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okay so 2 nights ago i gave my boyfriend head for the 2nd time. the first time he was wearing a condom bc i was to scared of risks. but this time he was not wearing one. he busted in my mouth but as soon as it went in my mouth i spit it into the sink. i didnt wash my mouth out but i spit as much as i could out. i knew what i was doing since i did it once b4 with him & he said it felt really good this time cause he wasnt wearing a condom & all.
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-ive been with my boyfriend for 1 year!! =)
-we are both virgins
-im the only one hes ever done oral with
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You can get HIV from preoforming Oral sex, it isn't common for people who are brand new...if you are the first and know for a fact..then I seriously doubt you have anything to worry about. Just relax...if you believe you are the first for everything...then you are fine. Just be careful is all...make sure you are the first if you are that scared about anything.
*WovenLynx*
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Is it normal for a 13-year-old girl to masterbate, or is it just really sick-o for my age? Omg, I'm sooooo embarassed and I think I'm the only one in my grade who does. I feel like such a perv., but I can't help it. I have to cuz it feels so good. So I want to know is, is this unusual for a girl my age? Or something to feel guilty about? (link)
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Yes, it is normally. I promise you you are not the only one in your grade that does it. Some girls and or guys might play it off like they don't or that it is gross...but more then likely they have tried it. If it helps you any...I started at 8. If it feels good, which it does then don't stop because you think you're the only one doing it. You're not. I promise
*WovenLynx*
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why do guys care if you spit or swallow? (link)
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Because of the different amount of pleasure. I suppose it would feel the same if he came in your mouth and you held it till he was completely done, then spit. It would prolly feel the same as if you swallowed. But, sometimes guys consider spitting as in he cums on your face, or chest or whatever...but not in your mouth. And most guys think it is better for a girl to swallow because of the pleasure that they keep. If you are getting a guy off by head and stop and then use your hand...the difference in texture and such prolly doesn't feel as good for him.
*WovenLynx* Hope I helped.
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okay at the tip of my boobs like where A baby sucks from them I sometimes get stuff there (I dont know what to call it) I quess skin its like I can pick at it and it comes off I just truly dont know what the deal is and what it even is and if it's normal so someone please tell me its so hard to explain?
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Have your breasts been growing resently...if yes, it may just be the fact that your skin is stretching...and it not being use to it, would cause your skin to peel. I'm not sure though...I would probably bring it up with my mom. But...it may just be your skin not knowing what to do from the growing process, if your chest has been growing...then it is probably normal.
*Woven* Hope I helped you.
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does in hurt when myou have sex for the first time iam 15 and a girl (link)
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Yes...it does. But, the pain fades fast...after about 5 minutes or more...but hopefully the guy relaxes you and such...makes you not pay attention to it.
*Wovenlynx*
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ok me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month and 1 week he wants to have sex im 14 hes 15 have we been going out long enough (link)
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That is a question only you can answer. I lost mine at 15...but I was ready. In my opinion...if you have to ask if you are ready online...then the answer is no most likely...or else you would have no doubt in your mind. I lost mine at 15, yes...I became sexually active after about a month and a week...also...but...now I'm 17 and me and that boy are still together...I'd be sure before anything...and I dont think you are.
*WovenLynx*
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Hi im 13/f and i have a BIG problem..... ok my boyfriend wants to have sex with me..... and i kept holding it off .. but now i have my period and i DONT want to do it... he got pissed and made up a rumor about me and him having sex.... well my parents found out and i was is big trouble.... ok now its like 1 yr l8ter and my periods are gettin bad and they are really uncomfortable.. so i found out that if i went on the pill they would be easiaer and i would have less of them.... but now how am i soppused to get them without my mom fnding out because i kno if i aske he she will automatticly assume that i would be having sex..... i live peretty far away from a store and i would need a ride....... ok how would i bring this up and how do i not make my mom freak out??? (link)
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You should play more on the pains of your cramps when you get them...show her that they hurt. Then...one day at school go to the nurse and complain about your cramps...call your mom to check you out. Bring it up as if the nurse told you about the fact that Birthcontrol helps with the cramps on younger girls. Or..you could be honest with her.
