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Hey, im just your normal teenager, I have been through a lot tho and had to seek lots of advice in the process so now i would like to give it back! I love to graffiti it sooths me when I am in a bad mood or if i just want to get out of this world for a bit! So dont hesitate to ask me me a question id love to help in any way shape or form ! Thank you.
E-mail: estimate_est@hotmail.com
Gender: Male
Location: Ottawa,Ontario
Occupation: Mover
Age: 16
MSN: estimate_est@hotmail.com
Member Since: January 21, 2005
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Does any one know of any good sites, that will take away my boredom... I am 14 and i jus need somethin to do while i am on the computer.. please helpp!! ((~*Kaile*~)) (link)
www.ebaumsworld.com tons of stuff to do at that site, enjoy !


I was just shoveling yesterday alot and last night when I was sleeping I noticed my back hurt ALOT. Today even when Im typing I cant bend over because it hurts too much. What can I do to stop it from hurting? Please help!
Jacki (link)
Best advice i have is to use robaxin(sp) it helps im a mover and use it the odd time and it helps.


hey anyone know of any good sites that let you up load pictures i need good advice thanks i'll rate high. (link)
www.villagephotos.com

good luck.


Can your rating go up for questions put in your inbox? Or is it just from teh pool only? I've always been a bit curious on that (link)
Yes they go up for raitings in your inbox


My teacher put us in groups and she put me with all ppl i basically hate! and i don't think we'll get anything accomplished cuz none of like each other! what should i do? thanks! (link)
You should approach your teacher and tell her that feel that you will not get a lot of work done because you do not like the people you are working with and that the whole part of group work is co-operation and ask to be put in a diffrent group.


I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?
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The gym is a great way to relieve stress, so is keeping a positive outlook on what may come of caring for this woman, seek support for this, like a councelor or someone close to you. This is a critical time for her right now, and she needs someone to be by her side the whole time, and needs love and support to get back to herself. You are pretty much one of the people she looks up to, especially if you helped her raise this child, stick by her side and you will have no problems.


OMG I get soo pissed when i think about it! WEll, see first of all i wanna gain weight. Like I'm 103 pounds which i think is liek sooo underweight ccuz i think im like 5'3''...like i don't know if anyone remembers in the movie mean girls...but those bars that make you gain weight... well i was soo going to get that but my mom said NO like she says i am at a good weight...! But see Im annorexic and i don't throw up or anything...the worst part is i eat like all the time...and i swear i don't gain a pound! So can someone tell me an easy way to gain weight w/out using pills, or bars or shakes or anything like that ? THANK U ! (link)
Well there arnt too many healthy ways you can do it without those bars, shakes and such. They are basically mass builders but you dont just eat them and gain weight, you have to go to the gym and work out.They are more for building muscle.


i have an mp3 player and i know how to copy songs from a CD on there..but i dont know how to download them on there...is there any sites that i can use that will work?...i cant download from kazaa or nothing my parents wont let me..but any other places?? k thx (link)
Well there are other P2P file sharing networks other then kazaa that you can use but there are not many sites where you can down load music for free.Only ones that you have to pay for.


First thing I have to say.. is I am really goin thru a tough time right now so please don't be mean anwsering this question because I am serious about this... Alright... I had like a breakdown today...and cut my wrists a little bit not alot but some..I really can not stop thinking about suicide and I don't know what to do.. I want help so it doesn't go to far... but I'm afraid if I ask people will just think I am doing it for attention and I'm not but I can't take this anymore... I don't know what to do.. Please help me and fast... I'll rate you.. I just want to be happy again like I was when I was little... Ok thanks and remember please don't be mean!! (link)
Ok well...I have the same thing happening to me, except its worse, its been attempted im hust waiting for someone to let my parents know that i have a prolonged depression so that i can get help. But some ways to help, are going to see your school councelor, or talking to a close adult. But to tell you the truth dont think about suicide, because if you fail it hurts even more so please keep that thought out of your head.If you ever need someone to talk to about your problems ill be glad to listen you can email me or talk to me on msn at estimate_est@hotmail.com

Good Luck!


ok, i have a cold sore on the outside of my mouth, like right in the corner, and it seems to be getting bigger and it hurts even if i laugh and it bleeds, if you can help me i would greatly appreciate that, and i have already tried this abreva stuff and it doesent work for me. (link)
Ok one option is to:

Cover it with a protective petroleum-based product, this will protect it from infection and help it heal a little quicher.

If its painful and over the counter pain killer helps to relieve the pain.

avoid salty foods for a bit because they tend to irritate it.

