Hello, I genuinely like helping others by giving advice out to others.
My intrests are in psychology/mental health but I do like giving out advice on other areas like family/friendship/womens health and just general life advice. Feel free to message me!
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Member Since: March 27, 2012
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hi i am rossy.....i am 18 years old....yesterday my gf 15 years old........was giving me blowjob and accidentally she swallowed the sperm.........now my question is will this make her pregnant?........and how can i make sure that she is not pregnant??.....please i need urgent answer.......i am very much tensed (link)
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No, you cannot get pregnant by swallowing sperm. The sperm will go as far as the stomach and the stomach acid will kill the sperm.
This should also help with answering your question - risks from swallowing sperm:
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/risks_from_swallowing_sperm
I would also recommend reading this - mouthing off on oral sex:
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/sexuality/mouthing_off_on_oral_sex
and this - pregnancy scared?
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/reproduction/whats_the_risk_easy_pregnancy_risk_assessments
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I can't take acetaminophen and when I get my period I get severe cramps to the point I feel I'm going to be sick and or pass out. Because of my allergy I can't take midol or any of that. I take ibprofen but it doesn't help. Are there any other remedys that could help me? (link)
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Well here are some ways to ease period cramps:
~Apply heat - use a hot water bottle or heat pad and place it on your lower abdomen (You could make a rice sock if you don't have one). A warm bath or shower might also help.
~Exercise - when you are doing exercise, your body is pumping more blood; this helps to release endorphins to counteract the prostaglandins and reduce your cramps. You could try going for a walk, light jogging or yoga.
~Hot drinks such as Chamomile tea is good for period cramps. Active ingredients in this gentle herb help ease the spasms in your uterus that cause that crampy feeling.
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i am 13 and i know it sounds dumb but i have had a crush on this guy for three years, anyway, i reay likehim ad idon't know if he likes me, sometimes i catch him looking over at me, we talk to each other alot and when i walk by his frieds always stare at me ad bug him. Does this mean he likes me? thanks in advance for your help :) (link)
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It doesn't sound dumb at all so don't worry, having a crush is perfectly normal. I had crushes when I was at school and I was around your age. I was way too shy to say anything though and once I had to sit next to my crush in maths class and he turned around and said "you're not a mute are you?" and I was like "no" he said "oh" that was awkward but I get why he said it because I really didn't talk much.
So anyway, him looking over at you could mean he likes you especially if he looks at you then quickly looks away when your notice him looking over at you. When you hang out with him again look for some signs that he into you like: If he smiles a lot around you, he teases you in a light hearted way (not in a mean way),trying to impress you, is always around you or tries to hang out with you a lot then he likes you. Try and see if how he acts around other girls and if he acts differently with you.
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I'm 13 and I started puberty when I was 9. I started growing boobs really quickly when I was 11 and I also got my period that year. But now in the past 2 years my bra size only went from 32A to 34A. But they're all stretch marks and it's embarrassing when I wear a bikini. How do I get rid of them or will they go away naturally? (link)
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It's common for teenagers to have stretch marks. Some places you may notice stretch marks are on your breasts, thighs, hips and butt. Stretch marks happen when the skin is pulled by rapid growth or stretching and it is a normal part of puberty. Stretch marks may fade away eventually but you can't completely get rid of them. There are creams avaliable to help with the appearance of stretch marks so you could try those.
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Okay i am 13 years old and i got my period at 10. At first my period would go off then go regularly. But now its flowing okay. But now on this week it supposed to come on. I dont know if its going to come on this week. But i do masturbate time to time. But i know i Cant get pregnant from that. So is this normal. Or should i worry. Please give me your advice. (link)
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There are many things that cause a late/missed period such as: stress, excessive exercise, being underweight/overweight, eating disorders, change in diet or routine.
It's not unusual to have a late/missed period at your age, it can happen from time to time and I don't think you should worry about it.
