Question Posted Saturday September 17 2005, 6:36 pm
When a guy is inside of you, does it hurt?
Im preparing for the night of my life, Im not going to be a virgin no more! Im scared! What do I do if I freeze and he thinks Im bad. Guys, What is more comfy to you? On the bed or Other.
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thankz so much guys and girls. Thankz for being here for me in my time of need!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? WovenLynx answered Friday September 23 2005, 9:10 pm: A lot of girls ask this question...I mean the will it hurt. You could always masterbate to lessen the pain, but your skin is stretching, and maybe tearing when he enters you. You may bleed, unless you use tampons often...because that normally 'pops your cherry'. If you get to nervous you will freeze, and the guy will take it negatively or good on his self esteem. My boyfriend and I when we first had sex, I was so nervous my teeht were chattering...but he took it as a good sign. Hopefully yours does too.
Xo_Hawtt_Sexii_Thang_oX answered Sunday September 18 2005, 6:41 pm: well yes it hurts but at the same time it feels good and the best way is on the bed make sure he is wearing a condom fro safe sex...
Curry09 answered Sunday September 18 2005, 1:16 am: The first time you have sex it will hurt because your skin is getting torn, and im not sure if you know this but you are mostly likely going to bleed. If your really scared you should probably just wait a while dont just have sex because everyone else is doing it. Did you tell the guy that your a virgin? if you did he will probably understand and he wont make fun of you.
My boyfriend likes it on the bed but everyone is different. [ Curry09's advice column | Ask Curry09 A Question ]
xBestAddiction answered Saturday September 17 2005, 11:41 pm: yes your first time will hurt because there is like a piece of tissue in your vagina and the first time that you have sex, it breaks. it will hurt a little and bleed a little but will go away. im not sure what to tell you about the comfort situation because im not a guy, but im sure they probably dont want someone all stiffend up so just try to relax. good luck! [ xBestAddiction's advice column | Ask xBestAddiction A Question ]
Drama_Secretary answered Saturday September 17 2005, 9:39 pm: Okay. Yes it fucking hurts. You have a big thing going up you so it'll hurt, but don't let him pull out till he's done otherwise you'll be in more pain. They like it lying down. Girls have better orgasms when they are in a chair stance. Don't expect to have an orgasm ever during sex. Hope I helped. [ Drama_Secretary's advice column | Ask Drama_Secretary A Question ]
LoveNJstyle answered Saturday September 17 2005, 8:52 pm: just relax! if you trust this guy like you should before you even think about having sex with him then he should understand if you say it hurts. dont rush into things...if your not completely and 100 percent ready, dont do it. if he really even cares about you, he wont break up with you for postponing it for a while. just make sure you can handle it and use protection please. <3 [ LoveNJstyle's advice column | Ask LoveNJstyle A Question ]
sk8trash answered Saturday September 17 2005, 8:50 pm: Lol, alot of people say that it hurts for the first time.. But the pain gradually goes away everytime you do it.
I think you should do it on the bed. Preferably a king or queen size bed. For the heck of it... And for you and you bf's comfort.. You don'r want him or you falling off the bed do ya?? hehe... It's your first time, don't worry!!
If it's his first time also, he might also muck up!!!! Hes your boyfriend, he should love you for who you are, not what you do if you mess up... Well, remember to STAY SAFE!!
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