my friends always make plans to go places like the mall the arcade the movies etc. and they never invite me. i dont think they do it on purpose but when they are planning whos going to go they never ask me if i want to go and they know i never have anything to do. i hate it and when i ask them if they want to go with me they never want to go. i hate not being included it really bugs me and stuff.. for example today my 3 bestfriends are all having a girls day out today of course no one asked me if i wanted to go and i tried hinting that i was bored and wished i had something to do and they dont get it. i dont want to be left out anymore i always talk to them and say ya know what how come im never invited and they say oh sorry we will include you from now on and the next time they go somewhere they invite me but then they forget again. i tried just hanging out with other friends instead but the same things happen with them. its like im not loved by my frineds.... they will talk to me in school but they have their other friends. i only have 1 friend that i hang out with alot but shes so annoying and i avoid her sometimes and im wondering if my other friends think im annoying and thats why they ignore me. i hate this soooo much noone wants to hang out with me. im not shy or anything i dont understand why my friends would rather hang out with their other friends. :(
well... they don't really seem like friends to me, but i don't know them. i don't think it's just that they don't want you around or you're annoying or anything... i think they sound pretty shallow... and if they were doin that to me i'd ask what's up with the not inviting me ness, it ain't cool, if we ain't really friends tell me strait up. and for all those other friends you say you hang out with at school but they have other friends they hang with outside of school instead of you... maybe you just ain't found the right people yet that really care about you and want you with them all the time... believe me i know... i'm in 10th grade and just found people who really care about me... even though i've known them since 8th grade... it takes a while and i was a loner for quite some time b4 them... "Wishing to be friends is quick work, but friendship is a slow-ripening fruit." ~ Aristotle... i hope i helped
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ok last night i woke up at about 3:30 because i heard a creaky noise and i flung up and went OMGSH!! i went to say you scared me to who i thought was my moms girlfriend and my dog but the person just turned around and looked at me like i was insane i stared at them as the faded into my door without opening it am i insane.. do i have some special power? this happened when i was like three.. i was in the bathroom potty training [ bear with me here ] && the door was open and all of the sudden a clown came out of the wall [ im not afraid of them ] and i screamed he looked at me and walked out the door and my uncle came running and looked at him or so i thought.. but i dont think he saw him .. whats wrong with me? am i just seeing this stuff and its not there do i have some power i dont know about im only 13 so it could get stronger
i don't believe anyone can say weather or not ghosts are real... there is no proof of them existing and no proof of them to be a figment of imagination... i couldn't tell you if you have any powers or not... no one can... And if you believe that you do have a power or sumthin I wouldn’t hold it against you and I don’t think anyone should... it’s up to you if you believe or not
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I'm totally lost in the types of Christianity there are. I know I believe in God, and the fact that Jesus died for us to get into Heaven. But what I do not understand, is what exactly God did, and what exactly Jesus did to get crucified in the first place.
Also, I was wondering if someone could explain the differences in denominations for me, or give me a link to a site that can do so. Thanks so much.
well... no one really knows anything more than what they read, no one tries to think past it... the way i see it is that Jesus got crucified b/c people were jealous or they thought it was “blasphemous”… and there really is no difference in the different types of Christianity b/c in one way or another they all have been distorted in some way... like... i'm a Christian(sadly i don't know which kind... i believe god is real and Jesus is his son… but i'm still trying 2 figure out what exactly i believe) but i don't believe that hell is a burning fiery aaahhhh thing, i just think it's where people who have done things that God finds bad enough are simply forgotten... this is just my opinion... and it probably didn't make any sense... just tryin to help
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I like my friend, josh and today i told him that i liked him and i couldnt really tell if he liked me or not andi just really dont know because alot of people think he likes me but my friend told me he didnt like me well what should i do? and if you have any advice on how to get a guy to like you that would be so helpful!! thanks!!
well... if a lot of people say he likes you... and only one of your friends say he doesn't...maybe your friend likes him too and is a little jealous(if this friend is a girl)... so i think you should ask him if he likes you too... but don't be all annoying like and hyper/preppy... just talk to him normally and play it cool... so if he says he just wants to be friends then it won't be so embarrassing... good luck and i hope it goes well for you
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my cat is like, 5 months old, and she is gray and fluffy with big green eyes. cute, right? well she wont quit biting me and climbing all over me. i know shes playing around, but i just wanna know, is there anything i can do to calm her down??!! I HAVE BITE MARKS AND SCRATCHES ALL OVER MY HANDS!!
ok... this might sound weird... but i heard that if you hold her really close and say shhhh... over and over it's supposed to help calm her down... and i did it with my REALLY hyper crazy black cat(whose name was blacky... pure genius
huh!...lol) a few years ago and it worked... oh... and spray bottles arn't nice... i wouldn't do it just like i wouldn't hit a dog with a rolled up newspaper... but it's your cat not mine... hope i helped ya!