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Hi I am 13 years old and Im positively not sexually active . I masturbate everyday though . This month I missed my period Im guessing it usually comes at the very beginning of the month but hasn't happened . Is this bad ? Should I be worried ? (link)
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No you shouldn't be worried. If you have just started your period then it might not be very regular and it may take quite a long time for your cycle to stabilise (this may take a couple of years) so the number of days between each period and how long you will get your period for will vary. When you are older your periods should start to become more regular.
Masturbation doesn't effect periods and some other reasons for a late/missed periods include: stress, excessive exercise, being underweight/overweight, eating disorders and change in diet or routine.
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Am I weird? All the people at my school and most my friends say that I'm mental and should be put into a mental facility. They all think that I'm weird and odd because I don't act like everyone else. I'm confused. I'm a free-spirit but I don't know what is wrong. Please help...thank you! (link)
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No you are not weird because you don't act like everyone else. It's ok to be your own person and there is nothing wrong with being a free spirit.
Ignore your friends comments that was a really stupid thing to say. Your friends might think you have to be like everyone else and conform but you don't have to. Be who you are and don't let your friends comments get to you.
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do girls have three holes?
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Yes we do have have three holes:
~Urethra (urinary opening) - this is where urine comes out.
~Vagina hole - for menstruation, sexual intercourse and where you insert a tampon.
~Anus - where your poo comes out, anal sex.
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I've read online that if you massage your boobs they can grow a cup size in 30 days. The thing is i dont know how to massage them the proper way . Sooo if any information please help.. thanks . (link)
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You can try if you want but it will not make your breasts bigger. Having breast implants is the only reliable way to make them bigger but it has serious risks. There are a lot of things people claim will make your breasts grow but it's just bs.
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Why boys are eagar to see girls breast (link)
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Because they are hormone-driven boys who are obsessed with girls and sex. That sums up most teen boys.
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I an 13 and I want a baby but, I don't know what to do what should I do (link)
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It's natural for young girls to want to have a baby - it's your maternal instinct kicking in, however having a baby when you are still very young is not the smartest idea. Like everyone else has mentioned you have to think about supporting the baby and that costs money so you will need to have a job. The baby will be your number one priority and you won't have any time to be with friends. Then there is the issue of juggling school with a job and a baby. The baby is going to be dependent on you and things might not go the way you want it to go. I'm not a parent but I know several teen mums and they have said that it's not easy being a teen mum and it's harder than you think.
My advice - wait until you are older. Right now you should enjoy being teenager and concentrate on finishing school. I would also suggest on doing some babysitting or volunteer in a day-care centre.
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i am 10 and have started masturbating does that mean i will start my period soon (link)
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No it doesn't mean that your period is coming soon. Masturbation and periods are two different things and they are not related to each other.
Masturbating is stimulating your self sexually and it's completely normal - there is nothing wrong in doing it. Masturbation isn't related to periods, it's your body that will decide when you will start your period. Masturbating isn't a sign that your period is coming it's just something you do to pleasure yourself.
Here are some signs that your period is coming: (Note: some girls do have signs, some have a few or no signs at all that their period is coming)
~Cramps (usually in your lower abdomen) but you can also get pain in your lower back.
~Spotting - little spots of blood in your underwear which can be red or brown.
~Discharge - you may get brown discharge before you start your period or pinkish looking discharge (normal white discharge mixed with a little bit of blood).
~PMS symptoms - sore/tender breasts, mood swings (feeling angry, irritable, depressed, emotional - crying and tearfulness), abdominal bloating, appetite changes or food cravings, lack of energy, nausea, abdominal cramps, backache, dizziness, change in bowel movements and weight gain.
periods can start at anytime between the ages of about 10 and 16 but some girls might start earlier or later - like at 17 or 18 (everyone is different). The average age is 12/13 years old. No one can tell you exactly when your period will start because everyone is different and develop at different rates. Your period will come when your body is ready.
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Hi I'm almost 15 and I haven't had a period yet, it's kind of worrying me I have had discharge for 5 months and I'm starting to think that something it wrong with me. I'm 15 in 3 months and I haven't had a period yet. (link)
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Periods can start at anytime between the ages of about 10 and 16 but some girls can start earlier and some can start later (like at 17 or 18 years old).
