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Q: ok my bff asked me 2 ask her crush out. I said sure but the thing is i liked him last year and im not totally over him quite yet.
I really want my bff 2 b happy but i dont think that he likes her and im not so sure that he likes me either. and if he says no her heart will b broken. what do i say 2 the guy?
we hated each other(or at least he hated me i just played along. Maybe he did 2 i dont know) and i really really like him please help me im so nervous and i have 2 ask him out tomorow morning....... this is very important. ill rate a 5 2 any 1 who gives a full and good answer
thanx ♥
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Talk to you bff, tell her how you feel and ask her if she realy likes him as much as you do but remember you did promise to ask him out for her so you should carry out your promise.
It sounds like you and this guy have a complicated relationship so before you rush into asking him out for yourself maybe you should work on becoming friends first so you can find out if he just played along too.
Hope I helped best of luck xxx
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Q: ok this is about my boyfriend
well....ok my boy n I have been going out since that last week of school but after that we haven't talked!!! but one of my friends (a boy) called him and he realli didn't seem to care about me!!!!! and i had the biggest crush on him toO!!! so it hurt and i love him! and everyting!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and like i want my friend who called him to dump him for me but he hasn't done it and now i am having second thoughts......i am soooooooo confused!!
PLZ HELP!!! b4 school starts lol (sept 12)
-ConFuSed Chiica
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maybe you should hold off on dumping him at the moment till you get your head straight. First off have you spoken to you boyfriend personaly e.g on the phone in person if not maybe you should call him and ask him if he wants to meet up with you for a date, if he realy wants to date you he will make the effort to meet you. Also you can find out on your date if your relationship is going anywhere and if not you can dump him (in person) but you should talk to him about this face to face rather than through friends.
Hope I helped
Best of luck xxx
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Q:
kat/13/f
I like this guy and ive gotten like 8 people 2 ask him out 4 me and ive tried asking him out myself but the words wont come out. he always changes the subject but still tells them(the 8 people) he likes me. i dont know wat his problem is. he said 1 of the reasons he wont go out wit me is because he dosent know if i live near him/if he has any way 2 get 2 me but i live in the apartment comlex next to his. i was thinking about going over to pay a visit but do you think that would freak him out or be stocker like? pleez help with any part of my problem...ill rate 5!
p.s you can im me at scchik0845
thanx
*~*kat*~*
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I think it would be ok for you to go round i don't think he would think you were a stalker he might admire the fact that you had the guts to go round and speak to him. it might also be easier to talk to him when you are both alone and are not being pressured into answering. If your not up to going round maybe you could get your friend to help drop your adress into a casual convosation. (but try not to make it obvious about what you are doing.)
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Q: My friend Jennifer and I have been good friends since 7th grade but our freshmen year we became really far apart. I got a boyfriend and she felt rejected. Well I tried to reconnect with her hear the last few months and now she has a boyfriend. I invite her places with me and she always comes up with rediculious excuses to not go. I invited her to a concert with me and she didn't go because her boyfriend came to her house. I never blew her off like this. We have our old conservations on the phone and talk at lest 2 hours every other day. I just dont know what to say or do. I want to go to the old ways.
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try and talk to her by herself maybe on one of your phone calls. ask her if you have upset her or someting and is that why she never wants to go out with you. If she still cares about your friendship she will make time for you. friends should come before boyfriends.
best of luck xxx
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Q: This is gonna sound confusing but, my best friend that i knew for about 6 years now has this really hot brother, hes about my age. He likes me and i like him! But she doesnt want us going out and she keeps making up excuses on why we shouldnt. She doesnt know i like him and im afraid if i do tell her she will get upset and be rude about it. And plus i think it will feel a little weird going out with my best friends brother! HELP i am soo confused
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Be careful how you handel this, First of all do you realy want to go out with him because this could change your friendship with your best friend it could make things difficult and uncomfortable can you imagine if you dumped her brother? who would you normaly talk to if this happened?( your best friend?) If you realy want to go out with him i suggest you talk to your best friend and let her know how you are feeling.
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Q: i have this guy in our neighborhood who likes me. but the problem is he is shy around me... what should i do?
