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I'm a 14 year old freshman that just started high school. I have a crush that I really liked since the beginning of this school year but now he has a girlfriend. I need help getting over this depressing state that I am having right now. Please give me some advice to feel better, I would really appreciate it. (link)
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Yes it stinks new crushes help but thinking their is a guy better out there for you is the thought that will help you get over it
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OK a new girl came to my school I had bad feeling about her she keeps flirting with my boyfriend and once my bf told his best friend that he like her I was crying he never knew I was crying but Anyway he came back for me but she is still flirting with him and I think she is falling for her again and I need revenge I know god will punish he but I can't help it she is killing me everyone keep saying I am a big softy and that I should slap her in the face but I want revenge that is telling the truth about what she has done that my boyfriend will hate her for I am 10 years old thank you for your help. (link)
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Well I steer clear of a boy if there is a hickey on his neck cause that says to me this boy is taken. An maybe flirt with your boyfriend way more so this way he forgets she exists. Or even better than that would be talking to him about it a healthy relationship starts with honesty.
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There's this guy tht goes to my church and I liked but I don't want to date him. But I still liked him but then my friend from church told me tht he liked her and then I stopped liking him. But then a week later he didn't look like he liked her tht much so I started liking him again. But then today at lunch this girl tht is kinda my friend said she was dating him and now I'm kinda mad. I think i kno y he doesn't like me tho. I think its because he thinks I'm to girly but Idk Wat to do bout tht. I don't kno Wat to do and I don't kno y I want him to like me anyway cause if I do I can't date him cause my older church friend said never date a church boy and I agreed to myself tht I wasn't gonna date this year. I don't kno Wat to do should I just give up or try to get him to like me but date other people. I don't kno please help!!!! (link)
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Honestly I wouldn't try to be with him. Crushes pass eventually and plus thinking your too girly is not right. A guy needs to like you for who you are and not who you fake being. I know it stinks to wait but it's a worthwhile persuit. And plus he might be trying to make you upset. You should want him to be happy if you are good friends.
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So this guy pursued me majorly for a month and a week. We didn't sleep together immediately but eventually did. We've had awesome dates, great conversation, decent sex and a lot of fun together. I think things were moving too fast for him but he seemed to go along with it until after the fact. I emailed him a sweet message. He emailed me back a nice but less gushy message (Tuesday night). I didn't hear from him at all the next day (W) or today (Thurs) so today I sent him a text because I know he'll be gone for the weekend and it's not like him not to call. He's sick busy and getting ready for a trip but the thing is if it were me I'd still text or something. He's not a big texter. Doesn't get texts even sent to his phone but he's been so good about calling in the past that this is new and I think he's pulling back. What do I do?
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Well first give him some space because youmight still like him but wait he might like you. I know it's impossible to do cause I freak out over every little thing. But my ex did that to me and was mad at me and didn't want to tell me why so I said Your not allowed to act like a girl being mad because I'm the girl in this relationship so we are done. But anyways give him a few days you called him once and that is enough make it seem that you do not need him and your not clingy. I hope it all works out for you!
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Me and my boyfriend have been back together for 2 months now. After the birth of our child he broke up with me because I wanted to go to a concert event. Long story short he was with a girl he cheated on me with a year earlier. I wasn't aware how serious it was... But anyways. I'm still really not over it. He cheated on me while I was pregnant which I didn't know. He cheated on me 3 times before I ever got pregnant. In addition to being with the girl he cheated on me with he had sex with 2 other girls he let disrespect me on twitter. Also he lets his ex girlfriend from where he used to live disrespect me on twitter and other way. We have a child together so that's why we are still even together. We basically stay together he depends on me to get to school. I love him but I just hate him so much. I'm always looking at that girls twitter I just can't get thoughts about him and other girls out of my head. I asked him to tell me everything and it just makes me so much more mad. (link)
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I'd say honestly wait it out. If he does it again dump his ass hard your kid doesn't need to realize that they should not cheat in a relationship. Only if he does it again and delete twitter or try checking it less often because you can't live for now if your always living in the past.