There is no need to worry just yet, everyone is different and develop at different rates. If you haven't got your first period by the time you are, I would say 17 then go and talk to a doctor.
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I have a character in a book I'm writing, her name is Taylor. It's a girl and she needs a last name. I was thinking about Taylor Hart or Taylor Lane. What do you think? Any other good last names for Taylor? (link)
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Personally I like the name Taylor Hart rather than Taylor lane but that's just my opinion. I just think it fits better.
Other Last names that I can think of to go with the name Taylor are: Scott, Young, Watson. From your list I like Taylor Evans and I also agree with the other answers that Taylor Cray sounds good.
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I am 16 and my boobs have been hurting alot lately i am not sexually active but I do masturbate. Would masturbation have anything to do with my boobs hurting. I also think its Because of my period, but my period isn't support to come until two more weeks. Should I be worried or does this just mean my boobs are growing.? (link)
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It wouldn't be hurting because of masturbation. It can however have something to do with your period coming. Sore or tender breasts is a PMS symptom. PMS stands for Pre-menstrual Syndrome which is a combination of physical and emotional symptoms us girls can get 1 or 2 weeks before a period.
It's do do with fluctuating hormones (basically hormonal changes in your body). Before your period starts hormones are produced (oestrogen and progesterone) and they can cause PMS symptoms like sore breasts and other PMS symptoms.
Another reason why your breasts would hurt is growing pains which is where your breasts can hurt or are sore/tender because your breasts are growing. You are 16 and breasts can stop growing in your late teens to early 20's. So this may also be another possibility.
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I think I might be close to getting my period. I have cramps above my peepee (vagina) and my stomach has been bubbly , especially after I eat. And I am starting to have minor headaches . Is that signs of a period coming. (link)
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It sounds like you could be getting your period soon. Cramps are definitely a sign and it's usually in your lower abdomen (above where your vagina is) and some girls can also have cramps in their lower back or pelvis. For this I would suggest a hot water bottle/heatpad placed on your stomach as this can help with the pain. Exercise, yoga or taking a warm relaxing bath can also help as well as painkillers like Ibuprofen (Advil, Motrin etc).
Other signs include: spotting (little spots of blood in your underwear) and PMS symptoms like mood swings, headaches, swollen or tender breasts, bloating, backache, upset stomach, nausea, appetite changes or food cravings, fatigue (feeling tired). And yes, feeling irritable is also a sign.
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Hi for the last few days I have been getting this brownish subtance in my underwear it is not a huge amount but I'm concerned its my period because I'm not a early boomer I am 14 quite small (link)
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Well that could be your period. When you have your first period it doesn't always look red, it can also look brown and that's normal. It's usually very light at first and periods can last 3-7 days. You might find that your periods are all over the place and it might last less or longer than 3-7 days and they might not be very regular. All of this is normal because it might take time for your body to settle down into a regular cycle. These websites will give you information on periods:
http://www.pogopack.co.uk/all-about-periods
http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/on_the_rag_a_guide_to_menstruation
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So im 13/f and i turn 14 in a few months. Ive been facing alot of stress and ive started to cut alot lately. Ive been trying to find ways to cope with it. So i searched online for wayd to relieve stress and one of the most common was the pleasure yourself. I didnt really know what that meant so i did more research and this morning in the shower i thought about it. I thought it would be most sanitary in the shower so i lied down on the floor of the shower and tried it. Ive never actually touched down in my vagina so i was just making sure i put my finger in the right spot. So i used my middle finger and slowly eased it in to my vagina and it kind of stung b im so tight down there. I started getting used to it and started just moving it faster and faster in and out of my vag. It felt really good and i also at first started feeling around and moving my finger in there. People were right it does cause great stress relief! It felt really good but im not aure if i should continue. And should i start using 2 fingers instead of just one? Is it safe ? Is it usual to do this at this age? (link)
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Yes pleasuring yourself at your age is perfectly fine. I'm glad that you have found a less harmful way to cope with your stress. I'm not going to judge you though. Although personally I didn't self-harm, I came close to it and I was also thinking about trying to cope in unhealthy ways like drinking when everthing got too much for me (not because of stress but for other reasons). I don't condone the ways I tried to cope but I'm just saying that I kind of know the temptation to cope in harmful ways to get away from everything. Anyway, pleasuring your self is completely normal. Masturbation is sexually stimulating yourself and it's something that is enjoyable and it relieves sexual tension and stress. Masturbating in the shower is fine, there are loads of ways to masturbate and there is no 'right way' to masturbate. Just explore yourself and find out what works for you. It might help if you are relaxed and aoroused and that might make it easier to put your fingers in. When you are aroused the vagina can produce a natural vaginal lubricant.
