My BoYfRiEnD rIgHt NoW iS aBrEy JaMeS!!!My best friend is Autum Waw, Nikki Joyce and we r like so freakin always goin to be friends. it doesnt matter who trys to stop that from happening. ppl tried last year and it didnt stop us so nothing ever will. (i am knocking on wood like crazy.) lol!
Nicky you are the best!! I LOVE YOU!!
Danielle Babe your the best. I couldnt live without you!!! ;) I LOVE YOU!!!
I hang out with Danielle Semore, Autum Waw, Tera Potts, Austin Hullet Mullet Gullet, Josh Plater, Chris Bullard, Matt Woodard, Nicky Defrange, Nikki Joyce, Kevin Fletcher, Amanda Allen, Sara Carrillo, Savanah Smith, Rebecca Marquez, Brandon Eckert, Thomas Gearinger, Lisa Heflin, Josh Garber, Daniel Kerbow, Ariel Sanders, Shawn Adams, Chris Wood.!!!!!!! ThEy ArE tHe BeStEsT pEoPlEs EvEr!!!
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I have a friend that has been drinking and stuff. I've told her not to but i know she doesn't care. And now everybody is all like yeah i drink a lot and i've gotten drunk and smoked that. It seems like everybody smokes and drinks! it's crazy we're all still young! I don't do that kind of stuff and I feel weird like ppl think it's no big deal drinking and i say it's wrong and they think i'm weird. I'm so confused! does everybody do the drugs? i'm not going to start doing them but should i still speak up and say they're wrong? (link)
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yes you should say that they are wrong! most of the people that say that they smoke or drink dont. they just say it so that they can look good. because they are afraid to speak out against it. i know it seems like everyone does it but the truth is not that many kids in middle school and highschool do it. they are just talking it so they can look good in the crowd that does it. speak your mind and hold strong on it!
thanks for asking!
signed: ~Des~
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I was wondering what the day 4/20 meant?
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4:20 is national weed day!! lol!! lots of people have been askin me that at school! lol its ok ur not the only person..
signed: ~Des~
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ok so me and my boyfriend have done everything including sex and it's weird because twice when he's fingered me I've bled and quite a bit. The thing is, that's never happened when we have sex. I think it might be because his nails were getting a little long and he hadn't cut them yet. It doesn't hurt me, but it always kinda sucks when there's blood all over. tell me what you think. I really need help so I can hopefully get this to stop. thanks! (link)
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it could very well be his nails because my cousin said that her friend was fingered by her friends boyfriend and her friend said that she bled because his nails were getting kinda long and needed to be cut. so it is probably because of the length of his nails.
thanks for asking
Signed: ~Des~
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My mother has been annoying me very much, lately. My question is about something that happened today, however. My mom makes me clean every Saturday. One of the things she tells me to clean is a coffee table with a lower level. On the lower level is a apple-shaped baking pan with a Christmas ordiment in it. Well every week the thing bounces around when you move it the slightest bit. So today while I was cleaning it broke. Now my mom is screaming at me for her lack of common sense. She is also making me tell my ill-tempered brother (it's his ordiment) that I broke it and is making me pay for it. Any person with common sense would know not to put a breakable item in a place where it would break. Do I have any right to be mad? If you don't think I do please explain. (link)
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yes, i think that you have a right to be mad. your brother shouldnt put breakable things were they can break. and if your mom is yelling at you for your accident in breaking the thing then she shouldnt be. you shouldnt have to pay for the ordiment.that is a really gay reason. and it is not your fault that it broke, it is your brothers. you shouldnt have to pay for a broken ordiment that you broke on ACCIDENT!....and your mother shouldnt try to make you. you are 100% in the right to be mad!
any more questions feel free to drop one in my inbox.
signed:~Des~
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ok, heres my problem. im in 7th grade (13 years old). ive gone out with the same guy three times in the past two years, and everyone thinks thats really weird. ive had other boyfriends, of course, but he was always the best. no matter how hard we try, everytime either of us gets a crush on someone else, it only lasts for a couple of weeks, then we realize how much we love each other. i think theyre really might be something between us, but i would feel SO embarrased to get back together with him because everyone at my school would think it odd for it to be the 4th time to go out with him in 2 years!!! but then again, i dont want to loose what i have... hes a REALLY awesome guy! hes a good football player, and hes really hot, but also he has another artsy side to him. he can find beauty in almost anything and aif your in a bad mood, he makes you feel like youre the most amazing person on the planet. so what should i do? i rate good responses. (link)
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i think that if you really like this person, then it shouldnt matter what other people think. you should follow your heart and not let it bother you that people think its weird. me and my boy friend have been on and off six or seven times in the past two years. everyone at our school thinks its weird, but we dont care because they dont run our lives and tell us what is weird or not. we do. and if they have a problem with you and ur friend getting together for the 4th time then that is their problem not yours. they arent the ones running ya'lls lives....you are. and you should go out with him if you want to because that is your personal life not theirs and they should realize that they dont have a say in who you do and dont go out with.
