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i am the kind or person that likes to keep things tom myself how can i get my mom to buy me tampons and let me shave my legs without saying it to her face?(hinting) (link)
For the tampons thing, Just be like "Wow pads are soo annoying..I need something else that doesn't feel like a diaper" haha or something like that. And for the shaving your legs part, Well when I did I just went up to my mom and was like "wow..leg hair is really annoying..can I shave my legs so it's not all gross" or something along those lines. I don't know how you can hint about that you should just ask her, she'll probably say yes!


I have this boyfriend who is really tight with my best friend. My boyfriend also has a best friend who used to go out with my best friend. I know it's confusing, but all 4 of us used to be so tight and everything. Now it's only me and my boyfriend because my best friend & my boyfriends best friend broke up and everythings so messed up. I know they still have feelings for eachother. What can I do to get all 4 of us back together like old times? (link)
Get them to hang out as friends. Bring them to a place where you used to go and bring back old memories =) Good Luck!!


Ok well See i may have changed i dont know but im really confused of who i am. SOme of my friends want me to go back to my gurlie gurl fun normal self and some want me to stay my sorta Skater type self?! I want to g0 back and i dont ? I dont know! Im so confused ! Please help me!!!

Signed
*Confused~~ (link)
I had that same problem!! I was a skater type of person. But then I saw other people as like girly girls and I wanted to be like that so I changed. I like this way a whole lot better and people seem to like me better like this too!!..So if you want to go back to being a girly girl then do it. If you don't like it after you tried it and stuff after a while just go back to skater =)


Hi,
I'm currently going into high school and have one huge problem, all girls find me non-attractive. I'm a redhead, freckle faced short haired pale (a little tan, barely) loser. I've had a crush on exactly 27 people since second grade and none what so ever have liked me back. This summer I have currently been training 4 two reasons, to look nice for girls and for soccer. Is there anything ANYTHING AT ALL I can do to improve myself and my looks so I will atleast be a little bit more attractive. BTW I have my left ear piecred twice. I'M DESPERATE, PLEASE HELP ME. A girl friends would help my confindence alot.
HELP ME PLEASE (link)
Well you could dye your hair a different color..And get a tan. I don't think you sound that bad..And if you mean "Loser" by you have no friends, then just talk to people more. Get to know girls and stuff through AIM or something first =) Good Luck!


my parents only gave me 100 dollars to spend for school clothes. and i really need both pants and shirts any ideas on how to get alot of the stuff i want for that price. thx. much appreciated!! (link)
The greatest places that are cheap are Rave, Rave Girl, Marshalls ((Brand names real cheap!!)), Target, Wal*Mart, JC Penny, Old Navy..Hope those help


i have a blood blister on my pinky toe, and it looks liek a little brown dot under my skin, how do i get rid of it? (link)
I had one of those in my finger. It was really annoying so I just like took some tweezers and popped it..It kinda hurt after I did it..But not much. So you can either pop it..Or just wait for it to heal =)


http://www.journeys.com/catalog_detail.aspx?id=23819

the pink and blue roos


or ... the pink and gray vans

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/1560623/c/12819.html

or this??

http://www.zappos.com/n/p/dp/2086937/c/12820.html


PLEASE GIVE ME AN OPINION ASAP PLEASE PLEASE MODERATOR DONT DELETE I NEED THE OPINION (link)
I think the pink and grey vans are the best =)


okay i'm a teenager and i have arthritis..i got it when i was 8 years old..i've seen doctors and they can't stop it completely! i have it in my left knee..right knee..and in both wrists. sometimes it bothers me n sometimes it doesnt..any advice for treatments when it starts hurting? i rate realli high! (link)
I have arthritus in both my knees..Whever it bothers me I just take IBProfin (Don't know how to spell it haha) and it takes the pain away for a while..


