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wheres a good place to get cute cheap underwear [if u can list the styles they sell too thnx] (link)
gadzooks n charolett rousse


so lets call her summer.

me and summer have been friends for a couple months. but now summer is being mean and is really annoying and i just DONT like her anymore. the problem is i half to sit with her in health and i HATE it. shes really chubby and the boys tease her all of the time but she was mean before that. and im popular and she trys to fit in but shes not bcuz well shes MEAN. and now shes hitting on my boyfriend and its annoying. and shes extremely 2 faced and gossips all of the time. and im sick of it. so how do i tell her i dont want to be her friend? silent treatment? i rate high. (link)
just slowly stop talking to her. dont let her b the center of your world, just forget about her


I like my friend's brother and now that she knows, every little thing he does she always looks at me. It's weird. I want to get to know him better, but just because I talk to him I don't want her staring at me. Plus, how can I get to talk to him when he is in another conversation. I don't want him to think I'm rude and that I just join in on other people's conversations. It's really hard for me to get the chance to talk to him because the only time I really see him is on the bus, so thats my only opportunity to get to know him. So, how do I get to know him without sounding rude or nosy? (link)
i would get his sn or something and talk to him online. maybe think of a question you can ask him, and ask him, then you wouldn't be rude! if he doesn't have a sn, then mayb whenever you call your friend, if she isn't home, and her bro answers talk to him a lil bit, be like hey is ur sis there, and he'll say no and then be like o well this is (your name) and ask when she'll b home and stuff like that!


i am suppost to go to this party tonight with a couple of my friends. this guy i know wants me to go so i can hear his band play. But most of the people there ((except for like 6 people)) i dont really know very well, and dont really like to much. I kinda want to go but wat if the think "why is she here?" so should i go? and the guy is gunna ask me out there, and i kinda wanna say yes, and i kinda wanna say no.. wat should i say? Ill Rate! (link)
well i would go to the party either way, who cares about the people you dont like. and it seems like you really wanna go b/c you made a post about this, so that means you like him, so id say yes


13/f
Ok well when I started going out with my boyfriend (about 2 months ago), my mom told me that she didn't want me kissing him, but only hugging him and holding hands. She said that she didn't think that I was old enough to be in the type of relationship in which you kissed in. Well, I felt I was ready, and so when my boyfriend asked me on IM if he could kiss me the next day, I said it would be okay. Well, he kissed me (it was like a one second kiss on the lips), and I have kissed him about 7 or 8 times since then everyday at the end of school. I don't know what to tell my mom, because she will probably eventually find out about it. If I tell her, however, I'm afraid that she won't let me go to the movies, dances, etc. with him, because she won't trust us together. It just doesn't feel right not telling her. So what should I do?
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13 isn't to young to just kiss, and usually parents dont know what their kids do with their boyfriends/girlfriends. kids dont normally tell their parents that stuff


Does anyone know a site that shows people how to do some exotic dance moves ? like the pussycat roll and the hookers strut etc .
Thanks * (link)
i would google it !!


My hair is really long and wavy, and my face shape is round. Will my hair make my face seem longer (which is what I want) or is there another style that can do that? (link)
your hair sounds good the way it is, but if you want to get it cut, i would suggest layers in the front! it will appear that your face is longer, but keep the length of your hair. maybe even get some side bangs !


what's moshing? (link)
it happens at rock and metal concerts. mainly guys not really girls,get in a big group and "dance" haha, well they actually just throw eachother around and push a lot. and enjoy good music.


I'm 15/f, and I want a job. I can't really get a job right now because I'm only 15 and most places hire when you're 16. I don't turn 16 until August, but I wanted to go ahead and get one so I can have money to go towards getting a car and other stuff. So, does anyone have ideas for what I could do or any places that hire at 15?

Oh, please don't say babysitter, lol. I'm terrible with kids. Thanks! =) (link)
-*mc donalds
-*burger king
-*culvers if you have one
pretty much any fast food places, mayb you could get a job being a bus boy or hostess ?!


hello im a 13 year old girl and my boyfriend is 15 and a half well ill be 14 soon but any ways.. he wants to have kids i want to but i still think im too young if i wasnt in school then i think im for it b ut i dont know i need some advice. (link)
wow noooo ur WAY to young! wait like 8 years because 13 is soo young, ur not even in highschool yet.


hi i need to find pictures for homework like..pictures of a normal liver and a liver affeccted by alcohol, or a regular heart and an alcohol affected heart, or just any organs like that. my project is due tomrorow and i need some pics! thanks! (link)
google images !


my friends keep making fun of me,but i know there are just joking but it makes me feel bad, can anyone help (link)
well either tell her to stop and tell her how it makes you feel, or do the same back to her


my underarms get sweaty a lot! and ive heard secret is the best brand to use a lot but it doesnt work well for me.. i need something stronger..do you guys think using babypowder would work? why or why not.. thanks!!
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go to the doctor, he can give u good stuff !


