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He hasn't called in 2-3 days!
So this guy pursued me majorly for a month and a week. We didn't sleep together immediately but eventually did. We've had awesome dates, great conversation, decent sex and a lot of fun together. I think things were moving too fast for him but he seemed to go along with it until after the fact. I emailed him a sweet message. He emailed me back a nice but less gushy message (Tuesday night). I didn't hear from him at all the next day (W) or today (Thurs) so today I sent him a text because I know he'll be gone for the weekend and it's not like him not to call. He's sick busy and getting ready for a trip but the thing is if it were me I'd still text or something. He's not a big texter. Doesn't get texts even sent to his phone but he's been so good about calling in the past that this is new and I think he's pulling back. What do I do?
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Get busy.... Do some of your favorite activities with your best girlfriend and enjoy the heck out of yourself. Nothing sexier to a man than a woman who can keep herself intertained and have fun without having to have him holding your hand. Wait for him to contact you.... maybe even miss his first call or so..... Give him the gift of missing you for once. Something about it is a real turn on to a guy. You're just a cool girl who knows how to have fun and you don't have to have him or any other dude to help you with it. You waiting around for him just makes you appear to be emotionally immature... like you need his presence, approval or contact to validate who you are. But you don't you see you are able to have fun without him.... so go do it!!!!
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Well first give him some space because youmight still like him but wait he might like you. I know it's impossible to do cause I freak out over every little thing. But my ex did that to me and was mad at me and didn't want to tell me why so I said Your not allowed to act like a girl being mad because I'm the girl in this relationship so we are done. But anyways give him a few days you called him once and that is enough make it seem that you do not need him and your not clingy. I hope it all works out for you!
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