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Name: Kelley ♥ I'm a jv cheerleader for my school, Keystone Oaks. it's pretty insane there. i have great friends and a very conplicated family. being loud and obnxious pretty much describes me and my friends. i text all the time. i get annoyed very easly though and random mood swings. trying new things is very exciting and i'm usually up for anything. i love piercings and bright jewlery. i don't go anywhere without my bracelets. i made this not only to give advice but to get it too. nobody perfect. i struggle with tough issues all the time. people need guidance and i'm here to give it and receive it :] IM me sometime uhohxomfg!

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in your opinion, do you think that these shoes are cute to buy ? http://www.payless.com/Catalog/ProductDetail.aspx?&TLC=Womens&SLC=WomensAthletics&BLC=WomensAthleticsSneakers&Width=Regular&ItemCode=55278&LotNumber=050938&Type=Adult&Popularity=16&DescriptiveColor=Tan/Pink thankss!!

yes i do :]]

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13/f/8th grade. i really like those leggings (or some people call them footless tights). i love the ones that are really bright neon flashy colors or patterns. i also like tights or fishnets that are unusual or iddly colored. does anyone know any good websites? and please dont tell me american eagle.

delila's
wet seal
hot topic
forever 21 (the big one)

they all have really really good ones.
thats where i get mine and they are super
bright and pretty. hope i helped.

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I started my period about two years ago. At first I would only get my period every other month but for a long time now, I have been getting it regularly. My last period ended on Sept 14 and I am already getting it again. I'm 99.9% sure that it isn't because I "popped my cherry" because (a)I am still a virgin and (b)it is happening just like my period normally does. Earlier today, I wiped and saw a little bit of blood on the toilet paper. I kind of ignored it, thinking "How could this possibly be my period when I just got done with it?". Then later, I went to the bathroom and my underwear was just filled with blood. How can this be possible? Is there something wrong with me? Thanks in advance!

that was exactly what happened to me. my mom took me to the ginocologist and i told him what was happening and he didnt have to examine me or anything he just put me on birth control which makes your periods come once every three months. i really recommend it. haha it's amazing. & even if you do have to get examined its not as bad. you like count to 5 and it's over. but definitly tell your mom and see if she can make an appointment.

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well over the summer ive lost 30 pounds i usually get my period on the 14th of the month and its now the 21st! can losing weight make your period irregular?

yeah definitly. no need to worry. as long as it still comes, your okay. & congratulations on losing that weight! howd you do it?!

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is fingering yourself bad? i finger myself everyday and more then once a day. is it bad to do it so much?

nope. totally normal. a lot of girls do it to just explore whats up in there or for pleasure.

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My boobs are a lot bigger than I'd like them to be. Is there any way I can make them look smaller? Thanks.

i know at cheerleading all the girls wear two bras incase they get kicked there in the monts. but also its more support and makes you look flatter. and my one friend wears DD and she is 14. she usually wears a regular bra and then a sports bra underneath. its actually quite confortable.

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A boy that I like said on a scale of one to ten he likes me about an eight and a half. When I told him I think I'm going to the movies with another boy the day we're supposed to hang out he said "oh ok then we'll just hang out friday" and I thought he would get concerned since he likes me so much that I'm going to the movies with someone else. So he's like "Well we aren't going out". I don't know what to think..do you think he really likes me?

15/f

noo you shouldnt be worried. hes either probably just not the jealous type or he doesnt want to show you that he cares but if he says he likes you that much im sure he does like you. he just doesnt want to show you that hes jealous because he doesnt want you to not like him & to think he is weird or anything. but i wouldnt worry much about it.

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what are some good
indie/emo/rock/alternative bands
i need a new band/song for my myspace
and i dont know of any
i had like every band on there already
help?!

