustralia.com/ProductDetails.aspx?gID=w&categoryID=283&productID=5302&model=Fluff+Momma

Hope that helps =)

why do girls cry over guys?

i have this boyfriend, he was like my best friend before we went out. and he was soo sweet. i liked him soo much. and now he kinda chnaged. like he hangs out with his best friend wayy too much and we never talk or do any of the things we used to before we even went out. sometimes he makes me feel like he only wants physical stuff from me. lke making out. but i know thats not how he is cuz we are best friends.

and i have been in a lot of bad relationship. where my boyfrineds always neglected me. i always seem to go out with the guys who are the horrible boyfirneds. thats why im never going to go out with guys for thier looks ever again.

but anyway why do i always feel jealous? and why do i feel neglected by him? sometimes i even cry for stupid reasons like him ditching me to go with his frineds somewhere, or him not calling me or the fact that we dont even flirt anymore.

i have been going out with him for 2 weeks now. i know seems short but it feels like forever maybe because i have liked him for a long time. but i also dumped my recent horrible boyfriend for him beacuse i thought he would treat me better because of all the things he said to comfort me when my other boyfrined treated me like shit.
things were soo like amazing, he always wnated to be with me and i was soo in love/ now its been like a week after we made out for the first time together and things just fell apart. i feel like he got what he wanted and now he neglects me.
i honestly dont feel loved.

but we still like kiss bye and hold hands sometimes. but like we never flirt anymore
sorry this is so long. but im just soo depressed and i dont know what to do.
should i be a bitch to him and show him that im pissed for the ways hes treating me. or be clingy and hope hes clingy back. or just do nothing. or WHAT?? also idk he seems to copy how i act. like if i play mind games with him he plays mind games with me the next day. i dont know ahh i just cnat figure out why i dont get him. becausez i always used to give him girl advice. telling him to play hard to get because thats what girls like. and now i wnat him to be clingy because i love him that much and i miss being close to him...
ahhh =((

never been so depressed over a guy before.

Girls cry because its a way to let out their feelings. It's the way we cope with things. Nothing wrong with it.

If you guys were such good friends and could talk about anything, then try talking to him now. Before you start with the games. Those usually make things way to difficult and worse after a while. So just have a heart to heart with him. Tell him how you feel about the way he treats you. Tell him what you want from him.

If you told him to play hard to get with other girls he may be thinking thats what you want from him. So tell him if you don't want him to continue playing that game with you. Communication is the number one thing in a relationship. If you don't have that it's over. So just talk to him. Thats what it all comes down to.

I hope I helped!

ok so this may be weird but im just wondering, are there ever people [both guys & girls] that have like a myspace or xanga, and you randomly visit it one day, and then youre like oh well they seem cool or interesting or whatever, so you look at it again one day and then begin to do it often and its almost as if you start to "know" that person without ever talking to them? is that just me lol? im 16/f

Nah, If you talk to them enough and often, you can deff. feel like you know them. I know it's happened to me.

I was wondering if anyone (or if you know of anyone who) has had any kind of experience working at a store like Wet Seal? I know retail doesn't pay that great, but does anyone know about how much they start off? Any opinions on whether or not I should take a job offer there? Thank you in advance.

I love that store. Well most of the time. They usually pay bout 7 something an hour. Plus you get an employee discount. If you like the store then you should go for it and see how you like it.

Is it a good thing for high school students to do community service and why?

Yes it's a very good thing. Mainly because it looks good on college applications. I do community service in a hospital and another place. They can also give you letters of recommendation for jobs and other things if need be. Other than that I guess it makes you see just how much you have.

Hope I helped! =)

I hope I picked the right category but here it goes...
Alright so im 13/f and my cousin is 23/f. shes been dating her boyfriend for 2 years and she broke up with him and so he killed himself. he warned her that if she broke up with him he'd kill himself. hes only 23! or was..
anyway, him and her dad didnt get along very well. i feel so bad for him bcuz he was brokenhearted but he was a HUGE JERK! His parents are blaming it on HER! I feel so bad 4 her and im not gonna get into details of what he said but he was like "dont worry baby it's not your fault, you arent doing this to me" just to make her feel worse! what can i do to make her feel better? im kinda shy around her cuz i barely know her but i wanna make her feel better please help!

Wow I'm sorry. Umm ok, first of all she has to ask for advice or want to talk about it because she may not want to. Therefore she has to start the conversation first. If she doesn't then don't bring it up and don't push. But if you do start talking about it, you have to make it blatantly obvious that it is not her fault. Keep repeating that and make sure she really knows it. It was his selfish act to take his life. But I wouldn't bash the guy to much. I mean he is dead and you shouldn't bash people that have passed away to much. Bottom line just be there for her. Thats all you really can do.

Does the Tampax Pearl tampon have a plastic wrapper?

Yep!

i went out with this guy a few months ago and after we broke up we stayed friends. i mean we aren't as close as we once were but we are friends still. i still care about him (of course i do! i care about all of my friends) the thing is, he is going to formal with this girl who is a HUGE sl*t. no joke. there is only literally three girls in my grade that like her. my friend doesn't even know this girl (they met at a party and she was all over him) and thats the only time they have been together. she is known for hookig up and getting all over all these guys. i don't want my friend to get hurt but i dont know if i should tell him about this girl and her reputation. or maybe i should? please help me! i dont want him to get hurt!

Well the thing is you are in a tough spot! If you tell him this, he will most likely think you are just being the jealous ex. Plus he might already know this about her and therefore want to go with her, if you get my hint. But if you really want him to know ask a mutual friend to tell him and have him say its coming form him and not you. Don't get involved. I'm just speaking from experience. You can choose to listen or do the complete oppose in reality it's your choice. Good Luck!

He's in the same group of friends as me, so we see each other quite often. He'll often sit next to me or stand near me, or follow me into a different room. He often looks at me from across the room and smiles at me, and when we're in a group laughing about something he'll make eye contact with me. He often seems to be listening to conversations I'm having with other people and sometimes joins in, or comments on something I've said. I'm too shy to say anything about liking him, and he's shy as well. Do you think he likes me as more than a friend? What other clues should I look for?

By everything that you have stated it does sound like he wants more than a friendship. Being overly friendly and very interested in what you are doing/ have to say is a pretty clear sign of that. Or at least thats my opinion. Just ask your friends if he has mentioned anything about you to them. If they ask if you like him, you can just say "you might be interested" or "maybe but want to get to know him better" and would like to know if he in return has any interest in you.

Hope I helped =)

when people write 'yew' is that like 'you' or is it like 'yoooohooooo!!'

sorry, but whats it mean?

I've never heard it used before but the Urban dictionary has some peoples opinion on it.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=yew

Hope that helps!

ok, so here is the question. but im just wondering.
my friend said if you give a blow to a guy and u dont spit out the sperm you can get pregnet.
is that true? how do you play anywyas:S

No you can't get pregnet

how can you tell if someone has been smoking pot? (besides smelling like it and drug test)

Your pupils get dilated.
You act high, do stupid things. Seem to be care free.

Heres a site I goggled that talked about it

http://www.healthcentral.com/drdean/408/15734.html

Hope I helped :)

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