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Last Update: August 10, 2005
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Fellow atheists: I have a friend who is a militant Christian, meaning, she thinks it's her job to convert everyone who isn't Christian into one, including me. She knows I'm atheist, but it really bothers me when she tells me that I'm going to hell for not believing in Christian ways. I've told her many times that I don't believe in a god, afterlife, or book of worship. Yet, she still has the nerve to constantly bring up "god" and how I NEED to be a Christian. Other than that, she's cool. Are there any ideas on how to get through to her that I really don't want her help when it comes to religion? I'm going to snap if she comments to me one more time. (link)
Im really sorry but your friend is just trying to help you. Why don*t you tell her say look " I know your trying to help me but I have the right to belive in what I want to." I dont no if I can help you on this one b/c I*m a christian too. But you and your friend are both right cause you have the right to belive in whatever you want to but your friend is right too. Shes just trying to help you. Did you ever think about just listening to her for a minute? I hope I have helped you in some way! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393


I have a really cute guy friend name"Brock Bumbarger" & we have been friends for 3 years now. We hang out all the tim, and go to the movies together!! Last august on my 15th b-day he kissed me, like making out wise & ever since then I have been confused. Everyone says we should just admit we like each other. I so want to tell him how i feel, but i am scared he might reject me & I would know what to do if he did. What should I do? (link)
I think you should just tell him how you feel. You will feel so much better when its off your chest.Im sure he likes you too. I mean not many people will make out with them for no reason at all. So I think you should just tell him. And if he regects you then thats the way it was ment to be.Just think of it this way if he likes you and you like him, and yall never tell each other you will really regret it when you part with each other. Hope I helped! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393


Everytime i shave my legs it hurts because of my razor bumps or burns whatever they're called. How do i get rid of razor burns because everytime i look at my legs i see little red dots where my hair would grow in. So is there anything i can buy or do to make my razor marks/burns/bumps go away? (link)
First of all thanks for writing to me!N-e-ways I had the same problem. What you can do is get the nair bladeless razor and you can shave over anything. I hope I helped IM me or write to me again if needed! Thanks! (Sportychicc9393)


Ok i posted before but got no answers so ill respond. My Microsoft Works will not work!!!! I tried reinstalling it like 3 times. Its Microsoft works 7.0, The spreadsheet and everything except the Works Word Processor works. And Under the Works word processor are all those catergorys like cover letters,cards,flyers,outlines, all that stuff and they will not work. WHAT DO I DO PLEAAAAAASE HELP ILL RATE HIGH!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
It sounds like you need a new computer server! Hope I helped!IM me if needed Sportychicc9393


Okay well im in this big love circle okay.. This is the first half.. well first there is Adam and i've gone on and off liking him since the 6th grade and now im going into the 8th grade and ever since the 2nd grade he always had a thing for this girl named Melinda and she didnt start liking him untill the 6th grade and they went out then he dumped her 5 months later and he still liked her after that and then during the beginning of the 7th grade he finally stopped liking her and i still liked him and he didnt like me and then in the middle of the 7th grade when i was finally over him i started liking his friend Josh and Josh liked me a little bit but barly and then one night at a school dance me and Adam didnt even dance we just talked the whole 3 hours and i remember how he was like "Even though I dont like Melinda now I know that when i get older im gonna be with her in high school and we're gonna go to the same collage and i know i'm gonna be with her and it kills me to know that" and then that night i talked about how fat and ugly i was to him and he was like "No if u were fat and ugly i wouldn't like u" and then i was kinda confused because he just got done telling me how he was always gonna be with melinda and so he went on and off liking me when i was finally over him and then i started liking him again and he kissed me the last day of school and said all these sweet things to me.. This is the second half.. There is so other guy named Sean and me and him went out once in the 6th grade and once in the 7th grade and when we werent going out he always liked this girl named Bridget and she is such a wanna be slut because she had a boyfriend and cheated on him with Adam and like 3 other guys and so Sean wrote me a note one day telling me how he liked me and only me and stuff and then i went to a pool party with him last week and Bridget was there and i hung out with both of them and when Bridget was eating i was swimming in the pool with Sean and his kissed me and then that night at soccer practice Bridget told me that she was hugging Sean and he was like "Bridget I really really like you a lot u know" and so im completly confused with everything and its weird with me because if Adam and Sean both asked me out at the same time i would say yes to Adam because i waited so long for him to ask me out because he has only gone out with Melinda and every girl only wishes she could go out with Adam but if Adam and Sean were both hanging from a cliff and i could only save one I would save Sean because Adam really broke my heart last summer. Im confused and i'm sorry this is long but i need advice so please help me! (link)
Wow! It sounds like you have a handful. It sounds like Bridget is lying to you. I bet Sean really likes you. I would go for him. Cause it seems to me like Adam is treating you like the rebound girl. You dont want to get hurt again do you? If I were you I would go for Sean. And Bridget, well it just sounds like shes jealous of you cause her old man likes you. Well I hope I*ve helped you! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393!