AFI
from first to last
matchbox romance
hawthrone heights
senses fail
scary kids scarying kids
motion city sound track
Panic! at the disco
the red jumpsuit apparatus
taking back sunday
yellowcard
hello-goodbye
three days grace
the academy is...
the all american rejects


they are amazing

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Hi i just turned 13 and i'm just starting cheerleading this year. Alot of my friends are cheerleaders since they were like 6 and I know they are really good and into it. Well I want to know how I can suprise them by showing them even though i'm new I can be good. Cause i'm shy and i'm jsut starting this year.Any tips? Also, do you think anyone will make me feel uncomfortable cause i'm new. Cause I do feel kind of uncomfortable that i'm just starting and everyone else has been doing it for years. they will proably think "Oh that girl isn't even passionate about it I bet she's just trying it out."

oh dont worry about. i've been a cheerleader for 7 years now & im turning 15 soon. a few girls just made the squad for their first time. its not that big of a deal to the older cheerleaders. just make sure your very stiff; have good facials; & loud. just try your hardest & im sure that you will do fine. being a cheerleader is like having 20 or some sisters. you usually get along with everyone on your squad. you wont get treated any different. just try hard. good luck

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ok so there is this guy he is my bf i been going out with him for 10 months now..and i gave him head and drank the sperm will i get pregnant?..

nooo. the one way you can get pregnant is if you actually have sex & he cums inside of you vagina.

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OK, this isn't a "random weirdo" question, it just doesn't really fall under any other category. Any way, on with the question:
Is it normal, for a girl, to shave around the crotch? I don't mean shaving all of it, obviously. Just enough so that hair doesn't stick out when I wear a bathing suit?

yup its like a bikini wax. completely normal.

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ok i know this is bad but my bf is 20 and im 13 but im vietnamese and i went over there and thats where i met him apparently age doesnt matter over there but now im back here and he lives over there which sucks but every1 says hes using me but he says he wants to marry me when im 18 which im not sure about yet since im just 13 but i dont know what to believe or what to do about the distance i can only see him once a year and i can only talk to him like once a month i dont know what to do should i keep going out w/ him? and i dont know if hes using me or not but i love him alot ahh im soo confused help!

whoa. thats not even legal babe. but anyways thats a very big age difference. but only talking to him once a month isnt a very good relationship. & only seeing him once a year is not good at all. he could be cheating on you over there & youd never know.& getting married. well that is sooo far away from now. i would break it off & then see if you can see him more if you really do love him. but for the time being i would just let him go. thats so much stress for a 13 year old. hope i helped

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Everytime I get a boyfriend I blow it. I hate drama but I always seem to start it. Like my boyfriend of a month I started a fight and told him I don't want to kiss him. He thought I didn't love him so we broke up. I really wanted to kiss him but I'm always starting drama. And now my new boyfriend he said I gotta go "love you" and I didn't say anything back. I really do love him but I don't know why I LIKE making people mad at me. And it ALWAYS leads to a break up. I get boys so pissed off. What can I do so I start acting mature and not start fights with my boyfriends and stop always making them mad?

just think alittle clearer when you say things. like think if its going to damage anything or cause problems. i have that problem too. i usually just think before i say anything & even if you do think its the right thing to say try to say it in a nicer way just so you dont sound so mean.

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when you get your belly button pierced does it hurt alot? and how long will it be sore? do they do it with a gun or a needle? any info would be great because i want to get mine done but i dont know anything about it ;; Thanks :]

first the clamp it to get the placement; then they stick the needle threw. its sore for about a week. it doesnt hurt real bad but once it goes threw the second side it hurts alittle worse. its not all that bad. you just have to make sure you clean it a lot and take care of it. it gets infected very easily so be careful. :]

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Hello. I'm very nervous. Okay well me and my boyfriend have sex now. I'm 14 and he's 16, and he popped my cherry. We usually have sex, alot. We sometimes don't do it with protection. He pulls it out though. I'm just extremly worried. My period always changes though. It rotates, like some months I get it at the beginning of the month, and some twords the very end. Last month I got it at the beginning so I figured I would this month, I haven't. I'm scared, but I don't know what to do. I've been getting cramps, like you do from the period. Uhh, do you think I could be pregnant? What should I do!!!! Thankss. (=

hey brittt :]
hm well i would take a pregnancy test before you start worrying. i think you need to lay back on the sex for awhile. & ask your mom for the pill. im sure she would rather get that for you then to have to pay for your child. but i doubt your pregnant. you really shouldnt be having sex at this age anyways. but before you start worrying wait a few more days & if you dont get your period take the test. i recommend that you & matt keep your pants on for awhile though. ilahyou

