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VIRGINITY
i dont know if im ready to lost it. but i just wanted to know when do you bleed and how badly does it hurt? like do you bleed after, or while its going on? someone please tell me!!!
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It honestly depends on the girl. Since every girl is different their first time is going to be different. Some girls bleed a lot, while others bleed only a little, then the rest don't even bleed at all. I wouldn't worry about this too much, though. If your partner knows you're virgin, he'll know that you might bleed. Most guys really don't care all that must, especially if they know it's going to be your first time. It shouldn't hurt all that much if you relax and he fingers you/gets you wet before you have sex. It'll loosen you up and it'll be much easier and lest painful. Just make sure you relax and you aren't too nervous.
Now, about you being ready or not. I think if you're asking this question, you aren't ready. If you're going back and forth from thinking you're ready than thinking you aren't, I think it would be best to wait. Don't feel pressured into something you aren't sure about. Make sure it's someone you love and someone who you're comfortable with. Don't just do it for the sake of doing it. Make sure you're 100% ready and you really, honestly want to have sex.
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The most important advice you'll ever recieve: If you're not sure if you're ready or not, you're not.
You bleed when the penis goes inside of you and breaks your hymen (that's what bleeds). It hurts for a short while. but then you'll feel somewhat numb.
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If you have doubts about not being ready to loose your virginity don't do it. And, you don't always bleed, actually it depends on how big the guy is, the bigger the guy the more likely it will bleed, and the more it may hurt, Actually there is no telling whne it will bleed.
--Syd
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only you can decide when your ready you know no you dont bleed alot sometimes you dont bleed at all but it depends how tight you are to see how bad it hurts everybodys different but remeber only you can decide if your ready there are plenty of problems and responsibltys when you have sex and your'll never get that part of you back so think about it before you do it goodluck i hope i helped
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Everyone is different. Some girls bleed, other's don't. It also varies about how much it hurts.
I noticed you didn't put your age; not that it matters. As long as you think you are ready you probably are. I don't mean to sound blunt, but if you're not sure you probably aren't ready. But don't let that put you off. If you have a guy in mind, talk to him. If you can't talk to him about him he might not be the right guy. Sorry i couldn't help you further. Best of luck xxxx
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