Putting a local anesthetic ointment containing benzocaine will help numb the pain.

hope this helps..


when i get hungry, i sometimes munch on pita chips for a snack (sun-baked chips that have basil on them). are those healthy? (link)
They sound ok to eat, i wouldnt worry too much about it.


can anyone tell me how many chapters the book "haroun sea of stories" has??? and can you please giive me a quick summary of each if there arent too many chapters!?!?!? thank you so much!!! i rate 5s for evey answer that does not piss me off!!! (link)
Here are some websites that might help:

http://www.leasttern.com/Haroun/haroun.htm

www.pinkmonkey.com

www.cliffnotes.com

Hope these links are of some help to you ! Good luck!


i usually eat very very verryyy healithy (fruits, veggies, protein, etc). buttt everyonce in a while i have junk food cravings--a snickers bar or a slice of pizza or a package of sour patch kids---you get the idea. how often is it okay to have one of these things if you want to stay healthy and maintain your weight? (link)
Well, it is ok if you pick one day a week where you are allowed to "pig out" It definatly would not ruin your diet and is actually needed for your body.


I can't sign into my MSN account, it just says that there is either a problem with my internet connection or with the server. I checked my internet connection and it's fine and I checked the MSN server status but it came up with a weird page saying 'runtime error.' I clicked troubleshoot and it say that they were unable to connect me to MSN troubleshoot at this time. What's going on? It's been like this for about 2 and a half hours now, is it just me or is everyone having this problem? I've restarted the computer 3 times but nothing's happening. What should I do? (link)
I have the same problem, but found out that one of their servers is damaged or messed up or something and they are currently working on getting it back up so dont worry msn will be back up soon.


I have something mentally wrong with me, and I aknowledge this. I dont know what exactly, but I know I serverly need help. I asked my mom if I could go to therapy, and she's fine with that, but I think I need more than that, like maybe being commited for a while. I cant just say 'Hey mom, I think I need to be committed to the loony bin for a while, is that cool?' She really doesnt see what goes on with me, i usualy just keep to myself while I'm at home. I really think I need more than just therapy, and possibly anti depressants (I havent gone to therapy yet, so I dont know what would go on) I really think it would help for me to go to an institution for a while. How do I approach this though? (link)
You dont have to go to an institution, dont worry about it.It sounds like you have a depression, but not one that goes away after like a day.Its called prolonged depression i think, i have the exact same thing and think im messed in the head too lol, and i havent told my parents about it.But your taking the good route, go to the sessions and talk to them about the way you feel, and everything and im sure they can help you.Good Luck!


I tend to overeat when I snack...I make it into more of a meal than a snack. What are some nutritious, low-cal items that fill you up? (link)
A good source that stays in your stomach longer then other foods is Fibre you might want to try eating some foods with fibre.


I'm really interested in learning to eat more healthy...I am at a good weight right now and I want to stay there, so I'd like to know how I should eat. Fad diets are stupid, they don't last, they don't work. Healthy, well-balanced eating is what you can stick with for life. This may sound a little weird, but I'm not quite sure what healthy eating IS. Like...can someone give a sample menu of a healthy day of eating. Are snacks ok? Like, if you want to maintain your weight, what should you be eating. (I'm a 5'5 female who is 125 pounds.) (link)
Your best bet is to get the food guide of what your daily recomended intake of various foods are for your age and weight.Google would be an excellent source to find this out, I too am a healthy eater, but its more for the sake of loseing weight which has been sucessful, and making more body mass for myself, if you follow the daily food guide you should be fine.


i've been really depressed lately and i cut myself and i really really want to tell somebody because its been getting out of control and i don't want to do something i am going to regret so should i tell a counselor teacher friend or what? (link)
Yes you should go see a councelor, because if you dont your depression will get to the point where it causes and in-balence of chemicals in your brain and you get a prolonged depression one that needs professional help, and trust me you dont want to get that, i have it unfortunatly.


Good Luck.


how do i create my own website for free so that i can u know go www.whatever.com or org well u no what i mean please help me i really want to know how thanks alot i rate high (link)
As i assume this is your first attempt at making a website, if you want to do this free you wont have a url like www.mysite.com, they can vary by the diffrent web builders there are.Here is a good site for a beginner website builder. www.freewebs.com, it has its own step by step creation to make your site. Good luck!


Does anyone know a really good pop-up blocker I can download for free? I already have like two on this computer, but I still get pop-ups like crazy! Rawr. (link)
Sometimes getting a blocker doestn always work, especially for Internet Explorer, it is actually one of the worst Browsers you can use, i recomend you download and try this Browser i havent had a problem with it yet ! www.opera.com

Good Luck




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