Heyy everybody i hope u like my advice column. I like to give advice 2 people who reelie need it. If u ask me a question i'll try to answer as best i can. I jus don't like it wen people ask b/s questions jus to fool around or make sum1 look lyke a dork. So please don't do that to me or ne colomists. I think its kinda disrespectful. and it makes u sound weird. neway don't b afraid 2 ask q's on family or friend questions. I answer those best so i'll stop here so u can read mi advice and see if i'mma good colomist.
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Well lets start off my saying im 13/f and I weigh 155.I use to weigh 165 but then I stopped eating and I lost 10 pounds and well not eating isn't very healthy for you body and ive tried exercising with correct eating and that still didn't help so I just completely stopped eating and I think I over exercised.I would exercise 3 or more times a day for an hour or more and well I know im going about this the wrong way.I hate the way I look when I look into the mirror and I hate when I go shopping and nothing fits.Im a size 13 in Jr.'s clothes.Most ppl tell me that Im just exagerating about how big I really am and well I might be but if you were in my position you probably wouldn't like the way you looked either.Anyways to get to the point I need another way to help myself to lose weight or to gain self-confidence and be happy about the way I look without becoming anorexic.I can still eat so Im not completely anorexic yet so I need help before I get to that point.If anyone has any advice once so ever plz give me it.And I think Im pretty and all but I just hate the way my stomach looks.So plz help.I'll rate good so plz just help.Thank you.
-Unhappy and Depressed about my weight (link)
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HeY,
I know how u feel cuz I'm 13/f 5'3" and weigh about the same as u. REally weird, right? I used to constantly think that i'm fat and I need to lose weight, but I lost about 20 pounds since feb. If ur eating less and less by the day, don't. Eat what u want, thats what I do sometimes, but after that, I just walk around my block a couple of times. Also, When u go to McDonalds or sumthing, order a salad instead of a couple of cheese burgers nd fries. And if u drink a lot of Soda, then u can loose more weight by substituting Soda with water.
About being anorexic, to tell u the truth i dont know what to say except u might want to search Google.com for some websites that will help
Sry I can't do more.
Good luck
~`*TrUmPeTcHyK92*`~
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i used to drink alot and i mean alot of pop and now im stopping to lose weight but lately ive been getting really bad headaches my mom said its because of the lack of caffine are there any other
ways to get caffine but are healthy too
i rate ! --thanks (link)
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hey,
this website has all diff. kinds of foods/drinks w/ caffine (some healthy, some not)>> http://www.hc-sc.gc.ca/food-aliment/dg/e_caffeine.html
One of the products that is one of the better foods/drinks is green tea
Hope that's enough to help.
If u want to keep looking, I went into google and typed in "healthy food with caffeine"
hope i can help
~TrumpetChyk92
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is there an age of how old ur supposed to be when u get ur belly button peirced? ill rate ya. lol thanx ~JessiKa~ (link)
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I think that the age would be around 16.
hope i helped
~TrumpetChyk92
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hi i got my carltidge peirced like a little over a month ago and its kinda sore and theres a bump over the hole. is that normal? (link)
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Hey,
Well u most likely have an infection which is very common(80% of people who get their cartalige peirced end up w/ it infected) My older sister got her cartalige pierced twice and both times it got infected. U might want 2 let it close cuz it could get worse
hope i helped
TrumpetChyk92
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OK this relates to the other questions ive asked. I'm really shy around girls and its hard for me to not studder when i talk to a girl. I get all sweaty and clammy when i have to talk to a girl i like. My mind goes blank and i cant think what to say. Got any pointers on how to fix this? (link)
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aww (lol)
thats cute but anyway you can make yourself believe that ur talking to one of ur friends and then you wont get soo shaky
If that doesn't work, you don't have to change anything because i think that the girls might might be just as nervous talking to you
hope thats enough to help
TrumpetChyk92
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Is it werid that i never want to be around my mom.. and i avoid everything about her? i mean everbody else likes to be with there moms and stuff? plz help
ill rate :)
thx.. vballdevil (link)
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Well sometimes people (teens) go through stages where they don't feel like themselves and fight with their parents a lot (or avoid them) don't worry or feel bad because this will eventually pass
Hope it works out
Trumpetchyk
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what do you do when you REALLI like someone but they don't see the true side of you cause all they are worried about is getting "some"..my ex b/f is like that and i don't know..it just feels like they are the only kinda guys i attract! what can i do to help let guys see my inner side?! i realli need help! thanks! i'll rate! =)
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Well I no that sometimes it can be hard to b urself so if thats the problem, then mayb u can try to get urself to think that ur talking to one of ur friends because sometimes its hard to talk to peoplr u like. hope i helped!