Should you continue? it's up to you - there is nothing wrong with continuing masturbation.
Should you start using 2 fingers instead of just one? well again it's up to you. If you are comfortable and ready to add another finger then go for it. Tip: go slowly, don't rush it.
Is it safe? masturbation is perfectly safe. Rainhorse68 had good advice about being hygenic like washing your hands so you don't get any infectons and as long as you don't put any sharp objects in your vagina then you are fine.
There are no particular rights or wrongs about how often a person masturbates. As long as it doesn't get in the way of your daily life then it's ok.
Is it usual to do this at this age? Yes. Almost all girls masturbate. There are some teen girls that don't but that's ok as well (it doesn't mean that they are abnormal - they have their reasons).
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Female, Just Turned 13.
Hi! So... Me and my BFF met in the beginning of the school year (August) - And she has changed my life.
However... Our other friend told me she was moving. Long story short: She kept it from me! She said she wanted me to FIND OUT! ;( Ok so she moved before Winter break..
Winter break ended and she wasn't here all week. She texted me and told me the news.. Ever since, I couldn't stop crying. Seriously! We were even going to go to Disney World in May.. I'm so depressed. I can barely eat or sleep. What do I do? She changed my life and she meant so much to me ;(. Everytime I think of the good memories or the day we met, I start to cry. She was the bestest friend I ever had! (link)
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I'm sorry to hear about your best friend. I can relate to your situation. It's your situation swapped around really - I didn't tell her I was leaving rather than been the person who's friend moved away and didn't tell her.
I met by best friend in infant school and she was my best friend. We did everything togther and then I found out that I had to move away. The thing I most regret is telling her sooner rather than leaving it until it was nearer to the day when I was going away. It wasn't fair on her.
She was devasted that I was leaving and I was devasted about moving away. Anyway, long story short there is a sort of happy ending. After several months past she got my new address and she wrote a letter to me. Then I found out she moved closer to where I was (not because I was here but for another reason plus we lost contact again and this came out of the blue). Anyway she came to see me and it had been years since I had last seen her. I was happy and she is happy and we hung out. After that though we did drift apart and I haven't seen or heard from her since (we both didn't really stay in contact). I guess we both moved on. I moved away, we met up years later and now we are both living our own lives.
My advice for you would be to stay in touch with her. By phone, letter, e-mail whatever it will help to talk to her when you are missing her. I still have a letter from my best friend that I kept in a memory box. That letter is so old now, but I still have it. I also have a frienship ring she gave to me after we met up again.
Also the good thing about keeping in contact is that you could maybe send her a picture of you now and she can send you one of herself. I did this with by friend and I was amazed about how much she changed. Hope this helps you x
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my boyfriend was rubbing me down there and we both were fully clothes..while doing so i felt myself wet down there..i remind u we were fully clothed and my bf said that he didn't wet in his panty..please help me out..are there any chances of pregnacy.. i did'nt get my periods yet its already 10 days late..please help me out.. (link)
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No there is no chance of pregnancy. Oher reasons (apart from pregnancy) for a late/missed periods include:
~Stress (this is a very common reason)
~Change in schedual or diet
~Excessive exercise
~Being underweight or being overweight
~Contraceptives
~Eating disorders
~Medications
~Ilness
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