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Want to get back together with a letter


Question Posted Tuesday May 31 2011, 8:31 am

Okay, so my ex dumped me six months ago now, and got back with his ex the day after.
He split up with her two months ago now, and we've just left school.
On the last day, he gave me an apology letter, saying he didn't realise what he had untill it was too late, and that he hopes i'll have a good life, and that he'll never forget me.

But even after everything-i want him back. So what kinda things can i put in a letter, to get him back? Thanks


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VoiceofReason answered Monday June 6 2011, 3:06 am:
If we are to progress as human beings we have to keep looking forward. Your ex-boyfriend is a figment of your past. Tell him you appreciate what he wrote but you need at this point in your life to move on.

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Sexysweetie answered Tuesday May 31 2011, 8:59 pm:
I say trick me once shame on you, trick me twice shame on me and there will not be a third time. Is what I would say. Other than just telling him you still have feelings for him and that if he wants you are still willing to be in a relationship wiu him. Let me know how it all works out:)

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lightoftruth923 answered Tuesday May 31 2011, 6:38 pm:
Well, I don't see why you should get back with him. But I guess it is normal to want a guy back even if they do stupid things. I have this friend who had a boyfriend 2 years ago. They broke up and even though she has liked other guys and he has another girlfriend, if he came back to her, she'd go for it again. It's kinda sad but she has some things she can't put behind her.

I think it's horrible that the day after he broke up with you, he got back with his ex. I mean, if you guys do get back together, it could happen again.
Honestly, I'm sure you could do better. There are like a million guys in the world and I'm sure one of them are better than your ex and you'll be way happier with them.

Well, it's up to you if you do want him back or not. If you guys do get back together, be really careful.

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AskBraylen answered Tuesday May 31 2011, 2:39 pm:
Dear Want to get back together with a letter,

It is 100% normal for someone to want to get back with their ex, even in spite of what that person has done to you. But you really need to look at the facts here; he got back with his ex the day after he broke it off with you.

Initially that states that this was something planned for God only knows how long before he actually went through with the break up. I understand wanting him back, feeling those old feelings again but you need to ask yourself this, "Don't I deserve better?" in my opinion, of course you do!

Yeah, you could get back with him and things could go back to their normal settings but as a human being, in the back of your mind the fear of him doing this again to you is going to kick in at some point and cause future problems.

When it comes to matters of the heart; you've pretty much already made up your mind of what you want to do, in fact, you've probably already written the letter right?

No one can tell you what to put in this letter because at that point it's lost it's authenticity. They wouldn't be your ideas or feelings. So with that said, write what you truly feel, not what someone else tells you to write NOR what you think your ex would want to hear. Don't be afraid to tell him just how much he hurt you.

Good Luck,

Braylen

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Xui answered Tuesday May 31 2011, 10:36 am:
Why do you want someone back who left you for someone else? Going back is only telling him that hurting you was okay and likely seeing he did it once he probably will do it again.

My advice, Don't do it.

Anyway, If you still want to go through with it...

Just tell him how you feel but good luck cause once a cheater always a cheater. I think you should try and put your insecurities behind you and focus on what is best for you rather than back track on what is a has been and not worth being.

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