*WovenLynx*
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well im 16 and im a gurl and im still a virgin in every way but what i want to know is ,is ok to masterbate and when you have sex for the first time does it hurt also when you masterbate does it feel different when you acually have sex or does the pleasure feel the same please help iam i disuging or normal
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*Smiles* Masterbation always feels different when you do it yourself. It still hurts when you have sex, but it will not hurt as badly as it would. The pleasure will most likely feel a lot different, especially if you are into the guy (that always helps). He may not do everything right but the pleasure will also be placed ontop of your nerves, feelings and everything for him.
It's normal to be worried or scared or just curious.
*WovenLynx*
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how do you know when your pregnent?? (link)
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Either take a couple tests to be sure. Um..also, your breasts will become tender, you may either gain or lose weight, um... you may have odd cravings, your period may skip...a couple ways.
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ok i am a 14 female and i want to start wearin tampons for PE bc i have to start PE but my MOM wont elt em she says,"no you shouldnt be puttin things up there" and i told ehr i had to for PE and she goes that she will talk to the PE teachers herself and not make me go swimmin but the thing is she thinks THAT I AM TOO YOUNG TO WEAR THEM. she said " ur a lil girl and your body is still developin and shouldnt be puttin that up there" what should i do? do you guys think i am to young to wear one??
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I started wearing them at 15. But...I can understand what your mom is saying, but also...at any age nothing should be placed up there... But, tampons are doctor recommended for a reason. I think you should just use them only during P.E. Tell your mom that you will wear them only in that class, and the rest of the day wear a pad, and or whatever else you wear.
*WovenLynx*
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can you have sex during your period? (link)
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You can have sex no matter what. If you bleed a lot, I would advice placing something beneath you, such as a towel or something you can wash. Most girls are actually more aroused on their periods...But yes, you can have sex on your period.
*WovenLynx*
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what's some tips to avoid/help irratiation from shaving pubic hair?
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I shave my pubic area completely. The first few times I did it my skin became irritated, that is impossible to avoid, because of how sensitive your skin is. But...don't shave daily. Wait at lesat 3 to 4 more days before you do it again. Let your hair grow back out a little. Then your skin will become use to it, and the pattern you get. Always shave with your hair line around your most sensitve areas, until the hair is gone. Up on your bikini line you can shave against you hair line. But, be careful.
*WovenLynx*
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ok. You know how people say kissing comes naturally? well the first time i made out i had no idea what to do.. it was not natural at all. Like i didnt know what to do with my tounge when his was in my mouth. and when i put mine in his mouth, what do i do?
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Hm..it's kind of a hard question to describe. It normally is natural...and it isn't a stupid question.
Hm...let him lead, he should move towards you his head cocked to one side, you move towards him your head to the other side. Once your lips connect, wait a second to let that settle in. Pull back and lick your lips to moisten them, but dont pull back to far, stay close enough to where he can practically feel you lick your lips. When you move back into him, lift your hand to his cheek, either one. This gives a sence of ownership...and or intimacy. It shows you want him to be where he is. Lightly press your tongue against his lips, not to hard but let him know you want to enter his mouth. If he doesn't get the signal place your tongue back in your own mouth, if he does get the hint his mouth should open to you, which in turn his tongue would come out. Make sure your tongue does the opposite of his, it will cause kind of like a wrestling match, but always let ya'lls tongues touch. You should pull back every now and then, so the pattern doesn't get old. Try new things...it never hurts to be open to any sort of kissing. Nibble on his lip, lick his lips, kiss alone his jaw line and such
*WovenLynx*
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I know I always ask questions on Advicenators about my boyfriend but that's because I like other people's opinions.
Anyways...last night we were talking about having sex. He asked me if we could. I have been thinking about it for awhile now, and I think I am ready. I have taken many tests that said I am ready and I have thought through everything. Last night before I gave him my answer we talked about it for awhile (yes, we have also talked about it before.) He said that he sees a future with us and that he doesn't want just sex, but it's his only real and true way he KNOWS how to show me he loves me. He was talking about when we get married and our kids and all of that. He's very sincere when he says it, I know. He says we will not break up. So I said yes, I would do it. I even talked to him about how my dad's always telling me a guy will tell you anything to get a little something and he assured me he wouldn't. He knows what kind of girl I am and that if he just wanted sex he could be somewhere else.