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Hey iam 17 years old and i just got a puppy for my b-day last week and he cries every night and my mom just had to go and put his cage outside my bedroom window and her cries are so loud that it keeps me up at night and I practically fall asleep in school what should I do?
cage.. that sounds like the problem right there... it needs to feel comfort... i mean, it's a puppy and has been taken away from it's mom... how would you feel if someone took you away from your mom when you were little... so maybe you should try letting it sleep with you in your bed... or if your parents don't want it on the bed then sleep on the floor with it
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okay well my mum has all these expextations of me, she wants me to be a genius shes sent me to this top tutour and she thinks being smart is the one and only thing that matters in life now im reasonably smart but not a genius, recently ive had there exams and i got my results im quite above average in all my subjecs but my mon doesnt care she wanted me to do better shees always canstantly comparing me with family and friends childrn, she always calles me stupid, silly dumb and quite often puts me down, im only 14 and she just put all this pressure on me to be smart, ive tried talking to her about it several times but it doent make a difference i know it shouldnt but it makes me feel really crappy and low what should i do?
When you say you've tried talking to her about it... maybe you should try using a different aproach... if you go up to her all calm... parents usually don't thinks it as bad as it really is. but if you go to her all emotional about it she would probably understand a little better(and i'm not saying fake it... but if you feel like crying...then go ahead and cry... parents may not like the crying thing... but if that's how you feel... then that's how you feel)... and you said sumthin bout it making u feel realy crappy and low... and it should make you feel that way... i would feel that way... most people would feel that way... but over all i think she just wants you to have a great future... i do think she really cares... maybe 2 much... but at least she does
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14/f. school starts wednesday the 6th and so does field hockey. this year i will be on the varsity team, but i'm not sure if i want to do field hockey again this year. every year i HATE going to practices, like i really do dread going to them. you have to run so much and the coaches are not nice at all, they dont' care if your tired or anything. but i LOVE the games. i just don't know what to do. like should i quit this year because i hate the practices so much, or should i continue because i like the games?
i played field hockey in 7th & 8th, and this year i'll be in 9th grade, which is my last year of middle school if that helps at all. thanks :]
i went through the same thing with basketball my freshamn year... the coach we had sucked... she yelled... she made us run for 45 minutes strait up and down the court because we lost a game... after that season i really wasn't sure aout playing again even though i've played for so long and have the greatest friends i could ever have from meeting them in sports... but i decided i wasn't just going to quit b/c of some shitty coach... that just made me realize how much i really do love basketball... and after working so hard to make the team... i was not going to through all that away... but the good news is she got fired... yay!... and now we have the coolest coaches ever!... so if you really love it... of course you shouldn't quit... especially since u been playin that long
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I'm not trying to offend anyone,
there are a lot of stories about fairies, and there are a lot of stories about God.
We don't have proof that fairies or God exists...yet so many people are convinced God does, while fairies or something of the sort are classified as just things in story books.
I'm not trying to get attention or anything, but I kind of don't get it.
So, just wondering...do you have an answer?
everyone has their own idea about whether God is real or not... and the reason there seems to be more people that believe in God than fairies and other mythical things is that most people that believe in all the myths of creatures like fairies, dwarfs, dragons, werewolves, vampires, and the list goes on, are to afraid of being ridiculed and made fun of b/c no one sees them as having any meaning to humans. And most people see God as meaning to them... something they can relate to, the person they believe created them... and all those creatures, they just don't understand... so really it's all about opinions... you know what's funny, that people argue about things like that... when no one has proof...and when i see people arguing about different religions, and ones real and the other's not… blah blah blah... i just laugh and say… why does it even matter? when all that matters is ones own pinion 2 themselves... for if you truly believe in what you believe... it should b enough and you shouldn't feel the need to prove it, unless you doubt the very thing you believe... but once again... this is only my opinion... i'm not sure if any of that helped... but i hope it did
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Hey guys!
So this year I get to learn a langauge && I picked French. does anybody know any tips? or know any awesome sites that can help me?
Merci.
i'm in french 2... yeah... it seems easy at first... but then u get into all the feminine/masculine stuff and verbs and all that other junk... but other than that stuff... it's not that hard... if you use this site http://www.appliedlanguage.com/free_translation.shtml ... or any other translating site... make sure to check if the feminine/masculine stuff is right... other than that, all i can say is PAY ATTENTION IN CLASS!... otherwise you'll be compleatly lost when you're doing your homework
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whatever i do i also seem to be following my friends. even if i don't want to do it i follow them anyway. say its a movie i don't want to see i go see that one anyway. i never stand up for myself. but i love my friends. but how can i do things that i want to do?? i tried one time to suggest something else and they just like stared at me. helpp mee
man, i know just how you feel... and it sucks don't it. maybe you feel like you ain't got anyone else(if that's the case... you prabably do and don't realize it..."love is blind, friendship just closes it's eyes"), but you're probably just sick of it. you gotta stand up for yourself, if they give you a chance show them you know how 2 have fun, and if they don't maybe they arn't really true friends. maybe if they knew how much you cared about them they'd understand better. have you tried asking them 2 the movies or sumthin like that, or do you ask after they ask you(that part confuses me a little... so if you do ask them when they ask you... try asking when they havn't... sorry, that was probably really confusing)... but if they really care about you as much as you care about them, it'll get better... good luck
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Well, Last night I had a dream I saw a shooting star and wished on it. And i don't remember what i wished. Does my dream mean anything?
It could mean that there was soemthing you always wanted, or wanted to do but have forgeotten over the years what it was... but i'm just guessing, i hope it helped a little though.
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