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I am 16, i used to be a funny, cool guy that everyone liked. i started getting made fun of alot back when i was like 13 and 14, and it really messed me up. I care so much about what someone is gonna say if i say something funny or what comment i made. I have become so insecure, and i really have lost my old personality. Iv never felt shy in group situations , but after getting fucked with so much i feel super vulnerable to everything someone says to me. Now there are times when my outgoing,confident, fun personality comes out, and i seriously love it. But after 10- 15 minutes, i start thinking too much and start supressing my personality again, leading to insecurity and depression. If anyone knows any type of guide or hypnosis or whatever, im willing to try it. But im just tired of this and i want to feel free and open again, I feel locked inside of my mind (link)
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Ok I might be a girl but I have been there. Trust me you need to fake it until you make it. And trust me I get made fun of a lot I laugh it off. You need to try to stop thinking about what they say honestly because if you let it go they will stop. Confident you is what people like and a smile goes a long way. Trust me trust yourself and the reason they bullied you was because they were jealous. And if I were you I would have turned the joke around on them. Cause they sound like jerks. And real friends stick by you for all your quarks so you can be yourself easily around them.
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I plan on working out twice a day, drinking water and eating 1200-1500 calories. Is this possible?
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It depends on your body mass like say your big a fat than its possible but remember u might gain muscle weight. And your goal should not be to lose weight your goal should be to look and be overall healthier. As a person going into the medical field I have studied it extensively. So trying to be healthier would be a better goal. But yes it is possible eat several small meals a day to keep your metabolism going.
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Okay, so my ex dumped me six months ago now, and got back with his ex the day after.
He split up with her two months ago now, and we've just left school.
On the last day, he gave me an apology letter, saying he didn't realise what he had untill it was too late, and that he hopes i'll have a good life, and that he'll never forget me.
But even after everything-i want him back. So what kinda things can i put in a letter, to get him back? Thanks (link)
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I say trick me once shame on you, trick me twice shame on me and there will not be a third time. Is what I would say. Other than just telling him you still have feelings for him and that if he wants you are still willing to be in a relationship wiu him. Let me know how it all works out:)
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I have a best friend who is a guy. We are both fifteen in grade 9. We have been great friends for about two years now. I have liked him since about a month into our friendship. I never said anything because I didnt know how he felt about me. Through the time I have recieved signs but I dont think they were on purpose. Either way we were still close. EVen through some problems he had with his ex, my best friend (girl). Now I have learned he is moving away in a month. The past month or two I have realised im in love with him. I love him but i dont think he fells the same so I was wondering how do you get over such a big crush? How do you forget someone you love? I dont to be hurt anymore, and I now he doesnt see it but I dont wanna be upset and then have to pretend to be fine. Any advice helps.
PS: He is the first person I have liked for this amount of time or ever had these strong feelings for. (link)
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Ok I have actually had this happen before I just got over it. I liked his kid for 3 yrs I finally realized that I fell for him it was too late. I say continue on your friendship with him for now then see when he moves away if he continues to talk to you then go from there.
Another solution would be listen to songs about cheating guys, watch good chick flick movies, and then Once your done dress cute go out to the mall and hot guy spot.
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hi guys - just letting you know that if you see this and there's like 235092380432 responses to it, PLEASE don't assume that i won't rate well if you are one of the 4th or 5th people to respond - i rate based on the advice, not on how fast you respond.