Thanks for asking...i am glad to help in anything the best i can.
signed:~Des~
p.s. if you have any other questions feel free to drop one in my inbox thanks again.
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Background information: my boyfriend dumped me online 2 months ago, but we stayed friends. My best friend helped convince me that getting revenge was a good idea, and came up with ways of getting revenge.
I just found out that a week before we split, she was talking to someone about how we were on the verge of breaking up.
I didn't know anything about this at the time. However, she knew I was going to be dumped. She knew it would upset me. She knew all along and she convinced me to get revenge.
I feel totally betrayed - what should I do? (link)
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if i were you i would just try to talk to your friend. because she knew and didnt tell you then you should feel betrayed, i would too! but just talk to her about it. ask her why she didnt tell you. because you would have liked to know that he was going to break up with you.
signed: Desy
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SORRY THIS IS LONG..ILL GIVE A 5 TO ANYBODY WHO ANSWERS THIS!! THANX!!
me and my friend have been best friends since 8th grade...were now in 12th grade and as the school year is coming to an end and were going to be graduating i feel like now is the chance that we need to hang out and reminice on our inside jokes and everything. the problem is..she has a fiance..she is 18 yrs old n has only been going out with this kid for 4 months... they spend every minute of there lives together and its like there is no need for me anymore. Well i've talked to her about this so many times i've decided to just give up. So i started to just hang out with my other friends. Well all of a sudden she said to me "it feels like were not friends anymore" and i said well why do you feel like that and she said " because we dont talk alot n stuff". Well the thing is everything i try n talk to her she just says oh were still friends and goes on her way. Everytime i try and hang out with her it's either oh im doing something with Russ tonight (thats her fiancee) or its well u can hang out with us if u want. I dont want to be the third wheel..yes i have a boyfriend but she doesn't like him so what am i supposed to do about that? im trying to please everyone but its not working. And when i try to just hang out with her and just me and her its like her fiancee gets all mad at me and everything. I really don't know what to do!!! can someone please help!!? (link)
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I think that you should stop trying to please everyone at the same time, and just be yourself. Nobody can please everybody that comes into their life all at once. Maybe you should talk to Russ, and tell him that you want to hang out with your bestfriend by yourself WITHOUT him around and without him gettin mad at you for it. I mean she was your bestfriend before she was his fiance. Tell them both that you feel like he is taking your best friend away from you and that you really dont want to lose her at all. I did that with my bestfriend who had a fiance and then it helped and he didnt let her take him from me.
HOPE I HELPED!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!
signed:~DeSy~
p.s. if you ever need anything else feel free to leave a message in my inbox. and i will answer it as soon as i can. I am usually on here everyday, and when i am in Technology so i answer questions when i am in there almost every other day.
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okay like,me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months and 2 days. and i absolutely love him with everything i have. but i feel like he's becoming too attached and serious. i'm 15 and he's 17 about to turn 18. ((thats beside the point)) but like last saturday ((march 5th)) he asked me if i would promise to marry him and he gave me a promise (("pre-engagment")) ring. well of course i said yes. because it's what i was thinking at the time. but now i'm having second thoughts. i mean i'm only 15 i have the rest of my teen years to live. i just dont know what to do. i wanna tell him were getting to serious, but i still love you and wanna be with you.
eck..someone please help! ...=]...i ratteeee!!!
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I think that if you really love you and he loves you back as much as you think he does, then if you tell him that you think that yall are gettin to serious to soon then he will understand were you are coming from. if you do tell him that you are going to have to make sure he is going to listen to you completely, and that he is going to hear you out. It is prolly going to be really hard but if that is truely what you want to do then you need to follow your heart. If he loves you and cares about you then he will listen to your thoughts about this and he will understand.
Hope I Helped!