im 12 nd ill be 13 on sept 5th nd im goin into 8th grade nd i kno im kinda young to say im " in love " but wen i was in 7th grade the 1st day of school i saw this kid dylan nd omg i went crazee nd couldnt stop tlkin bout him nd i kept tellin my friend that id never get him to look at me or even talk to me nd then we got called in r teams nd i swore i hurd my friends last name called nd i was like oh theres ur team nd then wen i was goin in my team it turns out she was in my class nd i thought i hurd her name b4 nd i was like whoops lol nd wen she got to my class nd i was like omgg im soo srii nd she sed ull be happy wen i tell u this .. nd she sed that dylan was talkin to my other friend frank nd sayin how hott i was nd i was like sooooo happy nd i couldnt breathe nd then soon enuff tha day b4 my bday he asked me out nd then we started goin out nd then i hurd one stupid rumor bout sumthenn he sed to me nd i believed it nd dumped him nd then we were still close nd then we went out again for a 2nd time nd then i got confused nd dumped him again nd then we were close again but then he gotta nother gf nd we didnt talk for a while nd then i realized wutta mistake i made nd how much i relii relii like him nd then he started sayin mean shytt bout me nd then after a while we became close again but he kept gettin new gfs nd now he has this gf hes had since like may nd i even tho i broke up wit him twice i still liked him nd havnt stopped ever since i saw him nd we talk on the fone a lot nd he tells me he still loves me nd tells me he always will but im juss soo depressed tha onli time i was happy was wen i was with him nd i want one more chance to prove how much i care for him nd i dunno wut to do .. his gf is from a diff town nd shes in a grade higher than him nd shes movin to our town now nd she needs to learn the school system so shes gonna be in r skool = \ nd i mean shes nicee but she has the one thing i love nd kare for nd ive never liked sumone for soo long in my like its almost a year! nd i relii want him back nd it helps that i kno he says he still loves me but .. wut do i do?!?!? plzz help

- sadd = ( (link)
Well just take some time apart from him and see how you feel after that, If you still like him a lot then just tell him that, and then tell him that you just want one more chance to prove how much you "love" him..Good Luck!


I had a really crappy year in the 8th grade. I was harassed a lot, turned down by 2 guys I really liked, got straight C's, & lost a bunch of my friends. I also was accused of spreading a bunch of rumors! It sucked.

I'm really afraid to go back to school though in September. There's this group of girls who are all so mean to me for no particular reason! They constantly put me down & accuse me of spreading rumors. Towards the end of the school year, there was this rumor going around, saying that I said that some chick was cheating on her boyfriend. I never even TALKED to this girl, so I don't know why I was accused of spreading a rumor. That rumor pretty much damaged my social life & school life. I wound up getting hated on by a lot of my old friends & getting harassed by people I've never spoken to!

I'm doing better now, because I have better friends now & I'm a lot more selfconfident. I'm really afraid to go back to school, though. What should I do if anyone gives me crap again? (link)
Just tell them that you never did anything..If they don't believe you and still hate you and stuff..Then just walk away. There's nothing you can really do about it unless you tell someone. But I would just ignore them. Just be confident and let them think what they want. who cares what they think they're not worth your time!! =D


Does anyone know a quick way to get rid of poison ivy. I know Chlorine and Bleach help...but anything else?

-Thanks
-Zero (link)
I've heard that mud works lol. I used to use it..Just like mud from your back yard or something haha..But also you can use Calohist Clear to make you stop itching it and spreading it..It would help it go away


okay heres my story..what should i do?

i have this best friend named Jerra..and last friday we went bowling and met these guys n hooked up with them! and then she promised me that night that me n her would go again this friday with the same group of guys..and that it would be JUST us..no one else! just me n her..and then the guys! well she went to camp for a week and came back today and called me and was like "well i met these girls at camp and they became some of my best friends and they are gonna come with us tonite bowling!" i was soo FURIOUS! i started crying and everything cause i worked so hard to earn the money so i could go bowling tonite..but now my plans are ruined! and i told her that if those girls she met where there that she would ditch me and she was like "i wouldn't ditch you completely" but here's another thing..i like this guy named charlie..and me n him were suppose to hook up tonite and makeout maybe..well guess what..she's bringing his EX girlfriend! and then she told his ex g/f that i liked him and was gonna makeout with him! some best friend huh?! well i don't know what to do! PLEASE HELP ME AS SOON AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE THIS WHOLE THING IS HAPPENING TONITE! I'LL RATE YOU A 5! thanks!