- okay this is the situation: i like this guy, and (i asked the same question before but i noticed that only like 3 people responded and then everyone stopped, so i just wanted to make it clear up there ^) his locker is like practically next to mine. and like sometimes, my friend(s) come and we're always talkingggg and stuff (me and my friends) and then i'd say something really embarassing like how i never learned how to ride a bike ( :[ ) and he'd be like "awww how cute!" and i mean is that flirting?? what should i say back? (i can't say "youre cute" cause i mean i can't hit on him cause i dont know if he likes me) i really wanna talk to him more and he's also on my gym volleyball team! he's in my homeroom too... so i guess i have a lot of chances to talk to him. but i dont think he likes me very much because in gym i'm not very good at volleyball (i suck) and i asked like fifty questions on this site as to how to get good at volleyball fast (yes all those vball questions were meee) and i I JUST FREAKING LIKE HIM SO muchhh (link)
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Ok well first of all you could say something like nice serve or great spike. Make sure to smile:) another way would be to find out if he likes to Play a sport just start talking to your friends about it when you walk to your locker and includehim into the conversation. Another way is just to talk about plans for the weekend and make sure you look irresistably cute on that day. That's how I would go about it :)He is probably just seeing if your interested enough make sure to smile back if he says a cute comment:)
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Okayyy. so heres the thing. i know this guy likes me and he asked me out like 2X. 1st time his friends asked me for him and i paniced and said no like an idiot. cause i like him :/ than the 2nd time he asked me in person. i guess he didnt believe his friends. and right when i was about to say yes. i paniced again and said no. and walked off. now im getting really sick and tired of this!!! HELP ME!!! how do i go up to him and tell him that im actually interested. i dont want him to think im not. oh please o please HELP MEEE!!! (link)
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Write him a note saying you panicked but really like him and wanted to say yes but was so surprized you said no.
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well theres this guy, we're pretty good friends =) actually we call each other "best friends" as a joke but i fell hard for him last summer, because we would flirt soo much and it was adorable, lets just say hes a stud. but he didnt know i fell for him, and i didnt wanna say anything because he was interested in this girl and plus we were so close it would of been wayyy to awkward they but they ended up goin out and this hurt me =( keep in mind they're still going out and hes says its been like 10 months already!! anyways all summer i was sad, but we still kinda flirted. then i tried getting over him, and i finally realized i had no feelings other than just being friends with him and we could still hangout alot and i would be fine but now lately i am getting these "feelings" back. like tonight it was me and him and my cousin and like at the restaraunt i was like day dreaming and they started walking without me and then im like thanks guys!!! and they're already sitting down and i start walking over and he scoots in so i can sit by him. and then he like takes my phone, reads my texts, and i try to get it from him, we touch hands/hold for a sec but i just dont know! we were like this in the summer, then it stopped and now it seems like its starting again. and when we were sitting he put his arm like behind me, like on the seat (if you know what im talking about) but i just wanted to like lay my head on his chest, and once he got really close to my face and looked at me and just smiled and i couldnt stop thinking about how much i wanted to be with him. it would be soooo much easier if he didnt have a girlfriend but shes soo pretty and i know he loves her, she loves him and it kills me to see the "i love you, alot" in her profile, and it saying i love my boyfriend he is amazing and same for his. i hate when he talks about her, it makes me so jealous of what they have. i mean i want him to be happy but its killing me!! i wish i could hangout with him without having these feelings and talking to him wont help because he'll just say im sorry, i love sarah (his girlfriend) or it would just make things SOOO unbelievable weird between us. what should i do?! i hangout with other guys too, its not like i just hangout with him. i thought last summer, oh they wont last, maybe i'll just wait and see what happens, and they're still going STRONG..... (link)
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Just ask him to stop him flirting with you. Try and find a fun new guy.
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me and my boyfriend were fooling around in our underwear last night and he ejactulated whilst i was sitting on him, could the sperm go through his boxers and my thong? PS im a virgin (link)
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It's a possibility but unprobable the sperm has a very low low chance of you getting pregnant.
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I need to know if there is anyway I can tell if my guy frined who was over in Iraq likes me more than a friend.In some emails he would say I have beautiful eyes,he would apologize for not getting back to me right away when in Iraq and other stuff. He's 24 I'm 36 and female.And when he got back he called me gave me his cell number (link)
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If he emailed you and apologized for not getting back to you and calls you it's a very high probability he is into you. Also try making sure if and when he sees you next dress subtle sexy.