Good Luck!!!
signed:~DeSy~
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this incident happened maybe about a year ago, but i'm still baffled to this day on what really happened. read on and see if you can decode this guy's actions...it's long, mind you!
i had a really good guy friend throughout all of high school. we both hung out in the same group, and i was known as the bachelorette (i never had a bf before and all my friends did). when i got together with my boyfriend, my guy friend started acting funny as in at first in big shock, then being distant toward me, and then "maybe" flirting with me?
why i say maybe is because he tends to do that with all of the girls in our group. he tends to joke a lot, but one thing he almost never did to me was touch me in any way shape or form (not even playfull hitting). when i got together with my boyfriend, he started acting kinda clingy like when the group departed for class he walked with me instead of them. as for the touching, he sat really close and made up excuses that could be played off as "joking". everytime i questioned him about it, he denied it and said he was "joking around". but if his behavior changes like that i don't think it's joking...?
i hardly ever talk about my bf cuz all my friends were currently single at the moment and i did it for their sake so that it doesn't make them feel bad. and whenever i do (very rare), my guy friend gets really quiet. later on that year he claimed to be mad at me because i talked about my boyfriend too much, which isn't true! he started ignoring me, giving me dirty looks, and vice versa.
it's odd because not long after i hooked up with my bf, we talked online and he admitted that he liked me. later (way, way later) down the line my boyfriend decides to call him up and told him to just leave me alone. it got kinda intense, and i called my guy friend and asked him the reason why my bf doesn't like him is because he said he liked me on the internet that one day. i asked him if he meant that, and he said no, he was "only joking" that day.
to this day i really don't even know how this guy feels about me. does he like me or was he playing with my head? can anyone tell me? (link)
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I would say that he likes you. Most guys only act like that when they like you. I mean some of them dont because idk they just dont. But I have only met one guy that doesnt do that only when he like a girl. Currently he is one of my best friends and he used to play mind tricks with me and my friends but he made it really obious that he didnt like us. I really think that your friend likes you.
Hope i Helped!
Good Luck!
signed:~DeSy~
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THere is this guy and i really like him and hes in one of my classes and my friend asked him if he likes me and he said he doesnt like any one right now and i really wanna get closer to him like talk to him more and get him to like me so how do i do that?
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ummmm......well just talk to him that is what you have to do anyway. if that came across to you in a rude way im sry and i didnt mean for it to. but the only way you will ever be able to get closer to him is to talk to him and that is what you want to do.
hope i helped!
signed: ~DeS~
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Here’s the information you need to know before I tell you the problem.
-The people who are involved are me, my brother, and our friends M and G.
-Our parents are on a benefit basketball vacation because we all play.
-I give my brothers team there plays
-M is on the opposing team and my brother and G are on the same team.
-M asked me to the formal before all this happened.
Day 1) okay well it was the Friday my dog got put down, my brother had a basketball game, and I went into a crying fit so M and G tried to help. then I went over to Gs and I went home afterwards and M came over to be with me because it was storming.
Day 2)I made the winning shot at my basketball game, M gave me a hug before I could get to G, and I broke away from him to get to G. we went out to lunch, I walked home with G, just the 2 of us. M got mad. I got home and before I got there, my friend called and told me that M said yes to this girl for the formal. so I flipped on him and ran outside and then he came after me and said he wouldn’t have said yes if he knew i liked him, cuz he thought I wanted to go with G. and then I told him he hated me and he said no, i love you. so I dont know.
1 and a half weeks later)another bball game, for the boys. M got a technical, and so I said, its ok M. and he was like, I love you, and he yelled it to me and the ref thought he was talking to him, so he said ok that’s it get out of here. and then M was like, why I was talking to my gf. and he was like right, I am sure she’s your gf. so he came over and gave me a really long kiss, and G got upset. So the ref resigned the technical. But that doesnt matter.
I don’t know what to do, at all!!!
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well if i were you i would explain to G that you are going out with M and that he shouldnt be mad. But it also seems that both of them are jelous when the other person is around you and you have to try to get that to stop. I cant say that i know this will work but it is worth a try and that is all you can do is try. I havent been in this bad of a relationship with one of my friends and my b/f so i dont know how well its going to work. all i can do is give you some little bit of advice and if you try it out and it works that is great. i know i wasnt much help with your question but i gave the best answer that i could. good luck. and i hope this problem gets better for you and you find some sort of solution. good luck with you and your b/f too.
thanks for asking us.
signed: ~DeS~
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Background info: I am one of those people who are totally against fads. I speak my opinion and let others know that I'm not another copy!
A little more background: I saw an extremely cute shirt, an adorable skirt, and awesome pants at AE and A&F. I really want to buy them, but people might see me as a traitor or something.