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I was making out with this girl the other night at a party and I guess she was pretty tossed since she freaking threw up in my MOUTH. Since then, I haven't been able to eat anything--because vomit is disgusting, and swallowing some of someone else's vomit grossed me out that much. Whenever I go to eat something I feel like throwing up myself so I can't eat. GaaaahhHhh what do I do?

awe that must have been horrible. try eating smaller things like crackers or cookies & try to move up. just try your hardest not to think about it. like talk on the phone while you eat or eat with some of your friends so you wont be thinking about it. haha im sorry bout that. that must have blowed..

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Okay, i'm new at this whole tampon thing. Will You all give me some tips to make it go in easier? It's just not working for me and i've been trying forever!! Also, what tampons are the best to use?



tampex pearl works really goood. cardboard is usually harder to get it. do it at a slight angle and just push. it will feel kinda akward putting it in and taking it out at first but it gets easier. after you go to the bathroom is a good time to change it. plus you might still be alittle moist from your urine so it will slide better. i've heard of the vaseline but your very sensitive down there but i wouldnt recommend it. you'll get the hang out it. they are alot easier then pads & comfortable.

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there is this guy that i met about a year ago.
he broke my heart once..
and now he just came back just like that..
he wants to hangout and possible be boyfreind and girlfreind..
im so parinoied that hes going to break my heart again..
part of me says to give it another try.
but part of me says dont take the risk..
what do you think i should do?
PLEASE HELP ME
thank you to all that trys.

you should probably just hang with him for the time being and see how things go. if you start to like him again then give him any other shot. there will always be guys breaking you heart. if he really cares about you like he said he wont do it again. if your really scared then talk to him. im sure he will understand.

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15/f
Ok, so i liked a guy same old story. blah. well i wrote him a letter because he was leaving the next day and i couldn't say it in person. well he wrote me back. Here's the letter

my name here,

Thanks for the letter. It takes guys to come out and say something like you said. have you ever read Proverbs 27:5? "Open rebuke is better than secret love." I guess that it is best to just come out with stuff like that. To be honest, when I was a freshman, I had a crush on ___ who was a senior. So I've been in the same boat. I do like the fact that you are different from most girls. You have a good testimony. Don't blow it, build on it..... (some stuff about hanging around with some people)

Well, "Have a good summer" (making fun of something i said in my letter) and enjoy your THREE more years of school.

(his name here) SO is it a good rejection letter, and open ended letter, or what? He's home now and im nervous about talking to him.

i wouldnt say it was rejection i just think that it was just a friendly letter saying that he has had the same thing so hes not saying no but hes not saying yes. if you are a freshman than that is a pretty big age difference. but dont act any different around him. just be yourself & act like nothing ever happened. he'll come around hopefully.

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In April of this year, me & my boyfriend of almost 11 months, broke up. That's not my worry. The thing is, now he does things he would've never done before. He gets high, A LOT & he shoplifts. I want him to stop because I don't want him to end up like his dad, and because I'm concerned about his well being. I talked to him about it, but he said not to worry about him. But I do. He told me "If I start looking like Michael Jackson from sniffing Cocaine, then say something, but until then, just don't worry!" But I am gonna worry because I still care about him a lot, and I don't want him to ruin himself, even though he is everytime he gets high. I was thinking about calling & telling his mom while he was at summer school, but then he'd know it was me, and he'd hate me, and I definitely don't want that. So what do I do?!

you should definitly tell his mom. just try your hardest not to let him find out it was you but if he does find out then hey you just saved him basically. my brother got into those things and ended up in jail over night because of his two friends. its really nothing to mess with it. its very dangerous. so just explain to his mom that you are concerned & that if theres anything you can do for her to just say the word but explain to her that you dont want him finding out and hating you. she will understand. i hope everything works out

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