trumpetchyk
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I've had a friend for 6 years now, and we've met these two other girls. She's been REALLY mean to me because she's less popular than me and wants them to hate me or something. I know if I talk to her she'll pretend she doesn't know what I'm talking about. And to top it all off, our moms are best friends!
-Friend or Foe?
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I think that you should get a new friend because if she was a real friend she wouldn't do that kind of stuff. Don't worry about ur mom cuz she'll understand that just because both moms are friends doesn't mean that u 2 have to b.
hope i helped!
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Hey I was just wonderin how you get people to ask you questions for your own inbox. Do you need a specific number of questions answered? Thanks. (link)
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nope all u have to do is answer questions and eventually people will see ur column and want to ask u questions.
Hope i can help
good luck
TrumpetChyk92
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so a year ago my mom moved like an hour away to live with her boyfriend now husband....and i moved in with my granny cuz i didnt want to move that far from everything...and my sis moved in with my dad....well eventually i moved back in with my mom its been about 4 months and I HATE IT ...my granny said that i can move in the downstairs apartment at her house. but i know im gonna feel bad my sis says i shoulddent becuz our mom left us blah blah blah (link)
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you whatever makes you happy and your granny is willing to let u live there so i say..move in with granny
hope u make the right choice
trumpet
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Ok, lets say one of your best friends just broke up with his gf, who you have kind of liked for awhile? Should you ask her out right away or give her some time? It wasn't a very serious relationship, but I don't know how she would feel going out with me, after being with my friend? (link)
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I think that u should b her friend 4 a while until she is ready to start looking for relationships again
hope that i could help
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SODAS! I took up Mountain Dew and I put on alot of weight drinking it and I tried to stop it but its like going threw withdrawl. I get headaches and everything, I throw up and my stomach hurts and this always happens when I stop drinking it. I'm starting school soon and mountain dew wont be available as it will if I were home. What can I do?
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slowly stop drinking it by dumping sum down the drain evry time u drink(sounds stupid but....) and replace the soda u would drink w/ water. ull lose weight mi dad just told me that 2day lol wuta cwinadent lol
TrumpetChyk92
good luck!!!!
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I keep my computer on pretty much 24 hours a day. It doesn't really seem to be a problem. But earlier today I went to check my computer and it had a blue tint over everything. It has done this before, but last time I just refreshed the desktop, and it went back to normal. This time, I've tried refreshing it and restarting it and it doesn't seem to want to go back to normal. I don't know what I did to make it go blue, and it's a very pretty blue, but I would like to have my normal screen back.
Does anyone have any idea what could be going on? (link)
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sometimes wen computers get older they do weird things. u dont have to worry a bout it at all I very highly doubt that it has a virus or sumthing cuz my computer in school(the 1 i use 4 tech. turns blue, green, yellow...)lol so nuthing 2 worry about but it if acts stranger than normal(besides the colors) then u might want 2 hire a computer guy lol
Hope ur computer's all right!
