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my friend 1 was asking me who i like and i didnt wanna tell her but then my friend 2 was there and shes like giving hints about him like
"oh hes taken" "she has a crush on her cousin's cousin" " hes not freshman" "hes older than this guy" and all that stuff BUT she just didnt say the name and my friend 1 doesnt know him and all because he goes to other school so the friend 1 has no clue. But she didnt say anything about the other guy i liked because friend 1 knows him and stuff but
Do you think shes blabbing the guy who i like? should i trust her again? (link)
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I personally think she was just mesing with you. She probly knew she didn't know who "he" was.
hope I helped.
--Syd
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ok so im a little young i guess to know wat i am. But i do i think, eneyways i think im well bi and theres this girl shes my best friend and i love and i dont mean that in a friendly way i mean it in a serious way so i dont know if im bi or if i only have a girl crush err love. But thetres this other girl shes bi shes one grade higher than me and i think she likes me i know for a fact well i think my best friend who im in love with is straight but i dont know. So enyways the girl in the higher grade shes hott and i think i may like her ugh this is so confusing for me i hate it so what should i do? err what am? i mean i reaally love my best friend shes hott,beautiful,funny,and smar shes my everything but alex i kinda like shes different and shes pretty and umm hott err what ever so could some one please please help me out here!!! (link)
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Well, yeah it really does sound like you are bi, but depending on your age you may just be curious. There is no problem with this though, you may think you love your best friend because you care so much for her, these feelings can easily be confused. And all I can say if you really wanna know what she thinks about all this come out and tell her your bi. That's the only positive way to know for sure, if she is bi also or what is to come of your relationship. But I personally don't think you should actually try for a relationship with your best friend. I would go for the older girl "Alex". She should be able to understand your new to being bi and all.
Hope I Helped.
--Syd
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is it normal and stuff nowadays for teens to drink and do drugs...
ages starting at 13-14? (link)
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Sorry to say if you are a mother or father, but yes, because now at this age they may be let out with a little more slack, and they want to go and do some thing "that they weren't able before". And they may, or they may not it is all up to them, and the family they were brought up in has an impact on their decision.
--Syd
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13/f
HELP !!! im realy upset nad crying about htis right now. i have one b rother and 2 parents. now, my dad use tobe in the army andi guess u could say " rough and tough" he treats me llike a little princess..but wiht my brother(15) its definitly different. to start off; they havent gotten along well since my bro was 10.. and my brother tells my dad to shutup and my did gets angry and is like " im not going to take this bull**** from you anymore, who even says im suppose to love you?" and my brother doenst ac tliek he cares but hten he goes to his rom and cries nad no one knows this escept for me and my mom. and i aske dmy dad " dad, do u even like paul*" nad hes like " why should i, he doesnt like me so i dont lke him?" WHAT DO I DO ???? i can not stand seeing my family fight i cry at night. and if i could i would trade my life with my brothers just so he would be happy.. andi m also afriad he's going to try and commit suicide. i dont know what to do.
PS..my Dads Dad use to be an alcoholic* and abuse my father... (link)
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It is Ok calm down. All I can say is obviously, your brother does love your dad, and all and I know you may be scared to death to do this but stand up for him. When your brother goes to his room, and your father says " why should i, he doesnt like me so i dont lke him?" Tell him, if he doesnt like you then why is he in his room crying now!? And walk away. And leave it at that. Your father "should" come to realize how he is effecting your brother from that.
--Syd
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Well my boyfriend tried to finger me, but it hurt it was kind of a discomfortable hurt. I asked him to stop and he did, then we tried it another time and it hurt but not as bad. Is it normal for it to hurt? One of my friends asked me if I bled but I told my friend that I told him to stop before he went in to far because it hurt. Are u suppose to bleed? thanks!! (link)
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Yes it is normally for it to hurt, Because you have not had anything loosen the tissues, the more he loosens them to less it will hurt so each tiem you do it the less it will hurt. And when you have sex for the first time, your heimen will be ripped, or your cherry will be popped in other words. Then you may bleed otehr wise you may not.
