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what do you do when you REALLI like someone but they don't see the true side of you cause all they are worried about is getting "some"..my ex b/f is like that and i don't know..it just feels like they are the only kinda guys i attract! what can i do to help let guys see my inner side?! i realli need help! thanks! i'll rate! =)
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Maybe wait a bit b4 your mess around to see if he really likes you for you... and if that works when yall are together have days where yall dont mess around and see how he reacts
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Well I no that sometimes it can be hard to b urself so if thats the problem, then mayb u can try to get urself to think that ur talking to one of ur friends because sometimes its hard to talk to peoplr u like. hope i helped!
trumpetchyk
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Well, when the only thing someone is worried about is sex, something's wrong with them. Your ex seems like that kind of guy (no offense to your taste in boys). A lot of teenage guys are like that.
I'll make this short and sweet. If the only thing a guy is interested in is having sex with you, get rid of him. That's not the type of guy that you seem to want, and you obviously don't need that type of person around you all the time.
Try harder to bring out your inner self. Maybe you need to dress differently. Maybe you should concentrate more on things that are important to you -- do you go to Church? Are you interested in music? Do you like school? Do you like joining school clubs, or sports? Immerse yourself in things that you enjoy doing and you'll probably attract more boys that are interested in the same things you are.
I hope that helped, if only just a little.
<3 Holly
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talk to them and get to know them... dont give out right away or maybe not at all..
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If you really into the guys you see but you dont want to just have them get "some" all the time.Try to do something with them that you like.Maybe play a sport with them that you like.That way they can get an idea of who you are and what you liek to do.Who knows maybe they'll be interested in seeing what else who do and what your perspectives on things are.hope it works out.
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you know i used to have the same problem,but i started telling a guy up frount that there was more to me than sex, and they needed to see the real side of me. And the first guy i told that too me and him were together for 6 months and had an awsome relationship. he seemed to be a better person towards me after i told him that.
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SoRRie; I wouldn't Really know. I don't have that pRoblem.. guys don't like me foR my looks! I say just be fRiendly, outspoken, polite, Respectful and so on... Hope I helped?? =D
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