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does he like me?
21/f. So there's this boy in my class. he's 24. And he is such a flirt. He always stares at me. We joke around a lot, and we've become pretty close. He always stares at me and i'll ask him why he always stares at me, and he'll just smile at me. I stare at him too. so yeah. He ooked right at me when i walked into class once, and was smiling at me, but i didn't look at him and i just rolled my eyes. haha. But my only thing is that in the past i'd get too excited and start assuming things and end up getting my heart broken :/ Yesterday we worked on our project together, and then when we were finished he said he had to take care of some business, and that he'll come back and check on me. So he came back and i was taking a quiz and he helped, and we talked. I thought it was sweet, but i wasn't sure if he was just being nice maybe? Like i said before i don't want to jump to conclusions. What do you think? Does he like me? Should i see where this goes? I am not sure if he likes me, or if he even has time for a girlfriend if he's even remotely interested in me since he works a lot. so yeah.
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Hi there. I can see someone's smitten! I have the same issues too when it comes to seeing a nice guy who is seems seemingly interested but you're not sure and you don't want to put in the effort if it's going to go nowhere. Anyway, just based on what you've told me, I'd say that he does have something for you. Now, I'm not saying that he likes you, but he's obviously comfortable around you. That's a really good thing. So far, he seems like a nice guy. I'd just play it out for now. Hang out outside of school and just see what your intuition tells you. I think one way to get over the insecurity of him probably not liking you or getting your heart broken is to give yourself and him time. If you give him time to come to terms with his feelings (because he probably doesn't know what he's feeling either) and you give yourself some more time to experiment with his behavior towards you, you'll get more signs and become more comfortable around him and get an idea for what he feels for you. Maybe you should spark up the boyfriend / girlfriend conversation casually, about pasts and whatnot, on a friendly level. Maybe you can see what you're dealing with or up against. :) Good luck.
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Thanks for your comment, Sorry I misinterpretted your question when you said "he's such a flirt" I thought you meant he was a flirt in general. Sorry again.
OK. Dear "does he like me?" guys think different than girls. There are men who are ready for a relationship and there are guys who just want to date, hang out, have fun, have a roll in the hay but nothing exclusive. If he's flirtatious with multiple girls, it's probably the later so watch his body language around other chicks. Don't sell yourself short either. If you are looking for a relationship, you won't be able to change his mind to be ready for a relationship if he is still wanting to keep things light and have fun with multiple partners. You MUST know what you want and don't ever ever settle for less. Once you've slept with him casually, you'll never be able to go back and change him to see you as someone he may want to be exclusive with. That must be established in the beginning. If you and him end up dating a few times and you feel like it may lead to more you need to let him know that you only sleep with men that you are exclusive with, if that's truly how you feel.
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