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hi im sammay, im eighteen. i have been through it all in my life. if you have any questions just ask me. im friendly! and plus, i tend to cheer up those who are down. im the person all my friends tell me there problems. my friends are really close to me since i know so much about them. so please, if you need to let something out im here to listen no matter what. so please! ask me. i will give you the best advice.

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Ok so a lot of people tell me i am too thin. I've done those online calculators and they say i am, but you can't really trust those things because they don't take in to consideration a lot of important factors, you know. So, I thought if people could look at my pic site and give me their honest opinion? Thanks. http://www.picturetrail.com/photos/blondina75

yea ur to skinny atleast ur stomache needs to match up to your hip bones and rib cage and your good. thats not healthy dear.

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well do they or not?just wondering...

well me personally yes, because i race! i love driving fast. so yea thats me tho' every girl is different. i drift up and down moutains, go the raceways and race, im pretty good i have a 2002 camaro and a 3000gt and im pretty much saving money for a 350z. i love cars, and speed. so yea, this is a wrong question for me to answer. lol.

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hey ok well lately i've been itching down there and i'll get a couple bumps. they are there for a while and then go away and other ones come up later. i'm not really sexually active but my b/f has fingered me a couple times i dunno if that has anything to do with it but just in case. i really need to know if anyone else has had this problem or if anyone has any ideas what it is and if there is a way to treat it...thanks!
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question do you shave? because if you do that could be from razor bumps, they tend to do that.

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So my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex less than a week ago and I took the morning after pill. This pill could make my period come late and I may get cramps after taking it. Well, after I took the pill I was perfectly fine, and I've gotten my period on schedule. However, I'm having incredibly painful cramps. I'm taking midol every six hours, and it only gives me slight relief for about 20 minutes. I'm wondering if I could be having a miscarriage, or if this morning-after pill I took is having side-effects almost a week later. I usually have a very easy menstrual cycle, with little cramps, normal bleeding etc. Now I'm hardly bleeding and having killer cramps. Does anyone know what I could possibly be going through? If it helps, I'm 16 years old. Thanks in advance.

no no no honey its none of that. these cramps are normal since you took the morning after pill your body is trying to re-ferbish itself and replenish your body to fix it, when you take the morning after pill it fucks up your body and your body is trying to adjust itself back to the way it was. your okay, its normal. but if you really want those cramps to go away get on birth control go to planned parenthood and get on the bc, trust me! you will be amazed with the results. no more cramps, and heavy periods. i had horrible horrible cramps. but when you get horrible cramps like that, get a heating pad and rest it on your ovaries, it will comfort your ovaries and the blood clots will loosen and it wont hurt as much, and you wont have to take so much midol. talk to your mother about this and tell her you want to get on birth control because your cramps are killing you, and when you see a gyno- she will tell you the same thing. your okay hun. you can relax.

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Hey, i had sex earlier today an wen i got home i felt my right ball/testicle and it had a lum on it, small like the size of a black head, ya cant see it just feel ot through the sack and it hurts. Anybody know what it is??? thanks

if it is little as a black head. its an in grown hair dont worry give it a couple more days, when you start to see a hair in the little lump it just eventually go its course, if it was anything seriously it would be alot bigger then something the size a black head. dont worrym it was because you had sex and you irritt the hair that was in-grown into your balls. its okay, just give it a couple more weeks, plus if you caught anything it would take a couple months to a year to develop not a whole couple hours. :)

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okey so it's not like i've never been kissed. i have. not a REAL one though. i've done just a couple seconds on the lips and everything but i've never made out. and quite frankly, i'm extremely afraid of it. but then again i REALLY REALLY want to. so my question is, Is it really that simple? do you just go with the flow once you get into it? And do guys ever judge you about your kissing skills?

it is that simple, when your ready it will come to you.

since you already had a couple second kiss just do that, but then just go with the flow.

just dont be all nervous, the more you get nervous the worst you will become, and it

will be as if he is kissing a rock, just let come nice and smooth and use a little tongue.


you should be good. guys do judge about kissing skills, but you need to tell him straight up you never kissed before, and he will be a little more easy on you,

if you do mess up he, will teach you how its done.

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