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my 2 best friends have been
leaving me out. they dont do
it a lot and they aren't doing
it to be mean, but it still hurts.
they are making this movie for
school and i'm in their class and
they didn't ask me. i asked if
i could be in but they already
filmed it. all 3 of us hang out
alot but if i cant do anything that
day and the 2 of them hang out,
i miss so many inside jokes and then
they put it in their aim profiles and
i feel left out. they feel left out
sometimes too, i guess thats what
happens when 3 people are bffs but
i dont wanna feel left out and i wanna
know all the secrets or inside jokes. (link)
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If you want in on the jokes then ask them what the joke was about, and yes when there are three bffs that is what normally happens, or it's just ya'll are drifting apart as friends, and it may be time for you to go and look for another group or other people to get close to. Explore your options you never know what you may find.
--Syd
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about a week ago my parents started arguing.On the next day my dad wasnt home.I havent seen him since then.My aunt said hes never coming back.It hurts cuz i was wat u call a daddies little girl.My mom on the other hand hates me.I feel very bad.What should i do? (link)
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If your mother hated you, she would let you go live with him where are he went. Or just let you go out on your own and not care what happens. I was a daddies girl up until I was 11, then I eralized my father was an ass and had a huge emptiness left there. Your father on the other hand obviously loves you and treated you right, and he may come looking for custody of you. All I can say is, spend more time with people that you love, people that make you laugh and can get your mind off of anything. Start playing sports. Join an after school activity where you wont have time to think about all of which is troubling you. Most of all cry, if you want to cry let it out, let all your feelings out it is not good to hold them in.
I really hope this helped. And things will get bettr as tiem passes your pains will be more of an un welcome memory.
--Syd
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Okay, I'm trying to write a story and I need to find facts about the full homosexual/bisexual facts. I mean I know what they have to go through at school knowing that even I get teased for having gay guy friends. What I want to know is--
Does anyone know a site where it lists facts like the deathrate of homosexual people and what percent are form suicide and what are from homicide. How often they get violent acts thrown to them and all that stuff...thanks =] (link)
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Google it. That normally comes up with answers.
--Syd
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Hey well i have naturally straight and thick hair and i love scrunching it. Problem is that my hair would only stay scrunched for like an hour or two and i really want it to stay scrunched for a whole day at school. I've tried sleeping with two buns in my hair and i've also tried the whole french braid thing. Don't even bother the whole tip your head over and just scrunch thing cause my hair won't work that way. Oh, and i definetly don't want a perm so any tips? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Actually if you put a tad bit of hairspray on it be fore you scrunch with you hands it should help it stay a little.
--Syd
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well alright the other night me and my boyfriend were planning on having sex. I was prepared, or so i thought. I expected sex to hurt since i was still a virgin and all but it hurt way more than i could take. As a result i pushed him back and we tried again. But i was in so much pain i couldnt do it. After he felt like it was all his fault and i know its all mine. he thought he pressured me into it and i told him that it just was not enjoyable for me and it was extremely painful. He got all quiet and i tried to kiss him, he didnt kiss back. Later we were talking and he said i just feel like i ruined my chance with you. I was overcome with saddness and found myself in tears that i could not control. He then felt like a complete jerk and started blaming himself and telling me i am the only girl he ever had loved also that if i didnt want we dont have to have sex. What should i do about this? (link)
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I know it is a touchy topic, Tell him it wasnt his fault. Cause actually it wasn't.
Yes your first time is going to hurt. But it is something that you have to work on. After the soreness wears off try it again. and each time after it should hurt less and less as the tissue is not as tight as before.
-Syd
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15/F
I really want a boyfriend.
And its not like you can go buy one from the store ahaha, but I'm always meeting new people.
I dont know, just how did some of you guys find your boyfriends?
any tips..? (link)
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If there is a guy I would like to get to know, liek to see if he would be suitable I would get to know him, talk to him. Things like that. And if he is I would flirt and let him know I like him, and see where it goes...