TrumpetChyk92
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im 13 and in 8th grade and im 5'3...but i like someone thats 12 in 7th grade and is 4'7. i think he's gonna ask me out, but idk what to say cuz hes so short and younger than me....help! (i like him too but...) (link)
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it shouldnt matter what he looks like or how tal he is, if he asks u out i think that u should say yes bcuz he deserves a chance
good luck
trumpetchyk92
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[sorry this is so long]
I'm a 14-year-old girl, and I have this guy who's been my best friend for over a year. Me and him have gotten SOO close lately, and I really REALLY like him. I told him that I like him, and he just kinda pretended I didn't say anything, so I just didn't know what to think. Then all my friends tell me that when they talk to him one on one, I'm all he talks about, and he always puts my feelings before his. They say that he's always very sad, and then I walk into the room, or call his cell phone, or he even just talks about me, and that really brightens his mood. I really don't know what to do, because I really like him, can't tell if he likes me, but I kind of get the impression that he does, but he kind of seems scared. HELP! (link)
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I think he'll come around in his own time. just be open for a relationship with him
hope it works
TrumpetChyk92
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okay..i want to get a puppy but ive never had any animal before except a fish and i hated it so i let it die, anyways i have no idea how to take care of a puppy cuz i wanna get it when its little but i dont want it going to the bathroom all in the house but what do i do in the winter? but the real ? here is what type of dog should i get, i want a really cute one, i did want a little weiner dog but i dont know, i know that i want a really little dog but chiwawas are mean and yappers so what should i get? and also what would be some really cute names with that dog? i would get a girl one of whatever help! (and dont tell me ugly dogs and no poodles) (link)
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there are really REALLY cute dogs named toy poodles9they dont look like poodles, though) and wen they bark they sound like squeeky toys.I no cuz my neighbor has 1 lol
good luck with the puppy
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I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help? (link)
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Hey,
I'm ur aGE TOO and i havent had a b/f. Like u, im not fat but not thin. People sometimes tell me i'm pretty. don't worry about the whole thing about not having a b/f thing cuz between u, me, and my viewers(lol) i think its fun not having a b/f cuz u dont have to make a commitment and you can flirt with a lot of guys!!! lol
hope i can help!!
~trumpetchyk92
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When I am embarrased or telling a slight fib, (or maybe a bigger fib hehe) I blush! My face turns all red! For example, if someone says "Do you like Josh" and I say "no" (When really I mean yes) I blush, and you can tell I'm lying because I blush! Or when I embarrass myself, like say I fall, but try to make it seem like it didn't bothe me. You can always tell it bothers me b/c I blush! Blushing is soooo embarrasing!! Any tips on how to stop the blushing? (Or is it not possible?)
Signed,
Bashful (link)
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sorry but I don't know of any ways to help except u can tell the truth! lol its a good way to break a habbit of lieing(but im not saying u have a habbit)
hope i helped
TrumpetChyk92
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My apartment is really dust. I'll vacume and dust my coffee table, and 10 minutes later there is a thin layer of dust again. I don't like the idea of breating all that in.
I am thinking of getting a hepa filter but I know little about them. Does anyone have any experiance with one or any other tips to rid myself of this dust? (link)
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i know how to get rid of dust...you can go to a supermarket and buy swiffer dusters...They work really well
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ok i like one of my best friends wut do i do?....im not sure should i make the first move?? i think he might like me but im not sure....should i wait 4 him?? ...PLEASE HELP ME!!
~CONFUSED~ (link)
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Thank you for coming to me for help because i'm glad to answer.
Well people say that the best of friendships turn into the best of relationships. Since you're not 100% sure he likes you, you start off by flirting with him(if u already do, then flirt a little more) if he isn't freaked out by you flirting then i think that you should start taking your friendship to the next level(like maybe going to the movies((not as an official date though))or maybe bowling.) If he isn't into flirting with u yet, you should stillbecome closer friends(but at a slower pace) cuz guys are like that sometimes lol
Best of wishes,
TrumpetChyk92
(P.S if ur a little confused, u can i/m me...my s/n is trumpetchyk92)
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