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If you like him try to get to know him. If you like him you have to be patient, just keep trying to talk to him he will soon open up. but don't come on too strong you will frighten him off!
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Q: I really like this guy but my sister says that he's hers. I said that i liked him first and now that I trying to get him to go on a date with me, I don't want her to get in the way. She just likes him because he's cute, but i like him for his personality. She never even talks to him like I do.
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Try talking to your sister explain how you feel say you will help your sister find someone eles or try another form of bribery! like she can borrow some of your clothes etc. But remember try not to fall out with your sister over a boy.
Best of luck let me know how it goes.
xxx
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Q: sport finder
i go to a school where sports mean alot..i have tried a bunch of differnet sports..but none of them work for me..i am tring to stay in shape..but i havent as much since i quit my last sport..i really want to try out for a sport this year..any ideas of which one i should pick..i'm not to good at sports ..but i'm detirmned to do this!
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Its great that you are determined to do a sport and stay in shape! Try and narrow it down. think if you prefer playing in a team or by youself. Or if you want to get in shape try thinking about what you want to get into shape more. for example if you want to improve your strength try the gym or running if you want to improve your stamminer etc. Over the next few weeks book lots of lessons at you local sports centre try everything i'm sure you will find something you like.
best of luck, let me know how it goes. xxx
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Q: I dont have bad acne or anything but my forehead is kinda pimple-y and how do i cover it up?
i bought the concealor but it wont work and i tried putting on lots of foundation but it STILL wont cover it up. is there any way? and i cant use those acne wash and face mask because i was born to have itchy skin if i use any of those products. and it also makes my face real red too.
so is there any way i can cover up my forehead?
and also i have like sweatholes on my nose. how do i cover them up? because they look like blackheads but they are not.
and if any body can give me specific shades for me because everytime i buy the foundation or anything i ALWAYS get wrong shades for my skin. i am Asian , so i would have golden skin but i am not that much tanned so my skin shade is between Fair and Golden.
and any tip on how to get right shade? and it wont work with that match your face with plastic thing you put it on your face to get right match because that gave me way off shades...
i Rate high unless you are one of those mean people who are going to mock me and then i REPORT you.
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use a gentle face wash or go into a department store and ask for some advice about what face wash to use. If possible don't wear make up because it will make your problem worse! But if you realy want to cover it up one day try using a colour corrective fluid under your foundation this should stop it looking red. but if you can don't wear make up let them heal.
best of luck xxx
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Q: Okay, so I'm engaged.
I have a friend with whom I used to be extremely close. I found out, though, after I started dating this guy, that she'd had a crush on him for quite a while.
Just so there are no misconceptions, I'm going to emphasize that I didn't know she liked him before I started dating him. If I had known, I wouldn't have gone out with him.
I was talking to my fiance - he's friends with her too. From what he told me, I think she still likes him. She doesn't know we're engaged. He started to tell her on line, but she signed off before he could and hasn't spoken to him since.
She's going to find out at some point, but I'd like to tell her in a way that won't...hurt her too much, I suppose.
Is there a way to tell her without going "oh by the way we're engaged" so heartlessly?
The thing is, I could say that, but she'd never admit to me that she still has feelings for him because she wouldn't want me to feel bad.
Any suggestions?
Please, no smartass remarks. I'll just rate you down.
Thanks in advance :)
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I think you should tell your friend before she finds out off someone eles. It would Be much worse if she herd it of someone eles. you should talk to your firend about how you love your fiance but let her know that you care about her feelings and you don't want this to effect your friendship. If she is a true friend she will be happy for you. In time your friend will hopefully lose the feelings she had for him.
Best of luck and congratulations on your engagement.
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Q: I've known my best guy friend for 3 years, since 5th grade,and him and i are really "close" and at times can get really touchy, but we've never kiss, or anything like that, he acts like he likes me,and wants to ask me me out but can't,so trys to give me hints and ask's me interesting questions like" are you afraid of a boy kissing you?"or" how many guys have you made out with?" and all of our mutual friends say that one of us should ask the other out and w/e, but then about 2-3 weeks ago he asked me if him and this other girl would make a good couple and if he should ask her out, all i could say was ".. do you like her?"(dumb question i know all i could think of in the moment) and he said yes. and that was that.. and i guess i have to just deal, but as the years go on i like him more and more, and i love him to death*as a brother,nd mabe a lil more* , in the end of it all i really just want him to be happy(i know it sounds cheesy)but when ever he's around me his hands are always somwhere on me, and his tickle me constantly, and i loved that! but now he has a girl friend,somone who i used to be friends with, and i know its not real nice/proper or me or him to continue to act like that, im just really confused about his feelings for me and ever since he went out with her, he's stoped talking to me. and it really hurts..
