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Why is he ignoring me??
Hi all, i just wanted to ask a question about my bf. So we have been dating fer about 3 months. we are both 13 (please don't tell me i'm too young... i'm mature).......Today him and his friend got into a big fight while i was around him and my bf walked off. it was at lunch so he just moved to a different table. So, i just ignored him cuz he was in a bad mood. He put a few notebooks in my locker a few days ago and always leaves them there. at the end of every day he is always waiting at my locker for me. so, after lunch he walked a separate way from me. i got ahead of him and held my arms out to hug him but he just ignored fully!! (the guy he was fighting apologized to him) so at the end of the day i went to my locker and got all my books and stuff and he wasn't there. He came finally and just opened my locker and got his notebooks out. i wrapped my arms around him to give him a hug and all he said was "get the f*** off me"!! i was devastated....he had never talked like that to me.... :*(. i'm scared he is going to dump me or something. so when he said that all i said was, "OK".. so i got on my bus and he walked by it and saw that i was crying and he sad a guilty look on his face. my friend said that he was scared that i was going to dump him, im not going to but after today i just might! p.s. my friend said she would talk to him....... but my friend likes him and he kinda likes her. (i know that he does cuz a few days ago he said if i we ever broke up that he would ask her out) HELP!!!!!
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Umm she's shouldn't be talking to him about it you should because he is your bf. So this way u won't be paranoid or think about what he said to her.
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He may have felt you weren't supportive of him in the wake of the fight and, in fact, hung him out to dry somehow. I also suspect that there is more to this than what you're telling us in order to engender his reaction.
In any event, all you can do is sit down and talk about it.
Btw, one thing you gotta understand about guys is that we don't get socially rewarded for talking about our feelings like girls do. We get rewarded for what we do (especially how much money we make and how many chicks we bang) and so when anything touchy feely comes up guys tend to clam up because they don't want to be seen as weak (men are all about looking dominant, especially when it comes to women). So with all that in mind, talk things over and then decide what to do from there.
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dont break up with himm and dont have your friend talk to him . ive had something like that go on before and the best thing to do is talk to him yourself and ask him whats going on and why hes treating you like thatt cause its not right . if you guys break up then hes not worth it but if you talk things out i think itll work outt (:
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