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Well maybe if you go and meet her new friends then you can become friends with them. But she did break her promise so you should talk to her about that. And just tell her that you're upset that she broke a promise and told that guys ex-g/f that stuff..


Hey Everyone ! Ok ths is a good one, How come when your single you have the hardest time finding anyone to go out with. But as soon as you have a BF and become Attached Everyone in the world wants to date you. How many times has this happen to you guys? LOL its agravating. But I love my man so no huge complaints here. Have a great day everyone ! xoxoxoxooxoxoxox (link)
Haha I guess this just happens because when you're single..They can have you easily or something and when you have a boyfriend they can't have you so they want you even more lol


what brand of bleaching stuff? (link)
I'm sorry I don't know the brand name..You can like look up some good kinds on google or something.. sorry :-/


my eye has been twitching lately!! ts gotton worse!! like its my eyelid, sometimes my eyebrow, and below my eye...not all @ once but its only in my right eye...u cant see it but i can feel it..i told my mom but she didnt really think nothin of it...wat does this mean?? (link)
I get that sometimes. It's just your nerves. Maybe you get nervous or stressed or something..Its nothing really to be concerened about


you see, i am a female brunette and i have hair on my legs/arms. I would like to lighten my hair so it is less visible because i don't like to wax/shave because hair grows back even darker/thicker. So what products can i use to lighten my hair? Are there any home remedies so I wont have to go to the store? (link)
I don't know of any home remedies..But you can go to a drug store or something and get a hair bleaching kit thing..I've heard they work =)


um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else? (link)
You really shouldn't care what other people think. If you like this guy then go out with him!! Nerds are awesome! =D Good Luck!!


Im 16 and My 16 year old Best friend is in love with my 16 year old ex boyfriend im pass the stage of you cant get with your best friends ex boyfriend, my problim is she really likes him she is like obsessed but he dont like her well he thought he might of but now he says he dont cuz she is inscure but they both ask me what they should do like he says should i just go out with her even thought i dont like her and she asks what can i do to get him to go out with me and then im left in the middle and my ex is also one of my best friends now so i dont really want to pick sides but i want them both to be happy i really am kinda sick of this situation help me please! (link)
Well if your ex doesn't want to go out with her then he shouldn't, he can't force himself to like her or anything. You should just have him tell her that he doesn't like her that way,that he only wants to be friends with her. It will make her upset but at least she'll know the truth =/


well tomorrow is my school check in and pictures and im undecided on how to wear my hair for my pictures i know its a dumb fuckin question but oh well...anyways my hairs about a lil above my ...boobs or below my shoulders and its nat. wavy/curly sooo how do yall think i should wear my hair...down curly or down straight or up or what should i do with it (its pretty thick too)...oh and if yah need to know i think im wearin this pink v neck top w/ my hoops and i need some opinions!...thanks lol. (link)
Well something that I sometimes do that looks cute is you do the half pony tail thing, but with the hair on the top, you put it in a messy bun. And then take like some hair as bangs, like have them straight and stuff lol. =D


i have this one friend... lets call her Liz.. Liz always used to come over my house, we always used to hang out.. there wasnt a day where we werent together.. cuz she lives rite down tha road.. but all of a sudden.. this summer.. she never comes over..she never calls.. n i never hear from her.. then i found out she was hangin w/ another girl that was a few years younger \than us.. I TOTALLY DONT MIND THAT but i mean i never see her any more.. the girl she hangs out with doesnt like me so i dont bother hangin out with them wen they r together.. but i feel like mah 2nd half has been torn away!

alwaiiz,
Ali

p.s. i rate (link)
Call her!!..Any time you can just call her and ask her if she wants to hang out. She'll probably get tired of being with someone younger then her. They can be annoying sometimes..But talk to her about it.




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