-Hurt and confused-
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awww, its sweet that you want him 2 b happy and that you are close to him(he has a good friend). You should confront him on his own and ask him what he realy thinks of you and why he has stopped talking to you. tell him how you feel and that he is confusing you. If hes your friend he should listen to you.
Best of luck xxx
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Q: hi 2 days ago, ya know that slimy stuff that come out of your vagina well that came out right and a little bit if blood well later after i came back home from shopping my underwear was brown and then a little bit later that night my mom thought i started my period so she got me some pads but there has been no blood for almost 2 days what does that mean? Why isn't their any blood coming out? Do i have my period or no?
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periods dont settle for about a year so you could start again in a few days. just keep some pads with you when you go out.
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Q: Okay.. Theres this boy I've liked since 4th grade. I've been best friends with him since 6th. I really love him now and he knows. I was sposed to hook up with him so many times already it breaks my heart thinking about it because everytime some jealous girl got in the way. Well the last time i was talkin with him 1 of my goodfriends got wit him and gave him head. And then a huge rummor started sayin that he had herpes, (which he dsnt) but she told every1 including him that i started it. I tried to confront him, but he wont listen to me. And it feels like everytime he gets a girlfriend, he does stuff to make me jealous, and he never talks to me. But then when he's single he is always there for me. He told my other bff that he liked me and that hes playing hard to get but I don't know what to do.
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you should try comfronting him again to be honest if he was your best friend he would listen to what you had to say. And him making you jelous thats not on, just ignore him when he tries to make you jelous, don't ack bothered by it. if he is trying to make you jelous and he sees your not bothered by it he will stop. this maybe easier said than done but maybe you should just stay friends. (I know how you feel i been in this position before)
best of luck xxx
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Q: ok, i relly like this guy and i'v liked him for a bout a year. we are really good friends adn i have told him i liked him a few times in the past, but he never really liked me (exept he did otehr times, but i didn't really like him) So in other words our relationshipp never really panned out. But recentally we have become really good friends and i get the feeling he kind of likes me.
but there is a really hot guy who wants to get into my pants. He is acctually really sweat and irrisitable. And i really want a first kiss soon and i knid of want to make the guy i have liked for a long time jelouse. plus he is against this guy who wants to ge in my pants.
Should i try to make my crush jelous? and make out w/ another guy?
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whatever you do don't make him jelous and its not fair to use your mate.(what are you goimg to do if it works? and your crush asks you out? just ignore your mate?) you shouldn't just go along with this just to get your first kiss either. maybe you should try asking your crush out because it doesn't sound like the relationship you are in at the moment is going anywhere and maybe you will get your first kiss with the person you realy fancie.
good luck xxx
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Q: Ok, I think we have all been here, but I've been really thinking about my past lately. Mostly my love life. My problem is this: my first girlfriend really had a vicelock on my life. We went out for a little over a year. We nearly got back together last summer, but someone I thought was a friend severly knocked that for a tailspin. Me and "C" ended on very bad terms. A nuclear bomb coulda done less damage. But I look back, and I realize, I cant escape the fact that I am NOT over her. I can't tell if I just feel guilty, cause it IS my fault, Im big enough to admit that, or if I do still care about her. I want to write her a letter to apoligize, but I wonder if it will fall on deaf ears. What should I do?
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aaawww, thats so sweet. hopefully she might think that too. writing a letter is a good idea you can say exactley what you want to say and how you feel. if the worse comes to the worse and your letter falls on deaf ears then you will know where you stand and you can try and move on. best of luck xxx
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Gender: Female Location: Birmingham, England Occupation: Student Age: 15 AIM: Member Since: July 10, 2005 Answers: 35 Last Update: June 11, 2007 Visitors: 2311
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