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never been kissed


Question Posted Monday November 27 2006, 3:20 pm

okey so it's not like i've never been kissed. i have. not a REAL one though. i've done just a couple seconds on the lips and everything but i've never made out. and quite frankly, i'm extremely afraid of it. but then again i REALLY REALLY want to. so my question is, Is it really that simple? do you just go with the flow once you get into it? And do guys ever judge you about your kissing skills?

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CheerleadingExpert answered Monday November 27 2006, 6:31 pm:
no most guys usally havent made out either depends on the age you are!! and yes if you have never made out with somone then yes you just go with the flow (and i have made out before and my first time i didnt know wat to do and i just stayed calm and went along with him) its no BIG deal so just get back to me ok

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Boy4gd answered Monday November 27 2006, 4:02 pm:
this might sound stupid but guys are too busy worryin if THEY are gd enough to notice if your not so gd so it dont realli matter ( plus if the guy really likes u then it wont matter)

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rawrits_sammay answered Monday November 27 2006, 3:59 pm:
it is that simple, when your ready it will come to you.

since you already had a couple second kiss just do that, but then just go with the flow.

just dont be all nervous, the more you get nervous the worst you will become, and it

will be as if he is kissing a rock, just let come nice and smooth and use a little tongue.


you should be good. guys do judge about kissing skills, but you need to tell him straight up you never kissed before, and he will be a little more easy on you,

if you do mess up he, will teach you how its done.

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Bluebell78 answered Monday November 27 2006, 3:49 pm:
im kinda in the same boat your in.im not that crazy about it even though i want to. i think you do. you probably getused to it and dont mind it becuz your used to it. YES!!!! guys (that are stuck up and jerks) judge you on your kissing skills. but i highly doubt all guys do that. the nice charming ones dont mind. now that i do know. they care less about looks and the way you kiss and when you meet that perfect guy he will apreciate you for who you are and not the way you kiss. i hope i helped you. feel free to email me anytime.
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MummuM answered Monday November 27 2006, 3:49 pm:
Some guys do judge a girl on her kissing skills. Those guys who do judge aren't worth it anyways. Obviously they don't like you for you or it wouldn't matter about your kissing skills. It just goes to show that all they want is some action.


I know you're going to think you can't make out with anyone and your going to be a bad kisser, but really, that's all in your head. Everyone thinks that when it comes to making out and kissing. They all think they're going to suck at it.


I know this is probably not much help, but kissing really does come naturally. Just go with the flow, it'll come naturally, I promise.


Here's a site that you might want to look at, if you feel like you need a little more information: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location)

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