Sometimes, out of no where, i'll get dizzy, my head will feel weird, and i see these weird grey swirls. i cant see anything else. it goes away pretty quick, but its incredibly weird. does anyone know what this could be? thanks. (link)
yeah that can be normal especially for migranes. i always get black outs when ive been sitting for a really long time then i get up. you should be ok, i highly doubt ull need to go to the doctor


Ive got a really bad obsession with the drink coca cola! and its not good for you to drink it everday of the week. Anyone give me advice on how to stop drinking so much coke?!?

rate hight for good answers
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ok well dont worry too much about it, but i understand on how you want to stop. i dont really kno how you can stop, but just keep the thought in your mind that it is unhealthy for you and it can in the long run (if you stop drinking) make you lose weight, and its good for you skin if you dont drink.. good luck tho!!


hey. ok im really shy and stuff...and tomorrow i have to present like a 2-3 minute thing in front of my class..but i always get REALLY nervous when i present stuff alone..like i forget what to say and i sweat and stuff, and not only does that make me look like a freak, but my grade gets low...what should i do?? plz help =( (link)
o i kno how you feel ! but honestly how many people REALLY listen to presentations. i mean when our class does a presentaion, hardley anyone listens. so you really have nothing to be worried about. you just gotta have confidence and act like you dont care what ppl think and have fun!


okay so i like this guy... and i think he likes me... we were on the phone last night and he asked if i liked him- to which i answered yea- well idk if he lieks me the same or not.. like we hung out a lot today adn he gave me a ot of hugs, but im not sure though, i think i like him a lot though... but it seems like every relationship i get myself into i always end up breakin it off w/in like a week or so... can anybody tell me how to make a relationship last longer... adn if you think theres any hope for me and that guy?? thanks!! (link)
well i think theres hope if he asked if you liked him and if hes flirting with you. also you have to know that you have to let the relationship go longer than a couple weeks. love doesn't come that easy. give it time, im sure ur guy would deserve a chance!


okay, well i like this guy but he doesnt like me i dont even think he likes me as a friend i dont know why i mean i talk to him on the bus and all but thats it. and i overheard him say he doesnt like me but i have liked this guy for a really long time. im 14 and have never had a boyfriend or even danced with a guy i know its pathetic...so could someone please help me because im at the end of 8th grade and i really want a boyfriend or just someone to like me back and i seem really pathetic..i know but idk what to do please help me...

--desperate for love (link)
if i were you i would talk to him more on the bus. and when you see him in school talk to him. get to kno him first. then once you know eachother he might change his ming and talk to you! hope u find love !!


okay i really think this kid is hott but i dont even know him...i see him in the halls alot but i smile and he smiles back but i want him to notice me what do i do???? should i wear something differnt put heavy makeup on? i know it seems really stubid because of a guy but i dont even know him!!! (link)
obviously he is interested in what you already do, so i wouldn't wear something different or put more make up on. just keep smiling and mayb ask your friends who he is and who he is friends with. who knows mayb hes friends with one of your friends !


OK so i like this guy, Jeff ALOT. We have been friends FOREVER and now he is acting kind of strange... a couple months ago we had a school dance, we danced together and i was SOOOO happy. I thought he was going to ask me out.. he was giving me all the right signs.. slow dancing, not telling me who he likes when he ALWAYS does and waiting for me after every class but he never asked me out and still hasnt. Do you think i should tell him how i feel? i would make a totally BIG fool of my self telling him this and then him not liking me.... is this just a friend thing? ive tried to make the first move by hugging him but still nothing... plz help i like him.. ALOT! (link)
if i were you i would just kind of keep what your doing. mayb he isn't ready to be dating you, or dating anyone. but it sounds like he likes you. you gotta make him want you tho, n play hard to get !! hope i helped, good luck with him!




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