wut r the things that girls like about guys? and wut things should we give them as gifts? Im in despate need of help! I just dont understand girls! (link)
Girls want a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hangup on him, who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you Wait for the one who doesnt just turn to his friends n says thats her..but has you in his arms n his friends go..ohh so thats tha one your always talkin bout! I hope I helped! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393. Sorry so long!


can you get sick from the heat? like throwing up? thanks (link)
Ya you can get sick. Ecpeically if you don*t eat and you go out in the heat. Hope I helped! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393


my best friend has a new beatfriend. HEATHER. im incredibally jealous of heather nd there new friendship. my bestfriend krystal is ALWAYS talking about heather like i dont exist. i told krystal that to but she just doesnt get it. to further help me, you can IM me my sn is x simply romance. krystal's away message rite now is
AT MY LOVERS HOUSEE:-D

......heather of course.! hehe i luv it

nd its really pissing me off. how do i over come jealousy? (link)
Its really hard to over come jealousy. But you can do it. Why dont you make her jealous. You find a new friend or try to become friends with her new friend and maybe she will start to like you more than ur old friend but dont do anything that you will regret. Remeber what goes around comes around and what ur friend is doing is not nice and she knows it. Trust me she will get her coming around. I hope I helped you im me if needed Sportychicc9393


hey, can someone pleasse find some sites with pics of Ruben from That 70's House!! Hes soo hott, and ill rate (link)
try mtv/the70'shouse.com I hope i helped im me if needed Sportychicc9393


i like this gurl for 3 years we almost went out a bunch of time but something always happened i really like this gurl we had a really good last couple of days but she said she doesnt want a boy friend for the summer i dont want her to go to a diff guy i really like her but her cuz and hes my best friend doesnt like us going out so he always tries to breack us up. we made out for the first time the other night . My question is wen do i ask her out and how do i ask her out??? (link)
I think you should. You both obviously feel the same way since you made out. But you don*t have take my advice. You need to tell your friend that you like her and their is nothing he can do about it so he needs to stop trying.I hope I helped im me if needed Sportychicc9393


k so im starting hs in a few weeks. when im meeting new people nd talking to them ... what r some ice breakers? like what could i ask them if there is that awkward silence. what should i say or ask? please help, i'll rate 5s (link)
Dont worry cause i bet alot of other people feel that way too .You could ask them what kind of music, movies , shows.Or what they did in the summer. Even make fun of goofy teachers lol. I hoped i helped im me if needed Sportychicc9393


Okay, awhile back I liked this guy "Caleb" for almost a year. He had (and still has) a girlfriend, and "Caleb" turned me down when I told him how I felt. Now his girlfriend has moved to Canada, and he's been talking to me on AIM saying "yo" before I even say "hi" first. My mom knows what happened and how badly it hurt me when he hurt my feelings, but now him and I want to be friends. My mom told me NEVER to talk to him again on AIM because of what happened. By the way, he's three years older then me and so is his girlfriend. Now we just want to be FRIENDS, and I don't want to block him or anything, so I turn my away message on when he comes online. I'm so confused, because I don't know if his girlfriend is ever going to break up with him, and if she does, he'll be talking to me a lot about how sad he is. Any advice on how to deal with this? (link)
No ofense but I think ur mom is kinda right. She just doesnt want you getting hurt again. I mean he didnt have the right to do what he did.


does anyone know any funny pointless songs?
Ex. (Stacy's Mom, Crazy Frog, Hampster Dance, Etc.)
Just any funny songs that you could laugh at, know any? (link)
I Love Nascar; Grandpa Got Run Over By A John Deer; My Cellmate Thinks I*m Sexy, Im me if you need more info Sportychicc9393


Hi, I'm the one who wrote about my boyfriend who so rudely dumped me without as much as even TELLING me, and then saying that I didn't have feelings and desserved my heart broken as much as people wanted too. Now I am a generally nice person, but this got me so upset. :( Well now hes going out with this other girl, and they keep iming me to tell me what a "loser" I am and how I can't "get" any boys. I blocked them but I still have to see them at school. By the way, their screennames are pyroboy9977 and XoCheerQtXo3222, if anyone would like to talk some sense into them.