--Syd
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hey! ok I have this boy at my school that I go out with and there is this other boy at my school that I really like and he likes me.. but I dont have the heart to tell my boyfriend that I like somone else! and I want my boyfriend to break up with me. so please help me! (link)
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I know it may be tough to break up with him. All I can say is not to prolongue the situation, Tell him that you think it is good for yall to be together right now.
--Syd
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ok. i should be on the period like RIGHT NOW. but i'm not. i haven't had sex or anything but it's late. can someone explain why. thanks. (link)
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Actually, depending on your age, Teens: Your hormones are raging in a tangled mess your body is still trying to adjust to the things happening to your body...
--Syd
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Ok well for the past month i've been having a really difficult time falling asleep. Even if i am really tired i still can't seem to fall asleep, nothing really is on my mind either, nothing bad has happened nor am i stressful. Everytime i try to fall alseep i tend to feel sick or something, i don't know what is wrong with me, ohh and i don't want to take sleeping pills, my mom won't let me, she says then i won't be able to fall asleep by myself. Ohh and i sometimes fall asleep but it's only in the morning time, since it is still winter break for us, i want to fall asleep, so i won't be tired for school. Does anyone have any tips to try falling asleep better? Ohh and i already try counting sheeps and counting down from 100, it doesnt work. Thankyou if you help me! I'm so its long! (link)
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Actually, Sleeping Pills do help you go tot sleep and you may keep needing them to fall asleep. But you could try excersing during the day, do more physical things, that way your body would get tired, and you may fall asleep a little easier. I understand the not being able to sleep thing I have the same problem.
Hope that helps.
--Syd
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what is love (link)
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Actually there is no true way to explain what love is. Many people don't ever really find true love, but my explanation is:
You care very much for this person. Whenyou think about them you can't help, but smile. When Ever you expect to see him you get butterflies, and are so happy about it. When you finally see he/she you can't help, but look into their eyes and get locked into the deep pools of their mind, and you want to freeze time just to be in that moment forever. You would give so much just to keep that person happy, and keep yourselves together.
I hope that helps.
--Syd
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i dont know if im ready to lost it. but i just wanted to know when do you bleed and how badly does it hurt? like do you bleed after, or while its going on? someone please tell me!!! (link)
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If you have doubts about not being ready to loose your virginity don't do it. And, you don't always bleed, actually it depends on how big the guy is, the bigger the guy the more likely it will bleed, and the more it may hurt, Actually there is no telling whne it will bleed.
--Syd
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i have liked this boy alll year. i am really shy. what are some ways that i might can hint that i like him. the only time we ever talk is when me and my friend gets together...and he jokes with us. we also talk when we sit beside each other in some classes. if we aren't sitting together he occasionally stares. well i just wanted to give you some details...so how can i kinda hint to him that i do like him? (link)
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Smile at him when he stares at you. When your hangin gout with him and he tells a joke or something laugh and touch his arm, touch him in flirty ways. Batt your eyelashes, ask him on another double date. He should eventually get the point!
--Syd
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well my boyfriend stopped cutting a year ago, and hes getting worried because his scars haven;t gone away. how long does it usually take for them to go away? (link)
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they dont just go away in an instant it takes time. As the scar tissue is replaced my new tissues. My cutting scars took about 2 to 3 years to be un noticable, but not completely.
--Syd
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I'm a 15 yr old sophmore and i like a 13 yrold 7th grader, is this wrong? I skipped a grade so i dont think its that weird but im afraid my "friends" would if they found out. (link)
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If you really do like her does it matter what your friends will think? If they are true friends, they wouldnt care that much, they may tease you a little but thats what most friends do.
--Syd
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Okay well the last time my boyfriend was over he fingered me but my pants were still on and it felt really good so i cant wait to hang out again and yea i guess were suppose to hang out again in a couple days and on the phone he asked if i liked it and if i wanted him to do it again and i said ya but ill be on my period when we hang out soo i know he'll feel the pad..what do i do?? (link)
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tell him your on your period. Depending on what age ya'll are is how well he will take it, he should understand. Or you could just say how about next time. If he asks why tell him you don't feel like it right now.
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