That's just a little background information so you know I have thought alot about this. I have a few questions that I have to ask though. (BTW, if it makes any difference he is wearing a condom AND pulling out)
1. If I am on bottom, what do I do?
2. What do you do after sex?
3. What does sex feel like?
4. How bad does it hurt?
Thanks soo much to anyone who answers, it means alot to me! I rate high! (link)
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Hm...if he told you it is the only way he KNOWS how to show his love for you..it may be exactly what your dad is saying...or he just has to much intimacy for you and doesn't know how to express himself.
If you are on bottom do whatever comes to mind. Wrapping your legs up around waist, and of just laying them ontop of the back of his shins will open you more. Allowing him to go deeper as well as more pleasure instead of pain for you.
What do you do after sex...if you have to ask this question maybe you aren't as comfortable around him as you thought...be yourself...tell him what you thought about it...what you guys can change in the furture...talk about it.
What does it feel like...the first time it hurts, but after a few minutes it begins to feel great. It is like this pleasure that keeps building up and up and up...until you're release. Which, on the first time...girls don't always have, so you may experience your clit to hurt, which just means you are aroused and havn't be able to release anything, the best way to do that is for him or you to rub it gentally, and or until you orgasm. Or, you feel the pain subside.
How bad does it hurt. My boyfriend had to try 4 different times to penetrate me, because I'm a baby when it comes to pain...but what I learned it open yourself. Spread your legs, let him go deeper and you'll loosen to his fit faster, and it will be pleasurable.
*WovenLynx*
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When a guy is inside of you, does it hurt?
Im preparing for the night of my life, Im not going to be a virgin no more! Im scared! What do I do if I freeze and he thinks Im bad. Guys, What is more comfy to you? On the bed or Other.
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thankz so much guys and girls. Thankz for being here for me in my time of need! (link)
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A lot of girls ask this question...I mean the will it hurt. You could always masterbate to lessen the pain, but your skin is stretching, and maybe tearing when he enters you. You may bleed, unless you use tampons often...because that normally 'pops your cherry'. If you get to nervous you will freeze, and the guy will take it negatively or good on his self esteem. My boyfriend and I when we first had sex, I was so nervous my teeht were chattering...but he took it as a good sign. Hopefully yours does too.
*WovenLynx*
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14/f Okay just wondering can you get an orgasm from intensly grinding (dancing) with someone? Like if the guy was (outside your clothes) rubbing his hand on your upper thigh/hip and it was really intense. Also what exactly is an orgasm? Thanks. I'll rate! (link)
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Not a very high percent of women orgasm, and if they do it isn't very easily. Yet, I'm a lucky one who can very easily. You maybe also. You can orgasm off of grinding, there are certain areas a guy can touch that will intensify your arousal state...making you wetter, and or causing your clit to hurt, but when that release comes...that makes your eyes close...thats an orgasm.They get more intense with age, as well as experience.
*WovenLynx*
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is there any way to boost your sex drive?
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Masterbation helps push our sex drive, imaging him/her more often doing sexual things, it will cause your hormones to quicken...which in turn will boost your sex drive.
*WovenLynx*
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i started my period about 2 months ago. my vagina is changing..is that normal? if so what changes are normal???? (link)
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It's not actually changing apperances, and or shouldn't be. The discharge may be a dark brown, but that is normal...it may hurt once in awhile but that is normal to. So...nothing about it is odd, unless it is changing apperance, or slightly in color...that maybe a negative sign.
*WovenLynx*
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ok well on sunday my boyfriend fingered me and now i've been having brown discharge. what could this be? i know it's not my period by i had that over 2 weeks ago and normally when i'm about to start i my boobs hurt and my discharge isn't brown and my boobs haven't been hurting. when he was doing it it felt like he was kinda scratching . . could that be it? thanks in advance! (link)
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Yes, that could of been it. Also...if this was your first time, or second or third...your body is probably getting use to being entered.
*WovenLynx*
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me and my boyfriend want to kiss...he has already kissed someone and he knows how to kiss..but its my first kiss and i dont know how to kiss at all...will i know when he goes to kiss me? is there any ways to practice kissing? (link)
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There are ways...but if you dont know what you're doing...how do you know if you're practicing right. Me and my boyfriends first kiss was messed up...it was the most special..but we couldn't find each others ryhtum. You'll be fine. That is why everyone wont forget their first kiss.
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