My question for you to answer: What should I do if I want to buy clothes at stores that I am known to diss? (link)
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well i think that just because someone usually doesnt go into a store that most people do doesnt mean that you dont like the clothes. I think that you should go into the store and get the shirt and skirt. Just because you dont like to follow the trends that ppl go through doesnt mean that you shouldnt get something that you really like! GO FOR IT!!!
signed: Toddsbff
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Well i'm a 16 year old girl, whose pretty,fun,and popular and I have alot of friends.But there is a problem that most people don't really see as a problem;i'm italian.Not everyone at my school, but a group of people constantly make jokes to me about my heritage.It all started on the first week on school when we had to write a paper about ourselfs (favorites,ethnic background,religion,ect.) so people could get to know us.well i put in there I was italian,and right after the class these girls came up to me and asked if my dad was in the mafia!what the hell is that about?no body has any respect now adays,and i guess it has to do with shows like the gottis and the sopranos(even tho i love them!) who give people the impression ALL italian-americans are like that,and that all italian-americans have dads like tony soprano.what should I do to get rid of this stigma and situation?thanks alot and I'll rate u a 5 if u don't act all bitchy about it!=)
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ummm... try to talk to an adult or tell the ppl that are being bitchy towards you about your heritage that you are proud of your heritage and dont show that it bothers you that they are making fun of you because of your race of people. if you dont show any signs of it bothering you then they will eventually stop because they realize that it doesnt bother you.
hope i helped. thanks for asking!
signed:Toddsbff
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what do u do when your friend is about to date a guy whos a complete asshole and that ALL of her friends hate? please help soon! (link)
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try to tell her that you dont think that she needs to go out with him. if your a really good friend to her and she is a really good friend then she will listen to what you have to say about him and why you dont think its a very wise idea for her to date him.
signed: Toddsbff
hope i helped! thanks for asking!
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hey destiny this is one of your best friends and i have a problem. Everyone makes fun of me cuz i dated an 11 year old and im 14 so what should i do to let peeps know im over that whole young kid thing
love kid lover (link)
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ummm.... have you tried to tell anybody that you are over him? im really trying hard to figure out who this is that is asking the question so if you could really give me some more information aobut him i might be able to help a little bit more. but if you try to tell everyone that you are over him then that should work.
if it doesnt work you can im me at prtygrl2009@yahoo.com or you can im me at hotredpeppers56@aol.com or at seksielilchick09@aol.com
i really hope i helped so let me now how much i helped.
signed:Toddsbff
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I have this friend, And I seriously think that I am falling for him. We talk all the time and we claim eachother as best friends and all, But now, I dont know, I've seriously fallen for him. I tlak to him and I get this big smile on my face and I just start giggeling. All I ever want to do is be near him! ugh... oh yea, He's younger than me. What do I do?
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go for it! it should work out! i mean if you and him r bestfriends and everything then it shouldnt mess up your friendship b*cus if yall r as good friends as you think then niether of you will let something interfere with that relationship!
signed: Toddsbff
Happy Valentines Day!
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hello my name is nicky and i have a question for desy.........wat do i do when the guy i like and i think he likes me but we just cant get along and he always ignores me and i think i love him i just cant understand y he is so mean to me
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i think that you should try to talk to him and see what happens.
signed: Toddsbff
nicky your the best friend anyone could ever have!!! texomaparkway!! haha shhhhhhhhhh!! good times!!
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One of my best guy friends asked me out the other day,John and i was thrilled. We have always been close, but i was to worried of asking him out. Well me and him have been doing great, exscept that one of my friend likes him. I knew that before but that was about 5 months ago, since then she has been saying that she likes someone new and she does'nt like John anymore. I'm wondering if i should break up because of my friend or not? Another reason Im wondering if I should break up with him is because I'm afriad that when we break up we wont talk to each other ever agian? Should I break up with him before we get to close? Please help...I dont want to hurt my friend because of him (link)
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i dont think that you should break up with him just because your friend likes him. and as of breaking up with him that way you and him will still talk after you break up for sure. i dont think you should look at the bottom side of things. me and my boyfriend are bestfriends and we go out and break up all the time and we always talk after that. so just go along with it and look at the UP side of things.
good luck.
signed: Toddsbff
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OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH MY GOD YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
signed: me
I DO LOVE YOU!!!!
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Recently, I watched a scary movie with my best guy friend. I get scared easy so I clung to him, plus he had really good colonge on. Now everyone thinks I like him and that he likes me. I don't know if I do. I mean I like hugging him and how he holds me and stuff. So, my question is "Do you think I like him," cuz I don't really know and I just want to get an idea if I'm giving off the vibe at least. By the way, I'm female and 15. (link)
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well it seems to me that if i would have been there and seen you and him i would have thought that you were going out but that could just be me.
good luck on this question. hope you get some good answers.
signed:ToddsBff
p.s. i do that too and everyne thinks that about me and my bestfriend but he is 22 and i am 13 almost 14 so yeah...................
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