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Hello, I am a 14 year old female. There's this guy that I've been very close with for about three years. He's my bestfriend and we've actually dated last year. I tell him everything, including how I feel about him. He stopped liking me, but I never did. But a few days ago he said that he actually does like me, but he also likes my bestfriend. The day after he told me that he likes me, he said that he didn't anymore. He likes my bestfriend ALOT and she likes him too. They want to date, but they won't because they don't want to hurt me, seeing how I'm in love with him. He said he's kinda mad at me because I'm like ''in the way'' of them dating. Yet he says he won't date her until I'm 100% okay with it, but as of now it seems like that will be never.. I love him sooo much, and I really want to be with him. But him and my girl bestfriend like eachother and want to date alot, and I just have to sit back and be depressed and be in the way of them being together. I just do not know what to do :( thankyou for taking the time to read my problem. (link)
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Hey you will probably never be ok with it but don't you want him and your friend to be happy? I look at it if you care enough to let him go and have a chance of happiness with this girl. Also try to get a new guy.
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Can you get in trouble if you are at a party or someones house and they are doing like heroine or something, can you get in trouble for just being there?
Just purely curious :)
well actually what if people are just doin pot and I'm there can I get in trouble if the cops come? (link)
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You most certainly can you are in just as much trouble as those who are doing the drugs.
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Ok so I'm having really bad period cramps I have ovarian cysts and I already took pain pills but it's not working at all!!!! What should I do to help?? (link)
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Try a heating pad. And eat bananas in the morning the potassium should help the cramping a little more and only one or two bananas.
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I like my friend from school, quite a bit. I like keep thinking about him. But he is going out with someone else. I dont wanna like him because it hurts knowing he doesnt feel the same way. How can i stop thinking and liking him? (link)
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I mean you should just be his good friend and keep looking the world is full of hot nice guys.
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Well I really like this guy and I just started liking him a couple of weeks ago but he is now going into 9th grade and I'm going into 8th. I feel like its to late because today was the last day of school. It really has made me upset because I really have feelings for him. Btw he hangs out with major preps and popular girls so that makes it even harder please help it would be grateellly appreciated p.s. I used to be just as popular as the girls he hangs with but i went down a lil bit on the popularity list this year so ya im still popular because a lot of ppl like me and more but still please please help thank you!! -Madison! (link)
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Happy to answer go after him persue your heart my favorite saying is follow your heart because it already knows where you want to go. Popularity doesn't matter. If you like him make him yours. Facebook him or email or even text
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Hi all, i just wanted to ask a question about my bf. So we have been dating fer about 3 months. we are both 13 (please don't tell me i'm too young... i'm mature).......Today him and his friend got into a big fight while i was around him and my bf walked off. it was at lunch so he just moved to a different table. So, i just ignored him cuz he was in a bad mood. He put a few notebooks in my locker a few days ago and always leaves them there. at the end of every day he is always waiting at my locker for me. so, after lunch he walked a separate way from me. i got ahead of him and held my arms out to hug him but he just ignored fully!! (the guy he was fighting apologized to him) so at the end of the day i went to my locker and got all my books and stuff and he wasn't there. He came finally and just opened my locker and got his notebooks out. i wrapped my arms around him to give him a hug and all he said was "get the f*** off me"!! i was devastated....he had never talked like that to me.... :*(. i'm scared he is going to dump me or something. so when he said that all i said was, "OK".. so i got on my bus and he walked by it and saw that i was crying and he sad a guilty look on his face. my friend said that he was scared that i was going to dump him, im not going to but after today i just might! p.s. my friend said she would talk to him....... but my friend likes him and he kinda likes her. (i know that he does cuz a few days ago he said if i we ever broke up that he would ask her out) HELP!!!!! (link)
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Umm she's shouldn't be talking to him about it you should because he is your bf. So this way u won't be paranoid or think about what he said to her.
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