Sorry for wasting your time, but I'm really stuck here. And I feel like there is something seriously wrong with me. :( (link)
There is nothing wrong with you! You just have to let them no that it doesnt bother you and soon enough they will stop bothering you and move on to someone else. I hope I have helped im me if needed Sportychicc9393


hiya
recently i feel like ive been loosing my self.
ive beeen moody, snapping at my parents and self harming, ive also been considering suicide because i dont see any reason why i can continue to live. my parents split up about a month ago, im overweight, and i just feel useless. i lost my first love over ago because i realised how much i wanted to be with him after he left. i just dont know what to do any more. im 16/f and i just feel like ive lost my life already. i dream about love falling asleep under the stars with the person i love but i cant find that person to be with.
any ideas why im feeling like this and how i can stop it will get 5's.
thanx
emma
x (link)
Suicide is not the answer!You have to wait for the perfect one. Hes not just gonna come up.You have to wait. Alot of people go through this when thier parents split up but you will get over this I promise! I hope I have helped im me if needed Sportychicc9393


i have a boyfriend and i luv him so much and i never want 2 let him go but i dont think he knos how much i do luv him..how could i tell him?
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Just come out and open with him. He probably loves you just as much as you do! I hope I helped Im me if needed Sportychicc9393


OK so my hair is wayyyyyyyy thick and frizzy, like totally thick. If i get it cut to about shoulder length, and get 2 layers taken off, will i see a big difference? Will other people? I alwayssss wear my hair up, so can yu still see the difference? and will it be easier to straighten, cus with the way my hair is now, it takes about 2 hours. Lots of questions, i know, but i'll rate high for any help (link)
Trust me your hair cut will make a big diffrence!I had the same excact problem I hated my hair then i got it cut. Try tapering your hair. That might help. I hoped i helped! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393


ok well i might ask out a 6th grader and im in 7th grade and im probably gonna see her maybe 2 times a weekis this a problem? (link)
This isnt a problem at all. You should go ahead if you like her. There is no problem at all. Trust me girls like older boys!!! I hope I*ve helped! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393


i rate high!!!!!!!

i'm 13 and my mom won't let me get pierced ears. the problem is....earrings are my favorite jewelry & i'm obsessed with looking at them & buying them (except i can't because i can't wear them!!). so i have to wear clip-ons and they don't have a big variety and they come off easily or break easily, etc... i really want pierced ears, i think i'm probably the only 13 year old girl i've ever met who has no pierced ears (except ones that didn't want them, and i've only met one girl like that). i know i shouldn't give in to peer pressure but ever since i was really little, i saw this woman wearing earrings & i wanted to wear those SO badly! my mom says i'm not responsible or w/e. we have a housekeeper & i did chores FOR her and proved i was responsible and i have contacts and hamster and i clean my room a lot and EVERYTHING but she still won't let me have one! sometimes i tend to be somewhat irresponsible like every normal girl but then she points it out AND IGNORES ALL THE RESPONSIBLE THINGS I DO! idk what to do, anyway i could convince my mom about pierced ears or somehow do it at home??? thanks i rate (link)
You shouldnt try at home you could really get hurt that way but it isn*t right for your mom do do that to you. Ask your mom why not. Maybe she has got a reason from her past and if she answers you and says your just not tell her thats not a reason> I hope I have helped in someway!Im me if needed Sportychicc9393


My husband is often up until 2-3 in the morning using the internet. I am curious as to what he is looking at. It's usually video game message boards, but I have a feeling he is hiding something. I may be completely wrong, it's just a feeling. I tried reviewing the history, but it is set up to atomatically delete on our computer. Is there anywhere else I review the history. Or am I stepping over the line even trying to find out? (link)
Your doing the right thing! You definetley deserve to know. Don*t ask him over and over what he is doing cause if he is not doing anything bad he will think you dont trust him. One night just kinda sneek in on him and see.I hope I have helped! Im me if needed Sportychicc9393




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